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Dot
February 21, 2025
Hi Matthew, We, your family talk about you all the time. So many fun memories and laughs. A dear son, brother and good friend to all. This World needs people like you! We miss you everyday.
David Chahrouri
February 21, 2023
I can´t believe it´s over 20 years since we lost you Marty. Sometimes it seems like just yesterday. Prayers to the Pickett family far and wide
David Chahrouri
February 21, 2019
Matty I miss you as much today as I did 16 years ago today. Can't believe its been that long. I will always remember the fun times we had back on my visit in 1991
Love you Matty!
Dorothy Labbe
February 10, 2019
We love you Matthew and we miss you every day. Happy Birthday Matty...With love always, Dot
Adam Roth
February 19, 2018
Never posted here in years before - but I knew Matt since he was five. Five years old. Always thought that I'd know him my entire life - he was an important touchstone and an important grapevine for me - especially being 3000 miles away - and as one of my two best friends, there is rarely a week that goes by that I don't say a prayer, look skyward to good ol' Matty P. He was someone who could be there in a time of need - I've called on that well over 50 times. Wish I could return the same for him today.
We love you and miss you my friend.
Andrew Jones
April 11, 2017
I can't believe that Matty is gone. I didn't know. It was Matty. Dave. Ben. Tom. And me. That was my life when I grew up. Basketball...yea. Now, Matty is taking care of us all. So loved him. So miss his laugh.
cathi marro
February 22, 2014
I swear I added a message for Matt's Bday but it didn't post...so...I'll try again today. Just want to say I am thinking about Matt a lot this month and thinking of all of YOU, his friends and family, who read these posts. It's important for all of us to know that Matt will never be forgotten!
February 11, 2014
I think of you often. Miss you buddy.-Scott
February 10, 2014
Thinking of you today as it would of been your 44th Birthday. I miss you and think of you often.
David Chahrouri
February 13, 2013
Matty can't believe it has been almost 10 years since we lost you.Love you and miss you!!!
Your Cousin David
February 12, 2013
Thankful to have you in our lives matty. We miss you and think of you often.-Scott
Timothy Pickett
February 11, 2013
Hey Matty,
Just wanted to say a quick hello. I cant belive we are coming up on 10 years since you left us, but i know you are with me everyday. I see signs of you all the time. Thank you for showing me among many others that you are still here with us. I have read many accounts on this site of peoples accounts of ur presence, but for anybody reading this, besides you Matty, I have my own reasons to believe your still with me. I have only shared this Chris, but I think that any 1 of your many beloved family members and friends that they may find some sort of solice in this experience. I swear to any non believers, God as my witness, word for word this is what happened. As unbelievable as it may seem.
Last year around the time of the anniversary of the Station fire I was sitting in the back seat of my sisters car on my way to my moms house listening to my Ipod. As we made our way to the Newton exit I began thinking about Matty and quietly began crying in the back seat not trying to draw any attention to myself. As we made our way past the exit that led to the old family house the song yesterday by the beatles came on my Ipod. Right after Matty died I listened to that song constantly because the lyrics seemed to almost reflect how i felt at the time, only i would change the lyrics in my head from "why she had to go i dont kno, she wouldnt say" to "why he had to go..." so ever since then that song has always reminded me of him. But as the song was drawing to an end, and i swear on everything i love in this world once again, i said to myself " Matty show me that your still here, let me know you are still with me." like something out of a movie, the song yesterday came on again. It may not seem so amazing but to anybody who has an Ipod they understand that if you have your Ipod on shuffle, then there is virtually no chance that the same song will ever come on twice in a row. I was just so in shock. I sat there with a big grin on my face just crying and smiling it was so unreal.
Uncle Matt thank you for giving me that moment. I will forever know that you are with me, and all of us everyday. Well all soon be with you again.
Love always,
Timothy John Pickett
Joe Cristina
February 10, 2012
Happy Birthday Matt! Miss you! \m/
Scott Gordon-macey
February 10, 2012
May matts kindness and humor live through us.
Scott Gordon-macey
February 12, 2011
Missing Matt and his humor, friendship, and support. We think of you often: Scott, Dana, Sarah, & matthew
February 11, 2011
Happy Birthday Matt, you are not forgotten my friend. Godbless you in Heaven. We shall see you again!
Brian
Ben Moebes
February 11, 2011
We have all been blessed by Matt.
It is amazing how often I still think of him! Two nights ago, I was flying from Denver to Atlanta (home) and was listening to some music. It was on shuffle and a song by The Cars came on (a memory of Matt and I from the summer of 1984 came flooding over me.) I sat smiling. Then, an older song by U2 came on and I had another strong memory from Matt from around 1986. This time, I got goose bumps. Still smiling... Next song - no lie - Twisted Sister! I laughed out loud, closed my eyes, and was transported back to 1987 and Matty's attic bedroom. And, just as in my memory, I did the Matty P. air drums and head banging. I know that the guy next to me thought I was crazy (I had been upgraded to first class so I had a bit more room for the air drums) but I didn't care. After all, Matt was with me. Such good memories...
