VALLS - Carmen
1961 - 2021. November 1, 2021. Beloved sister and aunt, our sweet Carmi left this life suddenly. Born in Cincinnati, Ohio to recent Cuban refugees Luis A. and Gloria B. Valls, Carmen grew up in Buffalo, New York, attending local public schools and graduating from Amherst High School in 1979. As an aspiring violinist and lifelong devotee of the instrument, Carmen attended Peabody Institute at The Johns Hopkins University. She graduated from D'Youville College School of Nursing in Buffalo, and received her Master's Degree in Social Work from the University at Buffalo. She began her career in Buffalo and worked for many years in Philadelphia as a clinical therapist. Her passion for emotional and spiritual growth was her life force, expressed outwardly in her work specializing in healing grief and trauma. Carmen is survived by her six siblings: Teresa of Philadelphia; Isabel of Durham, North Carolina; Luis (Katherine), Maria (Bud), Andrew (Jessica), and John (Theresa) of Portland, Oregon; by seven nephews and nieces (James, Max, Spencer, Alex, Autumn, Alma, Nora); and by cherished friends Barb, Chris and Bonnie, among many others, including extended family. May she be held gently by the universe for eternity and truly rest in peace. She will be forever missed and remembered. A memorial service will be held in Buffalo at a future date.

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Published by Buffalo News on Nov. 7, 2021.

Memories and Condolences
for Carmen VALLS

16 Entries

Judge Burns

April 15, 2025

I remember Carmen well from High school. A lovely, very intelligent, and very talented friend and classmate. She will definitely be missed. Keeping her family in prayer.

Greg Fresta

February 23, 2023

Hello, im deeply sorry for your loss...Dr. Valls was my therapist at Hall Mercer for almost a year. I discontinued therapy because i can be self destructive sometimes. After i stopped therapy, I wanted to give Dr Valls a call, apologize and let her know it had nothing to do with her or her skill as a therapist. I procrastinated caling her and late last year i asked another Doctor at Hall Mercer how Dr. Valls was doing. He told me she had passed away..It was like a kick in the stomach. I asked why, how she passed. It just didnt make sense, she always seemed so healthy..but it was obvious he wanted to keep it private. I will always regret not calling her and letting her know how much she helped me. I think about her a lot, so today I tried to search for her on the internet...and found this site. Again, im sorry for your loss, ill always be thankful for meeting Dr. Valls. Sincerely,

sharon bruce

December 8, 2021

this evening, in my store, i came across sheet music that has carmen's name on it and immediately began to cry. it is so beautiful to have a piece of her still with me. carmen was my therapist for fifteen years and her loss has been an incredible shock. she was a very private person and very compassionate. my life will never be the same, but i will always remember her gentle nudges for me to be more open to the ebb and flow of our existence on this planet. thanks, carmen. i'm so glad i got to say goodbye and tell you how much i cared about you in our last session... thank you for still being with me

Kathy Essek

November 13, 2021

I was saddened to read of the death of Carmen. We worked together for a number of years at Lake Shore Behavioral Health in Buffalo in the 1990´s. She was a caring counselor and firm in her direction of ways to help others with trauma histories. She was very focused on her violin playing. May she and her loved ones find rest and peace through her spirit.

Donna Campo

November 10, 2021

This is one of my favorite quotes and reminds me of Carmen who spent her life and work seeking the light.

"The great and sad mistake of many people
is to imagine that those whom death has taken, leave us. They do not leave us. They remain! We do not see them, but they see us. Their eyes, radiant with glory, are fixed upon our eyes. Though invisible to us, they are not absent. They are living near us, transfigured into light, into power, into love."

With love and sympathy to all who knew and loved Carmen,
Donna Campo

E. Joy Rosenbloom

November 9, 2021

A great loss for everyone who knew or had contact with Carmen. She is surely resting , now forever,in THE LIGHT that always meant so much to her. Until we meet again in the hereafter,thank you for always making my life so much better. I love you and miss you, more than words can say. You were and will always be a very dear and beloved friend. Irreplaceable, my dearest Carmen. Until we meet again, thank you for your friendship and for adding so much to my life.

Roz Brumfield

November 8, 2021

I am very sad to hear of Carmen's passing. She was a dedicated person to her interests. When my mother passed away I received one of the kindest notes from Carmen. I will remember her and am sorry for her loss.

Roz Brumfield

November 8, 2021

Very sad to hear of Carmen's passing. I worked and collaborated with her for a # of years at her place of employment. She was thoughtful and provided guidance for many individuals during her life. She will be missed by many.

Paula Garey

November 8, 2021

Carmen was a gentle soul. Hardworking, dedicated, thorough, kind and compassionate to say the least. We will forever miss you. Always in our hearts.

Trina Walker-Savage

November 8, 2021

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Gail Roeshman

November 8, 2021

Carmen was a kind and generous friend and colleague, who was always willing to share her knowledge and offer guidance. Thank you Carmen for all you did for so many, may your memory be a blessing and may you rest in peace. Gail

Kristyn Simon

November 8, 2021

A very kind soul. She was truly one of a kind and will be missed.

Donna Lee Wood

November 8, 2021

Carmen was one of the most compassionate people I have ever known. Her light shined strong and her co workers and clients benefited from knowing her.
She is greatly missed.

Molly Schmid

November 7, 2021

For years Carmen has been a light guiding me through darkness. Even now it is her words and compassion helping me grieve her loss. I know she will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. I will be planting trees in her memory, to grow and reach for the light. My heart and thoughts are with her family.

Laura Brachmann

November 7, 2021

Maria, I´m so sorry to hear this sad news. Remembering you and your family in my prayers and wishing everlasting peace for your beautiful sister Carmen.

E, Joy Rosenbloom

November 7, 2021

Dearest Carmen: Wonderful cherished friend and colleague of many years. Irreplaceable in soul and spirit. May you rest with the angels and may your memory be for a blessing. Forever missed. Sadly, Joy

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