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Linda Penkalski Obituary
Feb 13, 2025
A beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, nurse and friend, passed away surrounded by the family she cherished. Born in Buffalo, NY. Linda lived a life defined by kindness, selflessness, and an unwavering devotion to those she loved. The daughter of late Stanley and late Irene (Rozmus) Kopiasz, Linda grew up embracing her Polish heritage, a legacy she carried forward in the traditions she built with her own family. She married the love of her life, Henry (Hank) Penkalski, on January 8, 1972, and together they created a home filled with love, laughter, and warmth. Linda was a devoted mother to Michelle Lynn Romanowski, Amy Marie Spitzer, and Laura Anne Connelly (Patrick) and a cherished grandmother to Maia Romanowski, Erin Connelly, Evelyn Romanowski, Brice Romanowski, Avery Spitzer, Megan Connelly, Ian Connelly, and Allison Spitzer. She also shared a close bond with her brothers, Stanley Kopiasz (Linda) and Robert Kopiasz (Nancy). For over 40 years, Linda dedicated her life to nursing, spending most of her career at Sister's Hospital and most recently Center for Ambulatory Surgery. She found deep fulfillment in her work, particularly alongside her colleagues in the Endoscopy Department, forming lifelong friendships with those who shared in her commitment to caring for others. Her healing touch extended far beyond the hospital walls-she was a constant source of comfort, encouragement, and love to all who knew her. Faith was the cornerstone of Linda's life. A devout Catholic, she lived in the spirit of Mary, embodying compassion and grace in all she did. She was an active member of the Ford Wagon Train, a lover of the simple joys in life, and found happiness in traveling to the beach with her family, playing bingo and slots with friends, and celebrating the traditions that defined her heritage. Above all, Linda's greatest joy was her family, particularly her grandchildren. They were the light of her life, and she made it her mission to "overdose" on the love and joy she shared with them. She was at the heart of every holiday gathering, especially Easter, where she paid tribute to her family's traditions and upbringing in Buffalo. She created a home where love was abundant, laughter was frequent, and everyone felt special in her presence. To know Linda was to feel seen, heard, and loved. She had a rare gift for listening without judgment, always seeing the best in people and putting others before herself. She taught those around her that life wasn't about material things but about the little moments spent with family, the love shared, and the kindness given freely. Linda Penkalski's warmth, generosity, and boundless love will never be forgotten. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion, faith, and the simple but powerful lesson that the best things in life are the moments we share with the people we love. Family will be present Tuesday 2-4 and 6-8 PM at the PIETSZAK FUNERAL HOME, 2400 William St. (near Harlem). Relatives and friends are invited to assemble for a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Gabriel Church (5271 Clinton Street) Wednesday at 9:30 AM. Share online condolences: www.Pietszak.com
Memories and Condolences
for Linda Penkalski
Janet Cady
February 26, 2025
Dear Amy and family
Very sorry to hear of your moms passing
Love
Aunt Janet Cady
John & Kathy Kaminski
February 19, 2025
Dear Hank and family,
We would like to express our love and sympathy for your loss of Linda,Mom, and Grandmother
Her loss will be felt by us all.
I was once told that God doesn't bring anyone home until they reach their perfection. Yes, Linda did.
God bless you n the family and may he give u the strength you will need
Kathy Danni (Setter)
February 18, 2025
They don’t come any better than Linda . She was a wonderful friend a wonderful nurse. The first person I met at Sister‘s hospital in 1975 we used to share rides back-and-forth to work. We shared going to each other’s children’s weddings and she’s always been a wonderful friend of mine. Heaven has certainly a wonderful angel up in in heaven my deepest sympathies go out to Hank Michelle, Laura Amy your mother has left a wonderful legacy and she will never be forgotten. You are in my prayers and with you always God bless.
Tina Murawski
February 18, 2025
Linda was an amazing person. She was one of nurses that helped precept me to the GI unit. She was always a shining light and always had such positive attitude. I always told her that she was my work mom and she treated me like I was one of her daughters. She was a phenomenal woman! She will be greatly missed. Sending my deepest sympathy to her family.
Cathy Solowski- Brozyna
February 18, 2025
I went to school with Linda for 12 years from Peter & Paul to graduating with her at Nardin. I fondly remember all the fun and memories we had at their house on Lord St and their house in West Seneca taking the Clinton St bus to and from school. She always had a smile on her face and a heart gold. Our condolences to Hank and your family .
Diane Scarpace
February 17, 2025
Dear Hank, Michelle, Amy and Laura, I am so very sorry for the loss of your very loving wife and mother. She was always upbeat and I have fond memories of the time we spent together. I am grateful for all the kindness Linda and your family extended to me and my family. Know that you are in my thoughts, my heart and in my prayers.
