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Michael Gilchrist Obituary

GILCHRIST, Dr. Michael A. MD 66, a well-known Pediatrician of Chelmsford, MA died Oct. 31, 2010. Husband of Carol (Rothfuss) Gilchrist of Chelmsford; father of Gregory Gilchrist and his wife, Dr. Kamie Yang of Arlington, VA, and Dr. Mark Gilchrist MD of Chelmsford, MA, brother of Patricia and her husband Roy Streeter of Tampa, FL, son-in-law of Marion (Lawler) Rothfuss of Sarasota, FL, a brother-in-law of Susan Rothfuss of Sarasota, FL, Thomas and his wife, Marsha Rothfuss of Waltham, VT, grandfather of Kate Gilchrist of Arlington, VA, and uncle of Allyson Ryan of Rutland, VT. Visiting hours Tues. 4 to 8 p.m. at the Dolan Funeral Home, 106 Middlesex St. CHELMSFORD. A funeral will be Wed. at 11am at the All Saints Episcopal Church,10 Billerica Rd., Chelmsford, MA. Memorials may be made in his name to the LGH Legacy Campaign 295 Varnum Ave. Lowell, MA. Arrangements by Dolan Funeral Home, 978-251-4041. Guestbook at www.dolanfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 31 to Nov. 1, 2010.

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JoAnne WEISMAN Deitch

October 25, 2022

I think of Mike often and fondly.

Robin Feole

October 25, 2020

I met Dr. Mike at Lawrence General when my son was born in 1988. Chose him immediately as our pediatrician. When he moved from my area, I followed him to Chelmsford regardless of the distance. He was caring and funny and put my children at ease. The staff, especially Nurse Rita, always made my family feel important. We were so saddened hearing of his passing. Rest In Peace Dr. Mike

Mary King

August 12, 2011

I just recently learned of Dr. Gilchrist's passing. He was my children's Pediatrician for many years and I was always thankful to have found such a caring and thorough Doctor for my children. They would not go to anyone else. My condolences to the family.

Mary King
Billerica, MA

Karen Willis

November 30, 2010

Carol, Mark and Greg-

We are so sad about Dr. Mike's passing away. He had a big impact on our family. When our son, Brad was born sixteen years ago with disabilities, Dr. Mike showed us such compassion and kindness. It's been a long road for us but it was an easier one with Dr. Mike's support. We will miss his smile and Winnie the Pooh stethoscope.
The Willis/Downing Family

Katie Ingalls

November 18, 2010

Deepest sympathy to the family and staff of Dr.Mike. I recieved a letter in the mail today (worst letter ever) telling me of Dr.Mike's passing. Im so sorry and shocked he will be greatly missed by many. My oldest daughter was about 2 yrs when I switched to doctor Mike's office, both my kids really took to him. Dr.Mike was an amazing man, and remarkable doctor, there will never be another like him. ~ RIP ~ With Love Vera, Madalynn, Katie Ingalls

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November 17, 2010

Dr. Mike meant a lot to me, he'll always be in my heart.

Alyssa Berube

November 17, 2010

I was just recently informed of Dr. Mike's passing. Our heartfelt condolences go out to the family and staff at Pediatrics. My son has been going to Pediatrics for 11yrs. We will always remember how great it has been to always go there and see him always being so upbeat , always smiling and making/seeing children feel at ease because of him. He will always be remembered by us with that great big smile!

sharon Gomez/kellerer

November 16, 2010

I learned of Dr. Mike's passing today...he will be forever remembered by my family especially my son sean...
Dr. Mike's words of wisdom since 1991 touched and helped my son so greatly that just 3 weeks ago my son graduated from the Air Force boot camp... We are so grateful to have had him in our lives... ( Kellerer Family) -

Robin Feole

November 15, 2010

We are sorry for your loss. I met Dr. Mike when my son Tony was born 22 years ago and when he moved his practice to chelmsford, I stayed with him even though I had to drive from Haverhill..He was a wonderful and kind man and he and Nurse Rita meant so much to us. This summer my son and I came in to transfer his records to an "adult" doctor and we left feeling sad that we wouldnt be coming back..Our prayers are with you all..he was special and meant a lot to our family.
God has taken him home to love him.
Love, Robin, Tony and Olivia Feole

