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Mary BARTNOWAK Obituary

BARTNOWAK - Mary Lou (nee Over)
Of Lancaster, NY September 4, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Clifford Bartnowak, loving mother of Andy (Karen) Bartnowak, Julie (Rick) Plummer, and the late JoAnn (Dave) Terry; dearest grandmother of Andrew (Lauren) Bartnowak, Benjamin and Patrick Bartnowak, Christopher (Katie) Plummer, Alex and Bailey Plummer; sister of the late Paul (Tina) Over. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Mary of the Assumption Church Friday at 10am. Please assemble at church, no prior visitations. Share condolences at wendelandloecherinc.com

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Published by Buffalo News on Sep. 6, 2023.

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Kathy Buechi - Stone

September 23, 2023

I'm so sorry Andy and Julie. Mary Lou....where to start. She was my mom's (Mary Jane (Lynch) Buechi) best friend and they got into mischief together. They would laugh so hard, then run for the bathroom! To keep each other on track, they went to their annual gyno doctor checkup together. I babysat her kids a few times when I was a teenager. When my mom passed away a few years ago, I called Mary Lou to tell her, and it was a tough call. I hope my Mom and Mary Lou are having lots of laughs together now. Rest Well Mary Lou, and give my mom and dad a hug.

Tracy McCanna

September 8, 2023

Bartnowak Family: So sorry for your loss. You’re in our thoughts and prayers.

Sheila Adamczak-Gordon

September 6, 2023

Julie & Andy,
I´m so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of your mom, over the years of playing at your house. May she rest in peace, and be reunited with your dad after all these years.
God Bless you all.
Sheila Adamczak-Gordon
Cross Hill, SC

Esther Ebert

September 6, 2023

Mary Lou. My dear wi bowling friend l will miss you but you'll always will be in our hearts doing wi bowling time and thru the rest of the hole year every day. You go girl and bowl as 300 game against God!!!!!] I will miss you my team player !!!!!! Love you always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@@@

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