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Thomas McDavitt Obituary

Of Dorchester formerly of So. Boston, August 3, 2007. Beloved husband of Sara L. (Burroughs) McDavitt. Loving father of Erin Brennen & her husband Russ of Marlborough, Thomas P. & his wife Minerva of FL, and Brendan & his wife Orlagh of So. Boston. Dear son of Gail (Cronin) of So. Boston and the late Thomas McDavitt. Devoted grandfather of Jake & MacKenzie Brennen, and Mia McDavitt. Brother of Mary Veit of ME, Sue of So. Boston, Jim of Cambridge, and Joe of Weymouth. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. Visiting hours in the John J. O'Connor & Son Funeral Home, 740 Adams St. (near Gallivan Blvd) DORCHESTER on Wednesday from 4-8 p.m. Funeral Mass Thursday morning in St. Brigid's Church, So. Boston, at 10 o'clock. Relatives and friends respectfully invited. Interment MA National Cemetery, Bourne. Late US Army Vietnam Veteran, and ordained Deacon in the Roman Catholic Church. For directions and message of condolence, www.oconnorandson.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 7 to Aug. 8, 2007.

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Lois Desaulniers

October 1, 2007

Sara,
We are so blessed to have shared many wonderful times with you and Tom. Some of our most precious memories revolve around sharing the joys and struggles of raising our families together in Cedarville. It was so much fun to listen to stories that Bob and Tom told about coaching together. Our vacations together in Enfield, on the Cape and in Florida were awesome. I’ll always remember Tom’s mischievous sense of humor and the twinkle in his eye, as well as his determination to beat me at Jeopardy (nice try). (He definitely owned the Boggle championship, though.) Bob and I will always treasure these moments. These memories will sustain us as the three of us continue to celebrate Tom’s legacy and the friendship that lives on.
Lois

Donna and Bob OBrien

September 1, 2007

Sara,
Although Tom entered our lives but only 1 year ago this has been the
most wonderful year to remember. His and your friendships mean the
world to us. "BIG GUY" will remain in our hearts forever. Tom stood for
what all should be...human kindness and love. His humor was the best
Tom could always bring a smile and sunshine to all he met. Tom will be
surely missed but always in our thoughts. Thank you Tom and Sara for
coming into our lives and your friendship.

August 31, 2007

When I was three and insisted on going to the beach on Christmas day, I learned that sometimes father really does know best, I was daddy's little girl. In second grade when I entered the Gong Show and sang The Battle of New Orleans, I learned how to believe in myself, I was daddy's little girl. After softball games when we would go to Betty Anne's, I learned it was never really about the ice cream, I was daddy's little girl. During our summer vacations, driving up and down the east coast, I learned how important family is, I was daddy's little girl. In high school when he gave me the sign to steal home and I did, I learned how proud he really was of me, I was daddy's little girl. At eighteen when I went away to college he gave me wings, I learned to be independent but he made sure I always called home, I was daddy's little girl. At twenty-four, when he gave me away, I learned that as hard as it is sometimes you have to let go, I was daddy's little girl. At thirty-three when I held Jake for the first time I learned what unconditional love was, I was daddy's little girl. At thirty-seven, I've learned he will always be with me, his memories will keep me strong and I will always be daddy's little girl.

Robert Frye

August 16, 2007

Sara: Hopefully you will remember Bob Frye, a close friend of Tom when we worked at Citgo together.I remember our trip together (Tom & I) to Falls Church VA. to attend an E.K. Williams seminar. By the time the week was over everyone loved Tom. That to me sums him up. He was just a "likeable guy". He had a great sense of humor and I'll never forget his contagious laugh. I'm sorry we (Lorraine and I) never got to see you guys again. But that's the way life goes. We are doing well, with our three children and 3 granchildren.Our deepest sympathy to you and the rest of your family. Please drop us a line, when you get a chance.
Your old friends from Citgo, Bob & Lorraine Frye.

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Alice Carey

August 11, 2007

Dear Sara and Family,
YourTom was one of the finest educators I have ever known - a truly caring, sensitive and giving man. Knowing and working with him made my life better in so many ways. I treasure the memories I have of his great sense of humor and his incomparable qualities as a lover of children and leader of colleagues. My heart goes out to all of you - Tom will always be remembered.

Sean Joyce

August 10, 2007

Brendan & Family,
Your Dad was a great man. I always enjoyed hanging out with him post Bantam games. He was always there supporting the team but more importantly supporting you. He exemplified B.C. High's "Men for others" in his actions every day of his life. I don't think there is a kinder compliment you can say about a person. Our world would be a better place if there were more Tom McDavitt's.

