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for Roger Rogenski
Tanya Phelan
March 9, 2011
Hi,My Baby
I miss and loves you.I can't make it to VT this weekend as my life is mess up.I know you saw something happened and who stopped by w/no Interpreter.I will drop in VT when everything gets back to normal,Hopefully!Thinking and still crying for you day by day.
Love you very much,MOM
Tanya Phelan
February 9, 2011
Hi,My Baby
I thinking and miss you everyday.Today is 23 months as you are living in beautiful palace.It would be nice if I have time machine and I could get you back on this earth.Your little brother David still is doing pretty good and keeps himself busy.He is kinda of exciting about attend in High school this August.He get guitar and german language courses there.Tell Hello to Step-grandparent Phelan and Petey for me.
I love you very much!!! I'll see you up in VT when I have a chance to visit my parent in a month,Hopefully.Your gram'll be 60 in 3 weeks and I'm trying to get a present somehow and it's for your memories.I can't tell what is it on this book as someone will tell gram and ruin surprise.You know what I'm trying to get as you and all the spirits can read people's minds.I will talk to you 2 or 3 more before Legacy closing this guest book in a month.I think maybe I should get fancy journal with your name on it so I can writing and talking to you everyday.What do you think?...Hopefully,You can give me a signal about that journal book.
Love you very much,MOM
Tanya Phelan
January 16, 2011
Hi,My Baby
I got an info that your dog Petey passed away yesterday.I know you are happy to have him back with you in beautiful palace now.Miss and love you very much everyday.
Love,MOM
Tanya Phelan
January 4, 2011
Hi,My Baby
Just wanted to tell you that your step gramp passed away few mins ago and on way to find you&Stepgram now.He promised me he'll talk to you and take care of you for me.I miss and love you very much.
Love,MOM
Tanya Phelan
December 25, 2010
My Baby,
Merry Christmas and Hope you& members of our families have nice christmas.I sure miss and loves you very much.I visited your step-gramp and it doesn't look good as He is slipping away slowly and using alot of mirophines.He talked to me abt us,he promised me he'll find you and have a talk with you abt me and my problems.He also told me he pray to GOD to have you back in my life and this earth every night,he knows it would never happen.I didn't know he did that till he told me last week.It's almost 2 in morn now and I'm very awake and too depressing for you and your step-gramp.Your brother David is still doing pretty good and keeps himself busy.Tomo,I'm going to see your step-gramp again and see how is he.It would be nice to see you on holidays,I miss it alot.I need get going and watch tv till I fall sleep,If I can as I am sure David'll wake up too early for the presents.
Love you very much
MOM
Tanya Phelan
December 6, 2010
My Baby,
I'm in some tears for you and your step-gramp.Your step-gramp just moved in hospice house few mins ago and he'll start on medicine.I hope you can stand by his side and comfort him till his spirit comes out of his body between tomorrow and Wednesday then you,him and step-gram join together and goes back to beautiful home.I miss and love you daily.
Love you very much,
MOM
Mike
November 27, 2010
Hi Roger, Your mom is trying to send you messages, but you already know that. She is just having some issues getting them posted. Again, I know you are watching over her and can see how frustrated she is. I hope that issue clears up soon. She is doing as well as can be expected. Your little bro is not so little anymore. 6feet 1&1/2 inches tall. Doctor said he'll most likely top out at 6feet 6inches tall. YIKES.....Well dude, we all sure miss you. I am also sure you got a good chuckle seeing me at your grams house the last time I was up. Another YIKES...LOL...Well man, we'll talk again soon.
Love Mike
Tanya Phelan
November 26, 2010
My baby,
Hope you had good Thanksgiving yesterday.I stayed home and no holiday like i said All the holidays are over for me since you left earth.I miss and think of you everyday.Your brother David is doing great expect more taller than you were now.I wish you was here to see him and I know you would love to tease him abt taller.he's 6'1 1/2" and only 13 yrs old.I had DR follow-up this morn,Hosp will making an appt for MRI.I'm still struggling with helth/mental issues.I'm still crying for you daily.
I love you very much till i meet you again someday.
Love,MOM
Kalynn Sissy
November 26, 2010
Roger Don Rogenski - Dolloph, I miss you more with everyday that passes. May you rest in peace big brother! I love you TONS and more. Your an amazing angel I KNOW!! I cant believe your GONE. Its almost christmas, cant belive Im spending yes ANOTHER christmas without you! Its just not the same =[ Come back home. please
XoXO
David,Stepgramp and MOM
Tanya Phelan
November 25, 2010
My Baby,
Just wanted to drop in and wish you and Jesus have a nice Thanksgiving.I'm staying home as usually like i said No holidays for me nomore.I miss,thinking and love you daily.Your brother David is doing good expect very addict on his video games.I am still sick and it appears to gets worse day by day,DR found something in my tummy and I rather not to say what is it on this guestbook.I also have muscle aches from back of neck down to lower back and lump in back of neck also.Your stepgramp(PHELAN) is going to join and see you& stepgram (PHELAN) as he is dying of cancer in 3 positions and he'll leaving this earth in few weeks.Yeah,I am sure he will tell you everything what is going with me since you left earth.Oh ya,David had dr check-up and he is healthy boy but his body is like 20 yrs old,lol...He is 6'1 1/2" and 182 lbs.Although,he's omly 13,geez!I wish you were still here and I know you would love to pick on your brother as David is more taller than you are.David's hair also grow more longer than your's too.He still don't want to cut his hair off.I believe he want his hair long like your's to keep your memory alive.Your stepdad is doing ok and stays strong for your stepgramp (his dad).I have nothing going on in my life expect more illness day by day and lock in my own apt,only go out to store for few mins 1-2 times a week.I miss you so much and still cry for you daily.