Rock on Matty!
I miss you brother!
February 10, 2011
Thinking you today Matt on your Birthday. I will be making my annual visit to your grave this weekend. Miss you my friend.
Peace.
February 10, 2010
Matty... I want to wish you a Happy 40th Birthday today... I know you are making yourself known today by the lovely snow storm today. We all miss you and you are thought of everyday. Peace my friend.
Dorothy Labbe
February 19, 2009
We love you Matthew and miss you every day. Your family, along with all your friends, have so many wonderful memories of you. We all miss you so very much. Your spirit lives within all of us. My thoughts and prayers go out to every family who lost a loved one in the Station Fire...Also, let us never, ever forget all the people that were injured and have suffered so, so much. I pray for them all the time. A special Thankyou to Matthew's friends that have kept in touch with my family over the past six years....Matthew had so many great friends..Thankyou all. ( Matty's sister, Dot)
John Pickett & Matthew James Cristina - Feb. 8th 2009
Joe Cristina
February 10, 2009
Matty, I know you are looking down at me as I type this. I wanted to wish your a Happy Birthday today. You are greatly missed! Your father got to meet my son, Matthew James, this past Sunday. Just being and talking with your father I see so much of you in him. Attached is a photo of John & Matthew. God Bless, Joe
Brian Counihan
July 31, 2008
Its been awhile, i thought i would drop in and say hi to you up in heaven matt. Im thinking of you and praying for you. Godbless you and your family. You are not forgotten your pal , Brian
Matthew James Cristina
Joe Cristina
July 30, 2008
Hi,
I'd like to announce that my wife,Tara and I had a baby boy yesterday (July 29th) at 6:16pm. He was 8lbs and 20". His name is Matthew James Cristina.....
Deanna
March 26, 2008
I think about Matt often! He always made me laugh! He was one of the kindest people I knew!
I can't believe it has been 5 years!
You left a smile in our hearts Matt!!!
D
David Chahrouri
March 23, 2008
Mathew was my cousin and I remember the fun times we had when I spent a few weeks with "Matty" in the summer of 1990.I can't believe it is already 5 years since my cousin "Matty" left us.I will always love you and miss Matty!!!
David Chahrouri
Dorothy Labbe
February 20, 2008
This is always the hardest day of the year for me.I will never understand and I will never, ever forget ALL THE PEOPLE that died in this fire.....Matthew, we love you and miss you. Love, Dot
Dorothy Labbe
February 10, 2008
Dear Matthew, You are always in my heart. Not a day goes by that I don't think wonderful thoughts of you..We all miss you so much. Just wanted to say Happy Birthday Matty. Love always, Dottie (2-10-1970)
Dorothy Labbe
September 15, 2007
My Dear Matthew,You are always with me and I think of you all the time...Not a day goes by that I'm not talking to you about something that's happening..Harry thinks that I just talk to myself...L.O.L..Thankyou Matthew for always being there to urge me on, inspire me and nudge me with your beautiful angel wings. So many people love you and miss you. I miss you Matty. Love Always, Dot
John Langis
April 26, 2007
Hey matty,
It's been awhile but I just wanted to drop you a quick hello. You are the best friend anyone could have. I know you are still taking care of all of us, listening to us and helping us. I know you are with me helping me through my diffficult times and you are always my inspiration and I always ask, "What would Matty do" and that helps me so through so much.
Take care my friend and we will talk again soon.
Bill Wartel
February 2, 2006
I was looking through my Newton South High School Class of 1988 yearbook just the other day when I came across Matt's little note to me. All the S's were written like the S's in the band KISS. How cool is that? He was a great buddy.
Eduardo Bravo Arvizu
December 4, 2005
I put a not here sometime ago but I wanted to write again as some months ago I knew (and just a few days ago I heard it) something nice about Matt: Bryan Adams, an artist who Matt also liked a lot, dedicated the song "Heaven" to him during a concert the canadian gave in Brockton, Massachussetts the 6 of July this year, as requested in Boston by a Matt's friend named Joe.
John Brady
September 21, 2005
I just learned about Matthew's passing. I was a pal of Matthew's from St. John's Elementary School. We had many good times trading baseball cards, shooting hoops (both outside and in the Pickett's 'basement court') and finding fun stuff to do in either Newton Lower/Upper Falls. We dropped out of contact in high school, but in the early 1990s I ran into Matthew and we spent some time listening to his new passion: live concert tapes.
He touched many people in his life ... I had a son, on April 4, 2005 (before I knew of Matthew's passing) and named him Matthew. Thinking back, there have been three significant Matthews in my life, and I will be sure to tell my little Matty about my first Matthew pal, Matthew Pickett. Matthew had a great laugh and a mean lefty shot/throw. I am sorry for your loss.
Scott Gordon-Macey
May 8, 2005
Matt was like a brother to me, and I have been blessed by being a part of his life. Not a day goes by that I am not reminded of him and his generous spirit, enthusiasm for life, easy going nature, and his ability to connect with people.
