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Joan Shay Obituary

Of Wellesley, MA, 73, died Sunday, December 24, 2006 at Eagle Pond Rehabilitation in Dennis, MA. She was the wife of the late Edward F. "Ted" Shay, Jr. Joan Shay is lovingly survived by her son, Edward F. "Tad" Shay III and his wife Monica (O'Neill) Shay of London, England and South Yarmouth, MA. She also leaves her two brothers, Christopher Halligan of Gloucester, MA and Donald Halligan of Claymont, Delaware. Visiting Hours will be held on Thursday, December 28, 2006 at J.S. Waterman & Sons-Waring Funeral Home, 592 Washington St., WELLESLEY, MA from 3pm to 5pm. A funeral mass will be held on Friday, December 29, 2006 at St. Paul Parish, 502 Washington St. Wellesley, MA at 10AM. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in memory of Joan Halligan Shay to The Ovarian Cancer Research Fund, 14 Pennsylvania Plaza, Suite 1400, New York, NY 10122, www.ocrf.org or The Eve Appeal Gynaecological Cancer Research Unit, Institute of Womens Health, Maple House, 149 Tottenham Court Road, London W1T 7NF, Registered charity no. 1091708, www.eveappeal.org.uk J.S. Waterman & Sons 781-235-4110 www.jswaterman.co

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Published by Boston Globe on Dec. 27, 2006.

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Tisha McKeen

February 5, 2007

Tad and Monica, Just found out when we tried to place a call to your mom on 2/2/07 of her passing. Heartfelt sympathy to you both. Joan was a special friend to us and we have wonderful memories. Tisha and Marie

Don Halligan

January 7, 2007

Tad & Monica:
We are very sorry we couldn't attend the services. Your mother was a wonderful woman and our thoughts are with you. We hope that all your good memories of her bring you some comfort.
Don, Emily, Caroline and Theodore Halligan

Andy, Jen, Anna, Sam and Dave Halligan

January 4, 2007

To Tad and Monica,
Joan was a great lady and we will miss her dearly. We will always remember her and the happiness she shared. Our thoughts are with you.

Doris Baucom

December 28, 2006

Joan was a dear friend to many while living here in Spruce Pine, NC. We remember her fondly. We send our deepest sympathy to Tad, Monica, and all of her family.

Fred and Patty and Fred Sr. O'Hara

December 28, 2006

To Tad, Monica and all the family, our sincere sympathy. We will always remember Joan fondly, her wit, humor and compassion will always be with us.

Frank & Rindy O'Hara

December 27, 2006

To Tad and Monica and all the Halligans: We want to express our deepest sympathies on the passing of Joan. She was my Godmother and I have very fond memories of her care and affection. We will miss her very much.

Sisters Ann & Mary Murtagh

December 27, 2006

To the Shay's and Halligans. We wish to express to all of you our sincere sympathy on the loss of your dear mother, sister, and friend. She was a great friend of ours for the last 68 years and a person we will never forget. We have very fond memories of our days in Gloucester as children. We will miss our trips to Boston, we will be praying for all of you with Joan. She was a great women.

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