Love you very much/always will,
MOM
Tanya Phelan
October 5, 2010
My Baby,
I miss and love you very much.I'm too depressed all week to think abt you and my 40th b-day.I turned 40 early this am,it's too painful to not hear or see you wish me happy b-Day.I know you saying Happy B-Day while you lives up there but I prefer to hear or see you in a person.I'm staying home like i always do on my birthday and holidays since you left on earth.It's too painful and always will be.I miss you so much.
Love you always,
MOM
Kalynn Sister
September 21, 2010
Happy late birthday Ive been to your beautiful home for the last two days as well =[ I LOVE you
Tanya Phelan
September 19, 2010
My baby,
Happy 24th birthday.I went to your beautiful home this weekend.Your stepdad washed your stone and it made shiny.Miss and thinking of you everyday and always will till I see you when my time comes someday.
Love you very much!!!
MOM
Sister Kalynn
September 14, 2010
I miss you Roger Don Rogenski-Dolloph. Always I will love you.
Tanya Phelan
September 9, 2010
My baby,
I miss and thinking of you everyday.I will see you in 2 weeks.
Love you very much
MOM
BREAUNA ZOBKIW
August 26, 2010
Hi Roger,
It's Breauna I miss you so much. Why did it have to be you? Did you like the silly band? I love you so much it's hard to believe. IIIIII LLLLLL OOOOOOVVVVVVEEEEEE YYYYYYOOOOOOUUUUUU.
Lil'Sister Kalynn
August 25, 2010
Hey Big Brother,
I miss you more and more every single day that passes. Your were the most amazing big brother ever. I wanted to tell you that I starting nursing school today I know you would be proud. I love you so much =[ If you were still here my life would be so diffrent, Greg and I miss you a lot. Greg got a new tattoo you would love it! I cry just thinking of you, infact Im crying writing this. I miss you more then you or anyone else could Imagine. There is pictures of you all over my livingroom walls to help me remind myself everyday of how handsome you were. Everyone tells me it will get better with time. I dont see it, I still cry when no ones around. It hurts to know Ill never see you again, or hear your sweet voice and adorable laugh. I didnt see you for almost a month before you died. I hate I regret it. I talked to you the night before, I saw you in the funeral home and I LOVED it. I want to see you more....I see you in my dreams and I know its you talking to me =] I love you so much. Please come back home...even if its just to say goodbye.. one last time. YOUR amazing and I hope your new home treats you well. R.I.P Roger Don Rogenski - Dolloph in our hearts forever, wishing you would come home.
Tanya Phelan
August 9, 2010
Hey,My Baby
Just wanted to drop in and says I miss and thinking of you terribly.Wish you still here on this earth.My life is still the same,nothing changes or improving expect some of old friends from my old Deaf school found me on FaceBook and I accepted them on my friends list.I had not hear or see them in around 15 yrs and I was surprised they found me and they wanted to keep in contact,I accepted it.Your brother David is great and still growing tall.His hair is longer and pass than his shoulders.I respect his wish as he wants to follow in your steps.Last Fri night,a girl called late and it was David's friend at same school.I told him that must be girlfriend and he got mad,said no.I said you are standing and watching what he doing everyday so you knows more than I do.David laughed,i laughed and cried same time.I wish you are here and you would love to tease david abt that girl as I know that.David will go back to school in 3 weeks and I'll be alone for 8-9 hrs from Mons to Fris.It'll be harder for me back again.Well,I'll deal with it start over again.I'm still crying for you when I'm alone in livingroom everyday.I will keep in touch soon.
I love you very much
MOM
MOM and Roger's baby brother David who turned 13
Tanya Phelan
July 23, 2010
Tanya Phelan
July 22, 2010
My,Baby
Your brother David has turned into Teenage boy today.I wish you are here and spank his butt 13 times like you did on his birthdays every year.I hope your spirit will be here and says Happy B-Day to your brother any time today.I miss and love you very much everyday.
Love and Kisses,MOM
Sabrina
July 9, 2010
Hi sweetie,
I just wanted to tell you how much I miss you. As each day goes by my heart breaks more and more knowing that you can never come back. I dont understand why it had to be you, why not someone else? I just dont get it. I have been thinking about our special gift alot lately,it makes me sad. But I found your blue Adiddas muscle shirt that hasnt been washed and it still smells like you, I sleep with it always. I MISS YOU so much. I know everyone else does too. I love you Roger I really do. I have to go now but I will see you tonight in my dreams.
Tanya Phelan
July 9, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
I just crying for you and I still can't believe it'll be 16 months in couple of hours that you are gone and never come back.I pray to have GOD bring you back in my life and this earth often,of course it never works.I am also jealous of our grampies as they are with you and have great time up there.My life is not back to normal and never will.It is different since you were gone,my baby.Oh,ya,your stepgramp is dying and he'll be gone in few weeks.I know he is exciting to meet his wife who he loves very much for 50 yrs.I am sure stepgramp will notice your face and remember you and he will tell you alot abt me/my issues.He's great guy.He always help me and your stepdad when we have no money or no food.After,he'll be gone.we will be very stuck and no one to help us.I guess we'll deal with it until we moving out in near future.You will have new niece next mon or tues and your stepdad'll be gramp.I will not be a gram bec it is not my blood and it hurts my heart too much that I never have a chance to be a gram from you.It's getting late and I guess I better go and trying to sleep,if I can.You and our grampies take care.
Love you very much,MOM
sabrina
May 31, 2010
Hi hunnie,
I just wanted to tell you how much I love and miss you. Each day that goes by feels like a lifetime without you. Jared talks to you every night before bed it is so cute.
