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NILUS MACKEY Obituary

MACKEY, Nilus J., Jr. Of Brighton February 18, 2014 Beloved husband of Nhung T. (Pham) Mackey. Devoted brother of Christine Mackey, Joseph Mackey and his wife Janice, Mary Ellen Thibodeau and her husband Louis. Uncle of Billy and Joey Thibodeau. Loving son of the late Nilus and Helene (Milischi) Mackey. Visiting Hours in the Lehman Reen & McNamara Funeral Home, 63 Chestnut Hill Ave. (nr. Brighton Courthouse), BRIGHTON, Friday 4-8 pm. Followed by Prayer Service at 8 pm. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Interment Private. In lieu of flowers donations in memory of Nilus may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701. Funeral Home Handicapped Accessible. For directions and guest book please visit www.lehmanreen.com Lehman Reen & McNamara Funeral Home Brighton 617 782 1000

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Published by Boston Globe from Feb. 19 to Feb. 20, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
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Jim Ellis

February 13, 2019

Not a week goes by that I don't think of Nilus. He had a great impact, not only on me, but everyone he came in contact with. I miss his sense of humor the most.

Thu Tran

February 13, 2019

He's smiling down on us from heaven! Happy Valentines Nilus!

March 29, 2014

So sorry to hear about the sad news of Nilus. I was lucky to know you via Nhung and remember you as a great person - very smart and interesting. Rest in peace Nilus.

Thuy Pham - HCMC . VN

Carol Dunn

March 25, 2014

Nilus you had a kindness and quiet passion about you that defined you and blessed us, your friends. Gone too soon but never forgotten. Rest now Nilus. I offer my sympathies to the Family.

Carol Dunn

March 25, 2014

I remember his kindness. Nilus was a man who had a quiet passion for life. A fun friend who enjoyed playing in his band. I last spoke with him in 2011 and his presence always made me feel better. A dear friend gone much to soon. Rest now Nilus. My sincere condolences to his family.

March 21, 2014

Nilus and myself went to the OakSquare School together. We were good friends at the time...Rest in peace Nilus. Brian Hickman

Hop Nguyen

March 9, 2014

To say good bye to someone you love is never easy. Especially that someone is Nilus. You adored him. Because of that, his memories and his love for you will live on. Love is the only thing never die. May you find comfort in the wonderful things Nilus left for you. And hope that you will find all the strength you need for healing. I pray for you and the Mackey family at this sad time.

Leo and Rachael Fontaine

March 1, 2014

Good old friend Nilus Enjoyed our conversations,those will be missed. Another one of the good guys,have left us way to soon. Condolences to all the Mackey Family. E-Mail me at Rachael's e-mail [email protected] if i can help in anyway.

Thomas Plant

February 28, 2014

Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of Nilus. May he be in the loving hands of God.

February 26, 2014

Very sorry about Nilus. He was such a nice man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Jackie Helen-Glennie

Sean McGrail

February 24, 2014

Very sad to hear the news about Nilus. My thoughts are with you.

David & Jacquie Pitts-Murfield

February 24, 2014

Our deepest condolences to the Mackey family and to his many friends. One of a kind, he was. A real gem. We were lucky to have known him.

Kevin Sullivan

February 24, 2014

Nilus was a great person with a great wit.
The world will miss him

February 24, 2014

I first met Nilus during a visit with him and his wife, my best friend from childhood. I will forever remember him for his hospitality, but most of all for his extensive knowledge and for the lessons in US history during one of our dinners out on the bacony of their home. Last but not least, thank you Nilus for giving Nhung the best of your love. Rest in peace Nilus.
Thu Tran, Florida

February 23, 2014

Jerry Daly

February 23, 2014

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of my good friend, Nilus. I remember him as a caring and generous young man with the best sense of humor. My condolences to brother Joe and the rest of his family.

Nhung Mackey

February 23, 2014

I don't know what I would have done without you guys, family, friends, working teams ... ! Thank you so much for all the help and support you gave me in organizing the funeral. Words cannot express my gratitude

A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
RIP, Nilus my love

Nhung Mackey

February 23, 2014

Thong Pham

February 22, 2014

Thong Pham

February 22, 2014

Nilus loves my kids so much.
Loving Vietnam, intends stay here after retiring.
Driving motorbike in VN like a young cowboy.
Nice with all his wife relatives who so sad when known he gone.
Miss him.