Knowing this, we have named our son, Matthew Jeffrey. He was born April 19th, at 8:35 a.m. weighing 7lbs, 19.5 inches long, with black hair and blue-brown eyes.
Although Matt could not be here for this joyous day, we know that his spirit will help mold and influence our son, and continue to effect our lives for the better.
-Scott, Dana, Sarah, and Matt Gordon-Macey
Bobby Gervais
April 28, 2005
Hey buddy, I was just thinking of ya. I know you are out there. I wanted to say we still miss you. Bobby G.
Allison Phelps Madigan
February 17, 2005
I just wanted to let the whole Pickett family know that my prayers are still with you all. The strength and support you give to each other is an inspiration to all.
Joseph Pickett
February 10, 2005
Dear Matty,
WooooooHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! I will never forget your birthday and I just felt like sending you a email
birthday greeting; especially since you are the best! Little Matty Pick----WOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOO! Happy Birthday Matt!!!!
See you later. Love, Joe
Joe Cristina
February 10, 2005
Happy Birthday Matt!
I miss you! I think of you often and there are little things that I see and/or hear that remind me of you often. The world is definitely a different place without you.
You brought so much joy,laughter and happiness. You said the right things to cheer people up when they are down. You would bend over backwards to help a friend out and with that I thank you!
I've met Matt back in the summer of 1995 through Roger. Just when I met Matt, I knew we had a lot in common besides the same taste in music. We talked about sports and current things going on with our lives. We helped each other out on certain tasks. We used to talk at least every other day and email daily.
I have met a lot of great friends through Matt (as Matt would call it "networking") and I am not going to try to name them all just in case I miss someone.
Even though our time together was cut short I have great memories, I will always remember. Rock On!
Your Friend Forever!
Brian Counihan
November 1, 2004
What a wonderful person matt was, i met matt years 14 ago with my friend roger scales at a Kiss convention. My friend roger got to know him quite well. We use to go to concerts to see live bands with matt. It a shame, i will miss him, and pray for him. Godbless you matt! your friend Brian Counihan. You will be missed forever!
Joshua Dittmer
September 14, 2004
Matty and I played basketball together in junior high. He was a sweet kid. I am saddened to learn of his death. My condolences to his friends and family. Peace.
Joseph Pickett
April 1, 2004
Togetherness
Death is nothing at all -I have only slipped way into the next room. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile think of me, pray for me. Let my name be the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner. All is well. Nothing is past; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before- only better, infinitely happier and forever- we will all be one together with Christ.
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Wendy Weinberg
March 26, 2004
I think about Matty everyday. They say that the first year is the most difficult, they were wrong whoever said that. I have to find myself and figure out who I am all over again without Matty in my life. They say time heals, they weren't wrong about that, however it is still painful and I can't seem to get a grasp on life and how it should be because the way it was supposed to be is no longer. I am empty inside and have not filled that hole inside of me. He is in my heart everyday and I try to practice all that he has taught me, but life throws so many curves that I am having a hard time keeping up. I wish that this never happened and if I could turn back time, I would. I miss him so much and I still can't understand how this could have happened. I cannot grasp that I am alone, even when I am in a room full of people. When I am with friends, I am still alone in my heart and when I am alone I dwell on that lonliness that it pains me deeply. I hope that I can move on and show myself that this is the way that things are and there is not one thing I can do about it. It's hard to think that my life has gone on an alternate route and it isn't with the man that I so truly love.
Randy Giroux
February 29, 2004
I'm sure Matty is watching over all of you whom he loved the most!! God bless all of his friends and family. And Roger,I'm sure he's saving the seat for ya bro!!!
Roger Scales
February 28, 2004
I cannot believe it's been one year since I last spoke to Matt. It seems like just yesterday I was trading tapes with Don in "The Attic Room" in Newton, going to see RATT at Toads along with Sparky, Bill and Joe. Working in Burlington with Skoz, Phil, Dee, Rose, Aaron, Sherm...the Sting for ACE with Scott and Mark B..
You left us far far far too soon Pick...
Save me a seat up there next to Steve Clark and Eric Carr...
Roger
Michael Walsh
February 27, 2004
Remembering Matty, and lifting up the Picketts, Wendy and all of those who love him. Wishing you peace. Michael.
Don Goodwin
February 21, 2004
We had a moment of silence at work tonight.... of course, my thoughts were of my friend Matty.
R.I.P, my friend....
Dawn McDonald
February 20, 2004
I would like to give my condolences to Matthew's family and friends. From the stories that I read on the web site, Matthew wasa special person, who seemed to touch everyone who spoke to him. Matthew and his family and friends will always be in my prayers.
Pete Kelly
February 20, 2004
Just wanted to let Matty's family know he is still very much in our thoughts.
Aaron Perna
February 20, 2004
Wendy,
I was just remembering Matty and wanted to say hello. I hope all is well.