I hope that you are doing ok up there. I wish you could come home now God has had you long enough,to long.
Well I'm going to go for now I will see you soon, I will see you everytime I close my eyes and everytime I dream.I love you Roger more than words could ever say.
Tanya Phelan
May 22, 2010
Hi,my beautiful child
Remember,your brother David has 2 genuiapigs and one named Sarah died 2 weeks after you went to your new home.Last one-jessica just died few mins ago and I'm asking you please take her and join Sarah so they can be happy and be roommate again.I'm crying of course bec i am so tired to have too many people and animals who I loves died in 3 yrs.Your stepdad is going to bring Jessica to his father's place and he'll bury her next to Sarah and 1 of my kittens.I miss and love you very much.I'll see you next weekend.
Love and Kisses,MOM
Tanya Phelan
May 17, 2010
Hi,my beautiful child
Hope you doing well and hang out with our grampies.yesterday,I didn't make it to our Gramp.T.'s service.Gram Joyce completely understand abt me and Kim.She thinks it's best for me to stay home and be calming.Your brother David and stepdad Mike are doing fine.I wish I could say same thing abt myself.I miss and love you very much.I will visit you,my baby,our both grampies next week.
Love and kisses,MOM
Tanya Phelan
May 13, 2010
Hi,my beautiful child,
I got an info that our Grampt.T. passed away last night.I am so mad and hurt and feel not fair as you,my baby and our both grampies died in 3 yrs.You are lucky to renuite with our Grampy.T. now.Pls tell gramp.T. I am sorry for not see him since my wedding day.I am not sure if I will go to his service on Sunday bec I am very sick and have no cellphone for emergency.
Love and Kisses,MOM
P.S. I'll talk to you more later
Jennifer Cole
May 11, 2010
Hey Roger, How is life out there? I miss you alot and I wish for Tamara you were still here...She is alot like you and it is not fair to leave me here without you here to help with her.....I love you and I will forever. I also stopped bye to ask you to tell Lenny Happy Birthday. He is 15 years old today and I miss him alot. I am glad to know you are all out there together. Take good care of each other and Rog tell Grampa R I said hello and I love him......I Love you all...
Mike
May 10, 2010
Hey Rog,
Your moms is having hard time trying to get a message entered. She wants to say hello and sure missing you on Mom's Day. I am writig this to see if you get this and to also say, Hey! You mom is sure still hurting, but David and I do best to make her feel comfortable.. THinking of you always man, Mike
MOM with a sign "I LOVE YOU"
Tanya Phelan
May 9, 2010
Hi, My beautiful child
How you doing out there?....I miss and love you a lot every day. Wish me Happy Mother's Day. I can't believe it is 14 months today that you are up there. I am still the same, you know mental/health issues. Your brother David is doing well. He still growing and can't stop. We will visit you and our Gramp.R. in 3 weeks. Love you very much.
Love and Kisses, MOM
Sabrina McQuaide
April 28, 2010
Hey you,
The kids and I miss you sooo much. Jared still sleeps with your dog Grammy gave him. I had to keep this book on at least for another year I couldnt imagine not being able to have your mom or any of us be able to talk to you. I think of you all the time. The kids and I go to see you lots as you know,Jared always asks you for you to give him a sign that your here. He is so cute.Well I guess I will talk to you soon.
Tanya Phelan
April 9, 2010
Hi,my beautiful child
I miss and thinking of you daily.I'm very overtired and my skin hurts more.I deal with it till my time comes.Your brother David is doing fine.yesterday,some students wrote a message said a bomb in bathroom at David's school,all the students got out and several police came in& looked everywhere.Pf course.there were no bomb.It was false alarm as it was prank by some students.David is in school today and I am scared to think what if some students do put bomb one day,Who knows?...Pls trying to keep eye on your brother david at school until school'll be over in June.Thanks.
Love you very much,MOM
Youngest brother david and mother tanya
Tanya Phelan
April 4, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
I wanted to say Hope you and Gramp.R. have a nice Easter Dinner with Jesus today.I miss and thinking of you terribly.My health and mental issues still no good but it's worse day by day.Your brother David is doing fine.I am staying home today like i do on holidays.Having holidays hurts me too much as long as you are not on this earth.Hang in there and wait for me when my time comes.
Love and Kisses,MOM
Kalynn Sister
March 31, 2010
First of all thank you aunt Linda! Ad second Roger I miss your smiling face more and more everyday I wish yo would come home and tell me it's all a joke. I don't share my
feelings with other people much. I feel
better just telling you. Stay safe sweetie I love you
March 29, 2010
Hey Roger I guess its finally time to say good-bye. Belle and I talk about you alot its amazing she remembers the clothes you had on the last time she saw you at the parade she drew a picture of you becouse she doesnt want to forget you.When Ethan hears us talking about you,he always laughs and says good times,good times.Belle has so many questions she doesnt understand how someone so young can pass on she always thought only old people would pass. I think about you alot I remember that sweet little boy that picked on his uncle for having a girlfriend,the little boy that cuddled on the couch for a movie and coloring for hours.I dont know how time pasted so fast I see alot of you in Ethan he has that sweet devilish way about him. I still half expect to run into you at the parades even though I know it wont happen. As for your uncle you know he loved you,He doesnt say much but I know he misses you. You touched so many people in the short time that you where with us.We will never forget You and You will always be remembered with a smile and a happy heart becouse thats the kind of person you where.
Love and miss you,
Aunt Kim
Jennifer Cole
March 25, 2010
Thank you very much aunty Linda... Mom you know that Roger is watiching over you....you just need to let him.....You know he can not help you unless you help a little too....Mom I love you and Roger you are very missed in this family.
