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Peggy Candage
March 19, 2025
You are 48 years old today.
WE MISS YOU
WE MISS YOU
WE MISS YOU
Forever, Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2025
You are 48 years old today.
WE MISS YOU!!!
Forever, Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2025
We miss you
We miss you
We miss you
Forever, Mom & Dad
Joan & Randy Benore
March 19, 2025
Remembering you on the date you were born. RIP
Ethan Benore
December 21, 2024
Still miss your friendship--but also eternally grateful for it.
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2024
We only have your picture to look at now. 16 years you have been gone. We still reminisce and wonder what you would look like today. The "If only" still haunts us.
Forever loved, Mom & Dad
Randy and Joan Benore
December 21, 2024
Rest in Peace, Ray. We miss you.
Mike
March 21, 2024
For the short period of time our family knew Ray left us a major impact in our lives. He will never be forgotten.
Bertucci family too
Joan and Randy
March 19, 2024
We remember Ray each year on his birthday. He was so special. A dear friend of our son, Ethan. Still miss him.
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2024
We were so excited, joyful and full of love 47 years ago today because You entered our lives. I read recently that Grief is the Final Act of Love. We wish you were alive and not our grief.
Forever, Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2023
15 years has seemed an eternity since you died. So much life that you have missed. Our tears for you and for our loss of you never end. We hope you feel our love.
Forever, Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2023
15 years has seemed like an eternity without you. To not be able to talk with you, laugh with you, share life with you. You are missed desperately and loved always. We think of you every day. If only......
Forever, Mom & Dad
colleen carroll
December 17, 2023
God Bless the Candace family on the anniversary of Ray´s passing. Please know you all remain in my prayers and Ray remains in the hearts of those of us lucky enough to work next to him at Loyola.
Peggy Candage
August 24, 2023
The tears never end
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2023
It is your 46th Birthday today. We have missed 15 Birthdays with you. Even one Birthday is too many to have you gone. Beloved son know that you are loved & missed always.
Forever, Mom & Dad
colleen carroll
December 30, 2022
Happy Birthday to Ray´s son Evan. I passed Rays picture in the EMS building last week and smiled thinking of all he gave to so many of his coworkers and patients in his time with us.
Peggy Candage
December 29, 2022
Dear Evan,
We want to wish you a very Happy 16th Birthday from your father! We hope you are doing well & enjoying learning how to drive.
Peggy & Ray Candage
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2022
Dear Randy & Joan,
It gives us comfort to know Ray is not forgotten. Thanks for the kind words.
Fondly, Peggy & Ray
Joan Benore
December 21, 2022
"Our dead are never dead to us, until we have forgotten them." George Eliot
We have not forgotten Ray.
Randy and Joan Benore
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2022
It has been 14 long years without you. There is not a day that we don´t think about you, miss you, want to talk to you. The tears never stop.
Forever loved, Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
September 18, 2022
Missing you so much it hurts
Forever
Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
September 18, 2022
We gave away your snowboard today. I can´t stop crying
Memories.......
Randy and Joan Benore
March 19, 2022
Missing Ray on his birthday. Our hearts still ache for Ray and Peggy.
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2022
We would be celebrating your 45th Birthday today. We have missed too many Birthdays with you. To see you smile, to hear you laugh, to just talk with you would be so wonderful! If only........
Forever loved, Mom & Dad
Randy and Joan Benore
December 23, 2021
We miss the good friend our son had in Ray. God bless your souls, Peggy and Ray, and bring you peace.
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2021
13 years ago our lives were shattered, our hearts were shattered, our souls were shattered. The pieces have never fit together again.
Forever loved. Mom & Dad
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2021
13 years ago our lives were shattered, our hearts were shattered, our souls were shattered. The pieces have never fit together since then.
Forever loved. Mom & Dad
colleen carroll
December 20, 2021
Sending you wishes for comfort and peace this holiday season. Ray will always be warmly remembered by the Loyola Burn ICU staff.
Ethan Benore
December 19, 2021
Now that my girls are in high school, I can share with them more of the hilarious things we did, and the trouble we sometimes found ourselves in! Wishing we had more time to make more memories but so thankful for the joy he brought to us. Hoping that you all experience some joy this season in the gifts he gave us.
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2021
Today is your 44th Birthday. We have missed too many celebrations with you. Your absence in our lives is something we deal with everyday. Forever loved
Peggy Candage
March 19, 2021
Dear Colleen,
Dear Colleen, Thank you for remembering Ray. We know he would be with all of you in the fight against this pandemic. Stay safe.
colleen carroll
December 23, 2020
Thinking of Ray and what an amazing commitment he had to his patients. I know that he would have been with us at the frontline during this time. Sending prayers for peace and comfort to his family. He is missed.
Ethan Benore
December 22, 2020
Checked on the tree at Price Park we planted as a memorial a few weeks ago. It's looking good, but the memories will always be better. I still enjoy sharing these with my kids.
December 21, 2020
❤❤❤
Randy and Joan Benore
December 21, 2020
Fond memories Ray warm our hearts on this sad anniversary.
Peggy Candage
December 21, 2020
It has been 12 years without you. It never gets any easier. We try to find the peace and contentment that comes from knowing your family is whole and secure. We reach for it but it will now and forever always allude us because you are gone. We love you so much❤
Forever, Mom & Dad
March 19, 2020
You are 43 years old today.
