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Joan Diver Obituary

Of Clarence, NY, October 1, 2006, unexpectedly, beloved wife of Steven Diver; loving mother of Conrad, Collin, Claudie and Carter Diver; loving daughter of Dr. William W. (Eula- ween) Barney; dearest daughter in law of Celia Diver and Thomas Diver; dearest sister of Diane (Bob) Humphreys, Linda Tanner, Marilyn Odeh, Charlie (Pat) Barney, Bob (Barbara) Barney and Wes (Penny) Barney; also survived by nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends may call Thursday from Noon to 2 PM and 5-8 PM at the URBAN BROTHERS FUNERAL HOME, INC., 6685 Transit Rd., East Amherst (just south of County & N. French Rd.) and a church service at Zion Lutheran Church, 9535 Clarence Center Rd. Friday at 11 AM (Please assemble at church). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Girl Scouts or Boy Scouts of America in memory of Joan Diver or the Joan Diver's Fund, c/o The Bank of Akron.

This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.

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Published by Buffalo News from Oct. 3 to Oct. 5, 2006.

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September 29, 2012

You will always be remembered. Until we meet again.

August 12, 2012

In loving memory, always

February 29, 2012

May the Heavens open wide so the brightest light shines down on your family during the day and at night the brightest star follows each and everyone of The Diver and Barney Families.

September 30, 2007

One year later, our thoughts and prayers are still with the Diver Family.

Aunt Sara Diver-Canter

January 13, 2007

Dear Steve & Family I'm sorry it has taken me so long to express my deepest sympathies to all of you. I can't imagine how you must feel, but want you to know you've been in my thoughts and prayers all of this time. Love and light!

Chris Iman

December 1, 2006

There is not a more tragic thought than knowing someone who was such a beautiful, caring, and loving person, mother and wife has been taken from those who loved here dearly. I never had the opportunity to know you Joan, but I know the person you were to others. I pray that you are somewhere beautiful and safe from life's miseries. I pray for your family, that they will be able to endure such an intimate loss. That they will be comforted all through their lives. And I will pray that your case will be solved and the one responsible brought to justice in our time. God be with you dear lady.. I'm so very sorry for you.
Chris

Catherine, a runner

November 18, 2006

My thoughts and prayers continue to be with your family. My deepest sympathy,

DONNA BROWN

October 28, 2006

YOU ARE ALL STILL IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU.

Amy Wertheim

October 27, 2006

Stregnth, love and communication will help you through this. We are just so sorry.

Austin Dennis

October 13, 2006

To Conrad and Collin, So sad to hear about your mom, and know that you will miss her, hope to see you out here again next summer.
Austin and Aaron Dennis

Ruby Poulson

October 13, 2006

Dear Diver and Barney families,
I heard about the death of your dear Joan on the news. I had no idea at the time that I knew her or of her. It turns out that I not only know her family here in Granger but also her inlaws. My heart goes out to you all. I too am a nurse....I feel another connection to her....... May you find comfort, love and support at this time. God bless--- Ruby

Heather Springer Erickson

October 13, 2006

Joan was a friend of mine from the University of Utah, she was my "roomie" in Cuernavaca Mexico. I am so sorry for your loss, your wife and mother was a wonderful, caring, fun lady. May you be able to always carry the good times with you in spite of the heartache you have now. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

October 11, 2006

We do not know your family, but our hearts and prayers are with you. Please remember and embrace the good times, for this is what life is truly about. Remember that heaven is a place for Angels.

TAMI

October 11, 2006

I CAN NOT PUT INTO WORDS HOW SORRY I AM FOR YOUR LOSS.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TRAGIC TIME,& MAY GOD BLESS AND PROTECT YOUR FAMILY

Kori Burnett

October 11, 2006

I am so devastated with the news of my childhood friend. Joan was my best friend growing up in Utah and I am in shock to hear about her tragic death. I only heard today and wish I could have stayed in touch with her. I am sending my condolescences to the Barney family and to her husband and children. God Bless you all! Peace be with you.

