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Bainbridge, Gary

Nov 16, 2024

Age 82, of North Tonawanda, died in Boerne, Texas. Gary was raised in Amherst by his late parents, Fred and Ingrid Bainbridge, alongside his siblings: the late Kenneth Bainbridge, the late Joan Adams, Larry (Andi) Bainbridge, Robert (Teri) Bainbridge, and Diane Arena. A 1960 graduate of Sweet Home High School, Gary was affectionately nicknamed "Old Socs" by his classmates, a nod to his quiet integrity and wisdom. Following high school, he served in the army as a tank engine mechanic and later earned an associate's degree from Erie County Technical Institute, now Erie Community College. Gary's career was marked by his role as vice president of operations at McGard LLC in Orchard Park. His dedication and innovative spirit led to the establishment of the quality control department and several patents for lug nuts and wheel locks. Under his leadership, McGard transformed from a small Buffalo plant into a successful international company. After retiring in 2001, Gary generously volunteered his expertise at Roswell Park Cancer Center for many years. In 1965, Gary married Michele Gemmette, and together they raised two children, Kelly Bainbridge and Wendy (Richard) Hartson. Michele lovingly cared for Gary following his dementia diagnosis in 2017. He was a cherished grandfather to Delaney Hartson, Brayden Hartson, and Abby Schroeder, and is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews. Gary was a steadfast source of comfort and support for family and friends, known for his calm demeanor and attentive listening. He lived by the words of his favorite poem, Desiderata: "Go placidly among the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence." Services will be held at a later date.
Published by Buffalo News on Nov. 17, 2024.

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Paul Coleman

December 6, 2024

Mickey and family,

I'm saddened to hear of Gary's passing. I'm so glad I was able to know him for a few years before his diagnosis. He was a kind and steady man. Though I am glad that he is no longer in pain, I know this world will be less without him in it. My heartfelt condolences for this loss.

BRIAN DORMANN

November 26, 2024

Mickey,Kelly and Wendy you have my deepest condolences.I know my parents charished is friendship.

Angie Brown

November 19, 2024

I am so thankful for the life of Gary Bainbridge. I am praying for Mickey, Wendy and the entire family. What a beautiful legacy he left.

John Floss

November 19, 2024

The Bainbridge boys were famous in car racing and would help people in need.

Nancy (Krieger) Jankowski

November 18, 2024

Mickey & Family,
Deepest sympathy to all on Gary's passing. A warm and caring friend to all. Only good memories remain.
Nancy (Krieger) Jankowski (class of '60)

Glen McClary

November 18, 2024

Larry and family,
My deepest condolences on the passing of Gary. Going back to our Sweet Home years I had fond memories of him being kind to this freshman in gym class. A few years later he would come into Kinney Shoes, where I worked with one of his cars, usually with your other brother showing it off to the staff. May your many happy memories of him soften the loss. He will be missed and remembered fondly.
Glen McClary

Linda Beilein (Nebrich)

November 18, 2024

I remember Gary as a very calm, kind person and although it has been many years since I have seen him I know the world will miss him. Rest in Peace Gary and may God Bless you and your family.

Willard Kling jr

November 17, 2024

May my old friend rest in peace may be I will be seeing you as again Bill kling

William Brainard

November 17, 2024

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of a old friend. It has been awhile since we have seen each other how ever GOD SPEED & REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND.

Robert shotwell

November 17, 2024

Sorry for your loss,Gary had a very kind calm soul that not many have that in them :
Rob shotwell

Helen Thielke

November 17, 2024

So sorry Larry.

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