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Roberta Rossi
October 26, 2020
Miss you dearly... no matter how many years have gone by...wish you were here to see what fine women your cousins have become!! You instilled them still after all the years!! They still talk about your crazy jokes.. and the love you showed them even when they were so young.. now they have children of their own they show them what love is about! LOVE AUNT RO
September 16, 2017
Tears stil stream down my face when I think of you!! I wish you were here so you can see what great women Haley, Natalie, Jaclyn turned into I know you are up there watching over them!!! You are their personal angel!! LOVE YOU AUNT RO11
Haley Noviello
September 14, 2017
I pray to you every night that you are watching over me. I wish you were here to meet my crazy children and be apart of their lives. Just the other day Sadie asked me about a necklace in my car that I have always had hanging of a butterfly that said Best, "Who has the other necklace that says Friend?" Thank goodness Michael was in the car because tears immediately came running down my face and I couldn't form any words. Michael grabbed my hand and told Sadie that one of my really close cousins, Stephanie that passed away had it. She didn't know what to say besides "Please don't cry" after a few minutes I got myself together and was able to tell her a few stories about you. She started to laugh when I told her you LOVED singing "just keep swimming" and talking like a whale. As we pulled into the garage Sadie said, "I can see why you got so upset when I asked about the necklace, she seemed like a really cool girl to be friends with and even better that she was family. I hope I get to find my Stephanie one day so I can laugh as much as you guys did."
Steph I miss you more and more every day. I wish you were here for all the great moments happening so I could hear some funny comment from you or even just chat over a glass of wine. I love you so much. Please keep watching over my family.
November 1, 2013
missing you still. doubt that will ever end. be.
Jackie
October 31, 2013
??? Steph???
October 29, 2013
Years go by.. but sometimes a smile comes to my face because I can remenber the silly little girl that I loved some much...but as I sit here writing this my tears are falling.. I miss you Steph Love Aunt Ro
Jaclyn Robinson
October 27, 2013
Today, 7 years later, it feels like it was yesterday you were here with us. It also hurts like it was yesterday that we lost you. I wish I knew, I wish I could've done more to let you know how loved you were. I wish you could read all these beautiful messages from people whose lives you have touched. I wish. I wish, I wish. But, you are gone. Never forgotten. I carry your laughter and life lessons with me every day. You are my angel. I love you.
Steph's Bday - 2004
December 5, 2012
@ a bday party in Naples, FL
betty
December 5, 2011
Happy Birthday Steph. I found this pix of you on an old hard drive. You'd be mad for me posting it but I'm going to anyway. It was at Barb's bday party so it seems appropriate for this day for you. miss you still a lot. betty
Haley
November 11, 2010
steph i really miss you like it happened yesturday. i miss the way that you walked into a room no matter what was going on and just made everyone laugh or smile. no matter what we could always count on you to make someones day better whether it was you sining finding nemo or just making a quick funny comment you never failed to lighten a mood. you have taught me so much and are a role model for who i want to be. you were not only my cousin but my best friend. you are someone that i think of everyday and wish you were here to see how i have grown and what i have accomplished because of you. you are someone who is greatly loved and even more missed. you left footprints in the sand that with your help i will follow. i love you so much
betty
October 28, 2010
You are on my mind. I miss you. I hope you are ok.
Missing You
October 27, 2010
Angel in my Heart.
MaryAnne Lopes
October 20, 2010
Stephanie. I know that your Angel Day is coming up. Now that I have 4 kids it is not so easy to get online, so I wanted to wish you a Happy Early Angel Day now <3 I am trying to work on an online memorial for you. I am hoping that it will be complete soon. Sending you lots of love and missing you still xoxoxoxoxoxo
Barbara
February 15, 2010
Dear Steph -
Please give your uncle Gary a hug and kiss from all of us.
Love,
Michelle Mason Bouvier
December 10, 2009
I went to school with Stephanie, I just learned of her passing, I remember meeting her for the first time on the playground in like, first grade at Hajjar Elementary School, she was always smiling and happy, was friendly and outgoing. My condolances to the family. So sorry for your loss.