Amy Berg
February 20, 2004
2/20/04:
Wendy/Matty's family....just wanted to pass along special thoughts to you all today...thinking of you all. Stay strong.
Amy Berg
Wendy Weinberg
February 18, 2004
My sweet love. I miss you more today then you will ever know. I feel your spirit carried on within me and that is what keeps me moving on. The day is near of the year anniversary and I will be thinking of you as I have been every day. I miss you and love you and you will always have a place close to my heart for the rest of my life. I hope that you can rest in peace now knowing that all of those that you loved are okay. I want you to know that you are still forever my soulmate. I love you sweetheart.
Dee DiSciullo
February 11, 2004
I just wanted to say that I think about Matty often. Not just becuase it is coming upon 1 year that he has been gone, but because there are so many little things that remind me of him. 80's music, Kiss, Ping Pong .....We miss you!
DOTTIE PICKETT
February 10, 2004
I LOVE YOU MATTHEW
Angela Smith
November 28, 2003
Dear Wendy
I was just reading the web page about your fiancee Matt
I just wanted to write a e-mail and tell you I am truely sorry for your loss
I am not from Rhode Island nor did I know anyone from the fire
But my heart and my prayers go out to you and everyone that has had to suffer as you have
If you need anything please e-mail me
Take care
Angela Smith
Wendy Weinberg
October 12, 2003
7 and a half months have gone by and I still miss Matty just like I did yesterday. He has a place in my heart always and will never be forgotten.
Today I talk about all of the wonderful times we had together and even though we will not spend the rest of our lives together I will hold him close to my soul.
Matt and I would have gotten married on October 19th of this year and even though this is not going to happen, I am still going to celebrate that day as our anniversary. I will have a wedding in my heart, and even though it will be painful, I will honor Matt by making that day a day for us, a joyous day that would have been.
I love you Matty and I will forever be your soulmate until the end of time. You have given me the breath of life and I thank you for saving me and letting me live on to carry your traditions on. You are a wonderful man still and I will see you again someday in the heavens in the sky.
I love you and miss you terribly, your one and only, The Wendster
Eduardo Bravo Arvizu
July 10, 2003
Best wishes to Matt, his family and his friends.
July 10th, it is never too late to say something about a nice person.
I did not know Matty too well but enough to say that he was a wonderful person. We had an artist in common (Bryan Adams) and also that when we were in contact, we used to write each other in Spanish as he learned the language. Don't know what else to say, just that I am sorry for what happened and hope he rests in peace.
Deanna DiSciullo
May 22, 2003
Matty was an amazing man! I too, met Matty when he came to work at an internet start-up company. Matty came in as one of the first customer service reps, and I was to train him. I remember coming home and exclaiming to my roommates, "That Matty Pickett, is drivin me nuts, all his questions!" But I always said it with a laugh, because he was such a wonderful person to be around! He was funny, sweet, caring and a true angel! He would pop by my office with that ever present smile and he always left me smiling! He and I would talk for HOURS about music, and bands. He had the best stories. He would bring me CD's to listen to.
He was so wonderful, and thoughtful, I was in a play in Newton and I turn around after the show and there is Matty!!! He was so supportive! It made my day that he thought enough to come and support me.
The world has lost an amazing person, but out memories of Matty and that smile will last forever in our hearts!
Heaven is a happier place with Matty Pickett!
Rose M. Murphy
May 19, 2003
I met Matty in the summer of 1999, when we both signed on to work at an Internet start-up company. I was the receptionist at the front desk, and Matty never failed to say hello and flash me that patented Matt Pickett smile. Many people just cruised right by the desk, consumed with more important matters (and more important people) of their day, but Matty always offered a kind word and, in turn, made me feel that I was an important part of his day. And he did all this with a hello and a smile.
Of course, to those of us who knew him, that was just Matty being Matty. He could turn ordinary encounters into extraordinary ones, just by being his true, genuine self. Isn’t that amazing? When I think about all the crazy things that happen in life, either by chance or happenstance, by design or inaction, what comes to mind most to me is how most people never take time, whether it be a few seconds or a few minutes, to take into consideration someone else besides themselves. Should this be such a rare occurrence? Of course it shouldn’t. But it is indeed very rare. And the beauty of it all lies in the sheer simplicity of the act, stemming from the abundance of kindness that dwells in a person’s soul.
When Matt took another job in 2000, he sent an email to me thanking me for being such a good person and a good friend. I am so grateful that I kept that email; it is a daily reminder to me of how incredibly special Matt was, and how lucky I was to have known him, if only for such a brief time.
To all of us who were fortunate enough to have known Matt, may we never forget that our lives were touched by such a selfless, loving person; a person who knew how much it meant to let others know, in any seemingly ordinary moment, how special they were.
Thank you, Matty, for helping me to be a more thoughtful and caring person, for enriching my life in such a simply sweet way, and most importantly, for being yourself.
Joseph Pickett
April 23, 2003
Hi Sweet Matthew,
You are loved by so many and my words could never express the magnitude of our affections and wonderful memories of you. You will always be with us and we look foward to being with you in Heaven!
