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Helen Virginia "Ginny" McCarty

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Helen McCarty Obituary

Of Plymouth, formerly of Scituate, Feb. 15, age 76, beloved wife of Bernard J. McCarty for 52 years, passed away peacefully and into God's loving arms while surrounded by her family. Loving mother of Maureen Smith and her husband Bill of Scituate, Tom and his wife Lynne of Marshfield, Dan of Marshfield, Chris and his wife Patty of Plymouth, John and his wife Sarah of Quincy, Ellen McCarty and Sean McDonnell of Carlsbad, CA, Andrew and his wife Allison of Carlsbad, CA, Susan Jones and her husband Steve of Hatteras, NC and Kevin of Carlsbad, CA. Very special grandmother of Lauren and Gregory Smith, Matthew McCarty, Sam and Ben McCarty, Erin and Christopher Pickering. Aidan and Keira McDonnell, and Andrew and Mekayla McCarty. Cherished sister of Marion Flaherty of Winchester, Kay Galvin of Acton, Beverly Petros of Tewksbury and the late William and John Niland. Daughter of the late Jack and Helen Niland. Also survived by her brother-in-law Robert McCarty of Newtown, PA and many nieces, nephews and friends. A surrogate mother to many, Ginny was warm, giving and inspirational. She loved painting, reading, writing, arts, crafts projects with her grandchildren, sharing her life and her time with family and friends. Funeral Services at the United Church of Christ, 460 Main St., (Route 123), Norwell on Monday, Feb. 19 at 10 AM. Visiting hours at Richardson-Gaffey Funeral Home, 382 First Parish Rd., SCITUATE on Sunday, Feb. 18 from 4-8 PM. Relatives and friends are warmly welcomed to attend and share in a celebration of Ginny's kind and loving spirit. "She did her best. Angels could do no more." Richardson-Gaffey Funeral Home (781) 545-0196

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Published by Boston Globe on Feb. 17, 2007.

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Kim Darian Stewart

March 11, 2007

So sorry I did not hear of Mrs. McCarty's passing until yesterday! May she rest in Peace with the others that have gone before us.
And may wonderful memories somehow ease your pain...
Kim (Darian) Stewart

Gretchen Houghton

March 1, 2007

My thoughts are with you all. I hope all the nice things people say give all of you comfort in knowing your mom was exceptional and extraordinary. She is the mom that I hope that I can be. Thank you for welcoming me in your lives.

Shannon Fauteux

February 27, 2007

My Dear Friends Ellen, Kevin, Andy, and all the McCarty Family:

What a true blessing and honor it was to have met your Mom during her visit to California last spring. As a Mom of 2 young daughters, I found her insight on motherhood to be extraordinary. I will forever cherish the conversation we shared while at Ellen’s.

In the midst of your sorrow, may you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you shared with your Mom. What a phenomenal woman!

Andrew McCarty Jr.

February 25, 2007

"Grammy," as my sister and I called her, was my grandmother and she changed my life. She always made sure everyone was as happy as they could be, and no matter what, she always made you feel so special. I have so many memories of us together when I was growing up. Grammy impacted so many lives, and was a mother to everyone who needed support. She was always, and will always be loved by everyone that was graced by any part of her. She was a saviour in this world, and she is an amazing angel in the next. I feel very safe knowing that she is watching over me from above now. I love you Grammy!

Al and Julie Monaco

February 23, 2007

I knew Ginny from Medford HS days. She was one of the nicest girls in HS and never changed. A wonderful mother and wife, now, a saint.

John Bridgewater

February 23, 2007

To "The McCarty Family";
Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. We are so sorry for your loss. "Ginny" has certainly blessed the world with her love and the children to carry her spirit on. We love you all.
John & Heidi Bridgewater

Barbara Leavitt

February 22, 2007

The McCarty family was a great favorite at Central School. Your mother was such a cheerful, involved, caring person and so willing to help. We all were amazed because we knew she was rather busy with her wonderful family! My deepest condolences to you all.
Barbara Leavitt

Thomas Gunning

February 21, 2007

My prayers are with your family in your loss. Althought I did not know Ginny, we share a common g-grandfather, Thomas Gunning of Ballindoon, Co Sligo, Ireland.

Joel MacCollam

February 20, 2007

Dear Ones,

Andy and Allison, I've been reading these tributes, and they are awesome. Andy, you are a great guy, and your Mom must havenbeen a wonderful person to leave such a living legacy. We are glad that you and Allison, and your kids, are part of our World Emergency Relief family, and we join yu both in your sense of loss and the richness of love you feel for Mom.