Betty
October 29, 2009
Stephanie has been so much on my mind this week. it's hard to miss her all over again. i have her picture on my bar this week and hoping she is safe and at peace. i miss you Steph still...and probably always. Betty
October 29, 2009
3 years later I still feel the pain of missing you.. but I know you are at peace with Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle Kevin and Uncle Brian...
Love Aunt Ro
October 28, 2009
I can't believe it has been three years...Thinking of you often, Steph...R.I.P. always....Stephanie and Delaney
Paula Souza Byers
July 27, 2009
Wow, I just now 2 1/2 yrs later learned of Stephanie's passing through FB. I am so sorry to learn of this loss. I knew Stephanie through her brother Mike and from BMHS Gymnastics. She was a great kid and always there to put a smile on your face when you thought it wasn't possible. She had a heart of gold! She is certainly missed!
Tara Kirby
May 4, 2009
I am very sorry. I knew Steph in grade school. She was a really good friend. My thoughts are with your family.
Betty
December 5, 2008
Another year without you on your birthday. You and your family remain close to my thoughts. Miss you, Steph.
Betty A
December 5, 2007
Happy Birthday Steph. You are so missed.
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This was the picture in the Naples Daily News from World AIDS Day, possibly 2001. Steph was in line to light a candle. She had sung a solo that evening of, of course, Amazing Grace. Her signature song.
October 28, 2007
Steph playing on the beach in Naples, FL just before she moved there.
Betty Aubut
October 28, 2007
Hey Steph,
I remember this day like it was yesterday. You were visiting Naples before you moved there and you, of course, were goofing around as usual. Now, you look like you were testing your wings. I miss you so much and rarely a day goes by yet, that I don't think of you with a tear in my eye. You touched more peoples lives than you will ever know. Love you and have missed you for a full year now. Hard to believe!
Michelle Toczko
October 27, 2007
I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity.
Stephanie, you are missed
Melissa Bearse-Borelli
May 23, 2007
My family just told me about Stephanie's passing. My deepest sympathy to Stephanie's close friends and family. I knew Stephanie in High School and just can not believe the little girl with the huge heart of gold and fierce loyalty is gone!
Mary Long
November 6, 2006
Steph
I will miss you so much but I do have our Memories.You were so special to alot of people.I hope all the pain is gone and I know you will always be watching over all who cared about you.You are our special Angle.
Mary Long
Tammy Davis
November 3, 2006
Stephanie was a caring and sincere friend who I could always go to when I needed a laugh or a shoulder. Her good natured spirit will always be with me forever!
Jackie Robinson
November 3, 2006
Like everyone else has written, I will miss Steph more than words can express. I remember being little and Steph would always do up my hair and makeup my face. I remember idolizing her and wanted nothing more to hang out with her. Now I look back at all the memories and wish there were more. I haven't been around much and I could have done more to be there and spend time. Family is so important and we should never take that for garnted. I love you and will miss you terribly Steph. (p.s. you guys shouldn't have left me in the tent!!)
Laura Jordan
November 3, 2006
As a new member of the family, I did not have the opportunity to get to know Stephanie well. The one time I did meet her, I enjoyed talking to her,and was really looking forward to future visits with her. Over the past few days, listening to people talk about her, I realized I missed out on knowing a really great person. In that way, this was my loss too. My prayer are always with her family.
Ron Cocuzzo
November 2, 2006
Mike, I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful daughter my deepest sympathies. May perpetual light shine upon her and may stephanie rest in peace.
Beanie Jordan
November 1, 2006
Steph was a beloved niece. She always had a smile, and a happy heart. Even when life had her down, she looked for the good side.She left her mark on this world, and everyone who knew her is better for it. She was silly and fun, and made me laugh. She will be missed. I love you, Steph.
