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Steven Perry Obituary

PERRY, Steven Cayton 57, passed away on Aug. 8, 2011 after a brief illness, at St. Luke's Hospital in New Bedford, surrounded by his loving family. Born in New Bedford the son of the late Mary (Mederios) Perry and the late Manuel Cayton Perry and lived in Cambridge and Fairhaven for the past 25 years. Steve was the husband of Deirdre (Walsh) Cahill-Perry. Besides his wife, he is survived by two daughters, Caitlin and Heather Perry of Fairhaven; a step daughter, Kaitlyn Cahill of Brookline; two brothers; Donald Perry and his wife Karen of Ashland and Gerald Perry and Alison Medeiros of Fall River; his former wife, Diane Perry of Fairhaven and several nieces, nephews and cousins. Raised in Fall River, Steve graduated from BMC Durfee High School, Bristol Community College, and American International College where he earned a BS in Finance and was an Assistant Vice President and Commercial Real Estate Advisor for Rockland Trust in Brockton. Steve took great pleasure traveling. He also enjoyed football, architecture, Horseneck Beach, kayaking and skiing. In accordance with his wishes he will be cremated and a celebration of his life will be held Sunday, August 14, 2011 at 12:00 noon in the Unitarian Universalist Memorial Church, 102 Green St., Fairhaven. Calling hours will be at the church from 11:00 AM until the time of the service. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Dr. Haddard's Research Fund, Atten: Contribution Services, Dana Farber Cancer Institute 10 Brookline Place, Brookline, MA 02445, or the Southcoast Hospice and Palliative Care, 4th floor Oncology Crapo Building, 200 Mill Rd., Fairhaven, MA 02719. Arrangements are by the Fairhaven Funeral Home, 117 Main Street, FAIRHAVEN. For memorial register go to www.hathawayfunerals.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 10 to Aug. 11, 2011.

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Claudia Gillan

August 28, 2011

Dear Dee,
I was stunned and deeply saddened when I learned that Steve had passed. I cut Steve's hair for 25 years and I miss seeing him. When he told me he was ill, I knew it would be some time before I saw him again. I checked in from time to time and he seemed optimistic. It never occurred to me that I wouldn't see him again. When I emailed him last week and it came back, I couldn't believe it. This kind man was taken from us far too soon.

Please accept my sincere condolences. Peace to you, Caitlin, Heather, and your families.

Steve. see you in heaven!

Peter Martino

August 12, 2011

Dear Dee,
We're so sorry for your loss, please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you through this difficult time.

Dorothy Kolpak

August 12, 2011

Dee,
I was so shocked to learn about Steve. He was such a wonderful guy and we had a good time in NYC a couple of years ago. I will be in touch but in the meantime, hugs to you. Dot

Elsa Armstrong

August 12, 2011

Dear Dee & family, I am so sorry for your loss. I am so happy that we got to meet Steve and enjoy his fun company! My prayers and thoughts are with you through this difficult time. All our Love Elsa & Ugo

August 11, 2011

Dee -- So sorry to hear of this tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Pam Lindmark

Todd Sankey

August 11, 2011

Dee,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Robert Doherty

August 11, 2011

Condolences to Steve's family. Im sorry to hear this news. I broke into the real estate business in the early 80"s with Steve at The Beal Companies. We shared an office and spent many hours together. He was a good early mentor for me. Always generous with time and advice. He will be missed.

Nicki Pacheco

August 11, 2011

Katie and Heather,
Your Dad was one of the funniest and caring people I know. I have many good memories of playing at the beach house when we were younger and tracking 50 pounds of sand through his house on any given day. He really liked fast boats, made great sandwiches and let us play Nintendo in his room.
I know that he loved you both dearly and I hope that you hold on to those memories forever and I hope that you know he's watching over you both, cheering on your accomplishments, laughing at your silly moments and comforting you during tough times, like now.
Your Dad was a giver and always looked out for others (look at Jack the bear) and I know from where he is, he's looking out for you still.

lori mccall

August 11, 2011

DeeDee, I can't believe this, I am so so sorry. Steve was such a nice guy, always so happy whenever we ran into you at Loon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, Lori (Vaughan) and Patrick McCall

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