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Anne Rogers

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Anne Rogers obituary, 1936-2024

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1936

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2024

Anne Rogers Obituary

Rogers, Anne (Lapey)

Jun 1, 1936 - Sep 12, 2024

A fixture on Clarendon Place for nearly six decades, Anne died on September 12 after a years-long struggle with Parkinson's disease with dementia. She was 88. Born Anne Brooks Lapey in Buffalo in 1936, the oldest child of Paul White Lapey and Elisabeth Walton Allen Lapey, she grew up on Highland Avenue and attended the School of Practice, Buffalo Seminary and Bradford Junior College. After college, she studied at Reid Hall in Paris, followed by a stint working for Pan American Airways in New York City. Returning to Buffalo, she met and married Charles Pingrey "Chuck" Rogers II, a business executive, in 1958. They started a family while living in Kenmore, then moved to Clarendon Place in 1960 where she would remain for 58 years. Her husband died in 2000. Early in her marriage, Anne served on the Women's Board of Buffalo Children's Hospital, and as a board member of the Maria M. Love Convalescent Fund. Beginning in 1969, she summered with her family for the next 40 years in Thunder Bay Colony, a tennis community near Ridgeway, Ont., where she had spent summers as a girl. Naturally meticulous, she worked as a bookkeeper at the Brownrout Fish Market on Elmwood Avenue and at The Floristry on Delaware Avenue, noting with trademark wit that exchanging fish for flowers meant she "no longer smelled like a mackerel." Later, she sold clothing for the Doncaster and Carlisle Collections, welcoming customers to the fabled blue wool carpet of her well-appointed living room. Anne was a former member of the Buffalo Tennis & Squash Club, the Garret Club, and the Saturn Club. She moved to Canterbury Woods Gates Circle in 2018, and at the end of her life resided at Canterbury's Oxford Village in Williamsville. She is survived by her three children, John Frederick Rogers (Eileen Lawton), of Cazenovia; Charles Pingrey Rogers III (Kimberly McEvoy), of Buffalo; Elisabeth Walton Allen Lawrence (Jacob Lawrence), of Denver; five grandchildren; a brother, Allen Lapey, of Milton, MA; and a sister, Clare Lapey Holtan, of Mercer Island, WA. Anne was enrolled in the Anatomical Gift Program of the University of Buffalo Medical School. Burial in Forest Lawn Cemetery will be private.

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Published by Buffalo News on Sep. 14, 2024.

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Gaynor Stewart

September 22, 2024

I have just learned of Anne's death from Westminster Church, and I am truly devastated! We became friends through our (late) husbands when I moved to Buffalo in 1963 and remained the closest off friends all these years even after my move to North Carolina in October 2023. My heart goes out to Fred, Chip, Betsy, Allen, and Clare, along with my deepest sympathy and dearest love always, Gaynor

Phillips Stevens

September 20, 2024

On behalf of the Stevens family, next-door neighbors on Clarendon Place, 1974-1978, I extend our deep condolences to the three Rogers children. All the Rogers family were good neighbors, cordially sharing resources, baby-sitting expertise, and the expenses of maintaining our single driveway! We mourned Chuck's passing in 2000, and now Anne's. My strongest lasting memory of her is of her warm and genuine smile.
Very sincerely, Phil Stevens

The John Nary Family

September 17, 2024

My heart is heavy learning of Anne´s Passing. She was a wonderful neighbor to us for 10+ years. She lit up a room with her loving personality and quick wit.
She was a wonderful mother to her 3 children and an exceptional wife to Chuck.
We are all better, having known her.

Patricia Hoffman griffen

September 16, 2024

As a classmate of Anne, I want to extend my condolences to her family.

Joan hess

September 16, 2024

She was just the best!! RIP

Marjorie House Keller

September 16, 2024

Anne and I were distantly related through my second cousin Anne House Lapey. We went all through the Schol of Practice and the Buffalo Seminary together. My condolences to the family.

Manly Ishwardas

September 16, 2024

So sorry to hear about Mrs Rogers. I had a long working relationship with her and always enjoyed her company. Meticulous, Strong world and very funny. I have missed her.
Condolences to the family

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Kelly Macutek

September 15, 2024

I always enjoyed occasions that included seeing Anne. She was beautiful, humorous and so kind to Alexandra & Olivia. She will be missed.

sally marks

September 14, 2024

So sorry to read about Anne's death. She was a great neighbor and such an interesting, busy, clever woman, one who covered a lot of different territories.

Lornie Walker

September 14, 2024

The Lapeys and The Walkers go back over 70 years and this brings tears thinking about Anne, Claire and Allen. We all adored Anne who had the BEST sense of humor (along with her mother). She was a 'favorite' my mother always talked about! Our childhood at Thunder Bay was ideal and that era just ended for my brother Tom and me when the sale of our old cottage there just happened on September 6th, '24. Fred remembers that he was the first baby I ever held when my Mom took me to see him and Anne in Kenmore. I recalled that memory to my husband this morning. So many other memories....Forever in my heart, Lornie Walker, Vashon Island, WA

Cousin Dawn

September 14, 2024

Chip and Kim. Paul and I are holding you in our prayers with much love. What a beautiful tribute this is - thank you to you and your family for sharing the story of Anne's extraordinary life.

dmm

September 14, 2024

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