It has been difficult to accept that you have moved beyond and we
weep often. Ours tears somehow bring comfort and we celebrate the countless, beautiful memories of the brief time shared together. We
thank God for your life and the abundant love that you shared with us. The world is a better place because of your life and you will always be a vital part of all of us.
We miss you and thank you for everything that you ever did. Your life was beautiful and our tears are like streams connecting our souls. I am so proud and fortunate to have you Matti as my brother. We all loved you from the moment that you were born into our family and forever into eternal life.
We see and feel your spirit, often in amazing ways, and in God's time, will be reunited with you in eternal life. Our faith compels us to continue the journey in this life and we trust that "whoever believes in me, though he will die, will live."
Last night several members of the Pickett family attended the Night of Healing at the Providence Performings Arts Center and witnessed 24 different acts for more than 7 hours and we were all
pumped and loving the event. Matt would have loved it and we loved it for you. Some of the bands were legends and we heard some of the great artists of Rock. It will be televised for you and we'll have the tape. See you at the next concert and we'll talk to you later.
All of our love forever, Joe
Lisa Ann Schraffa
April 13, 2003
Matt-
Always a fixture in the life of my baby brother Bri, I will cherish the fond memories of events at the Schraffa outpost. You were a great friend to me at a difficult time in my life in 1997 as those were the barren emotional times and you lent an ear. I will never forget your acts of lovingkindness toward me.
To Matthew's family, Wendy and the extended array of friends we all share the loss and pain of this tragedy.
From Runes of Comfort for the Bereaved-
" I am the Life and the Light and the Way. The Earth is my garden. Each of the souls I plant as seeds Germinates and flowers in its season And in each I am fulfilled. There is no cause for grief When a blossom fades But only rejoicing for the beauty it held And praise that my will is done And my plan served. I am one with all creatures And none is ever lost But only restored to me Having never left me at all. For what is Eternal Cannot be seperated from its Source. I am with you all, And each of you is a channel for my Light. Feel my Love Enfold you now and evermore".
Peace to Matt on his eternal soul journey, much love
Lisa Ann
Randy Giroux
April 3, 2003
I met Matty through his best friend Roger at a few King's x shows and others . Speaking with Matty at these shows , I noticed what seemed to be a real down to earth , polite, and very kind music loving person . The week of Matt's passing he was in the making of sending me some shows he had from King's x and never mentioned any money or anything to trade him for these items . This is one of many wonderful things I'm sure Matty was used to doing for people . It was a pleasure to have met him and I'm sure there was a lot more of that type of coolness in Matty that I had yet to see in him . God bless you and your family Matty , Roger and family , Wendy his soulmate .
Mark Lynch
April 1, 2003
Matty was the kind of friend that always had your back. You never had to ask him for anything because he would willingly go out of his way for you, no matter what he was doing. He taught me so much about what being a true friend is. He was a fellow college student of mine, a fellow co-worker at times, and one of best friends and confidants the whole time. I keep waiting for the email or the phone to ring. Sometimes I will sit in silence for an hour or more straight, just thinking of how unreal this all is.
I know Matty has peace now, I hope he can help bring that peace to everyone that knew and loved him.
Zander Carlson
March 31, 2003
I met Matty, back in 98 at a Dokken show. I had gone to the show with my friend Roger Scales. I had caught up with Roger and Matty at another Dokken show in 2000. Matty and I also chatted through emails a few times. He seemed like a very nice person, and I'm sorry to his family and friends for the loss. NO amount of words can ease the pain or sadness from this loss for his family and friends, and we all know this feeling of loss and sadness. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Zander
Roger Scales
March 31, 2003
I cannot put into a short brief statement what Matty meant to me. Best friend, co-worker, music trader, sports talk show junkie, the list goes on. So many funny stories, trip to NY City in 99, so many raod trips to see MSG, Dee, Dokken, and Great White, too many to mention.
He always made me laugh...always. He would say Roggie, I'm my own best customer...I'm living life on life's terms...let's keep this hush-hush..
Man It's been 5 weeks and it feels longer. I miss you dude so much...the funny emails...the quirky vague voicemails you would leave beacuse you where so damn paranoid someone would find you left a message for me not related to business.
I will never forget you and I'm a better person to have known you.
You now have a front row seat every night...
Peace dude
Roggie
Mark Balogh
March 31, 2003
I’ve known Matt for about 10 years. We first met at a Kiss Convention in Rhode Island. We initially started a conversation because of our love for bands like KISS, Scorpions and Kings X. It turned out Matt was a tape trader like myself and we developed a great relationship from that. Over the years Matt would travel to New Jersey for concerts and I would always meet up with him for the shows. My tape-trading hobby has quieted down in the last few years so I haven’t kept in touch with Matt as frequently as I once did. When I heard the news I was immensely saddened. My prayers go out to Matt’s family, friends and especially his fiancée, Wendy. Matt was a great person and passionate music fan and he will be sorely missed. I think I’ll go listen to the album Faith, Hope, Love by Kings X and remember Matt.
