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John Arrigo Obituary

61, April 18, a resident of Bradford and formerly of No. Andover. Beloved husband of 35 years to Lucille (Lay) Arrigo. Loving father of Rose M. Adair of Bradford, Scott A. of Rochester, NH & David J. of Osceola, AK, dear son of Doris C. (Fantasia) Arrigo of No. Andover, brother of Philip M. Jr. & his wife Frances of Windham, NH, & Virginia & her husband Daniel Quinlan of West Milford, NJ, Cherished grandfather of 5. Funeral will be Saturday morning 9:00 from the H.L. Farmer & Sons BRADFORD Funeral Home, 210 So. Main St. followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:00 in Sacred Hearts Church, Bradford. Burial will follow in the Ridgewood Cemetery, No. Andover. Calling hours at the Bradford Funeral Home will be Friday from 2-4 and 7-9 PM. Contributions in his memory may be made to the Holy Family Cancer Management Center, 70 East St., Methuen, MA, 01844. Directions and condolences may be obtained at www.farmerfuneralhomes.com. H.L. Farmer & Sons 978-372-9311

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Published by Boston Globe on Apr. 20, 2006.

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Cousins Patty and Richie Voto

April 20, 2006

Dear Lucille, Aunt Doris, Cousins Philip and Virginia,children Rose, Scott and David,grandchildren

as well as several nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles. Patty and I would like to convey our most heartfelt condolences on the passing of Cousin John.



Don’t think of John as gone away –

his journey’s just begun;

life holds so many facets –

this earth is only one.



Just think of John as resting

from the sorrows and the tears

in a place of warmth and comfort

where there are no days and years.



Think how John must be wishing

that we could know, today,

how nothing but our sadness

can really pass away.



And think of John as living

in the hearts of those he touched…

for nothing loved is ever lost –

and he was loved so much.



May God Bless and give you strength in the days ahead!

Amy Blaine

April 20, 2006

I am writing to express my sympathy to the family of Papa John Arrigo and to share a memory of him that I will never forget.

Although I never got the chance to say thank you to him, John made a profound difference in my life and that of my family.

When my daughter was born prematurely, I was completely beside myself and John came to visit us in the NICU...I remember distinctly his strength, and as he made the sign of the cross on her forehead telling me not to worry, that she would be just fine. I wanted desperately to believe him and as time went on through the ordeal his kind words echoed in my mind. In the long run John was right...that my daughter would be fine.

But the big picture is that's how John always was. He entrusted the hand of God and his strength encouraged all of us in some way or another.

So as I say my final goodbyes to John I want to give my thanks to him too...for being both fun-loving yet strong when need be...thank you for laughing over spilling everything, but thank you, thank you, thank you for being there when I needed you most. You are unforgetable.



Love always,

Amy Blaine

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