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FROTHINGHAM, Thomas Eliot He was born in Boston on June 21, 1926. Despite the stigma of repeating kindergarten, he ultimately succeeded in graduating from the Dexter School, St. Marks School, Harvard College, and Harvard Medical School. Dr. Frothingham earned his medical degree in 1951 as part of the U.S. Navy V-12 Program, and interned at Bellevue Hospital in New York City from 1951 to 1952. Between 1952 and 1955, Dr. Frothingham served as a medical officer at the Naval Medical Research Unit in Cairo, Egypt, eventually retiring from the U.S. Naval Reserve at the rank of Commander. Upon returning from overseas, he held positions at Tulane, New York University, and Harvard, before entering private practice at the Corvallis Clinic, in Corvallis, Oregon. In 1973, Dr. Frothingham returned to the East Coast as a professor of pediatrics at Duke University. He founded and served as chief of the Division of General Pediatrics and as director of the pediatric clinics from 1974 to 1987. During that time, he was involved in the pediatric community health program in rural parts of North Carolina. He also served as coordinator of Duke's Health Education Centers. During the 1960s and „70s, Dr. Frothingham also worked in Haiti, Panama, Barbados, and throughout Sub-Saharan Africa, investigating tropical disease and evaluating health care infrastructure and training. As professor emeritus of Duke Pediatrics, Dr. Frothingham helped to found the Center for Child and Family Health, a treatment center for North Carolina's abused and neglected children, and a collaboration of Duke University, North Carolina Central University, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Child and Parent Support Services, and the local community. In retirement, Dr. Frothingham drove frequently to visit children and grandchildren and enjoyed boating with them on Chesapeake Bay. As a youngster, Dr. Frothingham was an avid Beetle Cat sailor and racer in Buzzards Bay, culminating his boating career with a round-trip cruise from Annapolis to Florida on his trawler "Emily Morgan." Dr. Frothingham died peacefully in Durham, North Carolina, on December 27, 2011, surrounded by his family and many others who loved him. He will be remembered for his keen wit, endless curiosity, love of strong drink, and the joy he brought to daily life. He is preceded in death by his former wife Phyllis Steiner, and survived by their children, Phyllis Eliot, Thomas Dean and his wife Beth, Benjamin Rotch, and David Griffith and his wife Kelly; grandchildren, Ian, Ali, Li Fen, Clara, Laura, Jake, and Molly; his former wife Barbara Mathis and her children, Brooke Geiger and Kirsten Michel. Dr. Frothingham specified that a raucous celebration of his life be held on a pleasant summer evening in South Nonquitt, Massachusetts. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: The Thomas Eliot Frothingham Endowment Fund, Center for Child & Family Health, Attn: C. Eileen Watts Welch, ED for Advancement, 411 West Chapel Hill Street, Suite 908, Durham, NC 27701. Contact for Ms. Welch: phone 919-419-3474 x262; Email [email protected] Arrangements for the Frothingham family are under the care of Hall-Wynne Funeral Service. Online condolences www.hallwynne.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Dec. 31, 2011 to Jan. 1, 2012.

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Kirsten Michel

October 1, 2017

I miss you! I tell it to the air often. I still hear your little quips about life, even after so many years. Love you always, k michel

Mary Ellen Gagne

December 1, 2012

Tom, as the one year mark approaches, so many memories from over the years are still fresh in mind. From many holidays with good wine and great conversation, to a dinner on the perfect summer evening, around a dining table in Waban where the wine flowed and a love story was told that began in Egypt with yourself and Phyllis. To our last conversation on Christmas night 2010, accompanied by good cheer (as always). There are many memories that will be treasured.

I imagine a man that may be keeping you busy from time to time over a game of cards or maybe even instructing you on a round of golf.

Namaste

K Michel

May 23, 2012

Tom, you were an inspiration and source for much confidence for this young lady. I, for one, am and will remain saddened for the rest of my life to see you go...thank you for being you with me for many years of my life! I love you!

George Sweeney

February 28, 2012

I knew Tom in Egypt, where he served in the US Naval Medical Research team, and also knew his late wife Phyllis, whom he met in Egypt. I recall his acerbic wit, and enjoyed one memorable trip into the desert at El Alemain, where countless live mines and burned out tanks added to the scenery.

Alfred Skinner

February 26, 2012

Tom was a classmate, friend and fellow pediatrician. We recall our ski ascent of Shuksan Arm together and have Tom on video! Our sympathy to his family. Al and Sarah Skinner

January 25, 2012

Tom was a mentor to me when I spent a year and a half in Tom Weller's laboratory at the Harvard School of Public Health 1965-67. He was an incisive intellect and a caring physician. He was fun to be with and shared some skating stories when my daughter started to be excited about ice dancing at the Skating Club of Boston. Tom is one of my heroes.
Jerome O. Klein, MD
Professor of Pediatrics
Boston University School of Medicine

Bill & Nancy Rohde

January 5, 2012

We are so glad that we were able to spend time with him last year, such a wonderful man!

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