November 15, 2010

I just learned of Dr. Mike's passing and am so sad to hear this news. My children Adam and Michelle have been his patients from the day Michelle was born in July of 1991 and Adam was 2 years old. I remember him as a kind and caring doctor and an especially gifted diagnostician..He was always so upbeat and interested in his patients and their families. He gave great advice and alway had wonderful insight. Adam is now 21 and when he went for his last checkup I was worried that Dr. Mike wouldn't be able to see him anymore as he was too old to be seen by a pediatrician but was assured he could see him until he finished college~ so sorry this will not be the case. He was so proud of his sons and their accomplishments~we talked about them often during the kids' appointments. My condolences to Carol and his sons and the rest of his family. The Kleger Family will miss him very much. Joan Kleger (Andover, MA)

November 15, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Gilchrist family. I myself, was a patient of Dr. Mike's many moons ago at Medical Associates, so when the time came to choose a pediatrician for my own daughter, 14 years ago, it was a no brainer. What a wonderful man who will truly be missed. His kind words and gentle voice touched many lives. The Cellucci Family, Paul, Diane & Alyssa

Suzanne LaBombard

November 15, 2010

To the Gilchrist Family and Staff, Our sincere condolences on the passing of Dr. Mike. We are at a loss for words. He was such a kind, wonderful man and we feel lucky that he was the first doctor to hold our babies...and to hold our hands as first time parents. He will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Heather Kiefer

November 15, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Dr. Mike. He brought so much care and humor to his patients, my daughter will never forget her office visit where he was dressed up as Winnie the Pooh. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family, he will truly be missed.

-The Kiefer family - Heather, Leo, Leo and Mina

November 14, 2010

To the Gilchrist family, Please accept our condolences in the passing of "Dr Mike". I not only had the great pleasure of knowing him working as a nurse @ Medical Associates, but also having him as my children's pediatrician. He brought much laughter and his caring treatment of children was something we will never forget.
John, Debbie, Matthew & Meghann Quigley

Rohin Jaiman

November 11, 2010

To the Gilchrist Family,

I had been a patient of Dr. Gilchrist for my entire life. I wish I could write a note that could justify how I feel, but if there is anywhere to start, it would be that he has been an inspiration in my life. I've always wanted to become a doctor and am just about to start the medical school application process. I can say with full confidence that the way Dr. Gilchrist practiced medicine, the love he demonstrated for his patients and his undying passion have given me the strength and conviction I have today about becoming a doctor. I will become a doctor someday and when I do, I will always hold Dr. Gilchrist as the standard for excellence. I am interested in pediatrics and am sure that Dr. Gilchrist's influence nurtured this desire.

Dr. Gilchrist was a mentor, a friend, a pediatrician and a great family man. It is my hope to become as great a doctor as he was. I will miss him and cherish my childhood memories. May he rest in peace.

Rohin Jaiman

Camargo Family

November 9, 2010

Our most sincere condolences to the family and staff of Dr Mike. We are truly saddened by his passing. God must have a reason for taking him so soon from all of us. He was simply "one of a kind"...a Doctor who had so much compassion and love for all of the children he saw. He was always smiling and happy. I can only believe that he is smiling down on us now. We will truly miss him!
The Camargo Family of Westford

Scott Folger

November 8, 2010

Dr. Mike was a gentle and loving man who was a big part of our family. He cared for me and my 3 siblings growing up as well as recently my neice and nephew. One of my favorite memories of Dr Mike was when I was getting ready to attend college and he took me to lunch and subtly encouraged me to go pre-med. He was much more then just a wonderful doctor but also a friend and mentor. He will be greatly missed and may God Bless the entire Gilchrist family!

Stephanie Callery

November 7, 2010

We will miss Dr. Mike always but will always remember how kind, compassionate, and caring he was to both Corey & Brett from infants to adults he will be greatly missed and his family are in our thoughts and prayers. Nothing we can say will lessen their pain but may their many happy memories carry them through this painful time. God bless you Dr. Mike and your family. Sincerely, John & Stephanie (Barlow)Callery

Jennifer Hurley

November 7, 2010

Our hearts broke when we heard the news. Dr. Mike felt like a part of our family for 17 years. He was like a second dad to me. He always took time to speak with all of us. I felt cared for too. He often asked me "What did you do before you became a stay at home Mom?" and we would talk about that. He always asked how I was doing, especially when I looked tired. The kids remember his stethoscope and his warm smile and gentle voice. We remember all the times he helped out when they were sick. We feel a part of his family because he shared that with us, too. We learned how to parent from some of the stories we would hear about his boys. Thank you, Carol, Greg and Mark, for sharing your Dad with all of us. He was one of a kind.