My deepest sympathies to you all,

Anne Rheault

August 10, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Florence Carrigan

August 9, 2007

Sue,

I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your entire family at the passing of your brother Tommy. I know how very much you loved and admired him. Tommy is now another angel in Heaven who will be watching over you.
Love, Florence

Christopher Waddell

August 8, 2007

As
an educational leader and human being, Tom passionately worked for what
he believed. We butted heads and learned much from each other in our
years in Middleboro. Our mutual respect grew and thrived to this day. A
good Man--God Bless

Dr. Tom Hardiman

August 8, 2007

Dear Mrs. McDavitt and Family, I just read of Tom's passing late tonight in our local Plymouth paper. I regret deeply that I was unable to attend his wake or funeral. Believe it or not I was just talking about Tom last night after dinner to my wife. I was telling her how Tom spoke highly of Flagler College as or daughter is interested in possibly attending. I had the distinct pleasure and privledge of caring for Tom as his Podiatrist for about 15 years. He was a role model for me as a man,a husband, a father and a person of deep faith. Tom McDavitt was many diiferent things to many different people, but above all he was a giver.His gift was love. The legacy of love Tom McDavitt has left all of us blessed to have known him will live on,for love is eternal. Thank you Tom.

Lois Quinlan

August 8, 2007

Sue and all the McDavitti family. I know the pain of loosing a brother way to soon. My heart is sad for all of you but you need to believe that he is no longer in pain and is smiling down on all his family now and always with God at his side. You will see him again in a better place.

Tom Abbott

August 8, 2007

It was a heartfelt shock today when the e-mail from our alumni liaison came and there was Tom's name. Back in the 1960s at Norwich University I roomed next to Tom freshman year and under him senior year and rooted for him and the very, very good football team he co-captained. Tom had a great, lively and unique sense of humor and was a lot of fun to be around. You did have to watch what you'd say! Tom will surely be sorely missed.

Jeanmarie (Sweeney) O'Brien

August 8, 2007

Dear Sara and Family: I was terribly saddened to hear of Tom's passing. I can't express in words the positive impact your family had on my life. I think of you often and thank the lord for bringing the two of you into my life at such an important time. My deepest sympathies

Jim Kababik

August 8, 2007

Sara and Family,
My heart goes out to all of you. I was ALWAYS touched by Tom's wisdom and kindness...I am a better person, teacher and counselor because of what I learned from him. My prayers are with YOU.
Love,
Jimmy the K

Marilyn Engel-Walsh

August 8, 2007

Dearest Sara and children, My heart is broken for you (along with my right hip).Be assured that prayers and Masses will be said for Tommy. He's in good hands with John + Hanka!

Betsy Buckley

August 8, 2007

To The McDavitt Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Tom touched many hearts with his kindness and goodness. May all your wonderful memories of him strenghten you in the future. I'm sure God is holding him in the hollow of his hand.

Charlie Norvish

August 8, 2007

Dear Sara and Family,

It is with great sadness to hear about Tom. He was my great mentor at the old Middleboro Junior High. Because of him, I learned to give many TM's to so many students when I became a vice-principal. "TM" stood for "Teachable Moments" and for his initials!

Mike Casey

August 7, 2007

Mr. McDavitt,
Sir, I didn't know you, but I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the U.S. Army in the Vietnam War. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Liz & Colm Mannion

August 7, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tom Healey

August 7, 2007

To the McDavitt Family.
My deepest sympathies on Tom's passing.

August 7, 2007

To all the McDavitts,
I have wonderful memories of good times at Ainsley Street, Dennisport and Weymouth with your wonderful family. Tom was always around with a smile and a friendly hello. He became a wonderful family man and friend to all with deep pride in his Dorchester roots.
God bless you all as you move forward with such wonderful memories of your son, brother, husband, father and friend.
Kathy Kennedy Passaretti
Hanover

eileen Mansfield

August 7, 2007

To all the McDavitt's. My deepest sympathy on the death of your son, husband and brother, etc. I new Tom through Cursillo, and prior to that meeting, I purchased my first home, i.e. 1 Aisley from you. Beautiful memories of a happy time and place. I am sure Tom is resting comfortably with the Lord now.

ANN FLETCHER

August 7, 2007

I will miss my pal "T"
My deepest sympathy to the McDavitt family - Annie

Diane Pratt

August 7, 2007

Tom, you left for Margaritaville much too soon. Save some boat drinks for the rest of us.

Pam and Leila

August 7, 2007

Brendan and Orlagh,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

James McDavitt

August 7, 2007

It's hard to lose someone whom you have loved and respected. Tom was a genuine American hero, a family man, a regular guy, an educator, an athlete, a moral compass, a leader in the local and international communities, and a just man. Surely and sorely, he will be missed. May he rest in peace, with the knowledge that some day we shall all be with him.
-The Cambridge McDavitts

Joe McCarthy

August 7, 2007

Brendan, May the memories and love you have of your Dad, get you and
your family through this sad time.
Thinking of you.

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