Linda Furgat
March 24, 2010
Hello everyone,I spoke with Tanya the other day and asked if she would like to keep this book online for another year and she was pleased so i will make sure we keep it online for a bit longer so everyone can still feel close to Roger in some way.
Kalynn
March 23, 2010
Roger it's been over a year. I miss you terribly. I want you to come home please. I love you so much. I hope your new home is comfy and your happy there! I've been havig a hard time lately I need you to come back home now!!!
Jennifer Cole
March 9, 2010
Hello Roger....Well as you know we have not forgotten you. We speak of you everyday...Tamara misses you a lot and still talks to you...I know you hear her. I can not believe it has been a year. Wow I hope time continues to move like this so it will not be long before I get there....As you know I am with someone...I hope that it works....Plz help your mother...Let her know you are okay where you are.....I love you Roger and I hope you are happy where you are....Up there in Gods world.
Tanya Phelan
March 9, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
Today is a one year that you had to left me,your families and friends on this earth.My heart is still broken and hurts very much.It is 12:06 am now and I can't sleep while I still can't believe and thinking why you had to leave.I am not doing well and it seems worse day by day since.I have an appt with my Physical DR in 9 hrs to find why my skin all over my body is hurt like burning and bruises.Your brother David is doing well and still strong.I miss you terribly.I will see you again someday,my baby.
Love and Kisses Forever
MOM
Ashley Lawrence
March 3, 2010
Hey how have in 5 days it will have been a year sense you have been gone :( it does not seem like it was that long ago it seems like it all h append yesterday i cant believe you have been gone for a year. see ya for now i miss you!!
Tanya Phelan
February 22, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
Yesterday,I got 2 kittens(sisters),it's black/white like your brother David's Fluffy the cat.I have 6 cats now.I named them Lil and Rog after your nickname.I miss and thinking of you.I am still the same.David started to act like you when you was his age,he is so stubborn and won't listen my rules and rebel.David reminds me of you in many ways.But he is doing okay in school so far.I miss you so much.
Love and Kisses,MOM
Tanya Phelan
February 14, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
Happy Valentine Day.I sure miss and thinking of you everyday.
Love you very much,MOM
p.s. give Gramp.R. some kisses for me.
Tanya Phelan
February 9, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
How are you? Hope you are doing pretty good.I had stitches removed today.I still look horrible and my eye is like someone smacked it.I miss you alot.I still can't believe and shocking you are not here on this earth for 11 months today.I still am sick as usually and I know it will always be until my time comes and join you again someday.Love you very much.
Love and Kisses Forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
February 3, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
Just wanted to say I miss and love you everyday.This morn,I had surgery and I stayed awake the whole time.It was not hurt at all but when I was on road,numb started to wear off and it started to hurt so bad.Now,I still am in bad pain.I have several stitches on my cheek and it looks terrible plus swollen in cheek and left eye.I will be ok in 2 weeks or so.Your brother David is still doing fine,he have more friends to coming over at my place and I hate it but he needs friends to have good time and be happy.He do think and miss you alot.I'll visit you in VT when time is right.I have very bad headache more everyday.I need to lay down and trying to sleep.I'll talk to you soon.
Love you and Kisses forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
January 20, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
I am not doing well and have more new health issues.2 days ago,I was in hospital for 8 hours.I saw you standing with white gown and gold rope around your waist.You looks so handsome,your hair and beard also grew longer than last time I saw you before you went into GOD's hands.I also noticed white and yellow lights kept moving behind you.I wish you could tell me what is that but I'm glad to see you and it made me happy and sad same time.I'm still sick now.I am so happy to see you and you looks so handsome.I also am sad to see you leave and I woke up same time.We did talking and I will never writing this book and have everybody hears what we talked as it's our private.If I have another health issues and stay in hospital,Pls come and see me as you can try your best like you did 2 days ago.I miss and love you very much.I'm happy you came to see me.I hope you can do again soon.
Love and Kisses,MOM
Tanya Phelan
January 19, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child
I am not doing well and have more new health issues.Yesterday,I was in hospital for 8 hours.I saw you standing with white gown and gold rope around your waist.You looks so handsome,your hair and beard also grew longer than last time I saw you before you went into GOD's hands.I also noticed white and yellow lights kept moving behind you.I wish you could tell me what is that but I'm glad to see you and it made me happy and sad same time.I'm still sick now.I am so happy to see you and you looks so handsome.I also am sad to see you leave and I woke up same time.We did talking and I will never writing this book and have everybody hears what we talked as it's our private.If I have another health issues and stay in hospital,Pls come and see me as you can try your best like you did yesterday.I miss and love you very much.I'm happy you came to see me.I hope you can do again soon.
Love and Kisses,MOM
Little Sister Kalynn
January 7, 2010
Hey sweetie,
Todays January 7th 2010, dads birthdays tomorrow. Make sure to wish him a very happy birthday. I know he wants to hear from you. I miss you so much its unreal! I cant believe your gone, its almost been a year! New years and christmas were so diffrent without your smiling face to cheer everyone up. We were thinking about you. I got a sweatshirt with a picture of us on it for christmas I love it even though it made me sad. I miss you Roger. I wish you would come back home, I wish it would all just be fake. I cant do it anymore! It cant be real. It just cant. Everyones so unhappy without you. Gregs really upset, dads gone crazy and for myself I bottle it all up inside. I just want to talk to you again, I wannt to see your sweet smile! Come back home please. Let me say good bye! I LOVE YOU WITH ALL OF MY HEART AND MORE!
Tanya Phelan
January 5, 2010
Hi,My beautiful child,
I have bad news.I mentioned abt Bispoly for skin.I just found that DR didn't tell me all the results,I have skincancer below my left eye.I don't know what to tell your brother David and he'll be home in abt 10 mins.He is only 12 yrs old and needs hs mother until he turns 18.I'm asking you,my baby to pray for me to stay alive until David turns 18,if you can.I miss and love you so much.