JENNIFER

October 10, 2006

To the Diver Family,
I do not know your family personally but I have been watching this tragedy unfold on the news. When Joan was first reported missing, and I heard she was a mother of 4 I thought please God let her be ok...her children need her. Once I heard the terrible news I knew your family would never be the same. Know in your heart that she is watching over your family now - and she is in a better place. She will always be with your children - we have to believe that. Only time and strength will get you through this terrible time. My thoughts are with you and your children. God bless.

Pete and Stacie Ramsey

October 9, 2006

To the Diver Family,
While nothing is harder than saying good-by to someone you love, may you find strength in knowing that Joan will be part of you forever. Always treasure the warm memories. May you find comfort, healing and peace. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and if you need anything we are here for you.

Amol

October 8, 2006

Dear Prof. Diver and family:

Words cannot do justice to the sense of grief I felt when I was informed about the tragic death of Mrs. Boss. I will always remember her as a caring wife, a loving mother and a wonderful person. I will certainly miss her very much. Boss, I am terribly sorry for your irreparable loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loving family!

The Ostrowski Family

October 7, 2006

To The Diver Family,
No words can ever truely explain, the heartfelt sympathy felt...May you have peace with knowing, your mom and wife...confidant and best friend are with the most precious angel's...MAY GOD BLESS...

Lisa G.

October 6, 2006

To the Diver Family,
May it comfort you to know that we are all praying for your family.
Even though it is a very sad time, keep all of those wonderful memories alive to get you through the hard times. I'm sure your wife and mother are watching over you.

Mary

October 6, 2006

Dear Diver family,
My heart breaks for your family. I'm also a mother of four & have used the bike path. Often using Davidson road as my turn around point. I know from my own experience with a tradgic death (my daughter) how hard your days ahead will be. I just want you to know you're in my thoughts.

Connie & family

October 6, 2006

I wish to extend my sincerest heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I know words alone aren't enough to comfort you at this saddened time. May God Bless you all and keep you in his care to get through this difficult time.
Night falls,
but day dawns to replace it...
Grief comes,
but time will ease the pain...
Life ends,
but death cannot erase it...
In memory,
love always will remain.
There are those
whose lives
death cannot diminish.
Their love radiates
forever in the hearts
of friends
and loved ones,
and their light shines on
in the lives
they've touched
for so many years.

Pastore Family

October 6, 2006

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Bill

October 6, 2006

Diver Family- My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God give you the strength and resolve now, and always.

Deb Jasnau

October 6, 2006

To the Diver family,
Not knowing you personally, my heart is heavy with the tragic loss you are suffering right now. My granddaughter, Megan Beers was in preschool last year with Carter, and her family as well as ours extend our deepest sympathy and pray for your healing and comfort. May Our Lord keep you all in the palm of His hand and lead you through this most difficult time.
We all want you to know we will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

October 6, 2006

"The Lord bless and keep you;
the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you;
the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace."
Numbers 6:24-26
My prayers are with you and your family.

sherri twitchell

October 6, 2006

to the diver family, its hard to even imagine what your going through right now. im so sorry for your great loss,though there were many reasons for her here on earth, im sure there are many important reasons that she was called home to heaven.you are all in our hearts and prayers once again im sorry for your loss

cindy rosso

October 6, 2006

To the Diver family.

My deepest and most heartfelt condolences go to you, the family of Joan Diver.Losing someone you love, in such a tragic way is the worst feeling in the world. My brother was murdered in July and I never cried so much in my life, but please know that she will never again feel anything but happiness, while she waits for you in Heaven. She sounds like a very special person, that will leave behind a beautiful legacy of goodness, kindness and love. I believe that when her spirit left her body, she looked into the face of GOD and now she watches over you, her family, until you meet again. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

Samantha rosso

October 6, 2006

I would like to let every body know that i am very sorry for what happened, i lived in clarence for a couple of years and my mother is still there. I pray for you and i hope that nothing ealse happens like this again god bless

October 5, 2006

TO THE DIVER FAMILY; I DON'T KNOW YOU , BUT MY HEART IS HEAVY FOR YOU AND THE CHILDREN. MAY YOU ALL FIND COMFORT AND PEACE WITH THE LOVING MEMMORIES YOU HAVE.