Wendy Weinberg
March 29, 2003
Matty was my very best friend and soulmate. I have lost the best years of my life with him and the world has lost a most wonderful person as well. When I first met Matt 7 years ago I fell in love with him instantly. I would say to all of his friends "I am going to marry that man someday". Who knew that 6 years later he would propose to me on Echo bridge in Newton. He said that he had it all planned out that he was to do it on my 30th birthday. I miss him every day, I come home and it is quiet and I sit and wonder why this has happened to such a wonderful person. I have so many hilarious memories of Matty and shared so much laughter with our friends who have not left my side. I admired Matty for his strength and his love for people, he had a glow about him and when we bought our house together it was the most proudest moment he had experienced. He and I were to be married this October, and it would have been the most wonderful wedding I could have possibly imagined. He was my knight in shining armor and I love him dearly.
-Matty if you can hear me, I love you and I am so sorry that this happened to you, but I know that we will meet again one day.
Love forever and Always,
your one true love, Wendy
Cathi De Meo
March 26, 2003
A month later I’m still having trouble putting into words the deep sadness and emptiness that I feel about losing one of my best friends. I wish I could say something eloquent and poignant to help ease my pain and the pain of Matty’s loved ones – especially Wendy and his parents and brothers and sister. I can only share your sorrow and remember with you the joys that Matt brought to all of us. He was truly a good person. He made others be good people. He made me a stronger person. I thank God for giving me at least this short time with Matt. I’d like to also thank all of Matts friends and family that are helping each other get through this tragedy together. Returning to Newton and reminiscing with you all has helped me heal a little bit and helps keep Matt alive in our minds and hearts. Please stay in contact so we can laugh and cry more. Matty, we will never forget you – we love you forever – thanks for your gifts!
Brendan Sheehan
March 26, 2003
I may not have known Matt for a very long time and I may not have been his best friend, but from the moment I first met him, I knew I had a very close bond with him. Matt is the age of my older brother, who moved away from the New England area a few years back, which is about the same time I met Matt. In a lot of ways, Matt became my surrogate brother. I would talk to him for hours about music and despite how obscure a trivial fact I’d bring up, I’d never have to explain it to Matt. I remember making fun of opening acts with Matt and discussing why some bands were not as famous as they should be. It’s been tough to try to live my life the way I did before all this. I didn’t listen to any music at all for at least a week. I expect to bump into him at shows. I expect my phone to ring and have him want me to go to a show to “roll backup.” Matt was one of the nicest guys I’ve ever known, always patient, always understanding, never asking for anything. I’m a much better person for having known Matt and I’m eternally grateful for having the opportunity to be able to catch a few dates on the far too short “Matty Pickett World Tour.”
Ben Moebes
March 26, 2003
The last month has been one of great sorrow for all of us. Most days, I still can't believe what has happened. I think about Matty often - and while I miss him terribly, our memories always make me smile.
From my earliest memories of Matty, when we were 12 years old, to my wedding day, when Matty was one of my groomsmen, to the last time I saw him several months ago, Matty would always make me smile and feel good about myself. Isn't that wonderful? He would always make you feel good about yourself. If you were feeling down, he would bring you up.
Although he probably didn't realize this, Matt has left an incredible legacy. He changed all of us, and his passing has served to remind us of the type of person that we can all only strive to be.
At Matt's funeral, there were plenty of tears, but I believe that there were more laughs and smiles as people thought back to their experiences with this incredible person. I will miss him terribly for the rest of my life, but I look forward to seeing him again (wearing a KISS t-shirt no doubt) in heaven.
Ben
Christopher Pickett
March 25, 2003
My Uncle Matt was the greatest guy around. He always new how to cheer someone up by making a comment or having a halarious expression on his face. The last time I saw Matt was Christmas. I never really appreciated the gifts Matt had whether it was in backetball or just being Matt. Now I know to appreciate people for the god given talents they have. I love ya Matt, you were awesome.
Rock On,
Love,
Chris Pickett
Liz Annese
March 24, 2003
To Dottie and the Pickett Family & Wendy
Not a day goes by that I do not think of you and what you are going through.I wish I was fortunate to have known Matthew better. I can only hope that someday you will find comfort in the love you shared with Matthew and know his soul is at peace and he is an angel looking over all of you now.
Dorothy Pickett
March 18, 2003
To my beautiful brother Matthew, I love you so much and miss you every day. You brought so much love to our family. Thank you Matthew for loving me and always being such a wonderful brother. I feel so lucky to have had four great brother's that have always loved me and looked out for me. Now I know that you'll be looking down from heaven and pushing me along my life's journey with your beautiful wings.Thankyou God for giving Matthew to my family. Love always,Dottie
Daryl Michalik
March 17, 2003
My most sincere condolences to Matt's family and fiance.
I knew Matt best in high school, when he and I were part of a group of teenage Wabanites that hung out quite a lot together, and regrettably I have not talked to him in many years. However, Matt was such a good soul, interesting character and great athlete that I still tell stories about him quite frequently - he has always remained in my heart.
