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Joseph Matteliano Obituary

February 2, 2006, beloved husband of Diane (Stutz) Matteliano; loving father of Jodie (Charles) Ventura, Andrea (Dave Terpin) Matteliano and the late Jude Joseph Matteliano; loving grandfather of Amanda, Holly and Brandon Jones, Alexandra and Vincent Ventura; devoted son of Anthony and Carmella (DiPasquale) and the late Marion (Bellanca) Matteliano; dearest brother of Sharon (Stephen) Frisicaro; survived by aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. Family present to receive friends Monday and Tuesday from 2-4 and 7-9 at the PERNA-PELLEGRINO FUNERAL HOME, INC., 1671 Maple Rd. (between Hopkins and Youngs Rds.), where funeral services will be held Wednesday at 8:45 AM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated from St. Gregory the Great Church at 9:30 AM. Flowers gratefully declined. Interment Mt. Calvary Cemetery.

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Published by Buffalo News from Feb. 6 to Feb. 7, 2006.

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Lori Leisner

February 17, 2006

Diane and Family,



Please know how truly sorry I am to hear of your tragic loss. You are in my prayers and may God Bless you.

Joelle Mattina and Family

February 15, 2006

Dear Renee, Craig, and Mr. and Mrs Frisicaro, You are all in our prayers and we are so sorry that this tragedy had to happen to you. You are such a wonderful family, I know your love for eachother and the love of your friends and family will get you through these difficult times. Please let us know if you need anything at all. We love you, Joelle and family

Craig Curtin

February 13, 2006

JOE,

OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU IN IT. THE SADNESS OF YOUR LOSS WILL FOREVER BE IN OUR HEARTS. THE ONLY THING WE CAN DO IS REMEMBER ALL THE TIMES YOU FILLED OUR LIVES WITH JOY. YOU WERE BLESSED WITH YOUR FATHER'S SMILE THAT BRIGHTEN A ROOM. THE LOVE YOU GAVE TO MY IN-LAWS, MY WIFE AND KIDS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. WE WILL ALWAYS CHARISH THE TIMES WE SPENT WITH YOU DURING THE HOLIDAYS AND BIRTHDAY PARTIES. I JUST ALWAYS REMEMBER LAUGHING AND HAVING A GOOD TIME. NOT ONLY WERE YOU THE GREATEST DENTIST TO MY FAMILY YOU WERE ONE OF THE MOST GENEROUS MEN I HAVE EVER MET. YOU TREATED MY FAMILY LIKE GOLD. YOU TREATED MY CHILDREN LIKE THEY WERE YOUR OWN. I AM SO PROUD TO HAVE KNOWN YOU. YOU WILL LIVE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS AND MIND.



GOD BLESS YOU JOE!

Robert and Sharon Priest

February 13, 2006

Our hearts are just broken over what has happened. You have been a great friend and a wonderful Dentist to us for so many years. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy goes to all your family. God Bless.

NANCY BERENT

February 12, 2006

TO THE FAMILY OF DR. MATTELIANO

I MOVED TO ARIZONA EARLY IN 2005 AND SAW YOUR DAD IN MAY OF 2005 FOR MY LAST DENTAL VISIT IN NEW YORK. HE LOOKED GOOD LOST SO MUCH WEIGHT AND WAS FEELING GREAT. TODAY I LEARNED OF HIS PASSING AND AM SO SAD TO LEARN OF HIS DEATH. HE WAS NOT ONLY MY DENTIST HE FIXED MY CHILDRENS TEETH OVER THE YEARS AND HE WAS A GREAT FRIEND. HE WILL BE TRULY MISSED BY US. PEACE AND LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND WILL REMEMBER HIM ALWAYS. GOD BLESS YOU AND HELP YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME. IN MY PRAYERS NANCY BERENT AZ

Robert Balthasar

February 12, 2006

I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss, and grieve also as Joe was a special person to everyone who knew him.

