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Steve Roach
February 12, 2025
I just came across this news while I was looking for old shipmates from the USS Camden. I was a helicopter pilot aboard for a WestPac cruise in 1979-80 and when I wasn't flying I'd hang out with Dave in the ship's "radio station" and spin discs for the crew. The "studio" had the best ac on the ship so it was a nice break from heat in the Indian Ocean. Dave was truly funny and quick - we had a lot of fun. I'm saddened to learn of his passing - would have liked to talk with him again all these years later. He made that cruise a lot more bearable (for a lot of us) and I can imagine the positive effect he had on others after his Navy days. RIP and my deepest condolences to his family - he was a great shipmate. Lt Steve sends.
Mark Shelton
September 10, 2019
Prayers and positive thoughts of his memory.
October 1, 2012
Suzanne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. David was a wonderful all around person. He always had a smile on his face and up beat personality. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. Tina
Steve Hoke
September 22, 2012
Dear Suzanne and Family, I was sadden to recently learn of Dave's passing. I was privileged to have worked with Dave for several years and always enjoyed his company. He was a professional, committed to helping those he served.
Omar Calhum-Flowers
September 22, 2012
Dave, it's been fun. Thanks for making the days a lot more tolerable and for keeping me going. I'm glad to have met such a positive person that had so much passion in his life for just about everything. I'll miss your daily stories and Naval lingo. Rest well, and I will see you again.
Mike LaClair
September 20, 2012
Susan and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Dave was such a funny guy with a bubbly personality. I always enjoyed his company. He will be greatly missed.
Valerie Delphia
September 20, 2012
I want to extend my sympathy to Dave's family. What a fine man he was. I knew Dave for the 17 years I worked at Northlands Job Corps in Vergennes. He was a bright light to all he came in contact with. The students were lucky to have him on their side. I loved to see him coming as you knew he would make you smile. It was a while ago for sure but I never forgot him and his contributions.
Jennifer Hemsted
September 20, 2012
Suzanne,
I am so sorry for your loss. David was a true gentleman whose smile could brighten up the room. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. He will be greatly missed. If I can do anything please let me know. Jen Hemsted
Anne Herr
September 20, 2012
I am so sorry to hear the news of David's passing. I will always remember him with a big smile on his face, he sure was a great guy!
Mark Shelton
September 20, 2012
I am truly heartbroken at the loss of David. My deepest condolences and prayers of comfort go out to his family. David was simply cool. He always looked good, professional, and in a great spirit. His kindness could be heard in the way he talked. He would always remind me of High School and uplifted me whenever I saw him. He just made you feel better by his presence. He was the best.
molly jarvis
September 19, 2012
I was so very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I had the pleasure of working with him for a number of years as collaborating colleagues working with at risk youth in
Chittenden County. I was always immensely impressed with Dave's commitment to his clients, work ethic, and sense of humor. His passing is a loss to many youth and many of us who have had the pleasure of working with him. I will miss Dave greatly and I would like to say to all of his loved ones that you are all in my thoughts. Please know that Dave was greatly admired and cared about. I wish you all my very best at this very difficult time.
Tara Gonthier
September 19, 2012
Dave,
You are truly missed already. Walking into work and not seeing you leaves a void. Your humor, support made tough days managable. You were a true friend dave, always asking how the family was and the jokes I will never forget. May you rest in a peace and its not good bye its until next time. Rest easy Dave we miss you
Tara Gonthier
September 19, 2012
Dave,
I am richer having met you. Your kind words, your support both and work and in personal will never be forgotten. You always had a smile on your face and always had a joke to turn a bad day into a good day. You will truly be missed. Walking around the corner and work and not seeing you every morning is hard but I know you are looking down on all of us. May you rest in peace Dave and its not good bye its until we meet again.
Kathy Strahm
September 18, 2012
My sincere condolences to your family and to all who loved Dave. I was always pleased when I found that Dave was assigned to be probation officer for any of my clients. I knew he would be fair and treat them with respect. I knew that if they had a chance of success at all, it would be with Dave. He was a positive force and made a tremendous impact on many, many people.
Dave left us way too soon; I will miss him greatly.
Monique Lanoue
September 18, 2012
Suzanne, So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this time... You are in my prayers.
Audrey Haselton
September 18, 2012
Dave was one of a kind and will be missed, we will all be better people for having known him. I enjoyed listening to him sing "Red Solo Cup"
September 18, 2012
Dave was one of my favorite colleagues. He was compassionate with the youth we worked together with and maintained a sens of humor that i totally enjoyed. I will miss him in our struggle to make the lives of our youth productive and responsible. May the four winds blow you safely home Dave.
Danielle Kane
September 18, 2012
Suzanne and family I am so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. Dave hired me many years ago as a counselor at Job Corps. I was fresh out of college and embarking on my first adult job. Dave had me laughing from day one. He told stories of his son who he referred to as "mini me", his family trips to FL, and his wife. After he left Job Corps I learned he was at the Dept. of Corrections and sharing an office with my best friend and college roommate Liz. We spoke maybe a week ago over the fence (VDOL and DOC are seperated by a fence) he was preparing for his night shift and needed to get his gear on...Dave was a great mentor, an unforgettable co-worker, and he will be missed so very much.