Erica McGillicuddy

November 6, 2010

I will never forget the time I brought my 2 month old son to Dr. Mike. He was screaming and crying and I didn't know why. As a new mother I was overwhelmed and in tears too. Dr. Mike was not only wonderful to my son, but to this anxious new mommy too. I remember so vividly him telling me I was a good mom. In that moment, I didn't realize how much I needed to hear that, but he knew. I still think of that moment when in trying circumstances. Dr. Mike had clearly touched my life in a way that I will never forget. To Dr. Mike's friends and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Erica McGillicuddy

November 6, 2010

I remember when I brought my 2 month old son to Dr Mike. He was screaming and crying and I didn't know what to do. I was in tears too! Dr. Mike was not only wonderful to my son, but he was wonderful to this anxious overwhelmed mother too. I will never forget that moment. His extraordinary kindness in telling me that I was being a good mom meant the world to me. I am very thankful to have met such a great man, even if only briefly. In that short time, he clearly made a positive impact on my life.

Joanna & Fred Christensen

November 6, 2010

We were so heartbroken to hear the sad news of Mike passing. We cherish our memories of working many church holiday fairs with Carol and Mike. And when he became our grandchildren's pediatrician, we knew they were going to the best!
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family

November 6, 2010

We will miss Dr. Mike very much. He had been our son Matt's doctor since he was born in 1991. No matter what Matt was there for, he always made him feel at ease. He will always be in our hearts. Love, Lysa, George, and Matt Modica

Mary Dieter

November 5, 2010

Dear Carol... We were deeply saddened to hear about Dr. Mike... My entire family still has many fond memories of him, some similar the stories already posted here, some not... When we moved out to Illinois over four years ago, I went looking for a pediatrian for Emily (then in high school), Chris (then in middle school) and Greg (then in elementary school). I thought, mistakenly come to find out, that all pediatricians were like him. Dr. Mike had repeatedly told me over the years that even saw "kids" who were out of college because he'd rather they come to him than not go to a doctor at all. Anyway, folks out here in the midwest looked at me like I was a nut inquiring about a pediatrician for my high schooler. We finally settled on a family practice, but all doctors we have seen subsequent to our move away from Chelmsford eventually get compared to Dr. Mike. You and your family, are and continue to be, in my family's thoughts and prayers.

Kelly Homsey

November 5, 2010

To the Gilchrist Family and staff. We are so sorry to hear of Dr. Mikes' passing. He was truly a caring and nurturing doctor and person. He always gave such good advice and now that he's gone his saying of: "Take them home and love them", is so true cherish every moment with your family. We will miss you and your smiling face.

The Homsey Family
Kelly, Sam, John, Madison and Cameron

Nancy Fret

November 5, 2010

To the family of Dr. Mike you have my deepest condolences. Dr. Mike was my 12 year old son's (Jay's) pediatrician since birth. He came highly recommended by a dear friend of his. My son has severe medical handicaps and Dr. Mike treated my son as one of his own. I can always talk to him about anything he was always willing to listen as he smiled beautifully. I do not know what I am going to do without him. He always encouraged me to have strength and never give up despite of all the challenges my son faced. I lost a dear friend. My prayers are with you. He really touched my family's life. May he forever rest in peace, he will never be forgotten.

Carol DiMaio

November 4, 2010

Dr. Mike, thank you for the love and care you gave to my younger siblings, my four children, and my two young grandchildren. And thank you for always telling me what a great job I was doing - even when I was just learning how to BE a mother! :) You were a gentleman and a gentle man, full of love and compassion. We will miss you and remember you always. With love and gratitude, Carol DiMaio and family

Maureen Allen

November 4, 2010

I loved bringing my sons in to see Dr Mike. He shared so many personal stories about what it was like to raise two sons. He was so funny--I always asked him if I could have some of what he was taking to be so very happy!!
He was always kind and respectful to my children as well as to my husband and me. When my son continued to have a 104 fever on Easter Sunday (despite antibiotics), he did not hesitate to meet us in the office to have another look at him. THAT is a special man.
Carol, Mark and Greg, please know how much our family cared about Dr Mike and how much he will be missed. We are thinking of you and hope that you will be comforted by your memories.
With love,
Maureen, Bob, Mike and Jack Allen

Hailey (13) & Julia (10) McCaffrey

November 4, 2010

We are going to miss Dr. Gilchrist very much. He was very funny and made us laugh whenever we saw him. He always greeted us with a beautiful smile and made us feel special. His Family should be very proud that he made such a difference in so many young lives. Again we will miss him alot.