Donna Osness/Brown

October 5, 2006

Dear Diver & Barney families,

I want to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you as I know your heart's are heavy at this time as is mine. I was a high school friend of Joan's and even though I haven't seen her in over 15 years she held a special place in my heart. When I think of Joan I think of Ziggy, Greese, 79 T-top Monte carlo/state street and fun.
My prayers are with you all.

Maureen O'Connor

October 5, 2006

Dear Mr. Diver and children,
Our hearts go out to you at this very difficult time. Though we do not know you we are praying daily for you all. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many.
Ken and Maureen O'Connor

The Hitzges Family (Ledgeview)

October 5, 2006

To the Diver Family - Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Peace and strength be yours, and know that her love is with you all, always.

Cathy & Paul Stanfield

October 5, 2006

Dear Mr. Diver and children
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Cherish your memories, as your Wife and Mother is not far away. She is the little butterfly, Sun Ray or rain drop you'll see. May time heal her absence. May her LOVE keep your hearts warm.

Stacey

October 5, 2006

I just needed to tell you that when the picture of your Mom's beautiful face and smile appears on the news, my eyes well up with tears - not only for you but for all of us. We have truly lost a wonderful person. Although I did not know your family, I feel as though she will always remain in our hearts and in our memories. Please remember the whole community is crying with you and wants to help you in any way. God bless your family during this most difficult time.

Samuel Scaduto

October 5, 2006

Dear Steve and family,

I want you to know how deeply sorry we are for the loss of your beautiful wife Joan. I hold onto the happy memories I have of your family at the DI meeting this past year in Binghamton.WE will continue to pray for you and the children.

Sam, Jackie, Ian and Andrew

Vernon Dwire

October 5, 2006

My wife and I are long time friends of Tom Diver, Joan's father-in-law. We wish to express our heartfelt condolences for this horrible tragedy.

Karen, A Clarence Resident

October 5, 2006

To The Diver Family-
The loss of Joan is such a tragedy for your family and our community. We all weep with you. Please know that friends, neighbors and the community are all thinking and praying for your family at this time.

Jeanne Manyon

October 5, 2006

Dear Diver Family,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. While I didn't know your mom personally, we were both frequent exercisers on the same bike path. Only God can take this terrible tragedy and somehow bring you peace and comfort during this very difficult time. That is my prayer for all of you.

Love,

Jeanne

October 5, 2006

Dear Diver family...my heart goes out to you and your family. I don't know your family, but I want you to know WNY cares! God Bless all of you and may memories of her help you through this difficult time.

The Bartels Family

October 5, 2006

Dear Diver Family,

As tragic as your loss is you should always remember the deep and unconditional love your mother had for you. It was eveident to all who knew her, and even though it is hard to imagine, she is with you more now than ever before. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeri Draney Francis

October 5, 2006

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I was a friend of Joan's many years ago, she even helped me get my first job. Hold on to all the good memories, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

The Kiener Family

October 5, 2006

Our hearts go out to the Diver family during this difficult time. Eventhough, our children attend Ledgview as well,sadly our paths never crossed. Please know that your family is in our prayers. As part of the Clarence community, we are prepared to help your family in any way possible.

Donna P

October 5, 2006

To The Diver Family,

Although I do not know you personnally, I am originally from the Tonawanda area and now live out of state, but I keep up with WNY news frequently, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and mother, my God Bless you and keep you strong within His loving arms.

annyomous

October 5, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)

©Copyright 1998-2006


To the Children of Joan My Prayers are with you at this time.

Lynnette Swearingen

October 5, 2006

Dear Aunt Ween,Uncle Bill,and all the family. We feel your sorrow and want you to know our prayers are with you. Love, Lynnette and Jerry.

Latz Family

October 5, 2006

To the Diver and Barney Family:
May God Bless you today and always. Please know that Western New York mourns with you. Let the memories of the joyful times ease your sorrow. God Bless.
Latz Family
Grand Island, NY

Jenny Shah

October 5, 2006

Dear Diver family:

I knew Joan and Carter from the Mommy & Me playgroup Joan ran last year. She was such a warm, genuine person, and a wonderful mother. My daughter and I will never forget the muffins she baked every week for the children in the playgroup -- a gesture that illustrated what a kind and thoughtful person she was. Our family will keep you in our thoughts.

Domroes

October 5, 2006

Diver Family,

We are sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time.

