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2014
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nicholas agengo
March 3, 2014
Life most consistent and persistent question is what are you doing for others? MLK. Dear john, you embodied these sentiments ,And even in death your big heart still thrust through with surprises, Thank you! and I forever remain indebted to you. I feel warmth around me ,I close my eyes to visualize your face when you were here, painting scot's house ,planting trees, clearing the yard and planting flowers and grass, things seemed so easy to handle because I knew you were around to bounce ideas from.You were like a dad to me John after I lost my dad and now I have to contend with losing you too?. Your heart of gold that rescued me out of the snares. I have been in denial I must confess, since I heard of the tragedy of losing you ,I did not want to believe it, I still don't want to...I have stayed in doldrums ,hoping its some crazy dream that would be soon over hearing my phone ring and you will be on the other end. Thank you my friend, for all the compassion you have showed me through the years ,you helped me forget my past ,you helped me go to sleep, when sleep only brought nightmares, you were the one who has watched me grow through it all, a pain so deep inside of me that no one will or could ever see, Am filled with grief which feels heavy to carry. Although this road I must cross. And even though the pathway through life feels unbearable without your guidance at times ,I will recall the myriad conversations we had and your kind words of encouragement cheering me on. John! you are always in my heart and for that am not going to wither and fall like an autumn leaf but remember the lessons a great teacher in you taught me.
Yours sincerely, Nicholas Agengo
Sue Nolan(SBLI)
February 19, 2014
Dear John:
I will miss our shared addiction to chocolate. I will no longer have to fight over the last piece. I will miss you baiting me and my coworkers,just to get an argument or debate started. I will miss your advice on any subject(both work related or otherwise). I will miss your sense of humor. I will miss your stories(you should have wrote a book). I will miss your friendship. I will never forget you. Rest in Peace!
Michael McCord
February 15, 2014
A good measure of a person's character is how they respond to children. For many years John coached girls and boys, ages 8-12 ,in the Youth Baseball League on the Boston Common. I worked with him then. To the children on his team--or someone else's--he was a 'larger than life' figure. He was always upbeat and encouraging, and deeply respectful of the huge differences among young children in terms of personality, baseball interest, and certainly skill. Children were attracted to John because of that and because he was,first and foremost, kind. He was a wonderfully patient teacher of the game and he seemed to take equal pleasure working with the child who could barely throw a ball or hold a bat as he did with those who could throw hard and hit a ball deep. While he was a determined competitor, John insisted on good sportsmanship, and I always sensed that he cared about 'fun' --every child's 'fun'--above all else. The fact that he was glorious coach of young children says a lot about who he was.
My condolences to all who now ache deeply with sadness over his death.
Pam Wick
February 12, 2014
I had the privilege and pleasure of sitting right next to John for almost 5 years at SBLI. I loved listening to him tell all of his stories. We all did. He would always have the whole office laughing at some part of the day. He is the funniest person I have ever met. His stories showed his wisdom, love of life and especially the love for Audrey, Jay and Scottie. He truly touched my life and I am heartbroken at his passing. May God bless him and his beautiful family. John was one of a kind and I am blessed to have known him.
Danni Pedigo
February 11, 2014
My husband, Bob, and I met John a few years ago when we started doing business with Underwriting and New Business at SBLI. When we were visiting the Home Office, John made sure to speak with us at length - I think as much to protect and care for "his underwriters" to make sure they were informed as to who we were, as well as getting to know us with his open and caring air. John could open a conversation on any subject, and was so colorful in his discussions about things he had experienced in the past. I will miss him when visiting Woburn, and John: I hope you continue to help others now as you did when you were here. Danni Pedigo Innovative Underwriting Solutions
February 10, 2014
I had the pleasure and privilege of working with John at SBLI. John was a great guy, always willing to help his co-workers and a mentor to many of us. He loved telling stories of the many different paths he'd taken in life and we loved hearing them. Once you met John you liked him and you didn't forget him. He loved to get discussions going in the office on any topic. He had the uncanny ability to make you laugh. The office has been quieted by his absence and won't be the same without him. I'll miss you John. I hope you are in a better place telling your stories. My thoughts and prayers go out to Audrey and the family.
Rose Duffy
Ron Sunde
February 10, 2014
May you rest in peace.