November 4, 2010

To the family of Dr. Gilchrist-
My daughter Theresa was one of Dr. Gilchrist's patients when he began his individual practice.
I was always so pleased with his knowledge, humor and kindness.
Those qualities are rare today.
Now my daughter Gina has a baby and I am so pleased that she has Dr. Gilchrist's son as her pediatrician.
Virginia Borrelli

John Auger

November 4, 2010

We were deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Dr. Mike. He was our children's pediatrician for six years before we moved out of state and helped our family through some very difficult medical decisions. He was beloved by our family and we are blessed to have had him as our pediatrician. You have our deepest sympathies. God Bless. The Auger Family

Lisa Glebus

November 4, 2010

To Dr. Mike's family - we are so sorry for your loss... to the wonderful staff at Chelmsford Pediatrics - our condolances as well. Dr. Mike was the peditrician to my four children for many years - we moved 5 years ago from MA - and to this day I still use his words of wisdom in raising my kids... You will be missed but always remembered by the lives you touched!

Brenda Drolet

November 4, 2010

When I heard that Dr. Mike had passed away, I immediately heard his gentle voice saying "pick him up and love him", which is what he told me anytime my son would cry in his exam room. Now, I pray those words to God in heaven. Both Joshua and I will miss him terribly.

Holly Martineau & Family

November 4, 2010

I was very sad to hear the news of Dr. Mike's passing. Dr. Mike was a truly wonderful person who actually made you feel good about going to the Dr. I was a patient of his back at Medical Associates. I will never forget getting ready to give birth to my daughter and being at Lowell General and having them ask "who is your Pediatrician" looking like a deer caught in the headlights I said, "I did not know I had to pick one" The only person who came to mind was Dr. Mike, the nurse said to me "I don't believe he is taking on new patients" I became very upset and asked if there was a way she could ask him. Not more than 20 minutes later he appeared in the doorway and said "How could I ever say NO, I can't wait to meet my new little patient" I was at ease immediately. I could not think of a more wonderful person to take care of my daughter. I now have two and my children have already expressed that they will miss his "test" every time they go to see him for their annual physical...the test always started with "when you ride a bike, what do you do?" My kids have always worn helmets because that is what Dr. Mike told them to do. I will miss his warm smile, kind voice, and always knowing the right thing to say. I know that because of his fine leadership and just the way he was, that his practice will still be "the best place to bring your kids". I wish for his family and co-workers the strength to carry on his legacy and the strength to heal.
With Love and gratitude...God Bless you Dr. Mike.

JoAnne Deitch

November 4, 2010

Carol, Greg and Mark:
My deepest condolences on your loss. Even though I hadn't seen Mike in several years, I always had a special kind feeling for him. He was always cheerful and supportive, in all he did.
Our days in Jaycees were some of the best! Mike will truly be missed.
JoAnne Weisman Deitch, and Ken, Hilary and Andrea

Tricia Streeter

November 3, 2010

Michael was my big brother. When I was 3 and he was 9 he beat up Richie Govert for stealing my tricycle. Later he taught me how to ride my bicycle. He drove home 11 hours from Vanderbilt to be home on the night of my prom. (Our father had died when I was 14 and Michael stepped in and took his place.) He stopped in Portland, Oregon my freshman year on his way home from Thailand to see my college. He was a young doctor with 2 small boys and not much money when he flew to Oregon for my wedding. He was a good brother, I loved him, I respected him, and I was very proud of him and his family. I will miss him.

Pat Nally

November 3, 2010

My wife and I were deeply sadden to learn of the death of Dr. Gilchrist. After moving, we changed doctors because of the location but we will never forget him.

My wife said to me "I can't believe how upset I am, we haven't gone there in years..."

I said that I knew exactly why we were so upset. At our most vunable times of being concerned, worried, or upset about a problem with our babies, Dr. Gilchrist was the person we turned to. Everytime we walked out of the office, we felt better than when we went in.

"Take him home and love him", the best advice ever recieved.

Laurie Knight

November 3, 2010

To the Gilchrist Family and extended family in his office, I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Mike will be missed. He was such a caring, compassionate caregiver to my boys and I am forever grateful to him. I am grateful to have known him as my children's Pediatrician for the past 6 years, but feel it was much too short. Take him home and love him, best advice for a nervous parent.
Sincerely, Laurie Knight (Pelham, NH)

The Bjorklund Family, Kris, Lisa and Lily

November 3, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. We had the opportunity to meet Dr. Mike once when our daughter was sick. He took his time explaining things and also made us laugh. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers will be with your family during this very difficult and sad time.