Jim Pendolino

October 4, 2006

Dear Conrad,
I am really sorry about your Mom. Just wanted you to know that your friends are thinking about you.

Elaine (Lowder) Laycock

October 4, 2006

I would like to express my sympathy for Diver's family. Joan must of been a very speacial person and mom, for people to remember her the way they do. I grew up in Clarence and I never thought anything like this would ever happen.. I am so sorry for your family... your in my thoughts and prayers, and may time heal everyone...God Bless you All

Dottie and Dennis Freeman

October 4, 2006

To the Diver family,
Please know that although we don't
know you personally, there are so
many of us who grieve for your family during this very difficult time. May God bless you.

October 4, 2006

Mr Diver and Children, You do not know me but I am so deeply sorry for your loss,I wish I could have known her, she sounded like she was a wondeful person and was deeply loved by everyone that knew her. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts. God Bless all of you.

Hiroaki Suga

October 4, 2006

Dear Steve, Conrad, Collin, Claudie and Carter:

We are so terribly sorry for your loss of Joan. Even though we are far away from you, our thoughts are always with you.

With our deepest sympathy,
Hiro, Nahoko and Amane

Sovereign Lyman

October 4, 2006

Dear Diver Family
Although I have never met your family I am very saddened by the tragic turn of events. As a mother I cant even imagine leaving my children. Know in your hearts that she will always be watching over you and the children. Take comfort in knowingthat she loves all of you and will see you again some day. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

rafael mercado

October 4, 2006

I am so sorry, my heart goes out to all of you, may God hold you close to Him.

Beverly

October 4, 2006

I did not know the family personally but, just knowing that something tragic like this could happen in our community brings us all so much closer. This is a very trying time and hopefully god has some answers. The WNY communities thoughts and prayers are with the entire diver family and hope that justice comes for you soon.

SHARON R. LEE

October 4, 2006

To the Diver Family-My prayers are with you in this time of sadness for you.I was born in Buffalo and now living in Georgia but always read the Buffalo newspaper.I will pray for all of you that God will ease your pain.Sharon R.Lee Ringgold,Georgia

E. Dottie Watkins, Director ofCommunications

October 4, 2006

The staff and volunteers of the Girl Scout Council of Buffalo & Erie County, Inc., are deeply saddened by Joan's death and send our love, prayers and thoughts to her family and friends, along with our gratitude for her contribu-tions to the Clarence Service Unit and to this Council.

October 4, 2006

The Diver Family:

You do not know us.

We want to let you know that there are many people out there that are praying for all of you at this very difficult time. Words cannot express what all of you are going through... but just know, that God is with you at this time and will carry you in the heartaches you are going through right now.

Acts: 24:15

Barb Ernst

October 4, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Joan looks familiar to me as we live just a couple of miles apart, and I'm certain our paths have crossed. Donations in Joan's memory have been made to the Girl Scouts and the Boy Scouts of America. May you live with wonderful memories.

October 4, 2006

Dear Dr. Diver, Conrad, Collin, Claudie and Carter:

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I saw Mrs. Diver often when she would come to school for the children. I will miss her smiling face. May time help you all to heal. Your family will be in my prayers.

Mrs. Denise Englert
Ledgeview Elementary School Office

Melissa

October 4, 2006

I Am So Sorry For Your Loss... Your Family Is In My Thoughts And Prayers!!!

bonnie clement

October 4, 2006

I am so terribly sorry for your loss-losing Joan has brought sorrow to the entire city of Buffalo.
I just wanted you to know that Rabbi Rosenfeld of Temple Beth Zion said special prayers for Joan at our Yom Kipper service Sunday evening.
Please just know how much we care.
Bonnie Clement

michelle hartman

October 4, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and I am praying for your family daily. May God comfort you and richly bless you, the Diver family until the Lord takes you home to be with Joan who is now in Heaven. I am grieving with you.

sad neighbor

October 4, 2006

There really are no words to express the sadness that our community feels right now. Please know that your loss and pain is shared by us all. No one can ever take away the beauty and love that Joan possessed. May that love and beauty that she shared with you warm your hearts and dry your tears, now and always.

God Bless Joan's Family.

