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for Benjamin Adler
Harvey Soolman
January 28, 2009
Dear Barton, Lee and family (and Toby!), I am so sorry I am only now learning of Ben's death. I tried to reach him for his birthday, and when his phone was out of order for more than a couple of days I feared the worst. And this is awful. I first met Ben in 1968 when I was just a teenager out in the world at his first real job, and in all this time I have met so few people who were always so supportive and in your corner as Ben was. As a friend he never let you down. When I would mention him to somebody I would sometimes refer to him as my mentor. Not sure that was designed to be the case, but in fact it was. You could tell him anything, Ben wouldn't ever be judgemental about it (though he would have his opinion, as you know) and he'd have the best advice. He was an important person to help guide me in 1968, and he was a great friend always.
Harvey Speck
January 19, 2009
To Richard, Barton, Lee, et al. I only learned of Bucky's passing on Jan 18th through my cousin Burton Adler. It came as a great shock and saddened my heart. Bucky and I go back a long way to the 50s when we shared a mutual experience in DeMolay. I recall being invited to visit with him in NH where we vacationed. I still cherish a black and white photo taken of us there. Prior to my leaving the Boston area in 1957, Bucky and I would often get together, particularly if it was for a DeMolay event. Caring for people who needed help and being a good friend to those with whom he came into contact were attributes he had from his earliest days. He had a remarkable memory for people's birthdays and anniversaries. His occupational devotion to Jewish charitable causes and the elderly was a manifestaion of his unselfish and compassionate character. He was proud of his son who he spoke of with great affection. I extend my sincere sympathy to the entire Adler family.
Bill Carignan
September 6, 2008
On behalf of my mother, my sisters and myself I want to send our deepest sympathy to the family of Ben Adler. Unfortunately we just heard the terrible news today and we are all so shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He was such a good friend to our family for so many years. He has looked out for me since I was 13 years old and I am so saddened to hear he is gone. His energy, love and caring nature are just beyond words... I'll miss you Ben... I miss you now...
Sharon Freedman
August 5, 2008
Dearest Adler Family,
On behalf of Jewish National Fund, we are so saddened to lose our dear friend Ben. Ben was an inspiration to all of us with his energy, positive outlook and dedication. He was a wonderful volunteer who helped us raise money and awareness of our critical projects in Israel. Ben attended many of our events with such enthusiasm. We will miss him dearly and offer our deepest condolences.
Sharon Freedman, Colonel (Res) Sharon Davidovich and Sara Hefez
Victor Kava
June 10, 2008
Whether it was services at his temple, membership at the Masons, or a kosher butcher, Ben opened many areas of his life to his friends.
Ruth Rapaport
June 8, 2008
Many prayers and warm thoughts to the Adler family on the loss of our friend Ben. He came into our lives and brought hope and strength to a single mother of four small children. He became a Big Brother to my son and continued throughout his growing years to guide him. We will always remember his compassion and devotion. No one could ask for a better friend.
David Rapaport
June 8, 2008
Our sympathies to the Adlers. 40 years ago Ben became my Jewish Big Brother at a critical time for my Mom and our broken family. The bond we shared followed me through school and throughout my life experiences. Ben was a guiding spirit and sounding board. We spoke when I deployed to Bosnia and later Iraq. He never forgot my birthday or wedding anniversary. The lessons, the memories, the love will continue. David Rapaport
Bill Morris
June 2, 2008
To The Adler Family
I would like to offer my condolences to all of the Adler Family concerning the passing of Ben. He was one of the most caring individuals I have ever known. Ben helped me through several low spots in my life. His caring and deep concern for the welfare of others was evident for the many years I knew him. I will miss him dearly.
David Ringler
May 31, 2008
To the Adler family.
We will deeply miss Cousin Bucky. Although we often saw each other during weddings and other special occasions Bucky was always a breath of fresh air with interesting and often humorous stories. We always looked forward to having a nice long conversation and catching up on all the latest news of the family.
He will surely be missed.