Laurie, Hannah & Sarah Kimball

November 3, 2010

I was deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. He was a wonderful pediatrician and even more importantly a fantastic human being. He had a way of comforting both patients and parents alike with his kind demeanor and wisdom. We will truly miss you. May god bless you and comfort your family during this difficult time.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Faith DeCesare

November 3, 2010

When Dr. Mike hired me 12 years ago, he said "work hard, have a lot of fun, and ALWAYS listen to the moms". I still try to do that every day.
My deepest sympathies to you Carol, Mark, and Greg, and my prayers for an extra measure of grace, peace, and strength to get through the next chapters. We are here for you, just like you have always been for us.
love
faith

Katrina Grenier

November 3, 2010

To the Gilchrist family, I am saddened and shocked to hear about the loss of Dr. Mike. I had the pleasure of meeting him several times when we switched over to his practise about 4 years ago. He once told me he would be doing this job until the Lord took him from this earth. His warm smile will be missed. Our deepest sympathy. The Grenier Family, Hudson, NH

D Labranche

November 3, 2010

Dr. Mike was the best ! The LaBranche Family

Peggi White

November 3, 2010

Carol, Greg & Mark...We were shocked and very saddened to hear about Dr Mike. Our deepest sympathies to you all.
Peggi & Bob White

Sherri LeDuc

November 3, 2010

To the Gilchrist family,
We were deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. We had the distinct pleasure of seeing him a few times for our son. He was a gentle, caring and loving person who was too kind for words. You are all in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. He is watching and caring for us all from above, an Angel with a stethoscope. God bless you.
Sherri, Nathan and Carter LeDuc

Kathy, Bill, Pat, Brian and Annie Donahue

November 3, 2010

Dear Carol, Mark and Greg,
We are so very sorry for your loss. It has been an honor and a blessing knowing Dr Mike for the past 20 years. He was always there for us, and for that we are truly grateful. We will remember him fondly for his warm smile, his sense of humor and his caring medical advice. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and the staff.

Michele Bourret

November 3, 2010

I'm so sorry for the loss of the best Doctor in the world. He always had a smile or a pat on the back and would ask how are you.
Dr Mike took care of my sons. And also my grandsons. He was such a big part in our world. We knew if we needed to talk to him all you had to do is dail the phone and he would call you back.
I will really miss him.
God Bless to his family and i'll keep you in my prays.
Thank you for sharing him with all of us.

Stacey

November 3, 2010

To the Gilchrist family~
My deepest sympathies on the loss of Dr. Mike. He was my very first pediatrician at Medical Associates. I also got to work with him at LGH on Maternal/Infant Unit. He was a superb doctor and has touched alot of peoples lives. May he watch over all of his loved ones.

Marlene Barrett

November 3, 2010

We are shocked and saddened to hear of Mike's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and in the future. Our lives are richer and fuller because of all the lives he touched both in his practice and out of it.

Melody Anoli-Marcotte

November 3, 2010

"Carol and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Dr. Mike has been such a important part of my life and my sons lives. He has helped me through alot with my boys and I will never forget his compassion and love that he gave to me and my family during such difficult times. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love to you and your family." The Anoli-Marcotte Family

Aisling O'Connor

November 3, 2010

We will miss you Dr. Mike! My children always looked forward to their visits and we are very sad to think our visit 2 weeks ago was our last. I'm sure Dr. Mark will continue your great work.

Aisling, Fionnuala (age 6) and Lochlainn (age 3)

November 3, 2010

Please accept our deepest condolences at this difficult time. Dr. Mike took wonderful care of our children and always put us at ease with his kindness and wisdom. We will truly miss him and feel fortunate to have known him.
The Duronio Family

Hilde Griffin

November 3, 2010

Dear Carol: Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carragher Family

November 3, 2010

I was very sad to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. I first met him almost 5 yrs. ago when I was pregnant with my first son and I left that meeting wishing he was my doctor. He was so pleasant and eased many of my anxieties of being a soon to be first time mom. His son, Dr. Mark, is just as wonderful. My son's see Dr. Mark and they 'enjoy' going to the doctor because of his pleasant ways. I am happy to have had the opportunity to meet Dr. Mike and will miss his smiling face when going to the office.

