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MAXTON GARRETT CONNOR

1996 - 2021

MAXTON GARRETT CONNOR obituary, 1996-2021, Boston, MA

BORN

1996

DIED

2021

MAXTON CONNOR Obituary

CONNOR, Maxton Garrett

Northeastern Grad, Musician, Facebook Software Engineer, Adventurer, Friend

Maxton Garrett Connor (24) passed away in Boston, in late March, 2021. He is survived by his parents, Meredith and Michael Connor, of Gilford, NH, his brother Jason Connor of Berkeley, CA, grandmother Corinne Forti of Tucson, AZ., great-aunt Joan Murray of Canterbury, NH, aunts Kimberly Foley of Gilford NH, Jocelyn Biondo of St Augustine, FL, Lindsay Dyett Ray of Arlington, VT, and Ann Warden of Ashburn VA, uncle E. Granger Dyett, III of Yarmouthport, MA, cousins Olivia and AJ Bruce, Tori, Tyler and Timmy Biondo, Cameron and Tiffany Ray, Tyler and Matthew Warden.

Max was born in August, 1996 in Maryland, and grew up in Maryland, Georgia and Connecticut. He spent most summers on Lake Winnipesaukee in New Hampshire and cherished his time at the lake with friends and family boating and jet-skiing. Throughout his life, Max was curious and inquisitive about everything he saw, and loved learning constantly. He played piano, cello, mandolin, guitar, electric bass, and drums and was a founding member of an award-winning garage band "Ignition" in middle school. He rowed on the Avon High School (AHS) crew team, sang in AHS's a cappella group, "Rhapsody," and earned places in both the CT State Choir and the National Choir in 2013. He was a National Merit Scholar and graduated Magna Cum Laude with a B.S. in Computer Engineering from Northeastern University in 2019.

Max truly enjoyed his time at Northeastern and was so fortunate to meet like-minded, brilliant people with whom he shared many adventures. He and his college friends entered and won several 'Hackathons,' in which teams solve a problem or come up with an invention and write the code without breaks or sleep. He travelled extensively with his friends to over 20 countries and loved the excitement of new experiences, from scuba diving the Great Barrier Reef to cliff jumping in Malta to sky-diving in Dubai. He was fluent in Spanish and was teaching himself Mandarin, just for the challenge of it. He had several internships and co-ops throughout college, and began his career as a Software Engineer with Facebook in September 2019, where he contributed his amazing skills and talents to his team and had a very bright future.

Everyone who knew Max loved him. In addition to his passion for all things tech and music, Max was known for his happy, calm nature, his great sense of humor and his kindness. He could play any song on demand and made gatherings with family and friends wonderful and memorable by playing guitar for sing-alongs. Merging his two passions, music and technology, he created his own website www.maxton.xyz on which his many years of projects can be found. One of his favorite software accomplishments was his successful modification ("modding") of a popular rock music video game that enabled people to play their own music in the game. Many of his thousands of followers from multiple online communities asked him for coding help and he was happy to share his knowledge with anyone who needed it, with patience and humility. The family received hundreds of condolences from his followers, who said that Max's work had truly impacted them—in some cases even saved them—and will live on. On his music website, music.maxton.xyz he showcased his musical creations, in which he isolated and then learned, played and recorded each track of a song separately and combined them to create recordings, 100% his own playing—every instrument, beat and vocal. His talents and creativity were boundless.

Max loved life, lived a healthy lifestyle, and had so many plans. Another of his passions was riding his bike all around Boston. He had just bought a new bike and was so looking forward to getting back to biking to work at Facebook in Cambridge when the offices reopened. He and his brother were planning a trip to Japan, and he and his college friends were more than ready to start traveling the world again.

The family held the Celebration of Max's Life, on Saturday, April 10. The event can be viewed by the public on Max's mom's Facebook page (Meredith Dyett Connor). In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations to the Maxton G. Connor Charitable Fund, which has been established to ensure that his name and generous spirit will carry on to support causes he cared about, including music and engineering education, youth opportunity and mentoring, food and housing insecurity, global health and poverty relief.

Online donations may be made via either link below.

Go Fund Me:

https://www.gofundme.com/f/the-maxton-g-connor-charitable-foundation

New Hampshire Charitable Foundation (managing the Fund):

https://give.nhcf.org/donate-online---maxton-g-connor-charitable-fund

Donations at NHCF can also be made via stock transfer or check (write check to NHCF and write "Maxton G Connor Charitable Fund" in memo)



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Published by Boston Globe from May 1 to May 2, 2021.