David and Cheryl Ringler
Sylvia Swartz
May 30, 2008
Dear Ben's Family,
I am deeply saddened at Ben's sudden passing. We spent many many happy times in Manchester, Brighton & Belmont. He had a wonderful spirit that connected us from Hull to Newton to NH & to new friends. We also shared the realities of life: the deaths of our young friends taken way too soon; those of our grandparents & parents, relatives and friends - some in old age - nevertheless painful. And of course the joys: our weddings, births of our children and their simchas...
He remembered our birthdays and our nicknames. You could feel his smile during a phone conversation.
We have lost a very special friend - but must remember how blessed we were to have had him in our lives...
Love,
Sylvia (Fee) Hoffman Swartz
Joan Kravit
May 28, 2008
To the Adler Family,
I was so sorry to hear of the untimely passing of Bucky. He will surely be missed and my deepest sympathy to all of you.
Sincerely,
Joan and Ben Kravit
Louise Moran
May 27, 2008
To the Adler Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all as I hear of the unexpected passing of Ben.
He was a brilliant, selfless, compassionate man and was an asset to the Town of Belmont.
Tony Basa
May 26, 2008
Dear Family,
We are deeply saddened by the news of Ben's passing. We found out during the Memorial day parade in Belmont and we are just shocked. Ben touched our family and was one of my most dear friends. We met at the town hall in Belmont many years ago. Words cannot express how sad we feel. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. "Ben, BTHSC forever!"
Alan Epstein
May 25, 2008
Dear Adler Family,
My dearest condolences to you all. Ben was a very special person to me and my wife. When ever we would meet, whether at our monthly Masonic meeting or on the street, he always sent his regards. He was always there to help his fellow man or woman and it was agreat shock to read of his sudden passing. One of my fondest memories was our trip to Bedford, NH and to swim in the lake behind his home.
Regards,
Alan Epstein
Susan(Kronick)and Steven Kravit
May 24, 2008
Dear Ben's Family,
We were very sad to hear about Ben's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sandra and Barry Kronick
May 23, 2008
Dear Ben's Family,
Were shocked to hear the news of Ben's death. We are thinking of all of you and are sending to you our very sincerest sympathies. We go back a long time with Ben in Belmont.
The Peretzian Family
May 23, 2008
Dearest Adler Family,
Uncle Ben will be missed by everyone he came into contact with throughout his life. He was an exceptional person and true friend to so many,allways there in times of need. We will miss him so very much.
Dennis & Karen Clair
May 23, 2008
Dear Lee & All the Adlers,
We met Ben through our work at the Senior Center. He was a great man. We moved down the street from him and could not have ordered a better neighbor. We used to have dinners in the summer, when my family was away. He was a great guy, as proud of my family, as he was of his own. I will really miss him. Sorry that we can't be with you at the time of your loss.
Lois Platt
May 23, 2008
To the Adler family:
"Bucky" will be in our hearts forever. His knowledge of judiasim kept us all on our toes. Friendship, Mitzvas and family was his way of life. If you were fortunate enough to have him in your life then you know you were blessed.
Love,
Lois Platt
Carolyn Corliss
May 23, 2008
To the Adler Family,
I am so saddened to hear the news of Ben's passing. He was so special in my heart and in the lives of so many of us from Manchester. I will miss our phone conversations every few weeks. My condolences to Lee and his family and to all of the Adlers
Thomas M Ullmann Jr.
May 22, 2008
To All the Adlers;
I can't believe I'm writing this. A light of the world has gone out. Ben was one of the lifelines God threw to me after the death of my first wife, Willa. I WILL MISS HIM!!!!
Maury Goldstein
May 22, 2008
My sympathy to the Adler family on Ben's passing. Ben and I connected because of our work with Men of Reform Judaism and we'd talk somewhat often as he and I worked on the Men's Health Initiative committee. Being a fellow Bostonian, we'd have things in common to discuss and he loved asking how his cousin (not his cousin) my wife Lisa (Adler) was. He was quite a character and a mench. We're all going to miss Ben terribly.
Philip Scali D.M.D.
