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Daniel Bernstein Obituary

Whose devoted care to patients and colleagues made him one of the most beloved and respected figures in healthcare in the Greater Boston area, died early Wednesday morning, July 25 at Brigham and Women's Hospital, after a courageous struggle with lung cancer. He was 80 and lived in Cambridge and Chilmark, Martha's Vineyard, Massachusetts. Born in Baltimore in 1927, he joined the Navy at age seventeen, near the end of World War II. He subsequently attended Haverford College, majoring in English and pitching for his school's baseball team. Although no Cy Young, his enthusiasm was contagious. He then put himself through Johns Hopkins Medical School and did medical residencies at Boston City Hospital and the Peter Bent Brigham Hospital in Boston. In 1954, he married Marjorie R. Hiatt of Worcester. They first lived in Cambridge and then moved to London, England when Dr. Bernstein was awarded a fellowship in endocrinology at the University Hospital there. He began his research and clinical careers in 1956 in Durham, North Carolina. When he returned to Boston to assume a research position at the Robert Breck Brigham Hospital and later the Harvard School of Public Health, he studied bone metabolism and parathyroid hormone, publishing a number of articles. His work on fluoride's effects on bone and teeth was ground-breaking. After some years, he was recruited to Boston University School of Medicine as Associate Dean, Clinician and Professor of Medicine where he redirected his focus to teaching and mentoring students. He also oversaw admissions where he especially enjoyed interviewing prospective students. He volunteered for many years at the Cambridgeport Clinic one evening a week providing free care to homeless young people. His strong political convictions led him to take an active role in opposing the Vietnam War and nuclear proliferation. His outspoken advocacy caused him to be blacklisted by the Nixon administration. Throughout, he maintained a private practice and saw patients in his Brookline office on Longwood Avenue. Dr. Bernstein provided medical care to all, regardless of whether a patient could pay. Many showed their appreciation with a variety of homemade gifts ranging from mittens to fruitcakes. After he retired from his academic roles in the 1990's, Dr. Bernstein returned to practicing medicine full time at Brigham & Women's Hospital, His patients implored him not to retire, and he continued to practice medicine until just one month ago when he took a medical leave, hoping to return after the summer and the conclusion of his own treatments. "I intend to practice medicine," he said, "for my whole life," and that is precisely what he did. His family was his greatest love. He had three children, Jeffrey of Newton, Carolyn of Newton, also a physician, and Andrew of Brookline; five grandchildren, Benjamin 18, Ally 16, Jemma 16, Samantha 4 and William 17 months, and a sister Betty Taymor. He was never too busy to help a family member with an exam or a paper. He loved to play tennis. He was an avid reader, chess player and Red Sox fan. He was rarely separated from the apple of his eye, his devoted wife, Marge. They loved to travel the world, from Russia to London, Mexico to Alaska, but his favorite spot was the deck of his house on Martha's Vineyard, where he would watch the boats heading toward the Elizabeth Islands, sipping a glass of wine with his family. In lieu of gifts, contributions may be made to the Daniel S. Bernstein Internship Fund for the Center for Peace and Global Citizenship and sent to Haverford College, Institutional Advancement Department, 370 Lancaster Ave, Haverford, PA 19041. Students are chosen to participate in domestic or international summer internships that are committed to social justice and creating a more peaceful world, an abiding commitment of Dr. Bernstein's. See www.haverford.edu/CPGC/about/mission.htm for more information. There will be a celebration commemorating his life on Sunday, Sept. 16 at 4 PM at a location to be announced. Details may be obtained by e-mailing [email protected] or contacting Dawn @ 617-244-9500 Levine Chapels, Brookline 617-277-8300

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 28 to Jul. 30, 2007.

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Kathryn Jost

June 21, 2024

Today, while going thru my Mom's papers, I found a letter from Dr Bernstein dated Dec 30, 1970. He had a sent a typed thank you for the gift set she sent for the holidays for hosting myself and a friend in Martha's Vineyard. It was a heartfelt thank you and brought back memories of your dear parents being gracious and considerate by taking two girls from Texas who lived in their attic garage while making money to return home. I immediately called my girlfriend and then looked on line to read about the remarkable man your father was. My friend and I recounted our fond memories of your parents and our stay in Edgartown. Our deepest condolences to you.

Jeanette Campbell

September 3, 2007

Mrs. Bernstein and family, I was so sorry to hear about Dr. Bernstein. I first went to him in 1983 for a second opinion and continued to see him until we moved to Florida in 2000. He was such a wonderful and caring doctor and person. I can remember taking my son to him. As we were about to leave and I was going to give him my co-pay of $5, he said, "I'll flip you for it." He lost. He always asked for my son and my husband. We talked about his family and especially your grandchildren. I will always be very grateful to him.

