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BERNARD GITLIN Obituary

GITLIN, Bernard Of Newton, MA, Hyannis, MA, and Highland Beach, FL, passed away peacefully after a short and courageous battle with Leukemia on July 22, 2023. Better known as Buddy, Bernie, Daddy and Papa, he is survived by his loving wife of 58 years, Brenda Berman Gitlin; his two daughters, Jocelyn Deutsch and Melissa Jacoby; his sons-in-law, Michael Deutsch and Joshua Jacoby; and his five grandchildren, Marlee, Matthew, Talia, Max and Ryan. He is also survived by his brother-in-law, Victor Berman; his sisters and their husbands, Sam and Harry Goldberg and Leslea and Robert Harelick; and nephews, David Harelick, Scott Harelick and Andrew Goldberg, as well as their spouses and children. Buddy was a graduate and avid supporter of Lehigh University. He served in the Coast Guard before settling in the Boston area in the early '60s. He served on the board of Camp Allen, supporting children with disabilities and has passionately raised close to $400,000 for Dana Farber Cancer Institute over the last 22 years by riding in the Pan-Mass Challenge. Better known as Bernie in business, he was successful in real estate and became known as the "Condo Insurance Guru." Working at Rodman Insurance for many years, then co-founded his own agency, Global Insurance Network in the '90s, and finally sold the business to Risk Strategies where he was still doing consulting work a few short weeks ago.  Buddy understood what was truly most important in life, his family. Many people knew him as Buddy and no moniker suited someone's essence better than "Buddy"; anyone who was in his presence, whether for a minute or a lifetime felt like his buddy. He and Brenda filled their lives with family, love, traveling, boating, skiing, eating and making friends everywhere. We will miss him dearly. Funeral Services will be held on Monday, July 24th, at 12 noon at Temple Beth Avodah, 45 Puddingstone Lane, Newton, MA, followed by Burial at Sharon Memorial Park. Donations can be made to Dana Farber Cancer Institute by supporting his Pan-Mass ride: http://profile.pmc.org/BG0063

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 22 to Jul. 23, 2023.

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Ellen Robinson

July 26, 2023

Dear family, I am so saddened by this news. Even though I have not seen Buddy in many years I feel a closeness to him. We had so many good summers together and they will always be happy times to remember. He was a special man.

Michelle Aronson

July 24, 2023

Melissa & Jocelyn, you and your children spoke so beautifully today about your dad. Treasure every special memory sounds like you have a lifetime to reflect on sending much love... XO.

Susan Kaplan

July 24, 2023

Dear Brenda and Family, We were so sorry to hear of the death of Bernie. He was such a nice man that we knew from MYC. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now. Love, Susan & Arthur Kaplan

Sally and Ken

July 23, 2023

Always a smile and a helping hand...that´s Buddy.
Thank you for the fun memories. We love you.
Ken and Sally

Stephen Marcus

July 22, 2023

I had the privilege of knowing Bernie for over 40 years. He was my mentor on condominium insurance and was the "guru". The work of Bernie and his family for the Pan Mass Challenge was beyond amazing and he nicely convinced me to hire his daughter Melissa as an intern and them an attorney, which became a wonderful thing for us to have her with us. We love you Bernie and will miss you. You are not replaceable. Love Stephen Marcus

Sandy & Jeffrey Davis

July 22, 2023

So saddened and broker hearted by the loss of Buddy. Every moment with him was filled with: talk, teasing, laughter that become a lasting memory to reminisce on. No matter what, Buddy always expressed a positive perspective about his friends and our skills and always expressed love for his whole family and especially for Brenda who he adored. I worked with Buddy, skied with him, boated with him and almost floated away scuba diving with him. A uniquely positive person who always made us smile, will never be replaced or forgotten.
Love always, Sandy & Jeffrey

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