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PAUL SCHIMOLER Obituary

PAUL SCHIMOLER - ESSEX - Paul Schimoler died peacefully Friday evening, Feb. 15, 2013, after a short battle with cancer, at the age of 45. He grew up in Upper Brookville, Long Island, and attended St. Mary's High School in Manhasset, before Cornell University. Paul was an incredibly beloved coach, lacrosse player, husband and father, perhaps known best for holding the Division I record for most saves in an NCAA Tournament (85, in 1988). Others closest to him also know him as a bona fide chef/grill master, and for having a tireless willingness to help others in need. A 1989 graduate of Cornell, he was a four time All-Ivy and AllAmerican selection and the Ivy League Rookie of the Year as a freshman. During his sophomore year, the Big Red were crowned Ivy League Champions and were NCAA Division I runnersup in 1987 and 1988. In his final campaign, he was named Ivy League Player of the Year and was selected to the NorthSouth team. He had extensive post-collegiate playing experience as a member of the 1990 and 1994 World Teams, both of which were gold winners. He was inducted into the Cornell Hall of Fame in 1999, and the Long Island Metropolitan Lacrosse Hall of Fame in 2004. He was drafted by the Boston Cannons of the Major Lacrosse League in 2001 and played club lacrosse in the USCLA, where he was active in the national tournament circuit. Paul continued to be involved in club lacrosse over the years, notably playing for team Rusty Red, who enjoyed many championships at the annual Lake Placid Classic Lacrosse tournament. Paul would have been in his second season as an assistant coach at Dartmouth College, after joining the staff in the summer of 2011. Prior to coming to Dartmouth, he was the head coach at Saint Michael's College. He was named the NEILA Division II Coach of the Year in 2011. He recently founded the Vermont based lacrosse school "VTribe". Paul is survived by his wife, Lynn Ellen; their son, Jack, and daughter, Serena; sister, Ellen Kelly (N.J.); brother, Steve Schimoler (Ohio); sister, Laura Reed (Ky.); sister, Mary Lou Cass (Colo.); and many nieces and nephews. Paul was predeceased by his parents, Doc and Bea; and brother, John. Memorial services will be held on Saturday at 1 p.m., Feb. 23, 2013, at the chapel of St. Michael the Archangel on the campus of St. Michael's College in Colchester. There will be an additional memorial service in Long Island, N.Y., at a future date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made out to "Paul Schimoler Fund," towards an educational fund for the children to: Branch Manager, TD Banknorth, 100 Center Road, Essex, VT 05452.

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Feb. 18, 2013.

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EBLE FAMILY

March 17, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Welles Hackett

February 23, 2013

Incredibly sad to hear about the passing of Paul. My heart goes out to his family and friends for this terrible loss. I spent years with Paul working at his brother's restaurant 'The Terrace' in Locust Valley. We met when we were 16 and became fast friends. This was back in the good old days of an 18 year old drinking age and Paul and I used to ride our bicycles to the bar after work! Many a summer evening was spent getting into all kinds of trouble as teenage boys on Long Island... you can only imagine. We spent almost every day together during summers in high school and college and I got to know his family and his brothers well. In the summer of '83 we spent every free moment we had chasing the Talking Heads wherever we could. Paul introduced me to that band, and to this day it is still my favorite. I know that Paul went on to become one of the all time greatest Lacrosse players in history but I'll always remember him as the guy who had a common love of food and music. He was kind and humble with an amazing sense of humor. Rest in peace old friend.

Gracie Peirce

February 22, 2013

Lynn Ellen, My heart goes out to you. I have fond memories of watching Joss and Jack play together at the ELC with you and sometimes Paul. Paul was always good-natured and I will remember his joy when seeing Jack after a long day. Sending you hugs and wishing you peace.

February 21, 2013

My sympathies to Paul Schimoler's
family. Prayers are with you at this
time and God be your Rock&Comforter
(Psalms62:2)
Sincerely
Rose

Jimmy Nolan

February 20, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Schimoler family. Paul and I were friends at Cornell and although we had lost touch over the years I will never forget the good times we had together. He was a good man who was always upbeat and happy. May God be with you during this very difficult time.

February 20, 2013

Lynn, though we only had the pleasure of meeting your hubbie a few times, he left quite the impression on us. I remember my husband saying to me "I really like that guy". MUCH love to you, Mike & Margaret Howell (Melodie's sister and husband from Manchester, NH). xoxoxoxoxox

Eric Schofield

February 20, 2013

Lynn Ellen, Serena,Jack, and the entire Schimoler family,
My deepest sympathies to you all. Paul was a very thoughtful, and genuine person. I am glad that my path crossed his while he was doing camps, and then later as my roommate on the road while he was at RPI. He has left a footprint on this earth, and I am sorry for everyone's loss. RIP Schmoles.

