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Barry Washburn Obituary

BARRY V. WASHBURN RICHMOND - On Nov. 24, 2008, we lost our husband, father, beepa and best friend. Barry Vaughn Washburn was born to Margaret Montgomery and Fay Washburn on Nov. 30, 1948, in Burlington and raised in Richmond where, except for a few years, he remained his entire life. He graduated from Richmond High School in 1966, and in that same year met his future wife Jackie. After attending Champlain College for a year and working part time at McNash Motors in Burlington, Barry became very interested in Volkswagen and Porsche repair and left college to pursue this career. He stayed at McNash for 15 years while developing his craft and in 1979, he and Jackie purchased the Mobil station at exit 11 in Richmond. He had developed a great Porsche and VW following at that point and was able to continue the work he loved. Through this line of work he developed many personal relationships with customers which have endured throughout the years. In 1987, Barry and Jackie moved the automotive business to Huntington Road and expanded the Mobil station to a convenience store. They continued to run both businesses until selling the station in 1998, and concentrating their energies on auto repair and sales. Their son, Brian, and his wife, Lisa purchased the balance of the business in 2006, and continue to operate it at the same location. Barry had a lifelong passion for automobiles, flying, and skiing, and like most Richmond children he developed his great ski technique at Cochran's ski area, but his greatest joy in life were his wife, children, grandchildren and wonderful daughter-in-law and sonin-law. He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Jacqueline Benoit Washburn, formerly of St. Albans; their two children Melissa Washburn Carrara and her husband Dean Carrara, and Brian Washburn and his wife Lisa (McEnany) and their two children Mary and Grace; and Barry's mother Margaret Montgomery. His father Fay Washburn predeceased him in 1990. He also leaves his brother Christopher and his wife Suzanne of Swanton; and another brother Jeffrey Washburn of Hinesburg; his aunt Verlie Washburn; and several cousins and a large extended family of sistersin-law and brothers-in-law, nieces and nephews, who will miss him greatly. Barry fought a difficult battle with Multiple Myeloma for four and a half years and without the kindness and wonderful professional help from many people, would not have had the quality of life to continue on. Our family would like to extend our most heartfelt thanks to Dr. Barbara Grant, Joanne Neilson, Paul Larson, and all the wonderful caring staff at the Hematology Department at Fletcher Allen, all his friends in PPR, FAHC, the Doctors and Nursing staff on Shepardson 4 at Fletcher Allen and the rehab department at the Fanny Allen, Vermont Respite House in Williston, and the kindness of the people who continued his care in the last few weeks of his life, Dr. Zale Berry, Clare, Nancy, Jeanette, Tom, Jan, Tonya, Earla Sue and everyone at the Hospice Center of Chittenden County. Our family could not have managed without your help and support, bless you. Thank you also to Dr. Edwin Alyea and his staff at Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston and the staff at Women and Brigham's Hospital. A celebration of Barry's life will be held on Friday, Dec. 5, at the Stoweflake Inn and Resort in Stowe at 3 p.m. In lieu of flowers the family asks to please make donations to Hospice of the Champlain Valley, 1110 Prim Road, Suite 1, Colchester, VT 05446, or Vermont Respite House, 99 Allen Brook Lane, Williston, VT 05495. Arrangements are by Gifford Funeral Service, 22 Depot St., Richmond. PROMOICON.jpg

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Nov. 29, 2008.

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Linda Wurth

December 17, 2008

Dear Jackie, Melissa and Brian, I just heard about Barry and wanted to pass on my condolences. I'll never forget when he flew Michael and I down to Newport, RI to pick up a shiny red porsche to drive back to Vt. We drove around the mansions pretending to be one of the owners!

Jeff Pugh Jr

December 10, 2008

To all the Washburn family, my family sends our condolences. Barry was a great man and a wonderful boss whom I learned more from than any person I've come in contact with. It was a pleasure working for him and an honor to know him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Chad Pepin

December 9, 2008

Jackie and family, We are so very sorry to hear of Barry's passing. Barry was a big influence in my life as both a boss and a mentor. He will be missed.

Matt Denis

December 5, 2008

Brian,Lisa and kids. We are so sad to hear about Barry passing. What a great person and role model for your family he was.We hope you have many happy memories of him this holiday season.

Matt,Brooke, and kids

Audrey Spence (Burachowski)

December 3, 2008

Melissa, Jackie and Brian,
I am thinking of you in this difficult time and wishing you comforting, happy memories. I will always remember your families kindness when shortly after losing my husband John, I locked myself out of my running car in the early frigid morning and Brian sent someone right away, at no cost, to unlock my car. Your family and family business is a solid foundation in the Richmond Community. Barry will be greatly missed by many. With love.

Dana LaPlant

December 2, 2008

Jackie,Brian,Melissa So sorry for your loss I will miss Barry and everything he did for me.Dana LaPlant

Kit Sayers

December 1, 2008

I will miss Barry. His humor & laughter carries on with Brian.
Wonderful years & years of Barry memories.

Larry Reed

December 1, 2008

My sympathy to your family for the loss of Barry. He was a friend a fellow pilot.

Denise (Charron) Haggerty

December 1, 2008

Dear Mel and family,
So sorry to hear of the death of your dad. Although I didn't know him, I know that he will be missed by all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Todd & Joan Irwin

November 30, 2008

Our most sincere sympathy for the loss to your family. His presence will be missed.

Dick & Kathy Shangraw

November 29, 2008

Jackie,My wife Kathy and I send our deepest sympathy to you,and your family.I hope you remember me,Richard (Dick) Shangraw.I remember Barry as the best damn Tech I ever knew.

Nina Jaffe

November 29, 2008

Dear Jackie,

I don't have to tell you how fond I was of Barry. I loved his sense of humor, and I love the way the photo you chose captures it.

He has been taken away way too soon. I can imagine how much he is missed already, especially during holiday time, and his birthday, too. My sincere condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts.

Maurice and Jean Brown

November 29, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
May your fond and pleasant memories help you through these difficult days.
Love Moe and Jean Brown

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