Love and Kisses forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
December 25, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How you and Grampy.R. doing up there?I believe you and everybody else is with jesus for his honor today.I'm in no moody for the holidays and no gifts for me bec I asked everyone not to send me nomore for good but my sis in law did gave me a gift and I am not happy abt it.I can't believe you are not with your families for xmas nomore.It hurts me too much.Your brother David is happy when he opened all his gifts that he gave me his wish list.I' glad SSDI owed me some money and I got all of them on David's list.Of cours,I'm broke again.I'm staying home and not going anywhere.I also still sick and in bad pain.I mentioned abt bispoly for my skin.Good news,no cancer.Bad news,blood vessel is blocking.I have more on my chin,nose and forehead now.There is no cure so I guess I'll suffer with it until my time comes.Hope you have good time with jesus today.I miss you and still crying for you.Happy xmas to you,my baby and Grampy.R.
Love you and kisses forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
December 17, 2009
HI,My beautiful child
How you doing up there?
I wanted to talk abt your brother David and need your help to watch him,if you can.After David got on honor roll,he started go down the hill suddenly at school.Today,I got an info that he will have supense(I don't know how to spell that word) tomo.Vice principal said David has changed in 3-4 weeks and he also joined trouble maker group(bad students).Your Uncle Tony warned me and keep eye on David in case he starts changing after we lost you,Uncle Tony is right after all.Vice president will put David in different classes to break off from troublemaker group when he gets back there after xmas vacation.I am not doing well and I'm suffering abt my skin below left eye.I had bispoly last Friday and it still hurts.It even burn my eye everytime I crying.I'm still waiting for skin doctor to call and give me an answer.I'm asking you not to worry or watch over me.You need to do this to your brother David.He needs it the most as he is still young and he is very,very smart.I am sure you and I don't want David have bad life in near future.David never have that problems at school till last month,Pls help and watch your brother David as you trying your best as you could.I'll talk to him when he gets home in 1/2 hour.I will talk to you on xmas day and I will stay home as usually.I miss you terribly.I love you,my baby.
Love and Kisses forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
December 9, 2009
Hi my beautiful child.
How you doing up there?
I still can't believe and shock you gone for 3/4 year today.I miss you so much.I still have health problems.Your brother David is doing fine and still strong.He got honorroll again.I want to say more but I start to have more phobia problems as I am afraid o have people read what I would says abt myself.I do still talk you on 2 pics of you everyday.I can't wait to have you back in my life again someday.
Love you and kisses forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
November 9, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How you doing up there?...I can't believe you are gone for 8 months today.Yesterday,You finally got your own headstone and I stopped by to looked at it.It's beautiful.I hope you loves you headstone.I gave you potted of flowers for your birthday abt 6 weeks ago,I'm surprised to see your flowers are still alive and bigger.I thought it should be dead in a week bec of cold temp at nights.I'm thinking maybe you tries so hard to keep your flowers alive for my sake or send me some signal either way.Your brother David and Sean had good time together at Mooseclub yesterday,many people were surprised to see David so taller.Your friend Brian.F. looks good and I also saw your best friend Jeff too.I have not get any better but getting sick more day by day and losing more weight.Good news,Concord Hospital accepted to give me ensure drinks.I get a case every 2 weeks and it's free.Your stepdad and I are still very poor.I am worry abt xmas gifts for David mostly and I don't know what to do or how to buy gifts for your brother.I miss and thinking of you everyday.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
kalynn sister
November 7, 2009
hey hunnie..
just wanted to tell you that i love you and miss you very much! May you rest in peace. Your headstone is comming tomorrow!
Karen Dolloph
October 29, 2009
Hey sweetie,
Stopping in to say hello and tell you that I love you and miss you very much... But on a better note I have been working with the headstone people and the setters and you should have your headstone by the end of next week...
Dad is still very upset and having a hard time...He misses you deeply...
Love and miss you,
Your Stepmom
Tanya Phelan
October 27, 2009
Hi,my beautiful child
How you doing up there?...I just want to say I miss you and want you back so bad.You will have your new headstone with cremaic photo that I picked,It'll delivery to your site next week.I will stop,visit and check to make sure your headstone would be correct.I still am very sick with health/mental issues.In 3 weeks,I will have Foot DR check my feet.In 6 weeks,I will have skin dr to check my bloodblisters and skin crackings.I miss and love you to death.I still can't believe I had to buried you,my baby and it will always stays on my mind and in my head.
Love you and kisses forever,
MOM
Sabrina McQuaide
October 16, 2009
Roger, Hi Hunnie.I was just thinking about you like always and thought I would stop by and write you a little note. The kids and I miss you so much,but coming to see you often has been helping,especially with Jared.He still sleeps with your stuffed animal grammie and gramp gave him.
It is so hard to stay strong for him when he cries because he misses you.
I still wish everyday that I will wake up and this will all just be a horrible dream.
I miss you so much Roger.This life just isnt complete without you in it.
I love you always and forever.