Paul Koumanelis

February 22, 2014

ni was th bass player in our band.
nilas, his brother joe, his mom, dad, the whole family took me in when i fell on hard times as a teenager.
wonderful people, great person, fond memories. irreplaceable.

joe mackey

February 22, 2014

Word,s can,t say how proud i am. thank you everyone. Nilus know,s that we all were not able to be there in person. and we were all there in heart. again from the bottom of our heart,s thank,s ..we know you were there with us. the Mackey,s

Jack Barry

February 21, 2014

Nilus is in heaven teaching the angels how to do the voices on the firesign theater albums.

Bob Lynch

February 21, 2014

Niles was like my older brother growing up in Oak Square. We played and listened to a lot of music, hung out and laughed a lot. He was a most unique individual and will be missed by all the people that knew and loved him. Just think... he is most likely hanging out with John Daly & Charlie Mehegan. Rest in peace my
brother.
Bob (Booba) Lynch

Hoa Hien Ngo

February 21, 2014

We miss you, Nilus! Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Chi Nhung, we are very sorry for your loss. We wish you strength during this difficult time.

John Owen

February 21, 2014

Nilus was one of a kind, bright and with a sharp wit. I am glad to have known him.

Dan Meola

February 21, 2014

I will always remember the good times I had with my friend Nilus.

Leah Hynes

February 21, 2014

Keeping you all close in our thoughts and in our hearts.
-Leah, Ellen, and Leslie

February 20, 2014

Jay, you hit the nail on the head! Thank,s Folk,s . Joe Mackey

February 20, 2014

J. hit the nail on the head. thank,s everyone joe mackey

MaryBeth Lavin

February 20, 2014

So sorry to hear the sad news about Nilus. I was lucky enough to know and work with Nilus at Verizon. He was so smart and interesting. He was always willing to share his knowledge and help others. He is gone too soon, but never forgotten...R.I.P. Ny....Love, MaryBeth

LIfe is too short !

Jay Shippie

February 20, 2014

You left the world to young like a lot of our friends. Oak Square looses another great guy. Sorry that you didn't have the chance to live your retirement years. We'll always remember. See ya Ny !

Judith Daley

February 20, 2014

I am so sorry of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Helen (Bills) Livingston

February 20, 2014

So sorry of hearing the passing of Nilus,he truly will be missed.Thoughts and prays for his wife,& Mackey family

Mickey Coburn

February 20, 2014

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Nilus... A great guy.

Michael Young

February 20, 2014

I did not know Nilus well but I was a huge fan of his music with The Jaguars in the 60's. His band played at my first dance at St. Sebastian's. His work with the band inspired me to also take up music something I have enjoyed my whole life.

Maryann Hall

February 20, 2014

So sorry to hear this very sad news. Hoping the happy memories will get you through this trying time. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
George, Maryann and Jen Hall

Joe Falco

February 20, 2014

Nilus was a dear friend. Prayers and thoughts to his family

Donna Bruno

February 20, 2014

I have the great pleasure of working with and getting to know Nhung. My thoughts and prayers are with you Nhung, Nilus's lovey wife, and the entire Mackey family at this most difficult time. Wishing all of you peace and comfort.

Donna Bruno

Kelly Janerico

February 19, 2014

I will Miss you Uncle Nilus I will never forget all the Christmas's we spent as a family growing up.You were truly a great person

Sharon Head

February 19, 2014

You will be missed. love you Nilus

Alessandra

February 19, 2014

Nilus, you will be missed. I will never forget you and our conversations. You were so smart and always made me laugh. I wish your wife and family peace during this hard time. What a loss to everyone that had the pleasure to truly know you.

Amy Silva Howard

February 19, 2014

I am so sorry to learn of Nilus's passing. I really enjoyed working with him. We had so many great conversations about chemistry and physics and I have funny memories of him helping me argue questions with my chemistry professor. Nilus got me through my nursing prerequisites and I am an RN today because of him. He will be missed by many people.

Jeani Williams

February 19, 2014

My sympathy to Nilus's wife and family. I had the pleasure of working Nilus @ Verizon. He will be missed

Chip Shadyac

February 19, 2014

All peace be yours

Jimmy Ellis

February 19, 2014

I had the pleasure to know and work with Nilus at Verizon. He was a kind, knowledgeable and humorous man, and it saddens me tremendously to hear of his passing. My sincere condolences to his wife and family. He will be missed by many, I'm sure.

Paul Harrington

February 19, 2014

I miss you, Nye, your wit and generosity most. Paul

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