November 3, 2010

Carol and family,

I cant tell you how unbelievably saddened my kids and I are to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. From the first day I met him almost 21 years ago in his office. I had a very upset new baby and wasn't his patient yet. He took the time to rock Kayla for almost 15 minutes to calm her. I knew then that I was immediately changing doctors. We have been through a great journey together over the years with her and my boys. He had been a great source of comfort and strength through some very hard times. He will be greatly missed by all who ever knew him. He is and always will be a very special man and we were all blessed to have known him.
Laurie, Kayla, AJ, Jason and Scott Lee

November 3, 2010

Carol: We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Dr Mike has been such a part of our lives for over 20 years. OUr thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Ferraro Family, Brian, Lorrie, Lindsay, Joey, Lolly and Vinnie

Nicole and Stephen Pagliccia

November 3, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Dr.Mike's passing. Dr.Mike came and met my son Cole when he was born> I was a new mom and was very nervous. He came into the room and was one of the nicest men I have ever met. One thing I will never forget, his "rule for new parents" within the first 6 months of Cole being born me and my husband go out for dinner. Within one year go out over night, parents need that" It was very refreshing to hear a doctor say those things, and actually care not only about my son, but also about my husband and myself. He will be missed, and never will be forgotten.

Sue and Bob DeSarra

November 3, 2010

Carol,
There are no words to express our sadness. We pray you are comforted by treasured memories, loving family and family. We know you with gather strength and find peace in the deep love that you and Mike shared. Our heartfelt sympathy to you your sons.

Christine Paquette

November 2, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Christine Paquette

November 2, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Dianne (Pierson) LaFond

November 2, 2010

Carol, Mark & Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. I have known Dr. Mike for many years. Not only was he the family pediatician for three generations, I had the honor of working with him, Carol & Mark when working at LCHC. He was such a great person willing to go the distant for his patients and the patients of LCHC when on call. He will be missed by many especially my grandaughter who thinks the world of him. May God bless his family and find comfort from those around them.

November 2, 2010

We are all longstanding members of the "Dr. Mike Fan Club" .-- (18 years)

Dr. Mike is an excellent example of the positive difference one person can make.

Dr. Mike was the quintessential pediatrician and then some!

With sincerest condolences,
Jeff, Mary & Stone Cleven

November 2, 2010

We are shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family . We met Dr. Mike 18 years ago after the birth of our daughter. We knew he was a special person and doctor from that moment. When our son became ill he had us come into the office on a Sunday ! His smile and warm personality will be remembered. He will be greatly missed.

Al, Taylor and Adam Mendonca

November 2, 2010

We were saddened to hear the news,not only was "Dr Mike" my childrens doctor but he was my doctor @ Chelmsford Medical Associates some many years ago. He was a doctor who knew every child personally.He will be missed alot by our family. Thank you for all that you have done.
Carol, Mark, Gregory and Family our thoughts are with you.
Lynn, Keith and Kristie Stead

Megan Manning

November 2, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. He was an amazing man who touched so many lives, youg and old!! Thank you for being a part of my son's life as one of his doctors. My deep sympathies go out to your family and friends.

Mary Fernald

November 2, 2010

I knew Doctor Gilchrist when he was an intern. He was a great doctor then.
My thoughts are with the family.

Lisa Marcotte

November 2, 2010

Words cannot expres how sad I am to hear of Dr.Mike's passing. My heart goes out to you Carol, your sons and your staff...we know he is in heaven with all the angels...

Dorene Blanchard

November 2, 2010

My families deepest sympathies go out to Dr. Mike's family, friends, co workers and patients. As I read of his passing I fondly recalled the first time I met him over 15 years ago with my 2 year old and her newborn sister. Upon telling my 3 children of his passing, we were all silent and couldn't believe that we have lost such an amazing doctor. He will be dearly missed. Dorene, Noelle, Demerese and Jaddus Blanchard

November 2, 2010

Our heartfelt sympathy to Dr. Mike's family and friends. We were truly blessed with his compassion and care for our three children. Thank you Dr. Mike.
-Ellen, Jim, Abbie, Reese, and James

November 2, 2010

We were terribly shocked and saddened to hear of Dr. Mike's passing. I just had my son Mark to the office on Sat morning, I cannot imagine bringing my kids to the office and not seeing his wonderful smile. Always smiling, always happy, always time for a chat.
Always showing me pictures of his beloved Kate. This was a man who truly loved children and loved what he did and the kids knew it and loved him too. Always time to answer questions, always patient, just an outstanding man doing an outstanding job both as a Dr. and as a human being. We have had Dr. Mike for the past 12 years for our son Mark age 12 and Christine age 11. They loved him.
This is such a loss and will be felt by so many. Our deepest sympathies to Dr. Mark who by the way is just like his dad, and our sympathies to all of Dr. Mikes family and his amazing staff, Chris, Rita and the entire office. We will miss you Dr. MIke, thank you for everything, The Russo Family, Christine and Mark, Louise and Mark

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike will be missed so much by our family, he has taken excellent care of our children through the years. Our deepest sympathy to his family. Kim,Justin, Jade and Devin Moreau

Nancy & Tim Johansen

November 2, 2010

We were so sad to read about Dr. Mike's death today. I remember meeting him as a new mom to twins 12 years ago. He kept me sane during those first few years and has cared for all three of my children in the same supportive and loving manner ever since. Our deepest sympathies to his family and staff. God Bless.