As an athlete, Matt was very coordinated and had the quickest reflexes ever - a great basketabll player and frustrating ping pong opponent! Moreover he was never arrogant about his skills, he only encouraged others.
My fondest memories of Matt, though, were of him as air drummer extraordinaire, expressing appreciation for hard rock music - Matt introduced me to Metallica and a few other great rock bands.
But perhaps most importantly, Matt was a kind person with hardly if ever an unkind word for anyone. He supported his friends. To me, kindness is an incredibly important quality for a person to have. I am writing this guest book entry primarily as a tribute to Matt's friendly, kind, humble, sincere character.
It's always unfortunate to wait until times like these to express such feelings, but I wanted Matt's family and other friends to know that Matt will be fondly remembered by many people - including me.
David Waters
March 14, 2003
I wanted to truly express my most sincere and heart-felt
prayers and condolences to the Pickett family, Wendy,
Matt's fiance', and to all of Matt's close friends.
Matthew J Pickett was and will always be one of
the greatest people I have ever known. For a few
years in high school, Matt was undoubtedly my very
best friend. We were virtually inseperable.
Whether it was playing sports or staying over at
each other's houses, we always enjoyed each other's
company. I will always hold close to my heart these
special memories of us growing up together as friends.
Of coarse I wish that I had remained close to
Matt after high school, but so often much to my
regret, we lose touch with each other.
Matt had very distinguished characteristics about
him that made him such an outstanding person.
He was someone you could always trust and depend
on, someone who could make you laugh anytime
with his outrageous humor, and most importantly, he
was someone who really cared about you. He was by
far the best athlete among us Wabanites and he
was also the most modest. These are just some of
the great aspects of Matt's unique personality that
can never be replaced. Matt was a legend in his own
time.
Matt's spirit will indeed live on through all of us
who were so privaledged to have known him. Matt,
you will be greatly missed and never forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and all those
who you have touched.
Your friend,
Dave Waters
Eileen Chahrouri
March 14, 2003
My love and prayers are ever with you dear Matthew until we meeet one day in heaven.
From aunt Eileen
michael hantman
March 11, 2003
It is with a heavy heart that I attempt to convey my thoughts about the loss of Matty. Growing up with the Pickett family has influenced me in more ways than I could possibly express-all of them good. I have been extremely fortunate to feel that I was and will always be a part of "the family" and I cherish that. Those of us lucky enough to call ourselves “Bano Boys” will always remember a time when life was infinitely simpler and safer. We will remember all the time we spent with the Picketts and be thankful.
The world needs more families like the Pickett family. God bless you.
Love,
Michael Hantman
brian and susan schraffa
March 4, 2003
Matty P - Since the day I met you, thru Macey and AJ up at UMass, I knew you were something special. Hard to believe that was 15 years ago. I hate that we lost touch over the past couple of years and it was definitely I who lost out on that end. You were a special "charter member" of the Schraffa family and we are all deeply saddened by your untimely passing. We had many great adventures together and I have millions of memories that I will pass on to others so that those who were not blessed by your presence in life can feel some of your tremendous spirit now that you're gone. You were always a loyal and dependable friend and you gave me so much laughter, advice and support over the years. I hope I was able to give you as much in return. I was thrilled that you were able to share in the joy of my marriage and new life with Susan. Although she only knew you briefly, she loved you as we all did. Thanks for everything you brought to my life - friendship, laughter and lots of music. You are and will always be one in a million Matty. Susan and I, as well as all of our extended family members pray for you and your loved ones......Gone to a better place, but definitely NOT forgotten - keep on rockin' Matty P.
With Love and Sadness - Brian and Susan
Kevin Keenan
March 2, 2003
I would like to express my deepest sympathies to the Pickett and Weinberg families. Matty was one of the nicest people one could ever wish to meet.
Tracey Holt
March 1, 2003
To Matt's friends and family - I didn't know Matt personally but I heard about him through friends. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I know that Matt will be terribly missed.
Okie
Kathy Ward
March 1, 2003
My deepest sympathy to the entire family, you are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Jon Cristina
February 28, 2003
My deepest sympathy in this time of loss. You are all in our thoughts. Our prayers go out to Matt, his family & fiancé Wendy. He brought great joy and was a true friend to my brother and he will be greatly missed.
Rock On Matt !!!!!
Maria Quintal Di Donna
February 28, 2003
My deepest sympathy go out to Wendy and Matts family. What a great loss it was when I first heard the news. Matty was such a joy to have known as a friend and co-worker. As I look back I can only think of happy times that Matty and I shared. His smile, sense of humor and his work lingo will always bring a smile to my face.
May you rest in peace.
Macarena Medina
February 28, 2003
I want to express my sincere condolences to the victim's families. RIP
Alisa Cristina-Conway
February 28, 2003
My deepest sympathy!!!
Marsha Marchant
February 28, 2003
Matty: wherever you are, may you be happy and at peace. May you find happiness in knowing how many people love you, and may you feel fulfilled at the impression your existence has left on so many of us.