Carl and Melissa Royer
September 18, 2012
Suzanne,
Our prayers and condolences are with you and your family. David was such a good friend, and many memories of growing up just down the street from him. He is in our heart, and will be greatly missed.
Claire Roy
September 17, 2012
Dear Suzanne,
I was so very saddened to hear about your husband David. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your family.
Navy ASW
Mike Thompson
September 17, 2012
Suzanne and family, I was shocked and saddened greatly hearing of Dave's passing. We used to share Navy stories at many of the K of C meetings. There were always some good ones too. I am proud to have worked at St.Ann's with Dave on many occasions. Also, was pleased to see he was one of the folks involved with getting the Lone Sailor placed at the Reserve Center waterfront. May Jesus Christ have mercy on his soul. I will miss Dave.
Carl Yalicki
September 17, 2012
I was saddened and stunned to learn of Dave's passing. We worked together for a lot of years at Burlington Probation and Parole and he was one of a kind. He had a wonderful sense of humor, a wealth of knowledge of 70's & 80's music, and a great love for really terrible coffee. Always upbeat and positive, Dave felt exceptional compassion and showed tremendous patience for everyone he interacted with. To say he will be missed does not convey the loss that those who knew him are feeling.
To Suzanne and David, please know that Dave truly changed the lives of many of the young men he worked with. I pray that you both will find the peace and strength to carry you through these tough times.
Carl Yalicki, Probation & Parole Officer, Retired
cody bennett
September 17, 2012
dave was not just my po but a friend. I respected his honesty and fairness. He saw the best in me even when i couldn`t. I will really miss him
Sue Tice and family
September 17, 2012
Suzanne and family...so sorry for your loss. We didn't know David very well but the few times we met I knew he was a wonderful person. Keep the good memories close as that is what will get you through the tough times ahead. You are in our hearts and prayers!
Ivy Knipes
September 17, 2012
Suzanne,
Thinking of you and sending a warm hug during this difficult time for you and your family.
Michael Beyor
September 17, 2012
Dave, you always had a positive attitude that was infectious. In working out of the the office next to yours for many years, It was obvious how much you truly cared for your people, and the dedication you displayed for your work on a daily basis.
I'll miss rounding the aisle in Hannaford's and hearing "Hey,how are ya?" Rest in Peace, My Friend.
Liz Nault
September 17, 2012
Dave...the guy who always had my back, believed in the work that we did together, and genuinely believed that everyone deserved a second chance. Thank you Dave for everything. I am a better person for having known you. Suzanne, Katina, David and family I am so very sorry for your loss. Your husband/dad touched so many lives, mine is just one of the many!
September 17, 2012
To David's family,
I am so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I was fortunate to have worked with Dave in The Chittenden drug court and had the chance to get to know him during training for the program.
God put Dave in the job where he belonged. Many of us actually remarked that some young people were lucky that they were in court because with Dave they had someone who could really help them change their life.
It is a great compliment to both his skill and his character that everyone looked for him for help, advice and support: co-workers, prosecutors, defense attorneys, parents, police, counselors and judges. You really could not finish a conversation with Dave without feeling better. We will miss him greatly.
Judge Jim Crucitti
Debbie Lambert
September 17, 2012
Suzanne, Katina and David,
I counted Dave as a good friend, he was always there when I needed to talk and he always had the words that I needed to hear. I will miss him very much. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Patrick Farnsworth
September 17, 2012
Dave you were one of a kind. Professionally you helped me get two of the positions I have occupied in the last five years and personally you helped me to understand that kind of youth worker I wanted to be. The world may never know what you did for those kids, but they will know.
The Dam Store
September 17, 2012
We all know our friend David is sporting some huge, shiny angel wings in the great beyond. The Dam Store will not be the same without this amazing mans daily presence. We just loved him.... we're sending hugs.
Richard, Flo, Ian, Heidi, Chelsea & the rest of our crew at the bottom of the hill :(
Mike Merwin
September 17, 2012
My condolences to Dave's family. You are in my prayers. Dave was a great shipmate and I had the pleasure of working with him for 4 years at the Reserve Center in White River Junction.
Nick & Cindy Conti DD #5 VT
September 17, 2012
Suzanne, Kitina, Mark and David,
We are very sorry to hear of David's passing. We will miss him at K of C events and gatherings around the state. His gift was working with youth and he was so good at it. We will keep you and David in our prayers.
Su Robinson
September 17, 2012
When I moved to VT, 5 years ago, Dave and I shared a case together. He was the p.o. I was the therapist. Since then, we shared quite a few cases. He was a wonderful p.o. to the youth he served. His even temperament was extraordinary and I enjoyed his collaboration and humor. His passing is a huge loss for this community. I will always remember him and am grateful that our paths crossed.