Talbot

November 2, 2010

We will sadly miss your smile and special way you treated your patients. God must have needed a special doctor in heaven. That is why he chose you. Thanks for all you have done for my children and every patient who was blessed to be treated by you.

Darlene Millette

November 2, 2010

A success is making a difference in the life of a child ~ Thank You Dr. Mike, it was an honor knowing you. Tim and I will always remember your kindness.

Laura Goodman

November 2, 2010

I have had the pleasure of working with Dr. Mike for the past 20 years. His compassion and commitment to his patients was truly inspirational. Dr. Mike was not only a pediatician to his many patients, he was a part of their families! Aside from his love for his profession, he would often express his love for his family...the most recent being the excitement he had for being a grandfather! I will never forget his soft, soothing voice, and warm smile! Our community has lost an amazing pediatrician, family member, and friend. We will miss you, Dr. Mike!

Monique Casey

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike will be greatly missed by our family. He has been a friend and respect colleague for many years. He cared for our two children and has been there for us through many illnesses. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. He was a great man and will be missed deeply.

Karen, Beef, Jack Bieren

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike was awesome. He was always comforting and reassuring putting our minds at ease with any problem. He will be missed.

How proud Dr. Mike's family must feel to see how many lives he has touched. He was truly a great man.

Paul & Anne-Marie Emond

November 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Carol, family and staff. We will never forget the help, support, and kindness Dr. Mike gave us when our two boys, Kenny and Kevin, suffered with Mucopolysaccaridoses. He was also a friend and mentor to our daughter, Dawn-Marie, when she decided to go to medical school and become a pediatrician. Dr. Mike will live on in the hearts of many people whose lives he touched.

Donna Edwards

November 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the Gilchrist Family. Dr. Mike treated all three our children as well as treating us parents with the same great humor, intelligence and caring. We will always remember the Sunday morning he met us at his office in his pajama's because we had an early flight to catch and Blake was covered in a rash, which turned out to be nothing, just as Dr. Mike suspected, but he still came in! He touched our lives with priceless parenting advice and kindness which will live in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace Dr. Mike.
Love The Edwards Family.
Charlie, Donna, Jasmine, Blake and Grant

Dr Ashok Joshi

November 2, 2010

I will always remember him. As a colleague he was always professional, helpful and personable with a smile on his face. I shall miss him. His loss will be felt by all the physicians in the community.

November 2, 2010

We will miss Dr. Mike. He has been like family to us {family you like}.He was my doctor when I was a kid and he is my kids doctor.There is no doctor I trusted more.Our deepest sympathy to his family,friends and staff.We will miss his big smile and soft voice. Jeff,Chris,Logan & Kyle Miller

Colleen,Dan,Danny and Caitlin Shea

November 2, 2010

To the Gilchrist Family and Dr. Mike's wonderful staff:
Our children have been patients for Eleven years and will deeply miss our visits with Dr. Mike. We are so very sorry for your loss. He was truly a gifted doctor. The Shea Family

Pam, Kirsten, Dwight Landry

November 2, 2010

I was very sad to hear about Dr. Mike. He will be missed by myself and my children. He was kind and always had great advice to me as a parent. Thoughts and prayers to his family and staff.
The Landry Family

November 2, 2010

This is a sad day. Dr. Mike was both my and my husband's doctor many years ago. My children saw him as well. He is someone that will never be replaced! Deepest Sympathy to his family and his staff.

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike has been a part of our lives for so long, and such a great doctor to my children that it is hard to say goodbye. All of us that knew or just met Dr. Mike once will morn his passing. Thoughts and prayers to the family and staff.
The Guiliani Family

Laurie & Rick Vertuccio

November 2, 2010

We will miss Dr. Mike and his big smile, he was a great doctor and offered lot's of great parenting advice. Dr. Mark ,Carol and staff, please accept our deepest sympathy.