February 20, 2013

To Paul's Family from his LI fans and supporters:

All our prayers and sympathy at this time are sent your way, but are nothing at all compared to the life, love, and lacrosse that Paul means to so many, for years and years to come.

I saw a sign outside of a Chuch in Ithaca near the Cornell campus that said: "Jesus Saves."

Now He can speak with Paul about those on-the-field "saves" as well.

Garret Sullivan

February 19, 2013

My sincere condolences to Paul's family. In my time announcing SMC lacrosse games I was always impressed by Coach Schimoler's professionalism. God Bless

Melodie Daisie Sawyer & David Showacre

February 19, 2013

LynnEllen,Jack&Serena
What a beautiful man,the pain is so big the love is so deep.Our hearts are with you on this journey.Love you.

Lori Bjornlund

February 19, 2013

Strength and Love to you, Lynn Ellen, Jack and Serena.

Love,
Lori, Niall, Cellia and Ivan

Alex Jefferson

February 19, 2013

May you be comforted by the scriptural thoughts found at Psalms 121. There our Heavenly Father gives assurance of His love and support for you. He will see you through these difficult days.

Nancy Tracy

February 19, 2013

I sincerely send my sympathy to you, your children and family.
My daily thoughts and prayers include you, Lynn Ellen.

Ellen Drolette

February 19, 2013

Our condolences to all of you. Zach played on VTribe and both of our kids including our daughter (who is a goalie) did camps with Paul. Paul most recently had chatted at length with Zach last year as he narrowed down his college choices. We had great respect for him as a coach and as a father as we spent the first season watching him push Jack around the lacrosse field explaining different drills. Jack would hold lacrosse balls. We will forever be grateful for all Coach Schimoler gave to our family in time, passion and a love of the game of lacrosse. Wishing the fond memories and love with pull you through this difficult time. Much Love and prayers from The Drolette Family-Todd, Ellen, Dylana and Zach

Mike and Chris Haskins

February 19, 2013

Our deepest condolences to Paul's family, friends and players. Our sons were fortunate to have known him and participate in camps and VTribe and to have him as a coach/mentor. He had a large impact on our youngest son who picked up a goalie stick after being urged by Paul to "try it'. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of loss.

February 18, 2013

To the Schimoler family: Many great thoughts and memories of Paul will live on forever. The hundreds of people he helped and whose lives he improved will be forever grateful. Only time will help your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Rob, Gwyn & Taber Engelken

February 18, 2013

Dear Lynn Ellen, Jack,and Serena,
I am so sorry to hear about Paul's passing. At the ELC we have many memories of Paul playing lacross and just spending some time hanging out on the playground with Jack and the other children. We will always remember him as a loving father who was truly dedicated to his children. My heartfelt condolences to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love and peace, Cindy Beaudoin-Valyou

Mary Lou Lord

February 18, 2013

To Lynn Ellen, Serena and Jack, I was so sorry to learn about Paul. He sounds like a truly special person; my thoughts are with you all. Mary Lou Lord

Pete and Shawna Shuttle

February 18, 2013

Our condolences to the Schimoler family. We were very saddened to learn of Paul's death. Both of our sons experienced Paul, first through the St. Mike's summer lacrosse camp and then with the Vermont Tribe. He was a terrific coach, who never forgot their names. He lefting a lasting impact, not only on my sons, but on many young men in our community.

February 18, 2013

Paul was a great guy and I am glad I had the pleasure of getting to know and work with him this past year. My prayers for comfort go out to his family.
Nicole Humann

Deb Sawyer Jorschick

February 18, 2013

Dear Lynn Ellen and family, I am so sorry to read about Paul's passing. You have endured much this past year and I can only hope that you all find peace. May the memories shared be a comfort to you at this time. I am thinking and sending positive energy to you. Peace, DSJ

Sandy Valine

February 18, 2013

My heartfelt condolences to Lynn Ellen, Jack, Serena and family/friends. May you find peace during this very difficult time and in the times to come. May your memories of Paul offer you some comfort and strength.

Toni

February 17, 2013

You have my deepest sympathy. May good memories of Paul provide consolation for your family during this challenging time; and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again in Paradise. John 17:3

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