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JOHN HAYES Obituary

Hayes, John A. 89, of Harwich, passed away peacefully, in Chatham, on November 7, 2015. He was the beloved husband of Marie (Kavanagh) Hayes. Jack was born in Dorchester to the late Alfred and Mary Hayes. He served in the Navy during WW II aboard the USS Alaska. He graduated from Harvard University Extension School and Rutgers School of Banking. Jack worked for 38 years at the Federal Reserve Bank of Boston, starting out in the mailroom and retiring as an Assistant Vice President. During his retirement, he was a real estate broker for 9 years. Jack was an active member in his community, both in West Roxbury and in Harwich, and served as President of the local Chapter of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, a volunteer at Habitat for Humanity, a member of Kiwanis, The Lions Club, Allen Harbor Yacht Club, Cranberry Valley Golf Course and Holy Trinity Church. Besides his wife, he is survived by his children Steven Hayes of Dedham and Maureen Hayes Rossi and her husband Ken of Needham and his grandchildren Lauren and Michael Rossi and his daughter in law Carolyn Shute. He is predeceased by his children Jackie, Kevin & Brian, a brother and 5 sisters. He also leaves many nieces & nephews. Visitation will be held at Morris, O'Connor & Blute Funeral Home, 678 Main St. HARWICH CENTER on Thursday, November 12th from 9–10:30 am followed by a Funeral Mass at 11 am at Holy Trinity Church, Route 28 in West Harwich. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation MA/RI Chapter, 220 North Main St., Suite 104, Natick, MA 01760 or to Hope Hospice, 765 Attucks Lane. Hyannis, MA 02601 or Habitat for Humanity 121 Habitat St. Americus, GA 31709-3498 or Family Pantry, 133 Queen Anne Rd. Harwich, MA 02645. Notes of comfort may be made to his family at: www. MorrisOConnorBlute.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 8 to Nov. 10, 2015.

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joanne Tisei

November 13, 2015

Dear Maureen and family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. Your Father was loved by many people. Blessings surround all of you.
Sincerely,
Joanne Tisei

Ginny Donnelly

November 10, 2015

So sorry for your loss. I have so many warm and wonderful memories of growing up on Montvale St, We were a small village of kids with many parents and John was the kindest of all❤ My love and sympathy to all . Ginny Donnelly

Ann Hopps Morgan

November 10, 2015

Deepest sympathy to the entire Hayes family. A life well lived.

Betty Sullivan

November 10, 2015

Dear Marie and Family,

We regret that we will be unable to attend the services for Jack, but our thoughts and prayers are with you. We have so many fond memories with Jack, especially the years in Naples. He was a great guy and was so brave in handling his disabilities. Marie, you were a wonderful wife to Jack and an inspiration to both of us.

Bill and Betty Sullivan

Jan and ken Skutt

November 9, 2015

Maureen, so very sorry to hear of your dads passing. Hold on to your many happy memories of him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

A J

November 9, 2015

Please accept my condolences on your loss. Mr. Hayes seemed to have been a man that loved family and the simple things in life. I hope you will find a measure of comfort from the words found at 2 Thessalonians 3:16.

Christine Kristeller

November 9, 2015

It was a pleasure to know Jack, a lovely man, truly one of the greatest generation.

Michele and Bill Finnell

November 8, 2015

Oh Uncle Buddy you will be missed! I always loved coming to visit and listening to your wonderful stories! I loved how you pursued your goals despite adversity when I was a young girl. You made me want to attend Harvard, but that didn't quite fit in with my goal of being a nurse!

I thank you for finding our house for us in your retirement, oh how right you were! As Aunt Marie said... location, location, location! Our home has served us well and has continued to serve as our Grand Central Station in our family!

Aunt Marie, Maureen and Steven, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Although we knew the time was coming, it's never easy to loose your Spouse/Dad, we will keep you in our prayers.

I'm sorry Bil and I won't be home yet from my conference for us to attend your service for this great man. He always called me his adopted God Child, that always made me feel so loved. I will surely miss him in my life. God Bless all of you.

All our love, Michele and Bill, Paul, Melissa and Jonathan

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