This may not be the most appropriate time to express this, but I know of no other way to get this message to you. I know the road ahead for the family members will not be a pleasant one under the circumstances, and in the end, I truly hope justice is served for all. I too met Joe when I was 17, and have kept in touch off and on for 32 years. In fact, my sister-in-law spoke to Joe a fews years back when he was looking to partner in the dental business as he began to think of retirement, and she was a fledgling out of dental school. Things didn't work out, but it was another example how our lives touched periodically. Joe was one of the kindest souls I ever met, and his influence is a significant part of who I am now. Thats why I'd like to offer that if you ever need a witness to attest to his kind, unthreatening demeanor, I would be happy to help if I can.

Robert

Elyse Digiore-Campbell

February 12, 2006

Dear Mr.and Mrs Frisicaro,



Just wanted you to know how sorry I am about your beautiful brother. You are always in my thoughts. I love you,

Elyse

Mark Littlewood

February 12, 2006

Joe,

You were more than a friend to my brother and me... you were a father, friend, brother and mentor. To say you will be missed is impossible. I still can't believe you're gone... I will miss our phone calls of you giving me the advice I didn't want to hear but was correct every time. You have given me much wisdom. God bless you, and thank you. Mark

Holly Jones

February 11, 2006

Grampa Joe,

Never will a man be missed more than you. you were so generous, open, loving, always ready with a smile. You helped make me who I am today, Thank you. And Thank you for all the wonderful memories I now cherish: stories and meals at your house, outings, your music: a gift all so preciously received. It is hard to find such a man as you. Thank you for living such a wonderful life, and being such a wonderful man.

We all will miss you.

Joseph Caruana

February 11, 2006

Joe,you taught me how to drive,patients for you was a virtue,I will miss my cousin,my dentist and my friend allways in my thoughts and prayers.

Jacque Kontak

February 10, 2006

My entire family grieves the loss of Dr. Joe. He had been the family dentist for my entire family for over 20 years.

To his family, you are all in our thoughts & Prayers.

Jackie Kontak Bich Linh Nguyen,

Anh Vu and Oanh Ngo

Patrick Harris

February 10, 2006

Andrea, Jodie and Diane, I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.



Sincerely, PJ Harris

Sherry Guarino-Persche

February 10, 2006

Andrea,

My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family during this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sherry Guarino- Persche

Christine ( Ettipio) Lewis

February 10, 2006

Andrea,

Just an old friend from the mount here. My sincere sympathy to you and your family. I remember back in high school how wonderful your father was. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts.

Geraldine Weigand

February 10, 2006

My husband, Adam, was a patient of Dr. Matteliano....and we were shocked to hear of his untimely death. He was a wonderful man, and our hearts go out to his entire family. He will be missed by many many people. I'm sure he was accompanied by many angels as he went to his heavenly home.

Jim and Amy (Daniels) Murray

February 9, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Frisicaro, Renee, Craig, Hudson and Ashton:



We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and uncle. Please know that we will be thinking of you all during this difficult time. Your thoughts are in our prayers.



Jim and Amy Murray

SHARON FRISICARO

February 9, 2006

DEAR BROTHER,TODAY WE SAID OUR FINAL GOOD-BY,I WILL NEVER GET TO SEE THAT SMILE ON YOUR FACE OR HEAR THAT HI KIDDO, OR WHATS UP SHAR. I AM SO PROUD TO SAY I WAS YOUR SISTER,AND AM SO PROUD TO HAVE MET AND HEARD SO MANY WONDERFUL STORIES OF YOUR GOODNESS. I HOPE YOU WERE HAPPY WITH THE SERVICE, I THINK IT WAS ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND SO LIKE YOU , I KNOW YOU MUST BE HAPPY. YOUR GRANDCHILDREN ARE ALL SO UNIQUE AND SPECIAL AND THEY WERE SO BLESSED TO HAVE ALL YOUR TALENTS.YOU CAN BE SO PROUD OF YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN, YOU WERE SO SPECIAL TO DAD AND CARM AND AUNT LORRAINE. THEY WILL ALL MISS YOU SO. DAD DID LOVE YOU SO AND YOU WERE A FAVORITE SON TO CARM,SHE A SECOND MOTHER TO YOU. WE WILL BE SO LOST. STEVE LOVED YOU LIKE HIS BROTHER. JOE YOUR MEMORY,YOUR LOVE,YOUR MUSIC WILL LIVE ON FOREVER. YOU ARE NOW WITH MOM AND YOUR SON JUDE. THE SUN WAS SHINING TODAY AND I KNOW YOU TOOK THAT SHORT RIDE TO HEAVEN. KEEP IN TOUCH. YOUR LOVING SIS. SHARON

