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FATHER JOSEPH CHARLES MARTIN, S.S. October 12, 1924 - March 9, 2009 Co-founder of Father Martin's Ashley, an addiction treatment center in Havre de Grace, Md., and authority and lecturer on alcoholism, died at the age of 84 at his home in Havre de Grace. Best known for his lectures on alcoholism as a disease, delivered to alcoholics and their families with his charismatic style and sense of humor, Father Martin is credited with saving the lives of thousands of alcoholics and addicts. His "Chalk Talk on Alcohol" lecture, which began "I'm Joe Martin, and I'm an alcoholic," and more than 40 films are legendary. His films, which have been translated into multiple languages, continue to be used at treatment centers around the world, in hospitals, substance abuse programs, industry and most branches of the U.S. government. He is the author of several publications including Chalk Talks on Alcohol, published by Harper & Row in 1982, which is still in print. He was ordained a priest for the Archdiocese of Baltimore in 1948. The following year he entered the Society of St. Sulpice, a community of priests devoted to the formation and education of seminarians and priests. While teaching English and History at St. Charles College in Catonsville, Md., (1956-68), Father Martin began his recovery from alcoholism. Following treatment, he worked as a lecturer and educator in the Division of Alcohol Control for the state of Maryland, prior to founding Father Martin's Ashley. Father Martin always had a very special concern for priests in trouble. In this, he remained faithful to his Sulpician vocation throughout his life. Father Martin is survived by Mae and Tommy Abraham, with whom he lived for more than 30 years, two sisters Dorothy and Frances, his brother, Edward and numerous nieces, nephews and their children. The viewing will be held on Thursday, March 12, from 1 pm to 9 pm at St. Mary's Seminary in Baltimore. Father Martin's Mass of Celebration of the Resurrection will be held on Friday, March 13 at 10 am at the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Cathedral Street, Baltimore, Md. Interment will be private. Expressions of remembrance may be e-mailed to [email protected] or mailed to Father Martin Remembrance, Father Martin's Ashley, 800 Tydings Lane, Havre de Grace, MD 21078. They will be posted on the Father Martin's Ashley Web site at www.fathermartinsashley.org. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Father Martin's Ashley treatment center, 800 Tydings Lane, Havre de Grace, MD 21078 or to The Associated Sulpicians of the U.S., 5408 Roland Avenue, Baltimore, MD 21210.

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Published by Boston Globe on Mar. 11, 2009.

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T M L

August 5, 2009

this was sad new for so many of us in aa, announced at meetings and emailed around the country, tml - saratoga springs, ny

Tom W.

April 10, 2009

Fr Martin's films helped me stay sober at Guildhaus. Thanks!

Thomas Dybdal

April 5, 2009

Fr. Martin taught me at St. Joseph's, Mt. View, CA. His Tapes helped me achieve Sobriety--32 years sober, Father. Thanks.
Rest well in His arms. Pray for me.
Tom Dybdal

Chris S.

March 27, 2009

Father Martin,

Your tape talking about the first three Steps from back in the 1970's kept me sober in early sobriety. You were my Higher Power back then. I have been sober for over 6 years now. Thank you and God bless you.

Bill & Denise Goggin

March 23, 2009

March 12, 2009
Thank you Father Martin for all your efforts to help us helpless alcoholics save our own lives. Thanks to audio tape and CDs your words will continue to carry the message down the years.

Lucy L.

March 19, 2009

Like thousands of others, I'm indebted to and grateful for Father Martin, who first taught me the importance of gratitude in my recovery and my life. The work he did on behalf of alcoholics over many decades is truly God's work. Thank you, Father Martin.

Mark Staskiewicz

March 19, 2009

Thank you for saving my life Fr Martin. [email protected] Mark

Linda D.-W.

March 18, 2009

Thank you Father Martin for all you've done in our field. I first saw you in person in San Antonio in 1979. You touched so many lives and your presence will be greatly missed.

Michael Habibe

March 16, 2009

God bless and thank you for your selfless example,

Michael H.

Sally Rhodes

March 14, 2009

"The nightmare is over!" I'll never forget when i heard those words from you! Those words set me free! You taught me how to love, forgive, and trust again. I feel so blessed that our paths crossed. I will never forget you!!

Jane O

March 13, 2009

I will always be grateful for the loving kindness given to my husband by Father Martin at Ashley. It was a miracle that has enriched our lives and saved our family. May he rest in the arms of the angels for all eternity!

Bob Duncan

March 13, 2009

Father Martin showed many of us it's ok to share and sometimes laugh at each others escapades. We cried enough. At the same time he "carried the message" and educated us on the disease of Alcoholism with love and true concern as only a fellow Alcoholic can. His work continues by all that have benefited from listening to him and knowing his greatness.

