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Adam Roy Obituary
Jericho - It is with devastated hearts that we announce the tragic loss of our beloved son, Adam Christopher Holland Roy. He lost his battle with PTSD on Monday, August 27, 2018. Adam was born to Will and Daneen (Holland) Roy on Wednesday, July 1, 1987, at the Medical Center Hospital of Vermont in Burlington.
In addition to his parents, Adam leaves behind so many people who loved him with every single fiber of their being. His siblings, Asa (and wife Hannah), Tessa, and Randi Roy. His children, Calli and Colton Roy. His ex-wife, Vanessa (Whitehouse) Roy, and her parents, Tammy and Jeffrey Vose. His grandfather and WWII Veteran, Henry Joseph Roy II. His ever-faithful dog, Mary. He leaves behind aunts Kenna (Doug) Henion and Gail Morris, uncles Tom (Tracey) Roy, Mike (Mami) Roy, and Scott (Page) Holland along with cousins he loved immeasurably. Best friends Zak Hill, Danny Begins, Kevin Hartford, Wellsie, Mike Boyden, Craig Lang, Mike Lang, and Baktash Haidari, as well as his dear friend and love, Caitlin Hurley did their very best to look out for him as he did for them. Adam leaves behind many, many battle buddies
We ask any battle buddies who might be contemplating the same, to reach out and get help. There are so many organizations/people that will make it a personal mission to get you through your dark days and back to a good life. The aftermath of your death will cause indescribable agony to those who love you. We need you here. Please. If not for you, then for them. Get help.
We leave Adam in the loving arms of family who preceded him in death: grandmothers Star (Clarke) Roy, Dorothy Ann Holland, and Avonelle (Alsdorf) Holland; grandfather and Vietnam Veteran Gerald Richard Holland; father-in-law and Gulf War Veteran, Timothy Whitehouse; uncles David Randall Morris and Darby John Holland; "adopted" aunt Renee (Lavigne) Forester; and his tiny baby boy, Christopher Roy.
Among the things we will miss most about Adam are his handsome face, the coy smile he would share in a flash, his incredible sense of humor that was the source of so, so much laughter, and the fierce protection he gave to his children, family, friends, brothers and sisters-in-arms, and his beloved Country, the United States of America.
Adam's remembrance service will be held on Sunday, September 2, at The Catalyst Church, 100 Raceway Road, Jericho, VT 05465 at 2pm. In lieu of flowers, please bring your favorite memory of Adam to share with family and friends or donate to an organization that assists our precious Veterans. We invite you to share your memories of Adam by visiting www.awrfh.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Adam Roy
jon coffin
August 25, 2020
I am pleased to see your name come up on my email, Adam, however that happens. I was thinking of you and your parents the other day. We served together in various capacities over the years. Not all of it was pretty. We did the best we could. I look back and direct myself to believe what you did and what we did mattered, most often in ways we will never know. Today, i am remembering the three of you. Jon Coffin PS: see email correction.
Kelly Harper
May 14, 2020
Peace to your family Adam. Safe travels.
G. Duck
June 30, 2019
Adam,
I remember you as a child in Italy when your dad brought you, Asa, and Tessa by the office and seeing you again at your father's retirement ceremony. You had grown into a handsome young man and I watched how you cared for your son and daughter - you were a wonderful and loving father. Your have a loving and close knit family who miss you so much. My prayers are with them as they remember your 1 July birthday. Rest in peace sweet child of God.
JP
April 10, 2019
Sir, Daneen, and the kids, Simo and I were heartbroken to have just learned of Adam's passing. He was always a caring soul who clearly positively impacted countless others. His strong presence will be dearly missed. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
B Fitzgerald
November 13, 2018
After just meeting you on the Metro a week ago, I was honored that you chose to share the loss of this Warrior with me General Roy. I see what you meant by his coy smile in this photograph. As one who's lost Marines to this dark, gripping phenomenon, I appreciate your quest to aid those of us still troubled by PTSD. After reading about him, I truly wish I knew your son Will. The world will most definitely be a much more lonely place without him in it. God Bless you all, and continue to surround yourself with those who shall keep his memory alive until you meet up with him again......