Jean Hegarty

September 2, 2007

Dr.Bernstein and I worked together at longwood bldg. in the 70's my thoughes and prayers are with the family D. Dan was a wonderful person I will miss him GOD BLESS

Karen L Dahl

August 20, 2007

I first met Dan when I became a new patient of his in 1963, shortly after I started to work at "the Brigham" and he has been my doctor and my friend ever since. When I got married three years later he became my husband's doctor as well and he cared for us well over the years. Unfortunately he was not able to forstall the inevitable and my husband passed away in 1999 after an heroic 7 year battle with prostate cancer. Dan was there for us every minute of that time and in fact gave us his phone number on the Vineyard should we need him. I will miss him dearly. My condolences to all of you...Karen

Robert and Moira Conrad

August 20, 2007

To the beloved family of Dr. Bernstein (Bernie)
Our sincere sympathies in the loss of such a special man. He knew of our deepest respect and love of him..Always caring and professional, Always sharing his sense of humor, Always a twinkle in his smile. We will miss our visits with him.

Stacey Bruno

August 18, 2007

Dr. Bernstein has been my doctor for the last 12 years. I will never find another doctor like DR. Bernstein- he was top notch! I will truly miss him and his sense of humor.

Sandy Furman

August 12, 2007

Dan was my doctor for nearly twenty years. He nudged me about my weight, encouraging me always to take better care of myself. He saved my life by finding a nodule on my neck during a routine exam that I suspect most doctors would not have found or even looked for, which turned out to be early stage thyroid cancer, and then referred me to an excellent surgeon who successfully removed the thyroid and all cancer. He always asked about my wife and daughter, the latter of whom is a Haverford grad. He shared the joy he experienced in his family, his wife, children, and grandchildren. I feel truly blessed to have had him as my doctor and friend all these years.

Dawn & Bill Jacobs

August 8, 2007

We were greatly saddened to learn that Dr. Bernstein passed away. Our sympathies to your family. My husband and I have been patients of his for the last 12 yrs. He was an excellent clinician with a kind, caring and gentle bedside manner. We appreciated his sound advice and sense of humor. He was a gem and will be sorely missed. Our thoughts are with your family.

Patricia Lynam

August 7, 2007

To the family of Dr. Bernstein:

Dr. Bernstein has been my physician for 12 years now. And he took very good care of my health needs. He was a caring man and he will be missed very much. I am truly sorry for your loss .

Orline Williams

August 3, 2007

Mrs. Bernstein and Family,

The untimely death of Dr. Bernstein has left a permanent void at BPG. As supervisor for the nurses here, we worked closely together. He kept us in line (smile). He leaves an eternal legacy of compassion, courage, committment, and dedication. We also know that he cherished his family. My prayers are with you. God bless.

Lisa Reid

August 2, 2007

Mrs.Bernstein,
I am so sorry for your loss.I worked with him at BPG before I got promoted to practice manager at Newton corner. He was always a gentleman and caring man. He was a true angel. You and your family will be in our prayers.

August 2, 2007

Dr. Bernstein was more than my personal physician; he was a caring friend who always was a reliable, sincere and honest caregiver for me. I always looked forward to our appointments, knowing that I would be the recipient of his excellent medical skills, his caring and his sense of humor. For the last few years I have traveled to Boston from Florida for the sole purpose of remaining in his vigilant care and to avoid finding another medical care giver in my area. I will miss my trusted friend and physician. He truly left his indelible positive mark with my family and with this world. Good bye Dan.

Richard Byrd, Niceville, FL

Natalia Pokrovsky

August 1, 2007

We are deeply saddened to hear of the death of our beloved doctor Bernstein.He embodied all of the best qualities of a doctor one can imagine. My husband Alexander babyonyshev and my friend Lev Brown were his patients for many years and we always admired his high professionalism, compassion, total devotion to patients' needs and a nice sense of humor. It was an absolute privilege to know him and to be his patients. One meets such a doctor once in his lifetime.

Margaret Reynolds

August 1, 2007

Dr. Bernstein has been my doctor for the past 10 years and I could have not asked for a more competent, caring physician. He never rushed me, he listened carefully, and he always had sound advice. My daughter has diabetes and although she was not his patient he always asked me about her and was a sounding board for my concerns. I will miss him a great deal and I hope that you, his wife, children and grandchildren, will take some comfort in the contribution he has made to so many lives.
Margaret Reynolds
Belmont, MA

Monique Kawalek

August 1, 2007

Dear Andrew, Mrs. Bernstein and family: I am deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Bernstein's death. He and Mrs. Bernstein embodied all of the values that we aspire to achieve and maintain in our lives. I knew Dr. Bernstein as a compassionate doctor who loved the practice of medicine and was a doctor for all of the right reasons. He was a solid family man who along with Mrs. Bernstein raised one of the finest men I have had the privelidge of knowing for over 25 years. I remember when my father was diagnosed with cancer, Dr. Bernstein put us in touch with one of the best oncologists and because the care was excellent we had the luxury of spending our remaining days enjoying eachother and celebrating my father's life, not in search of better medical care. I will remember Dr. Bernstein frequently and fondly and continue to be inspired by his love of his practice of medicine and his love of his family. All my love, Monique

Don Giller

July 31, 2007

To Marjorie Bernstein and the Bernstein family,

I express my sincere sympathy at your loss. Dan was a joy to work with at BU School of Medicine and BU Medical Center. We often worked closely on his projects (I was involved in the administration), and I admired his willingness to try new ideas and probe new directions. He was a mensch--smart, witty, and often downright funny. He inspired me as a young writer and a new manager, and often provided wonderful personal counsel.

