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JOHN HOITT BARRETT III

1966 - 2021

JOHN HOITT BARRETT III obituary, 1966-2021, Reading, MA

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Douglass Edgerley & Bessom Funeral Home

25 Sanborn Street

Reading, Massachusetts

JOHN BARRETT Obituary

BARRETT, John Hoitt III Of Reading, passed away peacefully on August 11, 2021, surrounded by his wife and two children, after a valiant struggle with lung cancer. John was the beloved high school sweetheart and husband of nearly 33 years of Hayley A. (Dalton) Barrett. He was a devoted father to Rose K. Barrett and her wife Jessie Belfer of Somerville and John H. Barrett, IV and his girlfriend Anaya Green of Austin, TX. As the youngest son of his parents, the remarkable John H. Barrett, Jr. and Mary (Toomey) Barrett of Plymouth (both formerly of Reading), John entered the world to find the love and laughter of a huge and happy family waiting to surround and sustain him. He will be sorely missed by his nine siblings and their families, including sister Kathleen Leslie and her husband Sanford of Plymouth, brother Michael Barrett and his wife Nancy of Lexington, sister Mary Fraser and her husband Arthur of Reading, sister Susan Kalmakis and her husband George of Gloucester, brother James Barrett and his wife Susan of NJ, brother Stephen Barrett and his wife Margie of NJ, sister Anne Barrett Doyle and her husband William of Boston, brother Thomas Barrett and his wife Colleen of Rockport, and sister Christina Asbell and her husband Robert of ME. John is also survived by (at present) 35 much-loved nieces and nephews and 30 spectacular great-nieces and nephews. John was educated at Tufts University (BSE) and Dartmouth College (MBA). He spent years as a management consultant, then as a Vice President at Citigroup, before switching to executive search focused on the technology industry. As a CEO-CFO level recruiter, he loved the thrill of the hunt and making sure the very best executives found the right opportunities. John was generous with his time and expertise, mentoring junior colleagues, and following the progress of clients and candidates as they built thriving careers and businesses. At ON Partners, his final place of employment, he was a Managing Partner. He was grateful to his many ON colleagues for their years of camaraderie and collaboration. He considered them friends, one and all. John was deeply satisfied with the life that he built with his wife Hayley. He coined the word "schwindy," indicating comfort and luxury, to describe his favorite activities. A "schwindy" night involved his homemade paella, a glass of fine wine, and enjoying an evening on the patio with his family. John and his family would like to recognize his brilliant oncology and palliative care teams at Dana Farber. They shepherded him through treatment, including several clinical trials, with intelligence and compassion. Lastly, the family thanks the staff of Brigham and Women's CWN 7 South. They made John's final days and hours comfortable. Funeral Home Visiting Hours will be held at Douglass, Edgerley and Bessom Funeral Home, 25 Sanborn St. (corner of Woburn St.) in READING, on Thursday, August 19, from 4:00-8:00pm. For directions and online guest book, visit www.johnbdouglassfuneralhome.com A Mass of Christian Burial for John will be held at St. Agnes Church, 186 Woburn St. in Reading, on Friday, August 20 at 10:30am. Burial to follow at Lakeside Cemetery in Wakefield. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in John's memory to BreatheON for LUNGevity in support of lung cancer research and patient advocacy. Kindly note: To best protect everybody's health, especially considering the rise in Covid-19 cases, all those attending the services will be required to wear a face mask.

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Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 14 to Aug. 15, 2021.

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Lynda Mullaly Hunt

September 24, 2021

I am so very sorry to hear that John has passed. I think of you so very often Hayley, Rose, Jessi, John, and Anaya. What a tremendous heartbreak this must be for you. I am so very sorry that you must endure it’s terrible loss of your beloved husband and father. I do hope that the happy and loving memories you have of him will sustain you and comfort you in the future. xo

Lucy O'Keefe Hancock

August 29, 2021

In warm memory of John, whom I knew as funny, steady, kind, gracious child long long ago. We'll meet again. Love to all the Barretts.

Bill Tufts

August 23, 2021

A true gentleman in every sense.

Barbara Hollis

August 19, 2021

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. I remember meeting John at Wyonegonic when he came to visit you while you were taking care of Chris. I knew then that you two would stay together and I am so sorry about his death.

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Stephen Fallon

August 19, 2021

Bart was a leader in our tight knit neighborhood gang. He also was a gifted athlete pitching us to a championship in '78. I remember a bunch of us holding signs for his brother, Mike, during his successful campaign, and the huge after party at his house. Bart was a kind soul who always looked out for others. My condolences to all of you. Bart may you rest in peace.

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Mary Kier

August 18, 2021

We will always remember John when he worked with us at Cook Associates. Always thoughtful and kind, he was someone we were always proud to call a colleague. We enjoyed having him on the executive leadership team and found his counsel intelligent and always appropriate.
Our hearts go out to Hayley, Rose and John - may your hearts be less heavy with each passing day - keep the best memories.
With deepest sympathy and kind regards, Mary Kier and John Kins

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Susan Barrett

August 16, 2021

John was thoughtful, kind, generous and so completely devoted to his family. He set such a wonderful example of how to be. He will be sorely missed but his legacy lives on in Hayley, Rose, and John, and in all of the beautiful memories we have of him.

Hayley Barrett

August 15, 2021

Here is a click-through link to BreatheON, John's fundraising page for LUNGevity:
https://lungevity.donordrive.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=donordrive.personalCampaign&participantID=64510

Kristofer Chun

August 14, 2021

John was always there with a smile and a chuckle. He was a light in every room he entered. I am saddened by the loss of John. Peace be with all of you.

John B. Douglass & John B. Douglass II

August 14, 2021

This book of memories is to serve as a record of the services you entrusted to us. We hope it will help to preserve treasured memories and that we, in some small measure, have helped to ease your burden and bring you comfort.

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25 Sanborn Street, Reading, MA 01867

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St. Agnes Church

186 Woburn St., Reading, MA

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