Cynthia Gardner

October 4, 2006

Dear Steve, Conrad, Collin, Claudie and Carter. Words can't express how sorry we are at the loss of your wonderful wife and Mom. Joan brought Carter to the Mommy & Me classes that I taught for a couple of years. She was such a terrific mom and had such a wonderful way with everything that I asked her to replace me when I left. All of the moms and children from the mommy and me will miss her warmth, wisdom and smile. I will miss her tremendously. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please know that we are all here to help..anytime. Cynthia Gardner

Lisa Salvatore

October 4, 2006

Dear Diver Family,
I can not express enough of how terribly, terribly sorry I am for your loss. I am sure words may not help ease the pain and anger you may be feeling, but it seems that you have an entire community, friends, neighbors and family that are here to support you and hopefully help all of you through this devastating time of sorrow. Take comfort in knowing that you are in so many people’s prayers and hearts.

October 4, 2006

Dear Diver Family~ You do not know me but your family has been in my heart, thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry that your family has lost a treasured member in such a tragic way. I will continue to pray for your family.

Natalie Miller

October 4, 2006

Dear Dr. Diver, Conrad, Collin, Claudie, and Carter - I would like to extend my most deepest sympathy for the loss of your wife and mother. I remember her well from Ledgeview and the two years I had Conrad and Collin in 4th grade. She loved all of you so much and that was very evident to everyone who came in contact with her. I will miss her greatly! I pray that all of you are able to find some peace at such a difficult time. I will keep Joan and all of you in my prayers.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Natalie Miller

Nicole Cratsenberg

October 4, 2006

to the family,
i dont know your family personally. but i have heard of your son conrad and i send my prayers and sypithy to the whole family. it must be hard to have an amazing woman in your family die. your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers day in and day out.

The Ledyards

October 4, 2006

Our family will treasure getting to know your family through Ledgeview. You have wonderfully bright and engaging children that have always been a good influence on our boys. It is apparent that both you and Joan view it is an honor to raise a family by the time and effort you put in. She will be missed but your family will always be in our thoughts.
Grant, Liza and Boys

October 4, 2006

Dear Diver Family~
Our hearts, our love, and our prayers are with you at this tragic time. May the memories of your dear wife and mother remain forever in your hearts. Our Clarence community grieves ever so much with you.

Jean Ranney

October 4, 2006

Dear Steve,Conrad,Collin,Clauie and Carter,
We are so very saddened by the loss of Joan. Please know that our hearts go out to you. Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers each and everyday. Please remember in the days to come that we are next door and will always be there to help in anyway that we can.

Joan will truly be missed and will
Always be in our hearts.
The Ranney's
Michael, Jean, Collin and Jason

MaryMargaret Dempsey

October 4, 2006

Conrad,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow. Your mom is watching over you.

Lori

October 4, 2006

To the Diver family
You dont know me, but my heart is saddened for your loss. May God comfort all of you and give you the strength you need to heal.

The Cimato Family

October 4, 2006

Dear Diver Family: So sorry to hear the terrible loss of your wife. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep the faith and stay strong for each other. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kathleen

October 4, 2006

Dearest Diver Fakmily, I do not know your family but extend my very deepest sympathy to all. What a tragic death in our immediate area. May our Lord welcome Joan with open arms as she is at peace with love and no tears in heaven...she definitely is a beautiful flower in God's garden. May our Lord also sustain all of you during the time in your earthly lives until you meet Joan in heaven. My prayers are with you.

Christy Gibbons Curtis

October 4, 2006

To the Dear Diver & Barney Families,
I was so very shocked & saddened to hear the news of Joan's death. I grew up right around the corner from Joan and her family and have known Joan almost all of my life. We were the same age. My heart goes out to her Dear Husband, her four beautiful children, her Dear parents, brothers, sisters and all of her extended family anf friends. May God bless you all throughout this most difficult time.
With my sincerest sympathy,
Christy Gibbons Curtis
West Valley City, Utah

Debbie Marfurt

October 3, 2006

We send our love and prayers.
May you feel... strength in love, happiness in memories, coping with time, hunger for tomorrow. Baby steps to a brighter day one day at a time though love.
God bless your family as we all grieve together.
The Marfurts

October 3, 2006

To The Diver Family,

You don't know me, I just heard about horrible tragedy on the news and just wanted to give my condolence to you,and your
family durining this diffcult time. May you reflect on your fondest memories to pull you thru this diffcult time.