Mike Casey

July 30, 2007

Mr. Bernstein,
Sir, I didn't know you, but I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the U.S. Navy during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

judith lytle

July 30, 2007

I regret not having known Dr. Bernstein better, but can credit him with my being a physician today. When he interviewed me for a place in the class of 1996 at BUSM, I was seven months pregnant. I always marvelled at his capacity to see beyond the big belly in that interview. I now am a practising internist, affiliated with BMC. His example continues to inspire me. My thoughts are with you, his family, at this time of loss. Sincerely, Judith Lytle, MD

Mary Wentworth

July 30, 2007

After reading Dr. Bernstein's obituary, I see that the apple didn't fall from the tree. His daughter, Carolyn Bernstein, is my neurologist and is such a caring and competent physician. I feel blessed to have found her, and wish I could have known her father - what a principled and generous man he was.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Donna Kelleher

July 30, 2007

Dear Mrs. Bernstein,

I am deeply saddened by your loss. He was a truly wonderful and devoted doctor who will be missed terribly. I was a patient of his for 30 years. May he rest in peace. My sympathy to you and your family.
Donna M. Kelleher

Roberta Nathanson, Robinson

July 30, 2007

Just received a note from my daughter, Monique NATHANSON Kalwalek,one of Andrew's best friend's and high school class mate. I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Bernstein's passing. My deepest heartfelt sympathy is with you, Mrs Bernstein, and your family.
Sincerely,

Gerald Feldman

July 30, 2007

My deepest sympathy to Dr. Bernsteain's family. He's been my physician for 13 years. We will miss him.

Peter & Linda Patch

July 30, 2007

Dear Mrs. Bernstein,
Linda & I just learned of your husband's passing from our good friend Andrew. Andrew and Jackie are special friends, and reflect the special qualities that your husband clearly shared throughout his career. Let us be of any support we can, while we endeavor to reflect his generous spirit of contribution, and in this way carry on and extend your family tradition of caring and giving to others.

John Monahan

July 30, 2007

Mrs.Bernstein and family,
Dr. Bernstein, or Dan as he liked to be called, was an extrordinary man and physician. My family will miss him.

Connie marques

July 30, 2007

Dear Carolyn and family,
My deepest sympathies and may God give you strength to endure the pain of your loss.

Love

Eleazer ben Dovid

July 30, 2007

I never knew Dr.Bernstein,however just reading his obituary, he was truly a Tzadik

John & Debra Lyons

July 30, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with Mrs.Bernstein and her family. We were very lucky to have Dr.Bernstein as our Doctor and our friend. We will miss him very much.

Laurie Westgate

July 29, 2007

Dear Marge,
Words can not express what He meant to all of us. I feel blessed to have worked with him, and to have witnessed his love and devotion to not only the medical community, but to you and his family. I miss him....

Raisa Newman

July 29, 2007

Dear Marge,

We were saddened to read about Dan. We haven't seen you recently, but we remember the happy days in Newton when we were young and raising our families. Your dinner parties were special because of your warmth and graciousness. Dan always showed a great deal of interest in our kids and he had a great sense of humor.

Our sincere sympathy to you and your family.

Love,
Raisa and Mort Newman

Edna Aronson

July 28, 2007

My brother, Mark Selig, was a patient of Dr. Bernstein's. He highly valued his recommendations and followed his advice to the very end. Mark passed away also on Wednesday morning from lung cancer at Brigham and Womens. May they rest in peace.
Edna Aronson

Karen Clark

July 28, 2007

Dear Marge,

I don't have to tell you what a mench Danny was. He nurtured me through some difficult times with gentlenes and strength. I will miss him. My thoughts are with you.

Karen Clark

Victoria La Face

July 28, 2007

Mrs. Bernstein and Family,

Dr. Bernstein will be missed very much. He was a wonderful doctor who truly cared about his patients and who always exuded kindeness and sincerity when dealing with me. He will hold a special place in my heart, as there is no one else like him.

Victoria La Face

Lynne Nieman

July 28, 2007

I met Dr Bernstein 13 years ago when he diagnosed my husband's cancer. If it were not for Dr Bernstein, my husband and I would not have had those extra years together. I will never forget his kindness before and after my husband passed away. He was a wonderful Dr and a wonderful man. I am sorry for your loss.

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