Christopher DeLuca
November 1, 2006
Words cannot describe the loss that every one of us is experiencing right now. Steph was an amazing woman and will live on in all of us. She gave me something that no one can take away and I'll cherish the time we spent together forever. I'll miss you Steph.
Barbara Sweeney
November 1, 2006
I only met Stephanie twice and spoke to her on the telephone a few times. Still, the news of her passing saddens me greatly because she seemed like such a sweet girl. Hopefully, she is in a much better place. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to her family. I have no doubt she will be missed by all of you.
John Gheringhelli
November 1, 2006
I only knew Stephanie for a short time, but I knew she was in pain. I am so glad that I took time to to understand what she was going through in her life. You have my deepest sympathy.
Stephanie Hall
November 1, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Stephanie Rest in Peace...You are in my Thoughts and Prayers.
Karen Smith
November 1, 2006
I sit in my office just numb and wordless. Her face is in my mind's eye, smiling, laughing, joking and full of life. I hear her voice. I see her working so hard with us at Neighborcare Pharmacy, all those long, busy nights, typing away and joking at it all. And, all I can ask is why? What could I have done better for her? Her smiling face stares back at me from her photo I have on my office wall. She will forever remind me that life is shorter than we think and all that really matters is each other.
November 1, 2006
My sincere sympathy to Steph's family and friends. I had the privilege of working with Stephanie at Neighborcare in Woburn, MA. In addition to being a smart and conscientious worker, she was a terrific human being...always very thoughtful, fun and sincere. It was always such a pleasure to be at work when Stephanie was there. I feel so sorry for everyone's loss, but know she is at peace.
Patti Magee
Roberta Rossi
November 1, 2006
Steph, was my Godchild, but she was my daughter in my heart, I took for granted that she will always be here for the daughter that I now have, whom she loved and made sure that she had fun with doing all things that kids love to do. The pain is great, but alot of memories of her make me smile and laugh. I will miss her greatly. She is with her Grandma
Aunt RO
Dawn McQueary-Vezina
November 1, 2006
Stephanie was a wonderful human being who meant more to my girls and I than you can imagine. She brought a lot of energy, laughter and of course Nemo into our lives. My girls think of her as their friend (not mommy's friend) and she will be dearly missed. Rest in peace Honey Bunches of Oats -- we love you.
Mary Jordan-Degeis
November 1, 2006
My niece Steph understood what the word family meant. There was not anything she wouldn't do for her Mom or her Aunt Ro. She spent time with Haley and Nat when most people her age are too involved in their own life to care about their younger cousins. But not Steph, she truly enjoyed them. She will live on in them. I will miss you my silly beautiful niece.
Glenn DeLuca
November 1, 2006
I met Steph through my brother Chris DeLuca, and Jennifer Babbitt, and although I didn't know her very well, it was usually pretty interesting when you did get to hang out with her.
She's very special, especially to those who really know her, and I can't say how sorry I am now that we didn't get to talk more.
My sincerest regrets go to those of you closest to her. Stay Strong.
Kurlene Collis
November 1, 2006
Stephanie was a special person, a kind soul, full of life and always giving of herself. I have only known her for a couple of years but have learned so much. I am speechless, but I know that she is in a better place. I will miss her terribly and her memory will live in my heart forever. My deepest sympathy goes out to her family and friends.
Krissy Bilyeau
November 1, 2006
I met Steph in Florida through my parents, Jeffie Weffie and Barbie, as she would call them. It cracked me up everytime she would say it. I could go on and on with all the Steph-isms that will be fondly remembered. As you all know she had this amazing gift of laughter, energy and spirit that will live on forever. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends that she loved so dearly. I'm sorry I missed riding bikes with you on your new Dolce...I'll miss you Stephie Weffie.