Colleen Kabel
February 16, 2025
Along with all the staff from the Ambulatory Center I too am overwhelmed with the loss of Linda. She was a joy to work with and as the years passed she became a dear friend. May God surround the family that she loved so much with comfort and love during this difficult time.
Mario Scarpace
February 16, 2025
Dear Hank; Michelle, Amy, Laura and family I am so sorry to hear Linda passed away. Linda and your family were some of the kindest neighbors we were so fortunate to know. Linda was a blessing to all of us! We will miss her dearly! Our prayers and thoughts are with you and family always. God bless you all in this time of sorrow.
Bridget Foster
February 16, 2025
Linda was one of the first nurse in Endoscopy at Sisters Hospital who precepted me. Her expert guidance was both essential and encouraging. She would often she say "You've got this girl" in a nurturing tone. On a personal note, we enjoyed many conversations about our families, and how she loved spending time with her family. I send my condolences to her grieving family and pray you know that Linda will be missed by others as well.
Greg Klubek
February 16, 2025
I had the pleasure of working with Linda at the Center for Ambulatory Surgery GI department. Always enjoyed the days I worked with her. She never had a complaint and her compassion and kindness were always there for the patients and other staff members. I've been chatting with her since her knee replacement and we've been encouraging each other with our physical therapy. It was a true joy to be around her and she made work fun no matter how busy. Rest in peace my dear friend. Thank you for all the joy you brought to others. God has a special place for you as he cradles you in his arms.
Mary Heitzhaus
February 15, 2025
I had the honor of working with Linda at the Center for Ambulatory Surgery, for the past five years. She was a wonderful nurse, so kind and compassionate to everyone she encountered. We enjoyed talking about nursing and the changes we have seen. Her smile brightened the room, even on the most hectic days. I ran into her at Wegman’s (not too long after her retirement party in September of ‘24). She was still overwhelmed and raving about that party in her honor. She was very gracious, but openly touched. “A well deserved honor, my friend.” She was picking up a cake for her granddaughter- she was always talking about the “grands”, her family and all the happy times they shared. She truly loved all of you and knew how blessed she was to be yours. As you grieve for your loss, know that her faith filled life raised her to her Eternal Place in heaven and she is wrapped in the arms and peace of Jesus. Godspeed, Linda. You will be forever missed.
Jacquelyn Capozzi
February 15, 2025
Heaven has just gained a Very Special Angel. Linda and I worked together in the G I department of the Center for Ambulatory Surgery. I started several months before her and we both had our retirement party together in September 2024. We had many talks about the changes we’ve seen in Nursing, Polish traditions, foods, our families and anything else that we had on our mind. She was always ready to lend a helping hand, smile and kind words to her patients, co-workers, and visitors. I will always remember her as the Best Placek baker and how much I looked forward to Easter time when she would bring some in to work. My deepest sympathy and prayers to Hank and family. Linda will always be with you in your memories, thoughts and heart.
Georgina Provenzano
February 15, 2025
I just can not believe this! I worked with Linda at the ambulatory center Linda was the light of my day. She was always so kind and the most loving and caring woman. Linda was so good to me during my kidney transplant that she will forever hold a special place in my heart. Whenever she would see me she would always tell me you’re going to be ok kid. Kinda and I would laugh as we would talk about how Hank would close the blinds as soon as she opened them lol or even just laugh about if she will win at bingo tonight. May god bless Linda and her family.
Tara Brophy
February 15, 2025
I worked with Linda at the center. Besides being a wonderful nurse. She was a gentle, sweet and selfless lady. We had a retirement dinner for her and another sweetheart( Jacqueline) in Sept and Linda was smiling from ear to ear. She will be missed dearly. God speed Linda. Xxoo Tara B
Ashlie Bojarski
February 15, 2025
I am so so saddened to hear the passing of Linda. I worked with her for the last 8 years at center for ambulatory surgery. She was just a kind person And she always listened to me. She gave me so much advice and listened to me complaining about motherhood but always told me "This is the good stuff". I appreciated her wisdom and it meant so much to me. Nothing seemed to stress her out she was always positive and just happy to be Living. She talked fondly about her grandchildren - they meant the world to her. This women knew everything about me in our years working together and I really cherished our friendship. She always had a smile and was always sharing a laugh with people around her. I just went to her 2nd retirement party in September - she was sad to leave but knew it was time. I will always remember her and will remember all the things I learned from her. May she rest in peace. I am sad I will not be able to attend her wake or funeral. I will be praying and thinking of all who loved her. May she rest in Peace.