Tom Carlin

February 20, 2007

Mrs. McCarty (Ginny) really touched many lives very deeply. In my case, it was way beyond what was expected--by taking me into her house and acting to me as a mother. I still wonder how she did all that, but she did and I will always remember the kindness and love she had in her saintly heart.

Tristan & Tamy Anderson

February 20, 2007

Hi Chris & John,

Tamy and I are thinking of you guys in this difficult time. I'm sorry that I didn't make it to the funeral last weekend. I hope to see you soon.

Tristan and Tamy

Jeanne Brisson

February 20, 2007

John & Chris, I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you & your family. I wanted to make it down to the wake and I couldn't.. My heart was with you and you were in my thoughts.. I didn't know your Mom, but from what I hear, she was a wonderful person :) I know exactly what you are going through. I found great comfort thinking of all the good memories that our loved ones left behind (when my Dad passed away) I am so sorry I couldn't make the wake, just know I wanted to be there. May your Mom find eternal peace... Thinking of you at this difficult time

Donegone Bean Crowley

February 19, 2007

What can you say about someone who put 9 good kids out into the world. Like my Mom I doubt she ever complained and reveled in every good thing her children and grandchildren did.
God bless you,
One more angel back up in heaven...

Kelly Donohue

February 19, 2007

To the McCarty family, please accept my sincere condolences. I will always treasure my childhood memories on Pin Oak Dr. with "Mrs. McCarty" welcoming me into her home and offering to stay for supper, (as she didn't have enough kids to feed)!! We know now , GOD has another beautiful Angel watching over us.

Mike Monahan

February 19, 2007

Dear McCarty Family:

I am very sorry to hear about Ginny. She was a great woman - loved those twinkling eyes when she laughed - beautiful.

She will be missed by all - my heart goes out to you all.

Sincerely,

Mike Monahan
Atlanta, GA

Maureen Gomes

February 19, 2007

Aunt Ginny gave me wonderful advice, as one mom of many to another, that I will never forget. My love and prayers are with you all.

Suzanne Dixon

February 19, 2007

To the McCarty Family and all who's lives she touched,
My heart goes out to all of you at this time of great loss. I will always cherish having been able to have Ginny and the CA McCarty kids in my home for Easter 2006.
I will miss her beautiful being and her kind words. Truely
"Angels can do no more"
Rest in Peace Ginny...Sincerely,
Love Suzanne

Brian Crowley

February 19, 2007

Dear McCarty Family,
I send my sincere condolences to you all! Your mom was a special person who will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Samantha Seymour

February 19, 2007

I've been very lucky to grow up with two families, and the McCarty's are that second family. Ginny alaways thought of me as part of the family and I will cherish every word of wisdom she ever gave me. I will take with me her warmth and her smile, her laugh and her love. Thank you for everything, i'm a better person because of you.

Max Weiss

February 19, 2007

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother.

Dorothy Crowley

February 19, 2007

Ginny was a good friend and neighbor, and a very special person. Between the two of us, we were mothers to 16 children. Needless to say, there was always a crisis in one or both of our families. Ginny always seemed to handle anything that life threw at her with wisdom, humor and good grace, which was a marvel to me. She will be sorely missed here on earth, but welcomed with open arms in heaven.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Bernie and all of the children at this time of both sorrow and rejoicing.

Jim and Dot Crowley

Norman Parks

February 19, 2007

Bernie and family please accept Brenda's and my deepest sympathy. Ginnie was a wonderful person of which we were proud to have know. We pray for God's comfort at this difficut time. The ASPE Family has each of you in our prayers

February 19, 2007

Jenna Loren Richardson

February 19, 2007

A Salute to all the McCarty family in loving memory of Ginny McCarty.

Dandy, Jenna, and Mikaela Richardson are saddened at the news of the passing of such a great woman and mother, Ginny McCarty.

For several years now Andy, Allison, and their children, Ellen, and Kevin have been close to our hearts. Knowing the McCarty’s has touched our lives and with respect we know that the wonderful character of these individuals stems from such wonderful parents. We met Ginny only once but the impression she made was ever lasting. Dandy toasts to Ginny and says, "We will meet again and have one more dance." Bless you all and may your sadness in time be replaced by your happier memories of the past.

The Richardson Family

Bill Crowley

February 18, 2007

To all the McCarty clan, I am very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She was a very special person. My sincere condolences and best wishes to you all.

Ravi

February 18, 2007

To all the family and friends,
My heart goes out to everyone and will cherish all the great memories and conversations that Aunt Ginnie brought to life.