Michaelyn Janiga

February 9, 2006

Dr. Matteliano was a wonderful person and a compassionate Doctor. It was always a pleasure to go to my cleanings. I will miss seeing his smiling face every six months.

Jolene Falkner

February 9, 2006

I did not know Dr. Matteliano for a long time, but for the short time that I knew him I was very impressed by the awesome dentist he was but more importantly by the warm, kind and patient person that I was so lucky to know. It was truly an honor having known him. All of my best to all of his family, he was so proud of you and spoke so highly of his family at every visit. This is a terrrible loss and he will be remembered fondly.

Dave and Daryl Krueger

February 8, 2006

Dr. Joe you will be sadly missed. We have been with you since we were both only a year old and we are now 22 and 20. May you rest in peace and may your family get through these hard times. Thank you for your generosity.

Michael A. Frisicaro

February 8, 2006

Our condolences to the Matteliano & Frisicaro families. God bless all of you in this difficult time of loss. Your in our thoughts & prayers. Michael, Christina, Michael Jr & Alexis.

Cheryl Space

February 8, 2006

To Diane and family,

My thought are with you at this time of loss. I'll always remember Dr.Joe, he was a very kind man. My Deepest Sympathy to you all.

Cheryl

Jessica Prescott

February 8, 2006

Jodie, Charlie, Alex, & Vinny- our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Just know that heaven has gained an angel who will ALWAYS be watching over all of you.

All our love,

Jessica, Eric, and Logan Prescott

Cheryl Tirone-Best

February 8, 2006

To Tony and Carm and family,



My deepest condolences go out to you....you are in my prayers.

grace (aurilio) peters

February 8, 2006

Andrea,

I don't know if you remember me from St Margarets and the Mount but as soon as I heard of your loss I had to send my condolences. My God bless you and your family in this time of need! You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Maria Mazzara

February 8, 2006

Jody and familly,



My thoughts and prayers are with you. i am so sorry to hear about your loss. May God keep you strong and safe through this devasting time today and always

Robert Fedele

February 8, 2006

Joe was a great dentist and an even better person, he will be missed by everyone. My depest condolences to the family.

Maureen & John Ahrens

February 8, 2006

Jodie- I am so very very sorry to hear of your loss.. Hoping that your faith will help to guide you through thte days and months ahead..

SANDEE & CHARLIE HORTON

February 8, 2006

WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE HOW SADDENED WE ARE OF HEARING ABOUT JOE. OUR LOVE AND SYMPATHY ARE WITH YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY. WE WISH WE COULD HAVE BEEN THERE WITH YOU NOW. OUR HOPE IS THAT EVERY MEMORY OF HIS BEAUTIFUL LIFE AND SPIRIT BRINGS A SMILE TO YOUR FACE, A CHUCKLE TO YOUR HEART, AND A BLESSING TO YOUR SOUL. ALL OUR LOVE CHARLIE AND SANDEE

Renee Frisicaro Curtin

February 8, 2006

Unc,

Its me again, I just laid down to go to bed and I realized I forgot to express how much you meant to my husband and my two boys. Craig always said, after you empressed him some how, man your uncle is smart. He made us laugh the other night about the car stereo you put in his car and how he crossed some wires and almost blew it out. He loved being your assistant for mom. When craig explained to Hudson you were in heaven, Hudson asked now who is going to be are dentist- grandpa likes to tell that story it makes him cry. Hudson will remermber you and we will make sure that Ashton will too.