February 10, 2014
So sorry to hear about the loss of John T. We go back to the days at Prudential. He was always at his best in helping the field force making it easy to do business with Pru. He was very intelligent and had a great sense of humor. I will miss him dearly.
Warmest Regards,
Stephen McCourt
Walpole MA
Kimberly Rowe
February 10, 2014
My condolences to the family. John's acerbic wit, wide range of interests and deep knowledge of underwriting made him a pleasure to work with. I always left his desk with a smile on my face. He will be missed. (SBLI - Woburn)
Cathy Rawson
February 10, 2014
John will be missed. He loved to laugh and was a good man. My prayers are with John's family and I will keep them in my prayers.
laurine collins
February 10, 2014
I have had the privilege to work with John for the past 11 years. John was like no other.John was intelligent, funny, loving, caring and giving. It didn't matter who the person was, if John walked by, he would stop and talk to you. He would get to know you, offer you advice and help if need be. John was deeply passionate about human welfare and was a gifted conversationalist. Beyond all of this, John had perseverance like I have never seen. He never gave up! He is the toughest man I will ever know! Laurine Collins (friend/ co-worker)
Jack DiCenzo
February 10, 2014
So sorry to read avout John's passing. We played baseball together in the park league, mid 60's. Son Jay payed legion ball with my son in Duxbury. Juat a great guy, father, and ball player!!
Steven Vaphiades
February 10, 2014
This is a sad loss, and my heart and prayers go out to his family and loved ones. I cannot remember a time when we spoke that he did not have me laughing. He was always there for me when I needed some guidance or counsel. I consider myself lucky to have known him.
susan bjork
February 10, 2014
I will miss your whit and humor great underwriter Susan bjork SBLI
Sandra Duquette
February 10, 2014
I did not know John very long, but I found him to be a wise and knowledgable man who never gave up and always perservered in life. He was a sustainer and strong to the end, never giving up because he was given a spirit that could fight a good battle no matter the cause. He will be missed by his friends, family and surely his co-workers who knew him well. My prayers and thoughts are with his family at this time, may the God of ALL comfort send a comforter to guide and keep them at this time.
S.Duquette (Sbli of Ma-Woburn)
February 9, 2014
So sad to hear of John's passing. We were classmates at the Capen School and Dedham High. Just a great [kid]!Sincere condolences to all his family. Rosalie[Brooks]Priore
Brent Collar
February 9, 2014
John and I played in the Boston Park League at the same time, then worked together at Prudential. We shared many stories of our baseball years. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. He will be warmly remembered. My prayers are with his family.
February 9, 2014
We were saddened to hear about John's passing! He fought a good fight. I will always be grateful for knowing John. He had a wonderful presence and always made you comfortable. I was lucky to have worked with John and am so grateful for his friendship. I will miss him dearly and pray for his eternal peace..God knows he worked hard for it!!! -Mary Murphy McHugh & Leo McHugh
Arlene Stein
February 9, 2014
John always made people feel at home and comfortable.
He had a wonderful sense of humor, curious mind and,
loved playing devil"s advocate in a political debate. He
always had a big smile on his face and, ready to have
a conversation. I have fond memories of happy times
spent together with him and my sister, Audrey. I will miss
him very much. Much love to his family and all that knew him.
Kevin & Megan Gibbons
February 9, 2014
John had a larger than life personality & sense of humor. We have very fond memories of John & the laughs we shared together. May he be at rest now. Much Love to his family.
February 9, 2014
Although we only met a few years ago, we'll never forget John's warm smile, funny jokes, and sunny disposition. It was especially wonderful to share happy times during the celebration of Matt and Kelly's marriage. Our thoughts are with you. Peggy and Bob Whalen
Lorraine Losanno
February 9, 2014
I worked with John for many years at Prudential. I am so sad to learn of his passing. He was way too young by my standards. He was always fun to be around and added the spark to all gatherings. May he rest in peace.
Ken Parks
February 9, 2014
Rest in peace. St. Peter has added a pretty good right hander to his baseball team.
Ken Parks
February 9, 2014
Rest in peace. St. Peter now has a pretty good right handed pitcher on his baseball team.
Elsie Ekstrom
February 9, 2014
John was always one of the shining stars of the Class of 1962 - may he sing with the angels. Elsie (Ward) Ekstrom of Perth Australia
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