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Robert Shove Obituary
Robert Joseph Shove, Jr., 33, of Lenox died on Sunday, March 5th at Berkshire Medical Center.
Born in Pittsfield on February 3, 1984, the son of James and Lisa McNamee Murphy, he attended local schools. After his graduation from Lenox Memorial High School in 2002, he attended Berkshire Community College and worked for various restaurants as a cook including Friendly's where he was also manager prior to enlisting in the United States Army. He served in Operation Enduring Freedom in Afghanistan and was honorably discharged in 2012. A decorated veteran, he was awarded the NATO Afghanistan Service Medal, Army Commendation Medal, Good Conduct Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal with two campaign stars, Global War on Terror Service Medal, Army Service Ribbon, and the Overseas Service Ribbon.
Mr. Shove and his wife, Jillian D. Murphy, were married on October 20, 2007.
Robert enjoyed and had his own radio show on WBRK in Pittsfield on Friday nights. And was a member of the Conklin-Lane- Coakley VFW Post #12079 in Lenox. Most of all he was a wonderful father to his children.
Besides his wife and parents; Robert is survived by his two children; Madison P. Shove and Aidan Murphy at home, his support dog Essy; sisters Amanda Hall of Becket and Ashley Murphy of Pittsfield; grandfather Joseph Murphy of East Hampton; 14 nieces and nephews and many other relatives.
SERVICES: The funeral for Mr. Robert J. Shove, Jr., will be held on Friday, March 10, 2017 at 11:00am at the Roche Funeral Home, 120 Main Street, Lenox, MA 01240. Calling hours will be Thursday, March 9th from 4:00pm-7:00pm. In Lieu of flowers donations may be made to Soldier On in care of the funeral home.
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Justin Rowland
September 13, 2017
Just wanted to let you know that i am thinking about you today. I wish I knew. I wish I could of done more. I knew we grew apart through the years but with out you I would not be where I am today. Its hard to sit here at work and act happy in front of my Marines when I just want to cry thinking about you. I under stand how you felt because you had to do the same thing thing when you got home. Trying to be happy when you were not I wish I could of came home to see you. This is just terrible. I really miss you man.
roberto jimenez
March 16, 2017
I am going to miss you brother its a never ending war. My heart is heavy you was a good friend and a great battle buddy.
Stephanie Murphy
March 14, 2017
Bobby, Cuz.. Oh how I miss the random text messages that would come through my phone right as I was thinking about you. You always knew when I needed a listening ear. I could always count on you to be here. I told you I don't know what I would do without you. You told me "Don't worry cuz I will always be here". I miss you more then words can explain. My heart has so much pain. I know you no longer suffer. The stories you told me I knew you had a lot in your mind and now all the pain is left behind. I love you always Bobby and I'll miss you forever! Fly High Cuz.
Lisa Murphy
March 12, 2017
My boy you have left a giant hole in my heart. Knowing that I will never again see your blue eyes light up when you laugh, your smile that brightened up the room whenever you walked in and hearing your voice just calling to say hi. I miss you more than ever can be said. No more struggling and no more pain. I love you my baby boy.
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Carol Halpin
March 9, 2017
Kind words may bring little comfort for your loss, we keep you in our prayers. Rest in Peace Rob
Wendy Sykes
March 8, 2017
Jill I am so sorry to hear about Rob my thoughts and prayers are with you .
Tina Tartaglia
March 8, 2017
My deep sympathies to your family. Thinking of you at this time Jill, Madison, Colleen, and Damon. You are in my prayers.
March 8, 2017
Without you I would not be were I am today. I wish I could be there for you. I am so sorry that I cant be. I love you.
Semper fidelis,
Sgt Justin Rowland
Becky Simmons
March 8, 2017
Jill, my heart breaks for you and the kids. I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words... I will pray for you and your family. XOXO
James Murphy
March 8, 2017
Rest In Peace my son I will miss you love Pops
Becky Winters
March 8, 2017
My heart goes out to Jill, Madison,Aiden, and Robs family. My thoughts and prayers r with u all durring this devistating time and always. One f the best friends I've ever had, Rob was always there to do what he could for who he could. We have lost a wonderfull man too soon. I have many great memories of Rob, as well as his wife and children. My children will miss u "Uncle Rob"...Rest easy now soldier, your fight is over....May we meet again.
Lenox Police Department
March 8, 2017
Please accept our condolences at the passing of Rob. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
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