November 2, 2010

This is devastating news to our family to hear about the passing of Dr. Gilchrist. We were shocked and saddened to hear the news. Dr. Mike was a fantastic human being and a terrific doctor. We will miss Dr. Gilchrist greatly and we wnt to express Condolence to his family.
Frater Family

Barbara Carroll

November 2, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Polce Family

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike - we will miss you deeply. You were a rare gem in this world. Loved when you said "take him home and love him." Thank you for all your kindness, care, humor and warmth.

Cheryl Lariviere

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike will be truly missed. He was my son's doctor from day one - birth. He helped me get over many obstacles with my sons severe adhd. One summer he suggested taking him off his medication for the summer and lo and behold, my son never went back on any meds for attention deficit. He didnot need any medication. I thank Dr. Mike for that suggestion and all the extra time he took to listen to the stories of my son growing up. I know he would be proud of my son playing high school sports today. Dr. Mike will be missed by my family. He was a genuine, kind hearted and very patient man. Much sympathy to his family. May he rest in peace.

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike was, is, and will always be forever in our hearts. He was wonderful to my son, Mike. He will be missed dearly by us and the many other families that he cared for. Our deepest sypmathy for Carol and his family and the entire staff.

Rob, Karen & Michael Morin, Dracut, MA

Michele (Pappalardo) Conde

November 2, 2010

I am so saddened to hear the news of Dr. Gilchrist's passing. The world has lost a genuinely special man. His kind, calming nature has touched countless people over the years, and I feel so lucky to have been one of them. He was my pediatrician for many years when I was a kid, and I loved him so much that I refused to make the switch to an adult doctor for a VERY long time. He loved his work and he made people feel safe with his gentle personality and warm smile. I have yet to come across another doctor anywhere that cared half as much about his patients (and their parents) as he did.

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and staff. Know that he will never, ever be forgotten.

- Michele (Pappalardo) Conde

November 2, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

DJ & Jennifer Reynolds

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike you will be missed by many. Your Caring love for children will last for generations. Rest in peace.

Michael Troy

November 2, 2010

Dr. Mike was my pediatrician for many years, and a mentor to me personally. One of the main reasons I love medicine. But most of all, he was a terrific and caring man with a kind heart. He always knew how to make someone smile. Deepest sympathies to his family.

darlene lawrenson

November 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathys to Dr.Mikes family and Office family.We were so sad to hear about Dr.Mikes passing.He was the kindest sweetest caring man ive ever met.My kids are now 18 and 15 years old ,as babies they would go for their shots and everytime after Dr. Mike would say "Pick him up and Love him" He will be greatly missed! god bless The Lawrenson Family
Rick Darlene Jonathan and Katie

Susan Labonte

November 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathies to Dr Mike's family. He was a wonderful doctor. He always made you feel as though you were his only patient. His smile made you smile - We will miss him dearly - may he rest in peace. The Labonte Family in Pelham, NH

Darlene Batts

November 2, 2010

I have cried many a tear over this news. I still haven't told my kids. Dr. Mike was my pediatrician when I was a little girl and also the pediatrician for my son (5) and daughter (2.5). I also grew up with Dr. Mark. All I can do is reiterate what so many others have said on here. He was the most amazing physician. He truly cared and he had this way about him that put you immediately at ease. No matter why you were in the office...you left smiling. My husband and I drive 40 minutes from Londonderry, NH to have Dr. Mike see our kids. We wouldn't have it any other way. I attribute my continued breastfeeding effort with my first child to Dr. Mike (1 year for the first child and 19 months for the second). When all the hosptial nurses and lactation consultants scared me half to death that I was starving my son, Dr. Mike had me come directly to his office, where he told me, "You have one job and one job only. Take him home and love him. Hold him to your breast all day long. When he is hungry he will eat. You are not allowed to worry. You let me worry. I'll meet you in the office every day (even Saturday and Sunday) and I'll weigh him and examine him. He is just perfect. Take him home and love him". When I was upset that my 6 month old daughter still woke repeatedly at night, he said, "Are you having anymore"? To which I replied, "No". He said, "Then why rush it? Before you know it she will be all grown and you'll long for the days that you had that quiet one on one time with her, cuddling her in the middle of the night". "Isn't it wonderful, don't you love it?" "Just take her home and love her". All of a sudden it wasn't so bad and I did just what he said, I took them home and loved them. It's simple really, but only Dr. Mike could make us see it at the time. My most sincerest condolences to Mark, Carol, Greg, the practice and all his grieving patients and parents. He is irreplacable. Such a terrible loss to this community.

The Batts Family (Mark, Darlene, Ryan and Caitlin)

Stuart MacFadgen

November 2, 2010

He was the perfect Doctor for all 4 of our children, he will be deeply missed...

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