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ELLEN TAMILIO Obituary

TAMILIO, Ellen (Amari) Age 77, of Stoneham, formerly a long-time resident of Woburn, died peacefully surrounded by her loving family on November 23, 2016.  Ellen was the beloved wife of Frank J. Tamilio, Jr., devoted mother of Frank J. Tamilio III of Chelmsford, Judy Mabardy & husband Emile and Mark Tamilio & wife Julie all of Woburn, Rachel Tamilio of Wakefield, Timothy Tamilio & wife Jennifer of Virginia. Loving "Grandma" of Gianna and Isaiah. Cherished daughter of the late Joseph and Angelina (Gaudioso) Amari, dear sister of Anna Brazee of Billerica, John Amari of No. Carolina, the late Marie Donato, Jennie Gianotti, Josephine Foskitt, and Russ Amari.  Ellen is also survived by a large and loving extended family of brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews. Visiting Hours: Family and friends will gather for Visiting Hours at the Nichols Funeral Home, 187 Middlesex Ave. (Rte. 62), Wilmington, on Monday, November 28th from 4-8 p.m.  Ellen's Celebration of Life will be held on Tuesday, November 29th at 10:00 a.m. in the Wilmington Congregational Church, 220 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington.  Interment will follow in Woodbrook Cemetery, Woburn. In lieu of flowers, donations in Ellen's memory may be made to the Friends of Hyder Family Hospice House, 285 County Farm Road, Dover, NH  03825. www.friendsofhyderfamilyhospicehouse.org.  Nichols Funeral Home, Inc. 978-658-4744 www.nicholsfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2016.

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Laura Donigian (from New England Rehab- outpatient)

December 2, 2016

Ellen has had a profound affect on my life, I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know her and learn from her. She has inspired me to share to others about the incredible grace of God. I will miss our email letters back and forth and look forward to seeing her in glory. My heart goes out to her family. I just learned of her passing right now unfortunately, and would have liked to be there to celebrate her life last week.

Noreen Kennedy

November 26, 2016

thinking of the tamillio family. ellen was a dear friend to my mom as was the whole family to our family. thinking of you all at this very difficult time. thank God we will be with our loved ones in heaven as believers in Christ. that is our real home.

Paula Hoyt

November 25, 2016

A few days before Ellen's return to her real home, I had read these lyrics from a song called, As Long As I'm Here by Brandon Heath. (link to song below) The first 4 lines made me think so much about Ellen.
Someday I'll pass to the great sky above
And the first think I'll ask, is how well did I love?
Did I leave the world any better than it was before?
Of all the things I've done, could I have done anymore?
If I were to answer those questions about Ellen, I would say that she loved more people than any person I know personally. She put so much thoughtful time and prayer and compassion into everyone she came in contact with and that was only in my observation once a week for a couple of years. I saw how much love she put into the letters and mailings for the radio ministry, not to even mention the phone calls and prayers I never saw her make.
Did she leave the world any better than it was before? I'm sure everyone she came in contact with was touched by her in some way. She was always looking for a way to share the love of Jesus with anyone even while she was in pain even with all the nurses and doctors she had.
And I really don't think she could have done anymore. I don't know how she kept up with everyone like she did. Even when I saw her in hospice, she was asking me about me and my life and how was my family. And she always signed a card or note to me with you are loved. That's love being other-centered giving all the time. She knew she was a child of the Most High God and King. She knew she was loved, too. She was a true Princess. I look forward to seeing her again.
Paula
Link to the song As Long As I'm Here on youtube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIII3J1pyvU&list=RDTIII3J1pyvU

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28

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Nichols Funeral Home, Inc. - Wilmington

187 Middlesex Avenue, Wilmington, MA 01887

Nov

29

Celebration of Life

10:00 a.m.

Wilmington Congregational Church

220 Middlesex Ave, Wilmington, MA

Nov

29

Interment

Woodbrook Cemetery

Woburn., MA

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187 Middlesex Avenue, Wilmington, MA 01887

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