Christie Dow
September 17, 2012
When I first started working for DOC I was nervous and unsure my first few days and months. Dave introduced himself to me the first day. We talked about our common work with kids and about how we both lived in Milton. My second day of work…I was walking down the hall and Dave was walking towards me down the hall. He said “Hey, Miss. Dow” I said good morning and asked him to call me Christie. From that time on Dave always said hey or good morning or how are you doing. He always had a positive word and a smile on his face. Even the days that were hard Dave was there…maybe in the bathroom washing out his coffee pot or outside smoking. Dave was such a blessing to know. Thank you, Dave for the person you were and the true kindness you always shared….
My prayers are with his family and friends.
F.Christopher Dupre
September 17, 2012
Susanne and David our thoughts and prayers are with you. Take comfort that he is now in the Lords embrace.
September 17, 2012
To Suzanne and David...So sorry to read of your sudden loss. Cherish your many happy memories.
Evelyn Rogerson Principal SJS
Jackie Bombardier
September 17, 2012
My deepest sympathys to all who loved David. What a wonderful man he is, always concerned for others. I am blessed for my time with him. To his family - may God's strength carry you through your times ahead. He will be greatly missed!
Jim Poulin
September 17, 2012
So very sorry for your loss. David and I were in High School together. We lost touch after school but met up again while we were both serving in the Navy Reserve.
JOYCE REAL
September 16, 2012
DEAR SUZANNE AND MY LITTLE DAVID AND FAMILY, I'M SO SORRY ABOUT DAVID WHAT A NICE MAN. I MISS YOU ALL .LITTLE DAVID IS LIKE A MY YOURG SON .LOVE YA ALL GOD BE WITH YOU ALL AL AND JOYCE REA AND FAMILY YOUR ANGEL.
Bob & Keeley Bamforth
September 16, 2012
Susanne and little David, We are so sorry for your loss of Dave. I have many great memories of Dave. One weekend a month for many, many months I got to spend with him. If ya had to share a room at the hotel, Dave was the guy you wanted to share it with...
brennan martin
September 16, 2012
Dave i just saw you down town i cant believe this. I very much appreciate everything you have done for me!
Love , Brennan
K Bushry
September 16, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Dave at Job Corp and then with the State. He will be terribly missed. He was gentle, funny and terrific with everyone. My prayers go out for his family and friends.
September 16, 2012
Dear Suzanne and Family,
I was so sad to hear of David's passing. I will hold you all in my prayers and my heart. I will always remember David as a wonderful Gentleman, husband, and Father. He always had a smile and warm greeting for everyone in his path. God Bless you all. Sincerely, Bobbie DeGennaro
September 16, 2012
Dear Suzanne and Family,
I was sad to hear of David's passing. I will keep you all in my prayers. I will always remember David as the wonderful gentleman and terrific husband and father. He always had a warm greeting for everyone that came into his path. God Bless you all. Bobbie DeGennaro
Brenda Murphy
September 16, 2012
My condolences to Dave's family. I was fortunate to have been able to work with him. He was one of the Good Guys!!! He will be truly missed!!
Susie Dudek
September 16, 2012
What a wonderful man. Dave, you were my mentor and partner in crime. You taught me the ropes, always with a smile on your face. I will miss our jokes and most of all, seeing your face every morning. You have taught me more than you will ever know. You are truly loved. Rest in peace, my dear friend.
September 16, 2012
David and family,
I will truly miss him at work. He was a loving and caring man and had “mad skill” as the youth would say. He truly understood the human condition and understood how to guide the youth into working on themselves. Scott Dectur
Cullen Bullard
September 16, 2012
It was my great pleasure to know you. The world is a better place because you were in it and you will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Cathy Stout
September 16, 2012
Suzanne and David, I was so sorry to hear of David's passing. My thoughts are with you both.
Lee Weltman
September 16, 2012
Suzanne,
Was so sorry to hear of David's passing. He was truly a really nice person and I know will be missed.
Janette Hoage
September 16, 2012
Dave; I have only known you a short time, but in that time you made me laugh so much. for that i will always remember you. You left a place in my heart, and now a hole in my sole. I will miss you greatly.
Susie Dudek
September 16, 2012
Dave, you took me under your wing and taught me the ropes. You were my mentor, my friend and my partner in crime. I can't even begin to express how much I am going to miss laughing with you. I love you and will miss you more than words can say. Rest well, my freind. -Susie
September 16, 2012
Dear Suzanne and little David,, please know how deeply sorry I'm over your loss of David. He was a very kind hearted man. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Shelly Racine
Linell Pierce
September 16, 2012
David,
I am thinking of you. I get a chuckle now and then when I think of that first block US History class.
deborah quintin
September 16, 2012
my son will really miss this compassionate caring man. He treated all with respect and will be greatly missed. Our prayers go out to his family , the world has lost one of its best
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