Love to you, Wendy and Family
Marsha Marchant (Westwood, formerly of Newton)
GAIL MACEY
February 28, 2003
WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO MATT'S FAMIY. I LOVED MATT AS IF HE WERE MY SON. HE WAS A GOOD FRIEND TO SCOTT AND A WONDERFUL PERSON. I'LL MISS HIM
Deirdre Monahan
February 28, 2003
Dear Joe, Dottie, and Family.
I'm writing to express my sincerest condolences. The loss of your Brother , has got to be excrutiating. Knowing Dottie and Joe as I do, I can only imagine what a wonderful person Matthew must have been. Words can't convey the empathy I feel. Each of you are in my thoughts. All my very best, much love Deirdre Monahan
Betsy and Jay Bailey
February 28, 2003
Although we had never had the pleasure of meeting Matthew, we know he must have been a wonderful man to have chosen such a beautiful, caring woman like Wendy for his beloved.
And although we will never really understand why he was taken from those who love him, realize that God loves him more, and will hold him in His arms forever, protecting and cherishing him.
Chris MacIver
February 28, 2003
Even though I haven't seen Matt since high school I'm deeply effected by Matt's passing. I remember him as being one of the most genuine people I've ever had the honor of knowing. You are in my prayers Matt, God bless you.
Bill Wartel
February 28, 2003
Matt and I graduated from Newton South High School together. We were friends at the time that just lost touch as many do after high school. I remeber Matt as a good natured kid who was very friendly and didnt have anything bad to say about anyone. There are not enough people in this world like that and it's ashame how things turn out sometimes. For what it's worth, Matts friendship enhanced my life when I knew him. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Marcia Wartel
February 28, 2003
My condolences on your loss. Matt was a high school classmate of my son Bill's. I hadn't seen Matt for many years because Bill moved to Florida about 10 years ago.
Theresa Gilliam
February 28, 2003
Dottie,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I've posted the Irish blessing I sent on to you earlier today in an attempt to express my most my heartfelt condolencses to your family as well. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Theresa Gilliam
Meredith, NH
On that day when the weight deadens on your shoulders and you stumble, may the clay dance to balance you.
And when the ghost of loss gets into you, may a flock of colors-- indigo, red, green, and azure blue--
come to awaken in you a meadow of delight.
When the canvas frays and the stain
of ocean blackens beneath you,
may there come across the
waters a path of yellow moonlight to bring you safely home.
May the nourishment of the earth be yours, may the clarity of light be yours, may the fluency of the ocean be yours, may the protection of the ancestors be yours, and so may a
slow wind work these words of love around you, an invisible
cloak to mind your life.
From Anam Cara by John O'Donahue
Kim (VanVloten) Costello
February 27, 2003
David and family,
My deepest sympathy in this time of loss. You are all in our thoughts.
Love Always,
Kim and Rob
Joseph Lourenco Jr
February 27, 2003
I was saddened beyond words to find Matt among these names today. My prayers go out to Matt's family, fiancé & friends, as well as for Matt himself. May you all find the physical, emotional & spiritual strength you need to get through this hard time.
Matt- I know you're rockin' as I write this.
Joe
Audrey Gardner (McCarthy)
February 27, 2003
Dear Pickett Family,
My heart goes out to you for your tragic loss of Matthew. I am a former "Wabanite" and childhood friend of Davids. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all. Peace.
Audrey Gardner (McCarthy)
February 27, 2003
Dear Family,
I am a former "Wabanite" and a childhood friend of Davids. Please accept my heartfelt sorrow for the loss of Matthew. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
God Bless.
Katya Gurin
February 27, 2003
Dear Matty,
A piece of my hart is always with you.
Judith McCracken
February 27, 2003
This fire was horriable and my heart goes out to the Pickett family and all the other that were killed or injured in the fire. I did not no any of the victomes but can not believe that this has happend. I just wanted to send my condolences.
Vicky (Green)Gallagher
February 27, 2003
Our deepest sympathy for the Pickett family. Although I did not know Matthew, I heard only wonderful things about him. Peace be with him...
Love,
Vicky (Green)Gallagher and family
Originally from Waban
David MacWhinnie
February 27, 2003
Though we havn't spoken to each other in a year or so, you presence will always be with me. Your good nature, humerous spin, and friendly personality has etched a forever image in my head. I'll miss the hell out of you man....Rock On!!
John Langis
February 27, 2003
Matty,
You are a dear and beloved friend. You have been and always shall be my most closest and truest friend. Your love of life is beyond words. You brought so much joy and happiness to all who knew you and we were better people for knowing you. You are the most amazing person I have ever known. Without you here there is less happiness, less laughter and most of all less love in our world. My thoughts of you will be tears of sadness of wishing there was more time together and also tears of happiness for the time we did have together. I will cherish your memory always.
All my love and prayers are with you Wendy, your family and all those lives you touched.
Love Ya Matty,
John and Dawn
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