Tanya Phelan
October 15, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How are you doing up there?...I just got back home after had checkup with my Physcial DR.My health issues are getting worse day by day since You are up there.I have problem with bloodblisters,skin cracking all over my body,my feet and all nails are in pain,my weight is 115 with clothes,sneakers and heavy keys on.Podiatry and Derm will call your stepdad to making an appts for my bloodblisters and feet.I look horrible and still bad derpission and grieveing.I miss you so much and still want you back.I know I have your stepdad and your brother David but I still feel lonely without you for some reasons.I am crying now and need to go now.I will talk to you soon.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
October 9, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
Just wanted to saying I miss and love you terribly.Abt yellow skin,it gets worse and bloodblister growing bigger day by day for 2 weeks.I have checkup with my physcial DR for yellow skin and bloodblisters next Tues.Yesterday,my left eye started getting swollen and it gets more swollen when I woke this am.I will let you know what DR think of skin and eye issues next Tues.I love you,my baby.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
October 5, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
I still can't believe you are not here.I turn 39 yrs old today and I am too sad/grumpy as you are not here to im me to says Happy B-Day MOM like you did for 4 yrs after I moved to NH.I'm getting more sick also.Yesterday,your stepdad noticed skin under my eyes turned yellow,I just woke up few mins ago and yellow is darker and getting spreading to my cheeks.I guess I may have problem with liver.I'll wait and see in couple of days.I miss and thinking of you terribly.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
October 2, 2009
Hi,My baby
I am crying now.Few days ago,I picked a pic of you and your stepdad sent it to Lady to do Creamic photo.Few mins ago,I got email with your pic in shape of Heart and you look so perfect in shape of Heart.You will have your beautiful head stone in 4 weks or so.I still want you back so bad.I still not doing good,more sick and thinner.I miss and thinking of you terribly everyday.Your brother David is still strong and doing very well.Pls still watch over your brother David in case something may happen to me.Thank you.I hope you will be very proud when you see your new headstone set on your site soon.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
selina benware
October 1, 2009
hey rog,
yeah, it's me again, lol! anyways, i wanted to tell you that jonas and i have been hangin out with jeff, and really trying to give him a good friend, as well as thank you for watchin over brian a couple weeks ago at my dad's (i know you were there for him) it was an awful situation and it was awful to have to see that, jeff took it hard as he was there as well, and i told him that he shouldn't have to deal with this after losing you! i just hope that you know how much of an impact that you obviously left on everyone!
Lynette and Sean
September 29, 2009
Hey Baby,
happy Birthday, what a day all i could do was think about you all day , i miss you so much it still hurts like hell,sean said hi and he loves u and he wishs u was here with us,but one day we will all be together again, sorry i haven't wrote latly but trying to get back on track its not easy. well i love and miss u so much, loveya always and forever
Ashley Lawrence
September 23, 2009
hey Roger,
i justed wanted to say Happy Birthday and i hope you are doing ok up there we all miss you like crazy love ya
Ashley
Tanya Phelan Phelan
September 21, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
How are you doing up there?...I hope you loves your plant that I made and left it on your site.I also hope yo catch our balloons with messages that I,stepdad and your brother David let them go and flew up.I miss and love you teribly,I cried alot for you and my issues yesterday.I still have hard time and I can't let it go,never will until I meet you soon.I found your grandparent Todd in BF.I bet you see your gramp's face as he was so shocked when he saw your brother David,he is taller than your gramp now!I will stop by again and see you again soon.My birthday is coming in 2 weeks and you are not here,That is gonna be very hard for me on my birthday.I agree with your stepmom Karen that is not fair for GOD took you away from me and your families.I need to go before I have breakdown again.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Karen Dolloph
September 18, 2009
Hi sweetie...
I wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday... I wish you could be here to celebrate with us... We miss you so much... I still wonder every day why god took you from us... It is just not fair... I love you very much and miss you dearly....
Love Your Stepmom
Tanya Phelan
September 17, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How you do up there?
I'm glad your sis Kalynn like Afghan that I made.I miss and thiking of you terribly everyday.My therapist said I look more depression and more moody.I also don't sleep much for abt 2 weeks as I started having nightmares almost everynight.I'm stil in shock to buried you my baby.I still have health issues and Doctors can't find anyting wrong.I miss you so much.I'll see you for your 23th birthday this Sat.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
September 9, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How are you up there?
I can't beleve today is half year that you are up there in heaven.I miss and thinking of you terribly everyday.I am still not getting any better and of course,I still see my Therapist every week.Your brother David is doing great and keep growing.He's 5'9" tall and 181 lbs at only age 12.He's like you as taller and big at early age.David does remind me of you in many ways.I still can't believe it is half year.We will see you for your birthday in 10 days.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Karen Dolloph
August 27, 2009
Hey Roger,
Just wanted to stop and say hi... I miss you very much as does your dad... He finally went to your grave site with me... He was glad he did... It helps to feel closer to you... As you know things are much better for dad and I... Wish you were here to share the good times with us... Like I always tell you I miss your beautiful smile... Well sweetie you watch over your mom and take good care of her... I'm worried about her... Talk to you again ...
Love you always,
Your Stepmom
Tanya Phelan
August 26, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
How are you up there?..I am not doing good,I guess my life will be the same that way until my time comes and meet you there someday.Your brother David is going to 7th Grade today and I am loner in home again and will be from mons to fris until school will be over next June.I hate alone inhome as I still have several panicattacks,My panic attacks will be worse as I am loner like Last March to June.I wil trying to deal myself again.I will have t-scan this afternoon.Pls pray for me.Thanks.I miss and love you terribly everyday.
Kisses and Love you forever,MOM
Kalynn
August 24, 2009
Roger please take care of Smokey for me! He came to visit you this morning, I love you and make sure hes healthy please. Be an amazing uncle and give him mommys love!
Tanya Phelan
August 13, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
Your brother David is doing fine.DR cutted a little and removed some pusses in his cysts.He will have sugery to remove his all cysts later in June 2010.He is still strong and going to back to school in 2 weeks.I am still the same.I miss and thinking of you very much everyday.I'll talk to you in a couple of days.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
August 9, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
Good morning and How are you???
