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Karen Shapiro
June 5, 2025
I was a student at East Hampton High School and while in chorus he kept stopping us and said he could hear someone off key( I knew he heard my horrible singing voice) so I just mouthed the words and never sang out loud again!!! lol I had only hoped that one day I could sing for him in chorus again but in tune and on key!!! His wife painted a picture of our home which hung in my home til last week when my sister gifted it to Mark the owner of our former restaurant and is now Nick & Toni´s. We just found out of his passing and know his legacy will live on in stories yet to be told. Sending heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.



Mary Jane Stumph-Lohmeier
March 7, 2025
MARY JANE STUMPH-LOHMEIER
As Stafford´s sister I have known him longer than anyone else. We grew up together in Florida but then went our separate ways after school. I remember him as witty, caring, talented, trustworthy and devoted to his family. He never met a stranger (like our dad Woody) and enjoyed spinning tales of happenings of friends and family. We had many great visits with him and Trisha and John in later years mostly in FL after our parents passed. I loved him dearly and will miss our fun visits and phone calls so much. I look forward to our reunion in Glory!
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Arthur and Soteria
March 7, 2025
A true gentleman. He will remain in our hearts, always.
May his memory be eternal.
Kerry and Thomas Baker
March 7, 2025
Sending you our deepest sympathies for Staff, a musician well respected and loved among his students at East Hampton High School. With lots of love Trish.

Arthur and Soteria
March 7, 2025
A wonderful friend who will always be close in our hearts.

Ron McCreary
March 7, 2025
Stafford was a good friend and fellow School of Music student at Florida State University in the 1960s. I spent a lot of time in the Kellum Hall room he shared with Fred Kagi. He was a delight. Blessings and peace to Tricia and the family.
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