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Beth Coneys

June 8, 2021

Max was a friend for six years, and he was one of those rare friends you expect to have for life. He was a genuine and compassionate friend and had immense talent and humility. Max was the same Max no matter who he was with, whether it was strangers, friends or family. He was always authentically himself, never influenced into doing something he didn't want to do and always standing his ground when he felt he was right, which inspired me to be more secure and more myself around him. He giggled easily, even at himself. Being with him was easy. He was a calming presence, someone we often decided to stay in with rather than go out. I miss going to Amelias with Max (though we went there probably way too many times than we should have), going to New Hampshire (some of my favorite memories from the past few years were with him at his home in NH), and mostly I miss just hanging out and listening to him talk (he knew a lot about a lot and I always learned something from him). I am so grateful for the memories I have and the time I had with Max. I wish we had more.

Olivia Bruce

May 27, 2021

Max was my cousin, but he was really more like the little brother I never had. He was brilliant, kind, hilarious, incredibly talented, and now looking back on it, he was probably one of the humblest people I had ever known. Anyone who knew him, already knows all of this about him and how truly special he was. We all have our own memories of him that we will hold in our hearts forever. I’ll miss him serenading us with his guitar at family parties. I’ll miss his adorable giggles. I’ll miss his back tickles. I’ll miss his random bits of knowledge that would blow my mind. But I’ll mostly miss his giant bear hugs and I desperately wish I could have just one more. Although I don’t know if I would ever let go.

Thank you for inspiring all of us to be better. Your spirit will live on through all of us, as we challenge ourselves, go on crazy adventures, take on new hobbies, etc. I can’t wait to tell Aiden all about you and your incredible accomplishments. He would’ve really loved you. I love you and I miss you more than you could ever know, Max. Rest in the sweetest peace, my angel❤

Scott Taylor

May 22, 2021

Much love and prayers ❤❤❤

Rita & Bob Taylor

May 22, 2021

Although Rita and I had only met Maxton on a few of occasions, Max exhibited maturity beyond his years. For such a young man Max left no stone unturned as he traveled the world, participate in his passions and helped untold numbers of individuals in their need for expanding their knowledge. One can only imagine the endeavors and challenges Max would pursue in the years to come. There are no words that we can say the will ease the pain of the loss to Meredith and Michael. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you as you move forward shouldering the lose of such a great and cherished son.
Respectfully, Rita and Bob Taylor

Linda

May 22, 2021

Max was such a sweet intelligent special man. He always had the sweetest smile, as a baby as a young child as a handsome man.
He will be missed by so many.
Feeling blessed I had the chance to know him.❤

Kurt

May 9, 2021

Max was a gifted musician and engineer, and was undoubtedly one of the most talented people I've ever known. At the same time, he had a way of melting away people's stress with his calm attitude and great sense of humor. I'm thankful for all the good times we had together while living in Boston and traveling abroad, and I will miss his friendship.

Eric

May 9, 2021

Max was a phenomenal musician, extraordinary programmer, and beloved friend whose often goofy demeanor was sure to brighten your day. He touched the lives of many through his passion to create. Max had an ingenuity for combining his talents whether that was reverse engineering music rhythm video games or playing silly songs on his melodica.

I will cherish the time we've spent as classmates, teammates, and roommates. I miss you Max.

LISA BRUCE

May 7, 2021

Max was a kind, gentle, brilliant young man. We made so many long lasting family memories at the lake sitting by fires, listening to him sing. He had a tremendous ear for music coupled with his perfect tone and timing. He was able to play any song we threw at him, even if he hadn't heard it before.

Even though he is gone, he still lives with me. When I hear the many songs that he played, I get flashbacks of singing together and it gives me some comfort that he'll always be with me.

He had this way of looking at life with such fascination. When he looked at you, he did so honestly, truthfully; without shutters. I will miss him dearly and am so blessed to have spent those precious times with him.

Jake

May 6, 2021

Had some of the best times of my life with Max building hardware, chatting about life until 4am, and traveling.

Check out Max's rad projects (https://devpost.com/maxton)
and our trips to Indonesia (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nutk2Xo1eUQ) and South Africa (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9MuJRd69rw). "Friend" doesn't begin to cover it.

Lorraine Butler

May 1, 2021

I don't know you I'm so sorry to hear about your son passing he is now resting in peace may god be with you and your family you are all in my prays always remember the good times you had with him

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