Rita & Edward Buettner

October 3, 2006

So sorry for your loss.We don't think that anything like this can happen to us being in such a small community.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God give you strength to go on with your lives. God bless you all.

Catherine Prefontaine

October 3, 2006

Professor Diver, Collin, Conrad, Claudie, and Carter,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you every moment of every day. Mr. Diver, the kindness you and Mrs. Diver have always bestowed upon my family is such a testament to your beautiful wife and the love she spread in the Clarence community. Now, the entire Boston College Community is praying for your family in this sorrowful time at masses all week and this weekend. My heart is with you and my family is always here for yours!
Love Always,
Catie Prefontaine

Ruby Cassidy

October 3, 2006

To the Diver Family, You will always be in my thoughts and prayer. I am sadden by your great loss. I will continue to pray that you and your children will weather this loss. May God keep you in his heart and give you strength to carry on.

Geri Hawker

October 3, 2006

Dear Dr.Diver and children,
I am deeply saddened at the loss of Joan. I have many fond memories of time spent with her in my classroom while teaching both Colin and Claudie. Her love for her children, and her pride of their accomplishments was clearly evident during each classroom celebration we shared. Mrs. Diver will be missed by the Ledgeview community. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you with strength.
With much sympathy, Geri Hawker

Julie Kaska

October 3, 2006

Although I have never met your family, my heart is heavy for you all. I cannot imagine the grief you carry, your loss,but know that the community is with you, praying for you, loving and caring for you all. May God Bless with you comfort, peace and everlasting loving memories.
God Bless You All

Margaret Cusack

October 3, 2006

Dear Collin, Conrad and Family--I am so deeply saddened by your terrible loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Mrs. Cusack

Jim & Dotti Timkey

October 3, 2006

To the Diver Family,

We send our prayers and deepest sympathy. May it comfort you to know that the caring thoughts of others are always near you. God Bless you.

Connie and Henry Kaack

October 3, 2006

My families deepest sympathy to Mr. Diver and children. You will be in our prayers.

October 3, 2006

To the Diver Family.. God Bless you during your time of sorrow. The entire Western New York Community is praying for you. God bless you today, tomorrow, and always~

Luther, Carol and Jacob Townsend

October 3, 2006

We are so, so sorry for such a terrible thing to happen to Joan.

Steve, you and Joan have helped us out with Jacob so much and now it is our turn to help you and the kids. Y'all are in our prayers.

Jill Licata

October 3, 2006

To the Diver family - our thoughts and prayers are with you after your loss. May God be your solace in this time of grief. Please know that the Clarence community has surrounded you with their prayers and love. God Bless.

Debi

October 3, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the family of Mrs. Diver. I will pray for Mr. Diver and those loving children.

Ingrid McCabe

October 3, 2006

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Joel Weiss

October 3, 2006

My deepest sympathy to your entire family. The faculty and staff at Ledgeview are truly sorry for your great loss.

Janie Ziemba

October 3, 2006

To the dear family of Joan,

I was one of Claudie's pre-school teachers at Page One Pre-School. I remember how happy Claudie would be to see her mother when she picked her up every day, and how excited Joan was when she learned that she was expecting her fourth child. After Carter was born, Claudie would gently kiss her little brother on the forehead when Joan brought him into the classroom. What a loving family!

Words cannot express how saddened I was to learn of Joan's tragic death. My heart goes out to your family, especially Claudie. Please know that others are thinking of you and care deeply.

With heartfelt sympathy,
"Miss Janie"

October 3, 2006

I did not know the family personally, but I want to say my heart is heavy and sad for this horrible tragedy. May God bless her husband and their children and may they find peace someday.

October 3, 2006

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. You will be in our prayers during this time. We have children at the Middle and High school who know your chidren.
Deepest sympathy
The Zimmermann Family

Linda Brasher Cable

October 3, 2006

We were greatly saddened to hear the terrible new of Joans death. As friends and neighbors of the Barney family we have loved them for many years. May the Lords choicest blessings comfort her husband, children and other family members.

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