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CARL BEWIG Obituary

BEWIG, Carl Walker We mourn the loss of Carl W. Bewig who passed away April 24, 2022 surrounded by his loving family. Carl was born in St. Louis, Missouri where his family and community life nurtured his love for learning, music, theater and the written word. These passions took him to Oberlin College where he graduated with a BA in History. While at Oberlin College, he met and married Mary, his lifelong friend and wife of 30 years. He went on to earn his Master's in Education at Washington University in St. Louis. His first job as a high school American history teacher launched an illustrious career dedicated to helping young people find their path in life. Carl returned to Oberlin where he became Director of Admissions at the College and the Conservatory of Music. Oberlin remained their family home for nearly twenty years where they raised their two daughters. Carl moved on to become Director of College Counseling at Phillips Academy Andover where for over two decades he continued helping young people realize their potential. In 2001 he met and subsequently married his great love, William. They built a rich life together in Haverhill, MA filled with travel and culture. Over Carl's lifetime he launched careers, believed in people, gave them second chances, and was a true role model and mentor. From Webster Groves, to Oberlin, to Andover, and to Haverhill, Carl developed and nurtured an enormous web of friendships that span the globe. He never forgot a face or a name. He was a force, a presence and often described as larger than life. He is survived by his husband William, daughters Wendy and Laura, grandchildren Lila, Isabelle, Clea and Samuel, sisters Mary and Barbara, son-in-law Stewart, loving nieces, nephews and cousins, and concentric circles of friends the wide, wide world over. May his memory be a blessing. Visiting Hours: In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Carl's name to organizations in your community that support educating and mentoring young people. There are no funeral services scheduled for Carl at this time. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. Please check back here for updates as they are available. Dewhirst & Boles Funeral Home, 80 Broadway, METHUEN, MA 01844 is entrusted with the arrangements. Please visit www.dewhirstbolesfuneral.com to sign the online guest book.

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 27 to Apr. 28, 2022.

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Danica Miller Eskind

May 11, 2022

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May 11, 2022

Danica Miller Eskind

May 11, 2022

The last time I saw Carl was at our Highfield Reunion in Falmouth about 10 years ago. He was just the same as always - big smiles, big laughs, big hugs for everyone! Carl was such a wonderfully kind and enthusiastic man. There was always a song in his heart. We had Oberlin (my alma mater too) and Andover (Abbot Academy was my high school alma mater) in common and we met on both of those campuses over the years - enjoying catching up and sharing news of family and mutual friends. Carl always knew who was where and doing what, resulting in myriads of friends who have wonderful and vivid memories of sharing time with Carl. Sending heartfelt condolences to all of the family, especially Wendy, Laura, William and Mary.

Susannah Smoot Campbell

May 11, 2022

Wendy, I was so saddened to read the news of your father's passing. His booming voice was just as big as his well of kindness. I feel so very fortunate to have known him as both my college counselor and as my castmate in "the theatah." I have wonderful memories of him and wish you and your family solace at this time. In loving memory, Susannah Smoot Campbell (PA 93, stepsister in Into the Woods)

Barbara and Murray Miller

May 2, 2022

We send our condolences to Carl's family members. We had great respect for Carl and will be forever grateful for his assistance in helping us find the perfect college for our daughter. He will be missed by many!

Ginny & Ray Levi

May 2, 2022

Ray and I were saddened to learn of Carl's recent passing. He was such a vibrant, committed and principled person. His memory is a true blessing.
With love,
Ginny & Ray Levi

Ellen C Turner

April 29, 2022

Carl was an incredible mentor for me in the world of college admissions. Larger than life, smart and deeply caring, Carl always put students first. Sending sympathy and peace to all who knew and loved him.

Elliott Harris

April 28, 2022

How fortunate we were, those of us who had him as a history teacher at University City (Mo.) High School many decades ago when he was starting out. And that was merely the beginning for a man whose life was filled with knowledge, achievement and love. Condolences to all who had the pleasure of his presence in their lives.

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