Mike Barry

February 18, 2007

My tribute to Ginny McCarty, a wonderful wife, mother and friend. This is a bitter-sweet moment in all our lives. I am so proud to have known Ginny and her family, but I am glad she is out of pain and suffering. I will remember her as she was in years past. God bless Ginny and God bless the McCarty family.

IRENE & PHIL FRENCH

February 18, 2007

MR. PRESIDENT, AND FAMILY,
IRENE AND I SEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. WE SURE ENJOYED THE MANY ASPE FUNCTIONS WE ATTENDED OVER THE PAST 25 YEARS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH EACH OF YOU.

John Donohue

February 18, 2007

Such an awsume example of Mother and Wife . Such beautiful memories from those Pin Oak days.Surely all of Heaven is rejoicing today .But here we mourne your passsing and you will be missed. My Love and My thoughts and prayers are with you all. See ya later Mrs. M.

Allison McCarty

February 18, 2007

So many have been loved, touched, moved, and given hope by a wonderful gift that was shared with us all...Ginny. She truely gave a sense of "HOME". Safe, loved, treasured. It was the open arms, the shoulder to lean on, the gentle tone in her voice...she has touched so many peoples lives, and I am so fortunate that she touched mine. I will miss you Ginny. You will always be in my heart, and my "home".

Jack Crowley

February 18, 2007

To all the McCarty's, My thoughts and prayers will be with you all. Having spent many hours in the controlled chaos known as your house back in the 70's, I knew full well your mom was destined for sainthood.

buffy reed

February 18, 2007

Our heartfelt sympathy to the many McCartys and their loved ones.
Sincerely,
buddy and buffy

Eddie Russell

February 18, 2007

Spirit thoughts from Texas from the bond of love and a beautiful family. The flowers continue to grow. Love from here

Gary Macia

February 18, 2007

I would like to offer my condolences to the McCarty family.Love is all there is in life.

Matt, Kim (Niland) & Jadyn Crowell

February 18, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers to each of you. With love.

Richard McGilvray, Sr.

February 17, 2007

Dear McCarty Family,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your Mom. She was also a second Mom to me at your house on Pinoak. I have many fond memories that I will cherish forever. May she rest in peace with the angels. Love to all...Richard McGilvray, Sr. and Family

Jay Rafuse

February 17, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this difficult time.

The Rafuse Family

Greg and Klya Niland

February 17, 2007

Our thoughts are with all of you.

Pat Foley Martin

February 17, 2007

Back in the 1960's, I learned how to enjoy a cup of hot tea thanks to Mrs. McCarty. Many afternoons at 4:00 Mrs. McCarty, Maureen (still one of my best friends)and I would sit at the dining room table. We would sip our cups of tea and just chat. Great memories. My condolences to Mrs. McCarty's family.

Paul Greene

February 17, 2007

My deepest sympathy to all the McCartys. Your mother was one of the most beautiful people I have ever met. She knew how to be a friend to those who needed a "hug".
Papa Greene

Marlyn Curtin

February 17, 2007

Ginny will always be Ma Carty to the Fillmore kids, even though none of us are even kids anymore. We are blessed to have had her be a part of our lives and have wonderful memories of those times. Our love and prayers to Bernie and the kids, who are also not kids anymore.

The Staff of Richardson-Gaffey Funeral Home

February 17, 2007

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Dave and Storer Pepper

February 17, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Leo Barry

February 17, 2007

Ginny was truly a special person who lifted the spirts of anyone she came in contact with. I feel lucky to have been one of those people. Her smile and peaceful aura will missed until we meet again.

Mary-Ellen Beatty

February 17, 2007

So happy to have spent a nice afternoon with Aunt Ginny this past fall...sat on Chris + Patti's porch enjoying the weather and listening to stories of her "big brother" John...now he can watch over her again...Love + peace to you all...Mary-Ellen

Ann Forsyth

February 17, 2007

Dear Niland/McCarty families - I was very sorry to read this morning of Virginia's passing. My parents knew the Niland family in our early years living in Medford, and I was in Jr. High (Hobbs) and Medford High with Beverly, as well. Although I did not know the McCarty family, I send condolences from myself as well as the remaining members of my family. With prayers and deepest sympathy to both families and their children, now grown, and may Virginia's soul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I do hope that Virginia's passing was peaceful. Sincerely, Mrs. Ann (Drennan) Forsyth, 8025 Farmington Blvd., Germantown, Tennessee 38138

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