Paula Michalski/kukas
October 31, 2006
I will always remember the special times I ahd with Steph aswell as Ryan,Jen and Mike. We were like (4) pees in a pod. We shares alot of memories and we also learned alot with each other as we grew-up together. I wish I could hear steph voice now. I love you steph and I will miss you. May your voyage be peaceful and beautiful. I wil cherrish the memories, laughts and adventures we had together. I 'll miss you dearly much lvoe paula xoxoxo
Paula Michalski/Kukas
October 31, 2006
The times I remember that I had with step as well as jen,ryan and mike I will never forget. We were like(4)pees in a pod and had so many adventures and laughts together. I will always remember those wonderful times. Steph will always be a special person in my heart forever and always. I wish I could have heard her voice again.. Steph I hope your voyage is beautiful. love always paula xoxo
David Cobb
October 31, 2006
I was fortunate enough to meet Stephanie through her best friend Jennifer Babbitt whom I served with in the Coast Guard. Stephanie was a wonderful and pleasant person whom I will never forget. When ever she would greet me, she would say "Hello Fireman" I will never forget her humor. It was an honor to have known her and I will miss her greatly.
Jeff & Barb Bilyeau
October 31, 2006
Stephanie was like a daughter to us and we will miss her dearly. She will live forever in our hearts, ever safe in the gentle and loving hands of God. We love you Steph.
Haley Degeis
October 31, 2006
Steph was a great friend, neice, daughter, and cousin. There are so many good times that we had together. She was an awesome listener and always had something nice or funny to say. I will never forget what she said over the phone a couple of weeks ago when I was complaining to her about some typical teenage problems and she said, " haley life gets rough and you just want to give up but you know you can't let that get you down live life to the fullest because you never know what is going to happen." There are no words that discribe what she ment to me and how much I will miss her. She was the best and she always put a smile on everyones face.
Jennifer Babbitt
October 31, 2006
Stephanie was my best friend and I will miss her everyday for the rest of my life. She taught me how to be stronger and how to laugh at myself. She was a wonderful person who touched everyone she met. I know she is at peace.
Jonathan Furshpan
October 31, 2006
Stephanie was full of life, laughter, and love. I will miss her always.
My sincerest condolences to the Orthman family.
Charlene Babbitt
October 31, 2006
I consider Stephanie as my own daughter and I still can't believe she is gone. I will miss her beyond words can express.
Cheryl Avedissian
October 31, 2006
Stephanie was an exceptional person and a close friend. Her smile and generosity touched so many of us and she will forever be remembered for her thoughtfulness.
Even though I only knew her for a brief time, she will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this difficult time.
Ray and Carole Aubut
October 31, 2006
So sorry to hear of your loss. Stephanie was always a fun person to be around. She spent time with us when she lived in Naples. Our prayers go out to her mother and family members. She was a sweet girl.
Betty Aubut
October 31, 2006
I sit in complete wordlessness and still in tears for Steph. Like has already been said, there was never a lack of laughter when Steph was around. She was a very dear friend and my life is forever richer for having known her. Anyone in Naples who is unable to attend her Billerica services, please join a group of her friends at the pier on Thursday, Nov 2 at 11am for a remembrance circle. She never knew how many lives she touched everyday. I will miss her. My thoughts go out to all her family. I know you all meant the world to her. Love, Betty
Jennifer Downing
October 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you Aunt Kathy. I wish I could be there for you. Just know I am there for you in spirit. I love you and miss.
Sharyn (Hanna) Bobb
October 31, 2006
I went to high school with Stephanie, and I was blessed that she also became one of my friends. She was an extraordinary woman. She will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
Mary McHugh
October 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time. I would especially like to express my condolences to John Orthman, a fellow coworker and friend.
Holly Perreault
October 31, 2006
There was never a dull moment when Stephanie was around. She imbued humor, thoughtfulness, and vivacity to any situation she encountered. Her joy and laughter will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Tania Chudy-Pesta
October 31, 2006
I am sorry for your loss. Family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.
Terry Greenberg
October 31, 2006
I have worked with Stephanie at the last 2 jobs and she was a very special girl and I will miss her emmensly. My prayers and thoughts will be with the family forever Terry Greenberg
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