I just wanted to say I still miss and thinking of you terribly everyday.2 weeks ago,I started seeing my Theripast and she's great.She even communiate me through ASL,no need Interpreter.I see her 1 day every week.Your brother David and stepdad Mike are doing fine,They are still strong,not like me.I miss you.I will talk to you in couple of days.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Jenn Cole
August 4, 2009
Hello Roger, I am just stopping by to say hi and to let you know that I think of you daily...as you know your pics are still on my wall and I have some in other spots in the house so I can see your great smile while my eye are open....I see your smile every time I fall asleep.......Thank you for that. baby I love you and will until the day I pass.....take good care of everyone up there with you and watch over us here thanks babe, Love you forever and always.....
Tanya Phelan
July 26, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
I just got home from Wolfeboro for your stepsister's wedding.Marie looks so beautiful and she reminds me of some princess in Walt Disney movies.I met a lady named Renee,she know some ASL,her cousin was deaf at birth like me.Although,he was killed in car crash 12 yrs ago.Renee and I talked abt you and her cousin.She seems very nice and it made me feel a little better,she kept saying I need to be strong for my husband and your brother David.She knows and understand moving on is not very easy and it will takes long time.I would love to writing more on this but I don't feel comfortable when people read this.I also know you watched me talked to Renee abt you and myself.I miss and thinking of you everyday.Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
July 22, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child.
How you doing up there?...I'm hurt alot today.Your brother David turned 12 yrs old today and this is first time you don't come& visit or call your brother David to say "Happy Birthday".Although,I hope you will send him a signal to say"Happy Birthday".David will not have a gift and cake until Friday bec your stepdad and I are broke,David is very understanding.He's great young man and quiet.I miss and love you terribly.I will talk to you on Sunday night when I get home from your step sister's small wedding.Love you always and forever,MOM
Sabrina McQuaide
July 21, 2009
Roger,
The kids and I went and saw you on Saturday afternoon,the kids each brought you something and I put each of their baseball photos there for you to see how much they are growing.I know that you are watching anyway but just wanted you to have your own pictures.I laid down next to you while the kids looked at grave stones.It felt good to lay next to you. other than in my dreams.The kids talked to you as well,they want you to give them a sign that you are here with them.Jared especially needs that he is still having a hard time. We all miss you so much.Jared still sleeps with your stuffed dog that Grammie and Grampy gave him.I sleep with mine too.Life is still so different without you here.Whenever I see the car I always think I will see you in it but your never there.But I see you in my dreams always.I love you Roger and always will.
Tanya Phelan
July 19, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
Yesterday,I finally made it to visit your site and Gramp.R....I hop e you like Redsox flag that I made for you.I had hard time and my heartbeat kept skipping and my body shaking bad.I kissed you on your site and I cried.I also kissed Gramp.R.'s headstone.I went and visited your Uncle Tony's for couple of hours.Your broyher David is staying with Uncle Tony's family until Tuesday.They will go to Canombie Park in Salem,NH then drop David off at my home on Tuesday night.I miss and thinking of you everyday so terribly.I will talk to you in few days.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
July 16, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How are you doing up there?...I miss you and thinking of you terribly everyday and always will.I finished read a book called"The Shack" that Aunt Janet gave me.It's abt a father who lost his daugther to Jesus and GOD.It's good story.Your families and friends who are on Earth should read that book.I still have health issues and my blood test is in Calif,I have to wait for abt 7 days to have results.Your brother David and stepdad Mike are doing fine.I will talk to you in couple of days.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
July 9, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How are you doing up there?...Hope you enjoy watch several fireworks all over the world last weekend.I stayed home as my health issues are keep getting worse.Yesterday,My blood result tests arrived and it is not Tick Bite so it is very mystery.I'll writing to you more on your spacesite.Today is 4 months that you lives in GOD's world.I miss and thinking of you terribly everyday.Your brother David is still doing fine and he is very addict on his new XBOX 360 for his early birthday,he keep playing several hours a day since he got them.He will be 12 yrs old in 13 days,he is more taller than I am and he almost tie to your stepdad's height.I am still working on Afghans for your families in your memory.I have many names on my list that I am making for them.I have not move on as I am still mourning for you and my life has changed in many ways.I love you to death and I will see you up there when my time comes.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Jenn Cole
July 4, 2009
Good Morning Baby.....Just stopped in to wish you a happy forth....I know you are sitting there getting ready with God to watch all the worlds Fireworks.....Enjoy.....I miss you terribly.....Have a good day baby.....
please help your mom to heal she needs it......
Lynette Murphy
July 2, 2009
Last saterday Jolene+Sean and I want to your grave as u know, the grass is commeing in well and u seem to be getting more stuff up there, I cant wait to...well i'm not going to tell u, ur going to have to wait and see what i'm going to do, but i just wanted to let u know that i think about u all the time not a day goes by that i dont think about u, i miss u so much.well take care and please ur moms hasnt be doing well at all can u please hepl her, i know u will loveya always and forever 1 LOVE
Tanya Phelan
July 2, 2009
Hi,my beautiful child
How you doing up there?....I just got home today after spent at Hospital for 2 nights.I need a small favor to ask you and GOD to heal me a little faster than Doctor would expect,Thank you my baby.I miss and thinking of you terribly everyday.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
July 2, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
I just got home from hospital after spent 2 nights.I knew I did post that I didn't spend night last monday but my skin has goten worse so I went back there in same night and stayed there for 2 nights.I still am sick and Doctor said infection will go away in 2 weeks to 2 months.I'm asking you to help me to heal faster please as I hate pain all over,Thanks my baby.I miss you and thinkng of you terribly everyday.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
June 30, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
How are you doing up there?