Good night

Renee

Renee Frisicaro Curtin

February 8, 2006

Dearest Uncle Joe,

You will and always will be the soft gentle voice that brightened every ones day. From slumber parties on the boat, to the calming affect your sand glass at the office had on me since I was small, to christmas tree cutting traditions, you helped create memories that I will cherish forever. I will ask you to be with all of us always-especially Grandpa, Grandma Carm,Mom (shar because thats what you always called her) Auntie Di, Jodie, Andrea and all of your unique and very special grandchildren- they are all so wonderful you should be very proud. You were a brother to my dad and I thank you. I don't even have to explain the bond that you and Marc had. Tommorow we will see your face one last time but your spirit will guide us until we meet again.

I Love you kiddo!

You are a saint.

Good bye for now,

Your Neice Renee XXOO

Lou Bellanca

February 7, 2006

My sincere condolences to the Matteliano and Frisicaro families. The loss of someone as warm and considerate as Joe is truly tragic.

It is indeed rare to be loved and so highly thought of by so many.

Joe touched the lives of everyone he met, and he will not be forgotten.

marc frisicaro

February 7, 2006

Uncle Joe, you were the coolest!



The whole family loves you, misses you,and will never forget you!

We thank you for everthing you have done for us.

love marc, renee,craig

hudson,ashton

sharon and steve

Pete Terpin

February 7, 2006

Andrea, my deepest condolences go out to you and your family. I hope you can find some peace in this time of sadness. I'm sorry I couldn't be there. See you soon.

Pat,Kim&Andy Walsh

February 7, 2006

Matteliano Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Doc Joe was totally awesome!!!

Angelo and Dolly Runfola

February 7, 2006

Jodie and Charlie, may God help you both through this time in your life.You are in our prayers.

carmelo & giuseppa baiardo

February 7, 2006

All of us here in Hamilton are so sorry to hear about the terrible news about what had happened. Our prays and thoughts are with you's always and always. May the lord be with yous in every way possible. Keep strong and may god bless yous all.With lots of love from all of us in Hamilton , Ontario.



Carmelo & Giuseppe Baiardo

and Children.

Debbie & Matt Riccione

February 7, 2006

Our deepest condolences to the family and to the staff of Dr. Matteliano, he was a great man and dentist, he will be sadly missed yet always remembered for all his great work and warm smile.May he rest in peace.

Jeanette (Randazzo) Keena

February 7, 2006

I DONT KNOW IF YOU REMEMBER ME ANDREA, WE WENT TO HIGH SCHOOL TOGETHER AND CHEERED FOR CANISUS HIGH. I REMEMBERED YOU AS SOON AS I SAW YOUR FATHERS NAME AND I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. MY CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY YOU FIND STRENGTH IN THE LOVE OF YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.

Debi Frisicaro Weslek

February 7, 2006

My love and prayers are with the entire Matteliano family. I remember Joe as the kindest and funniest person. He will be dearly missed.

Louise Mahoney

February 7, 2006

My condolences to the Matteliano family. Joe was a wonderful dentist and a kind and energetic man. I will always remember his warm smile and laughter when telling a story. Our family has gone to Joe for over 30 years and three generations have been helped by him. His passing is truly a loss for his extended “family” of relatives, friends and patients.

Alicia Mahoney

February 7, 2006

My thoughts and condolences are with the family. Joe was extremely kind and compassionate to my mother and father when they needed him. He always treated them with respect and patience. My heart goes out to his family at this time.

Helen Mayberry

February 7, 2006

I'm sorry for your lost to family and staff.There will never be another, Dr.Joe >We talked about his computers,his fathers open heart surgery ,his grandchildren.He made you comfortable in that denist chair.I'll miss him.

Carole & Gerald Koehler

February 6, 2006

Our sincere condolences to the family and staff of Dr.Joseph Matteliano. Carole and I, were deeply saddened while in Florida to learn of this tragic loss.