Paul Hayden

March 12, 2009

Fr. Martin's inspiration, teaching and concern, inspired me in the formation of my recovery. For that I and my family are entirely greatful. His dedication, to help the Alcoholic, has trensended around the world. Thank God, this man was part of my life of recovery. His commitment has encourage me to continue on the road of recovery, and to carry the message to fellow Alcoholic and Addicts. Thank you Father Martin for being there when I needed help and all those whom you have helped over the years.

Dennis D

March 12, 2009

Your "Chalk Talks" helped save my life -- 27 years later I still remember sitting in rehab mesmerized by your lectures.

Gayle Streett

March 12, 2009

from death to life. His spirit, joy and loving kindness remains in our hearts.

Wendyn

March 12, 2009

Father Martin.
I showed your Chalk Talk to many suffering people and sent a few to Ashley myself. I can never thank you for the way your educational films helped me personally. May God bless you and welcome you Home...you have certainly earned your place in Heaven!

Pat Cushing

March 11, 2009

Father Martin visited our facility in MA back in the late 70's. His knowledge, compassion and support along with his keen sense of humor was an inspiration to all who had the honor of meeting with him. He will be missed by so many, especially his family. I know God has a special place for him. My deepest sympathies.

Jane Faloney

March 11, 2009

You taught thousands of us that with God in our lives we could change and find peace and serenity. With humility, trust and faith we did just that. You were a gift in many lives.

Julie Young

March 11, 2009

Hard to imagine a world without his smile, he was the first person that made sense to me when I was struggling to find sobriety and a new life...peace to you and a prayer of thanks for being with us for so long.
Julie Y. Hattiesburg, MS

Mark K.

March 11, 2009

Father Martin:
My father enjoyed 12 full years of peaceful sobriety at the end of his life. He mentioned your work frequently. You were an inspiration to him in his recovery. May you rest in peace.

Jim Stanton

March 11, 2009

Night falls silent, the soul is quiet
eyes that know me see through the
smile
I lay lonely another night
What was once warm is cold
what was love lay dormant
the reflection in the mirror is me
this tear-a melting glacier

sleep in heavenly peace

Peggy K.

March 11, 2009

Mather Martin, thank you for sharing your love and joy with so many hurting people. May you rest in the peace and serenity that you showed to so many.

Terri R

March 11, 2009

Father Martin - a tremendous man and Ashley "Our Home" a tremendous place. Father will be missed but always remembered by the many he helped, encouraged and inspired.

Michael DeMarco

March 11, 2009

Father Martin: Thank you for showing me how my Drinking Affecected my loved ones even though they didn't drink themselves. I saw some of your movies while I was in a rehab hospital.It was the start of my recovery. It will be 24 years os solid sobriety on may 4th 2009. Father Martin I know you are with GOD in heaven. Thank you. Mike D.

jack smith

March 11, 2009

The world will miss him...what a wonderful human being.

Ruth Gingras

March 11, 2009

Father Martin, you were a great part of my soberty. I have seen you several times on your trips to Arizona. Thank you for all your help and insperation. You have helped so many people. God bless you and may you rest in peace.

Bill K

March 11, 2009

I hope your life will become a shining example and avenue to hope for many more-in addition to the incredible number it touched while you were here. Thanks.

ROBERT BENJAMIN SR

March 11, 2009

Thank you for your words of wisdom.
I will always remember listening to your talks.

Robert Benjamin, Sr. (Battle Creek, MI)

Mary P.

March 11, 2009

Fr.Martin,

I never had the distinct pleasure of meeting you in person, but I have known you in other ways for the past 20 years. You were an inspiration to millions stuggling, recovering or still on the street. May you rest in peace knowing the good work you accomplished in this life time will never ever be forgotten.

ROBERT H MORASSE

March 11, 2009

THE SADNES OF THE PASSING OF
Fr. Martin IS FELT BY MANY.
MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING
THAT WE SHARE IN YOUR SADNESS
BE OF COMFORT TO YOU.

ALL YOUR FRIENDS AT TIRRELL HOUSE .

Franceen Morasse

March 11, 2009

Having met Father Joe Martin several times in our lifetime, we feel blessed to have known and shared his company when he came to visit a New Hampshire treatment facility. Bob had the pleasure of cooking many meals for him. He will be missed. His work, however, will live on.

Bob and Franceen Morasse, Suncook, NH

Craig Streett

March 11, 2009

With love and deep appreciation.

DAN BOLOGNA

March 11, 2009

Thank you Father Martin.I saw you in person at High Watch Farms in Kent,Ct.8/28/88.You autograph my 24 hr book.You help so many

I'm an Addict named Bobby

March 11, 2009

A truly awe inspiring man. Father Martin has touched the lives of countless addicts and their families (including me and mine), from around the world. He will be greatly missed, but his legacy lives on in the films, and the treatment center that he co-founded. God has blessed the world with Father Martin. May he rest in peace.

Jeanne H.

March 10, 2009

What a power of example...Humor, Grace, Humility. Thank you, God for sharing this man w/ all of us who needed his inspiration.

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