Laurie Billittier
February 15, 2025
Linda was a Beautiful person. She always had a kind word and a smile on her face. She was a caring person who was always there to listen and a pleasure to work with. I will never forget when my Mom passed away and I looked up and saw Linda coming out of the church after attending my Mom’s funeral mass. I didn’t even know she was there. That moment only redefined was a Special person she was. Love you Linda. I know in my heart that you are receiving the rewards of Heaven. May you Rest In Peace my Friend ❤
Lisa (Penkalski) Reeb
February 15, 2025
Uncle Hank, Michelle, Amy and Laura. I am deeply saddened to have heard of Aunt Lynns passing. I have very fond childhood memories of her. She was alway so nice to me and would include me like when going to Fantasy Island or the Fair and I was mostly appreciated when she would include us in any Kopiasz family gatherings. My deep and sincere condolences to all of you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise Vitale
February 15, 2025
I was so truly saddened to hear of Linda’s passing. My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to all of Linda’s family. She was a wonderful friend, neighbor, and compassionate nurse. I have many memories of parties in the neighborhood with Linda and Hank, Michelle, Amy and Laura. I know how much she loved her family and enjoyed the grandchildren. They meant everything to her. Every year I would get a Christmas card with a picture of all of them. When talking about her children and grandchildren she always lit up with a big smile on her face. I am sure she is in heaven watching over all of you. I am in Florida so will not be able to attend the funeral but my thoughts will be with you all. I am so sorry for your loss.
Chris and Kerry Tocin
February 15, 2025
Dear Hank. Michelle, Amy. Laura and Family
We are so very deeply saddened to hear the news of a very special person . The best neighbors ever. Linda was every bit of a special friend and she shared that love with everyone she was around. She truly will be missed. We love you all and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Sarah (Scarpace) Peters
February 14, 2025
I’m so very saddened to hear this news. I grew up across the street from “Mrs. Linda” and she (and “Mr. Hank”) always made me laugh when I was growing up and was always welcoming to us in her home, even letting the 4 of us stay a few days while my parents looked for our new home in Albany. My very deep and sincere condolences to Amy, Laura, Michele, “Mr. Hank,” and family.
Sharon Banko
February 14, 2025
For forty years it was a privilege to be a friend & colleague of linda Penkalski. During our time at Sisters Hospital I witnessed daily her kindness, empathy & her dedication to her profession as a Registered Nurse. Our friendship continued after our retirement. She taught me how to play electronic bingo & also the art of making pastry hearts, all done with laughter & joy!
I will cherish her memory always.
My condolences & sympathy to Hank & the Penkalski family
Pat Connelly
February 14, 2025
Mom -- I am so grateful for the life you lived and the love you gave so freely. You raised an incredible daughter who carries forward your kindness, strength, and selflessness every day. You were the most generous and loving grandmother to our children, and the joy they felt in your presence was immeasurable. You taught me so much about focusing on what truly matters—family, love, and the simple, meaningful moments we share. I will always cherish the way you embraced every memory, how you were the biggest fan of the photo books and videos I made. I tried to amplify the love you poured into this family. Your warmth, your laughter, and your unwavering kindness will live on in all of us. Thank you for everything. With love forever ... Pat
Amy Erickson
February 14, 2025
Linda was the kind of person you liked immediately and you know you could trust her 100%. We worked 20 years together and her friendship was one of the treasures I will always remember. Seeing her everyday was one of the joys of my job. I give thanks to God for a friend like Linda❤
Mary SCHMIDT
February 14, 2025
So sorry to hear of Linda's passing. Her memory will live in our heart of the many Wagon Train crazy times we had. Know Ray and I are thinking of you Hank and send prayers and love your way! We are in Florida and won't make the wake but know we are with you in spirit!
Ray and Mary Schmidt
Holly Riford
February 14, 2025
Linda was such a a caring and loving person I worked with so many many years in Endoscopy at Sisters Hospital. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. She will truly be missed.❤
Ellen Pautler
February 14, 2025
Linda was a wonderful nurse and cherished friend to many. She will be greatly missed by not only her family but her nursing colleagues and friends. May she rest in peace. My condolences and prayers for her family.
Elizabeth (Kurek) Hayden
February 14, 2025
Thinking of her sweet smile. SS Peter and Paul grammar school. May she rest in peace.
Barbara Kless
February 14, 2025
Hank, I’m so sorry to hear of Linda’s passing! My heart goes out to you and your beautiful family! My deepest sympathy to all of you! What a shock! Such a special lady!! I’m in Florida so I won’t be there to give you a hug of support, but know I’m thinking of you! Love, Barb
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