May 22, 2008
Lee and Barton. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Ben was a great influence on me growing up in Belmont. He will be greatly missed.
Joseph Trofimow
May 22, 2008
To the Adler family:
Ben always called me his uncle because I was 5 month older than he. Ben was a good man. When my wife was alive and ill with cancer, Ben would call and offer his help in any way possible. Ben was a great man and Masonic Brother. Always willing to help others. I will miss Ben dearly.
Linda and Charlie Young
May 22, 2008
What a shock to hear about Bucky. He was the spirit of life and always had a smile and an incredible happy outlook. The world has lost a star.
Betty Vinokur
May 22, 2008
Dear Family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss. "Bucky" will be dearly missed by me and my family. I can not count the times that he was there for me and my family. He always had a joke and a beautiful smile and was full of life. I could go on forever about him. He was not really related to me but he always said I was his cousin and to me and my family that was an honor. The one thing I know for sure is he touched many people and he will forever live in my family's hearts.
The Vinokur Family,
Betty (BOO BOO), Gary and Steven, Abby
Marilyn Barron
May 22, 2008
Ben added something special to he life of everyone he touched. You can tell it from the quest book memories. Warm memories of him will last a long time as we all miss him. That was his gift to all of us. Marilyn Barron, Temple Ohabei Shalom member. How wonderful to have had him as a friend and relative.
JACK COHEN
May 22, 2008
TO THE ADLER FAMILY,
BUCKY WAS A WONDERFUL MAN AND A GREAT COUSIN. EVEN THOUGH WE DIDNT SEE EACH OTHER OFTEN, OUR PHONE CALLS WERE SPECIAL.
WE LOVED HIM DEARLY, AND HE WILL BE MISSED. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL AT THIS TIME.
HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY THOUGHTS.
JACK AND IRENE COHEN
Laura, Paul Stephanie and Noa Zide
May 22, 2008
Dearest Adler Family,
Uncle Ben will be missed by everyone he came into contact with throughout his life. He was an exceptional person that never made anyone that came in contact with him feel unimportant. He truely was a mensch. We will all miss him.
Our dear freind Ben at lodge 4-1-2008
May 22, 2008
Jeffrey Stoller
May 22, 2008
Ben is/was a great man and freind of mine.He always greeted me with a big smile and his outstretched hand. He did so much for so many. The world isn't the same without Ben in it. I'll truly miss him.
Friends from the Natick Home Depot
May 22, 2008
From your friends at the Home Depot in Natick our condolences to the Adler family.
Scott Stratford
May 22, 2008
Ben was a good neighbor, a wonderful friend, and a person who worked diligently on behalf of other people. He will be greatly missed! My sincerest condolences to his family and his many other friends.
Sherry Fader
May 22, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Ben will always be in our hearts and the memories will last forever.
Sherry, Jennifer and Seth Fader
Raphael and Debbie Krasa
May 22, 2008
Ben was not just a friend of our family, he was part of our family. He always had a joke that made you laugh. His warmth and love was always present. It will take a great deal of time to learn to cope with his passing. He will be missed tremendously.
May you rest peacefully.
We love you Ben.
Judith Halper
May 22, 2008
I always enjoyed the bear hug I'd get from Ben whenever I saw him at temple. He was very kind to my elderly cousins and to me. I'll miss hearing his nickname for me -- "Miss West Roxbury." My thoughts and prayers are with you. Ben was truly a mensch!
Will Bielitz
May 22, 2008
A true friend and Brother Mason, you will truly be missed my good friend! My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this time. I will always remeber him as "Uncle Ben"
Bernie Weiss
May 22, 2008
I met Ben recently, as he joined our Masonic Lodge in Boston. Frankly, his enthusiasm was absolutely wonderful. The work he did for the Masons and the Community will surely be missed.
Daniel Weiner
May 22, 2008
Ben was a true mason. In every thing he did. He will be sorely missed. My sympathy to his whole family.
Harvey&Elaine Bloom
May 22, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. We have shared many memorable occasions with Ben and have met many wonderful people through his wide network of friends. He will be sorely missed.
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