Brenda Amra

February 6, 2006

I am so sorry to see such a special person be taken away from a world of people that looked up to Dr. Mattelinao for being not just a great Dentist but a great and knid person. He will be so dearly missed! Brenda Amra

Virginia Ganter

February 6, 2006

Our Deepest condolences to the Matteliano Family. He was a great guy and friend to our family. The Ganter Family, Virginia Eugene Eric Jack and Jonathan

Cindi Fraser

February 6, 2006

As long-time patients of Dr. Matteliano's, we were very saddened by the news. We were all very fond of him. Our condolences to his family and best wishes to his office staff.



Sincerely,

The Fraser family

Tina Mclean(Matteliano)

February 6, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy and continuous prayers are with all of you,especially my godparents Uncle Tony and Aunt Carm. Joe will forever be a memory of love, laughter, and genuine caring to all of us, especially Aunt Flo. May the Lord hold all of you close and bring you His infinite comfort. Love, cousin Tina

Mark LaMonte

February 6, 2006

Andrea,



I am so saddened for your tragic shocking loss. Please accept this meager electronic condolence I write from my hotel room in DC, as I would have attended the services but have just been sent back to DHS HQ Washington, DC for 60-days. Please extend my sincere condolences to your sister Jodie & your Mom.



Take Care Always



Mark

Marcia Krebs

February 6, 2006

Joe was always ready with positive and encouraging advice. His passion for life and love of people was evident with everything he did! May you find comfort in knowing how greatly Joe is loved and respected.



With deepest sympathy,

Marcia

Amy Jones

February 6, 2006

Deepest sympathy to the entire family. What a loss of a wonderful man. Grandpa Joe will be missed so much.



Love, Tim & Amy Jones & kids

Margaret Hess

February 6, 2006

Dr. Joe was a great dentist. He made my daughter feel special when she was at the office. He always had a smile on his face and wanted make you laugh by sharing a silly joke or story. Oh, of course this was while he was working on your teeth. I was sad to learn of his terrible news. I pray that those that are close to Dr. Joe remember that once some one has loved you their love lasts forever. Gods love and peace to his family.

Margaret Hess and family

Carmen Ventura

February 6, 2006

My deepest condolences and my prayers will be with you all.

Mary Matteliano

February 6, 2006

My condolences to the family. I am Duane Matteliano's wife (Steve and Louise's son).I was impressed by the wonderful 90th birthday party for Uncle Tony and all the work that Joe put into the pictoral display. My impressions of him are that of a warm, generous and outgoing person. I am sure he will be sadly missed by all.

Holly Metz-Doyle

February 6, 2006

To the entire Matteliano and Frisicaro Families -



My mother and I were devestated by the news of Dr. Matteliano. I am so sorry that this happened to such a wonderful man and loving family. I know you will all find strength in each other during this sad time. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.



Sincerely,

Holly Doyle (Metz)

CELESTE TEBO

February 6, 2006

A VERY CARING AND WONDERFUL MAN ,DR. MATTELIANO WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY.

CELESTE TEBO

Duane & Mary Matteliano

February 6, 2006

Our dear and 1st cousin Joe will be sadly missed by all the family! To have such a good person whose life was so full and meaningful, who cared sincerely for making quality of life better for everyone whom he met, it is very tragic that he was taken from us so abruptly.



We will miss you cuz'.....



Duane and Mary Matteliano

Rich and Karan

February 6, 2006

We send our deepest regards to

the Matteliano family. You are

all in our thoughts and prayers.

Frank & Terri LoBrutto & Family

February 6, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. God Bless all of you. Much love from all of us!

Charles Matteliano

February 6, 2006

We will all miss Joe very, very much. Flo and Andy were extremely saddened by the news, and certainly wish they were well enough to travel to pay their respects. Our deepest condolences go out to the entire family. Joe was a great person and like a brother to all of us cousins. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.



With Love,

Chuck & Sue, Dominic, Angelina & Arianna, Matteliano

paul & Colleen seminara

February 6, 2006

Jodie- our loves and prayers are with you today and always

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