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Lodema L. Erbacher

1930 - 2025

Lodema L. Erbacher obituary, 1930-2025, Buffalo, NY

BORN

1930

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

Beach-Tuyn Funeral Home - Williamsville

1671 Maple Rd.

Buffalo, New York

Lodema Erbacher Obituary

Erbacher, Lodema L.

Erbacher, Lodema L (nee Sarver) - July 21, 1930 – January 17, 2025. Age 94 of Williamsville, NY. Beloved wife of 57 years of the late Herman C. Erbacher. Loving daughter of the late Harry and Blanche Sarver; dear sister of Michael (Kay) Sarver and the late Harold (Shirley) Sarver. Dearest mother of Lodema J. Erbacher, Herman H. (Michele) Erbacher, Charles T. (Pamela) Erbacher, Jeannette L. (Tad) Ferguson, Joseph A. Erbacher, Susan M. (Phillip) Galbo and Harold B. (Christine) Erbacher. Proud grandmother to 19 and great-grandmother to 14. Lodema was born and raised in Middletown, OH where she was homecoming queen her senior year of high school before relocating to the Buffalo area in the 1960's with her family. She was an active volunteer with the Girl Scouts of America, St. Ann's Sodality, a member of the Alabama Hunt Club, and a generous donor to many Native American causes and charities. Lodema enjoyed a lifetime of boating as well as her membership in Beta Sigma Phi sorority. The family will receive friends on Sunday January 26 from 2-4 & 6-8PM at Beach-Tuyn Funeral Home, 1671 Maple Road. Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in S.S. Peter and Paul Church 5480 Main Street Williamsville NY on Monday January 27 at 10AM. Please assemble at the church. Memorial contributions may be made to Soaring Eagle, a care facility for Northern Cheyenne elders, at https://soaringeagle.org/new-donation/. Online Condolences at www.beachtuynfh.com.

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Published by Buffalo News on Jan. 24, 2025.

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John & Jean Huck

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Sending our deepest condolences to the Erbacher Family. May your mom rest in heavenly peace.

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26

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Beach-Tuyn Funeral Home - Williamsville

1671 Maple Rd., Buffalo, NY 14221

Jan

26

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Beach-Tuyn Funeral Home - Williamsville

1671 Maple Rd., Buffalo, NY 14221

Jan

27

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

S.S. Peter and Paul Church

5480 Main Street, Williamsville, NY

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Beach-Tuyn Funeral Home - Williamsville

1671 Maple Rd., Buffalo, NY 14221

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