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MICHAEL ASCHETTINO Obituary

ASCHETTINO, Michael Milton Age 84, passed away peacefully July 12, 2023, at the Cape Cod Hospital after a brief illness, his wife Paula Marston Aschettino at his bedside. Michael resided in Hudson, MA, and later settled to their current home in Eastham, MA. Michael was born in Rochester, NY, the only child of Catherine and Arthur Aschettino. He attended West High School, Boston University and Northeastern University, studying Engineering and Business. He had a successful career with Atlas Copco as District Manager for the New England area. Mike loved Boston and the ocean. He sailed his 26 ft. Islander to RI and Mystic, CT, enjoying time with his family and friends. Important interests were supporting culture and the arts, especially the Kaji Aso Studio in Boston. He loved Opera, the Symphony and Classical music. Mike enjoyed working with wood, building Kayaks and beautiful tables, he was able to renovate homes, and help the elderly with needed repairs. Upon his retirement to a beautiful estate in Eastham MA, Michael had time for another passion, Golf. He was employed by Captains Golf Course in Brewster, MA for 20 years; enjoying good friends and trying to lower his score. Michael was the most loving husband, always supportive of his wife Paula, 43 years married, a true partner in every way. Michael lost his first wife, Katherine Goodwin Aschettino, in 1977. They had two beautiful children, Catherine and Michael. He gained two beautiful stepchildren, Shawn and Shannon O'Neil, after marrying Paula. He is survived by his wife, Paula, in Eastham MA; daughter, Catherine and husband, Jeff Carchidi of Marlboro MA; son, Michael L Aschettino and wife, Jackie of Marlboro, MA.; stepson, Shawn O'Neil and wife, Renee of Marlton NJ; and stepdaughter, Shannon O'Neil Shavor and husband, Brian of Needham, MA. He is survived by grandchildren, Michael J Aschettino, Jake Aschettino, Kenady O'Neil, Karlyle O'Neil, Rachel Shavor, Reagan Shavor and Reid Shavor. Mike proudly has four great-grandchildren, Kelsey Aschettino, Leonardo Aschettino, Lindsey Aschettino, and Isabella, who graced us with her presence last week. He will be missed and always remembered by many, God Bless this wonderful Renaissance Man. A private family Celebration of Life will be held on Cape Cod this Sunday, and a Memorial and Celebration of Life at Marlboro Country Club on August 12th from 11:30 am - 3:00 pm, where all are welcome to gather and share stories. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his memory to Kaji Aso Studio, a non-profit, tax exempt 501 (c)(3) organization. Please go to their webpage, which has a donate button on the front page. The link is kajiasostudio.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 22 to Jul. 23, 2023.

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