Semper Fidelis,
B. Fitzgerald
USMC (Ret)
Lt Col Karen Roganov - USAF
October 24, 2018
MG Roy and Mrs. Daneen - may you find comfort in sharing time with family and friends this holiday season as you remember your loving son Adam. He looks like a great kid and I thank him/you for his contributions to our nation and world.
Caitlin Hurley
October 22, 2018
It's been almost 2 months since you left, but it feels like an eternity. I miss and love you so much Sly!
Daneen Roy
October 12, 2018
Adam, it's mom. I miss you so much! I love you, sweetheart! Always.
Lakisha Pegues
September 4, 2018
My condolences and well wishes for healing to your family.
Matt Matia
September 4, 2018
Our heartfelt condolences to the Roy family. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very hard time. vr, Matt & Trish Matia
Jim Bessette, Jr.
September 3, 2018
Adam - it was truly a pleasure knowing you. You left a permanent mark on many hearts. Watch over and protect your children and family. Soar high until we all meet again!
Jon Coffin
September 2, 2018
I am thinking of you.
If I were not currently in England, I would be there today.
mary ellen holland
September 1, 2018
Our hearts hurt along with yours. You are a beloved family as Adam is your beloved child. May the GRACE of God carry you through your grieving with each new day. May the God of all comfort, comfort you and give you His peace. We love each and every one of you and will continue in prayer.
our family" circle of caring "
Vince Benevento
August 31, 2018
Sorry to hear about your loss.
Vince Benevento
Essex Junction, VT
Lisa Myrberg
August 31, 2018
My husband, Sven, served on the same team with your son in Iraq, and I was lucky enough to meet Adam in El Paso during their premobiliziation and a handful of times afterward. We are so saddened by the news of this tragic loss and send you our deepest condolences. My husband will attend the service Sunday and will represent our family. There are no words that ease this type of pain but I do wish you comfort in knowing he was loved and liked by so many. With deepest sympathy, Lisa Myrberg
Cindy Desso
August 31, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to both Vanessa,s and Adam.s families. Hugs to all of you during this most difficult time. God bless.
Cindy Desso
Donna Nobrega
August 31, 2018
Dear Will, Daneen, and family, I am so sorry to hear about this tremendous loss. Please know that I am keeping all of you in my thoughts prayers during this difficult time. May the love of family and friends bring comfort to all of you.
August 31, 2018
Thinking of your family at this difficult time. May all the warm and special memories bring you comfort through the days ahead.
With deepest sympathy,
Leonard and Jeanne Pallotta
Beth Miller
August 31, 2018
Rest in peace, Soldier! May God bless you eternally. My prayers and condolences to this wonderful family. I'm am deeply shocked and saddened by this devastating news. MG Roy and Mrs Roy, please let me know if there is anything I can do from here. I have made a donation to a veteran's organization that I volunteer with here in your son's memory...The Combat Wounded Coalition.
Respectfully,
Beth B Miller
Lt Col, USAF (Ret)
VERONICA BEAUREGARD
August 31, 2018
I did not know your son, brother, father but it is obvious he was a special man. I am very sorry for your loss. I am thankful for his service as well as his "battle buddies". I pray they hear your heartfelt words. Please know that prayers and thoughts are with you from total strangers.
John Fodge
August 31, 2018
Rest in peace Adam.
With the greatest respect for your service to our country.
Brenda Fuentes
August 30, 2018
MG Roy, Ms. Daneen and family, My heart is so sad by the news of Adam. If there is anything my family can do for your family, please let me know. We love each of you and you are in our prayers today and always. We are so very sorry for the loss of Adam. Love always, The Fuentes Family.
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