I am very sorry about not spend the night at hospital tonight.I know you saw what happening to me since last sunday.I rather not to say I have 2 health issuses on this post and let everyone read it.I miss you terribly and thinking of you everyday.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Alise
June 29, 2009
Hey Rog,
We miss ya man...watch your lil sister she needs you...lots of love
Little Sister
June 29, 2009
Hey Rog,
I miss you so much. I have tears reading the comments people have posted for you. You were definitely a very loved person. I wish you could be here to give me some advice right now. I need you big brother. I'm stuck in a hard place right now. You would know what to say at a time like this. I go on with life everyday not knowing what to think. I see pictures and it still seems so unreal to me. I miss you like crazy, I dream about you more then you could even imagine. They do say thats you trying to tell me your safe and happy in your new home. Its so hard to really believe that your gone. I feel like you've just gone for a little vacation soon to return home. I know its not like that as much as I wish it were. If you could please help me right now and let me know your with me. Life seems so hard right now. I know if you were here everything would be so much easier. You would always bring a smile to face even if it meant you were being silly. I sure do miss your big handsome smile. I really want you to come back home now. I love you so much Roger. Please watch over dad right now, he's also struggling. Greg also may need some guidance so please be watching. I know your reading this right now. Staying strong still!
XoXoXo
Much Love
Tanya Phelan
June 25, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child
I miss you more terribly and have not move on yet.I'm shock to hear Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson died today.I feel so bad for Michael's 3 beautiful children.If you happen to meet him up there,pls tell him that his children are in my prayers.Your brother David is still doing very well and growing taller.He and I stays home mostly and nothing much to do-budget too tight.I sure miss you and thinking of you everyday.I will write you in few days.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Jenn Cole
June 24, 2009
Good Morning Baby, Sorry this is late in your book but it seems our messages to you never get posted.....Tam says She misses you alot.Happy fathers day....again....As the post on Sunday did not get in......We love you always and forever......True Love will Never die......
Lynette +Sean
June 21, 2009
Hey baby,
its fathersday and sean wanted me to tell u that he miss and love u, and he also wanted u to know that, thanks for being the dad he never had, u are one of a kind , we will always love u baby take care until we meet again 1 LOVE always and forever
Tanya Phelan
June 19, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
How are you doing up there?
I miss you more terribly everyday and still crying for you.Today is last day of school for your brother David,he and his classmates are going on fieldtrip.I'm glad David will stays with me at home during summer but I know time'll be fast and he have to go back to school in 2 months.I will be alone home again for next 10 months.I love you so much and thinking of you everyday.Tell our Grampy.R. Hello for me.I'll see you someday.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Lynette murphy
June 17, 2009
Sean and I went to jeff"s the other day
he got to ride jeff"s 3 wheeler and loved it,it was good to see a smile on his face, he hasn't had a real smile on his face sence ur passing.Baby we miss u so much and it hurts like hell, we wish u was here with us. i can't wait unlit me meet again 1 LOVE Always and Forever
Jennifer Cole
June 17, 2009
Roger I have a small favor to ask.....Tamara is Graduating the sixth grade tonight and I would like you to be watching over her.....She is doing okay now but still makes comments about you often....She told me last night and I am sure you heard her tell me she wishes you were here. But she knows you are here in Spirit.
I stopped by to see you today and I cleaned up your site some....There was a lot of tall grass growing so I pulled it all. The flowers Lynette brought up are as handsome as your smile. I made sure everything was cleaned up....I love you baby.....Rest well now...
thank you,
HUGS from us all
Little Sister
June 16, 2009
Hey Roger, I have writen 13 times now and not one has gotten in yet! I miss you so much these days, I love you soo much and still cant believe your gone. I wish you could come back home :[ im trying to stay strong for you but its hard, I miss you more then youll ever know. I know when my time comes ill be with you again until then XoXo. I love you big man.<33
Jennifer Cole
June 16, 2009
Miss you Rog, Love you
Tanya Phelan
June 15, 2009
My beautiful child,
I'm crying so hard now and still can't believe I had to buried you,my own child.I am still hurt so much and my brain is very messy more everyday.I miss you so terribly and I don't know what to do as I have not get over with it and never will until I see you,my child someday.Love you forever,MOM
Lynette Murphy
June 13, 2009
Hey Baby,
we went to your grave yesterday and brought you some flowers,did you see Sean walk up to your grave? it was grate! thanks cuz i know you where hepling him. could you look in on your moms alittle more she's needing alittle more help and from what i hear maybe your dad as well. thanks baby
we miss and love you very much, just remember for always and forever. 1 LOVE
Karen Dolloph
June 11, 2009
Hey Sweetie,
Wow so much has changed in my life since we lost you... I know you know... You really need to be with your dad... He needs the strength... I know you will guide him... He needs the help to move on.. I love you Roger and miss you very much sweetie..
Keep Smiling,
I love you ,
Your Stepmom
Tanya Phelan
June 9, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
It is 3 months today that you are up there.Time sure is fast than I thought.I miss you and thinking of you everyday.
Love you forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
June 6, 2009
Hi,my beautiful child,
Just wanted to thank you for watched your brother David.I knew you watched what happened today.I appericate it alot.David is allright now.I miss you tons and thank you again.Have a good night and sweet dream.
Love you always and forever,MOM
Tanya Phelan
June 4, 2009
Hi,My beautiful child,
How you doing up there?Hope you are going well and happy.I just finish make your flag few mins ago and I know you watch me and have a big smile.Now,I am making several afghans for your families and your girlfriend Lynette&her son for your honor and memories.Your brother David is doing great.I miss you tons and thinking of you everyday.I will give you a big kiss and hug when my time comes.Hang in up there and have a good night,Don't let bugs bite!
Love you always and forever,MOM
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