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SALLY MCNEELY Obituary

McNEELY, Sally Ann (O'Donnell) A lifelong resident of Dorchester, passed away peacefully on April 17, 2020. Daughter of the late Mary and Martin O'Donnell of Connemara, Ireland and Dorchester. Loving and devoted mother to Maura Tucker, whom she shared with Thomas McNeely of Ballyshannon, Ireland, and her husband James Tucker of Haverhill. Cherished Mamo of Sara, Maeve and Mari Tucker. Caring sister of Maureen O'Malley and Martin O'Donnell and his wife Dorothea O'Donnell of Dorchester. Proud aunt to Meghan Walsh and her husband Mark Walsh of Braintree, Joseph O'Malley and his partner Heather Campisano of Mansfield, Rachel O'Donnell and her husband Matthew McQuaid of Silver Spring, Maryland and Martin O'Donnell and his partner Sarah Smith of Dorchester. Proud grand-aunt to Owen, Sadie and Ollie. Dear friend of Nancy Barron, Frannie Barron, Eileen Lohan and Anne Parkis. Sally is also survived by her extended family in Connemara, Co. Galway and Ballyshannon, Co. Donegal, Ireland. Sally attended Saint Margaret's Grammar School, Monsignor Ryan Memorial High School, and graduated with honors from Boston College. She worked dutifully for the Commonwealth of Massachusetts for over thirty years, most recently as Director of Civil Service. She was an avid reader, talented knitter and good listener. She was warm, intelligent and gracious. She loved her family and friends dearly, and her most joyful moments came when she was spoiling her granddaughters. They were the lights of her life. A Memorial Service will be held in the future when her family and friends can all be together. A private, graveside service will be held at New Calvary Cemetery, Roslindale. Donations in Sally's memory may be made to the Boston Resiliency Fund, 1 City Hall Square, Room M-5, Boston, MA 02201. For guestbook, please visit jmurphyfh.com Arrangements by the Murphy Funeral Home, DORCHESTER.

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 18 to Apr. 19, 2020.

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Sungjun Park

May 7, 2020

I am so sorry to hear that. I remember Sally's smile and how she had been calm and peaceful. I hope that comfort and peace in Jesus may come to Sally's family.

Manny Gonsalves

May 1, 2020

Sorry to hear. I worked with sally for many years and have nothing but fond memories. She always talked about her daughter Maura and was proud to be a strong Dorchester girl. Most of all she was always kind to me.

Mary Czupailo Peterson

April 23, 2020

Sadden to hear of Sally's passing and of your loss. My thoughts as well as those of the Czupailo family are with you and your extended family. I have many fond childhood memories of time spent with Sally. She was kind, open hearted and very bright. God Bless, my condolences to you

Karen Janulewicz

April 23, 2020

Dear Moe and Marty and families, on behalf of my Lynch family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Blessings to you all. Love Karen Lynch Janulewicz and family.

Mark and Joanne Czyrklis

April 22, 2020

To Moe, Marty and all your family our deepest condolences for the passing of Sally. May she rest in peace. God Bless.

Shira Krimsky

April 21, 2020

I am so sorry for this untimely loss. I had the privilege of getting to know Sally during the short time that I worked with her, and she was always kind, caring and genuine. I hope she is resting peacefully

Susan Towlson

April 21, 2020

Blessings and condolences for the loss of your loved one. I was so sorry to hear of Sally's passing. I worked with her and always looked up to her. Sally had a lot of institutional knowledge and was a very kind soul who smiled upon everyone. She will be missed. Sending prayers to the family.

Jimmy Whelan

April 20, 2020

So sorry to hear of Sally's passing . My condolences to her whole family . May she Rest in Peace

Amy Grace-Lynch

April 20, 2020

Dear Maura and family, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of Sally. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Sally was a wonderful and dedicated manager and friend. Her Irish wit was superb! grá duit go léir

Katie and Briocan Mannion

April 19, 2020

So sorry for your lose!

Coleman McDonough

April 19, 2020

Sorry to hear about Sally 's passing and we send our sympathy to the entire family.

Richie & Betty Cikacz.

April 19, 2020

We are so sorry to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Brenda Geoghan

April 19, 2020

I was so sad to hear about Sally's passing.
Sally was my dear friend as well as my boss. My sincere sympathy to all her family and friends.
Brenda Geoghan

Eileen Conway-Martin

April 19, 2020

So sorry to hear of Sally's passing. I went to school with Sally and loved when we were very young, meeting her at the corner of her street and walking to school together. Sally was so upbeat that it was a wonderful way to begin the day. Was looking to a little step dance with Sally at our 50 year reunion. So, some of us will still do it and you can join us from heaven. Blessings to the family. Eileen Conway-Martin

Norma Moran

April 18, 2020

On behalf of my family Moe,Maura,Marty and all the family we send our deepest sympathy to each of you. May she and God give you the strength you each need I am praying for you all love and peace
Norma,Tommy Moran and Mary Cox.
Cheshire,Connecticut

Kathy Costello

April 18, 2020

To Maura, Moe, Marty and families,
We are so sorry about the loss of Sally. Sally was gentle, classy and so intelligent. She loved you all. Love Kathy Pat and family xxxxx

Luz Henriquez - Rebelo

April 18, 2020

My sincere condolences to Sally's family and friends. I was lucky to work under the direction of Sally for a decade at Civil Service. Sally was a fountain of knowledge at Civil Service. I couldn't have had a better mentor than Sally. She will be missed. May you rest in peace.

Annemarie & Mickey Reaney & Family Reaney

April 18, 2020

My heart goes out to all of you. Our deepest of sympathies to each of you Maura Moe Marty. May the many happy treasured memories you have help you through this difficult time. And May you Rest In Heavenly Peace Sally ❤

Marc Chavanne

April 18, 2020

My deepest sympathy is extended to Sally's family and many friends. I was fortunate to have worked with Sally for many years. She was the ideal colleague, competent, loyal, honest and funny. Her camaraderie and humor were much needed to get through the difficulties we faced. In a phrase she was fond of using, she was "the belle of the parish. Maura, I had the pleasure of seeing you in the office on occasion. Her devotion to you was clear as was how proud she was of you. Cherish the memories of her,

Warmest regards,

Marc Chavanne

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