I was disappointed a few weeks ago because your Dad and I were going to be traveling in Egypt and I would not be able to post anything. We did not go because of a dangerous virus that I know you would be on the front lines battling for your patients.
We miss you and wish so much you were alive to celebrate You!
Forever.
Mom & Dad
Colleen Carroll
January 3, 2020
As always, we remember the good work Ray did here at Loyola. We are so sorry for your pain but know your son is watching over all of us. Prayers of comfort for you.
December 29, 2019
Happy 13th Birthday Evan. Your father would have wished to be there for you as you navigate your teenage years. He would hope you are alive and well, excelling in school, participating in a sport and enjoying the companionship of many friends. We hope that for you also.
Peggy & Ray Candage
December 22, 2019
I'm a day late, but I thought of you yesterday, as I still think of you today. Our sons remain in the Forever 31 club, and we mourn them every day. My heart is full for you all, and I wish you peace.
Sharon Johns
December 21, 2019
11 years have passed. We miss you more with each passing day.
Forever loved. Forever mourned. Forever........
Mom & Dad
Ethan Benore
December 21, 2019
Praying for your family today.
Jon Chaney
March 30, 2019
My thoughts and prayers go out to Dr. Candage, his wife Peggy and Rays siblings.
I didn't know Ray, but to lose a child I cannot imagine. I knew Dr. Candage from the hospital and he was my surgeon. From what I've read they raised an outstanding son in Ray.
March 29, 2019
There is not enough rain in the world to compete with my tears for you
Forever, Mom
March 19, 2019
You would be 42 years old today. We wonder what your life would be
like and how you would look. Handsome always but maybe with some gray hairs? We will never know. You have missed so much living. We have missed you desperately.
Forever, Mom & Dad
December 28, 2018
Dear Colleen,
Thank you for your kind words about our son. It is comforting to know that Ray has not been forgotten.
With gratitude,
Peggy & Ray
December 21, 2018
It has been 10 long years without you. We still scream No it is not possible that you are gone. We hope you can feel our hugs and love sent to you every day.
Forever, Mom & Dad
Colleen Carroll
December 19, 2018
Remembering Ray's many accomplishments at Loyola this weeek. No matter how many residents have passed through the program, Ray always stands out as not only a phenomenal physician, but as a genuinely good human. God bless.
December 17, 2018
When a person's partner dies they are called a widow or widower. When a person's parents die they are called an orphan. When a person's child dies . . . there are no words. We also miss Ray. He was a good friend to our son. Our hearts still hurt.
Randy and Joan.
Ethan Benore
December 15, 2018
10 years is a long time to miss someone. Still praying for his family and for those in our group of friends who feel his absence. Thankfully, he gave us a lot of great memories.
March 30, 2018
Dear Ethan,
I was at the mall and the Easter Bunny was there. It brought back a memory of you and Ray as teenagers getting your picture taken with the Bunny. It was such a bittersweet memory. Thank you for being his friend.
Fondly, Peggy & Ray
March 19, 2018
Certain times of the year I think of Ray. Always on this day. I miss my friend. I pray for his family.
Ethan
March 19, 2018
Today is your 41st Birthday. You are always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts.
Love, Mom & Dad
Sharon Johns
December 23, 2017
Dear Doc and Peggy, I continue to hold you both in my heart, especially at this time of year. Peace be with you all.
December 21, 2017
9 years ago today our hearts, lives, world were shattered by your death. Nothing will ever be the same. December 21st is the shortest day of light but it became the longest day for all of us.
Forever, Mom & Dad
March 19, 2017
Today is your 40th Birthday but you will be Forever 31. Rock those Gates of Heaven sweetheart so we can hear you! You are loved so much and missed desperately!
Forever, Mom & Dad
December 22, 2016
Dear Loyola,
Thank you for letting us know Ray is not forgotten. He would have loved the chance to continue to work with you. Thank you again for the loving thoughts.
Peggy & Ray
Colleen Carroll
December 22, 2016
Continued prayers for the Candage family from all of us in Loyola's Burn Unit. We've thought of Ray all this week and frequently thruout the year as we pass his photograph in the EMS building. He remains a truly exceptional physician and person in all of our minds. God bless and comfort you all.
December 21, 2016
Dear Joan & Randy,
Thank you for your kind words.
Peggy & Ray
Joan Benore
December 21, 2016
Randy and I also miss Ray. He was a good man and a true friend to our son. We are still filled with sadness.
December 21, 2016
8 years ago today eternity began for you. 8 is a number that never ends. Our grief, our love, our tears, our memories will never end also.
We miss you so much!
Forever, Mom & Dad
December 20, 2016
Dear Ethan,
Thank you for letting us know Ray is not forgotten. He would want so much to be here too. We visit often the wonderful memorial that you and his friends placed in the park. Thank you for being such a good friend to him.
Peggy & Ray
Ethan Benore
December 19, 2016
Still miss you Ray. I have some great stories for you and know you'd appreciate them more than anyone. Miss your conversation and your laughter. I continue to pray for your family.
Ethan
August 13, 2016
YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH !
March 19, 2016
This is your 39th Birthday. The heartache continues and our love will never end. It is so difficult to accept that you are not with us to celebrate You.
Forever loved,
Mom & Dad
December 29, 2015
Happy 9th Birthday Evan! We are so sorry that for the rest of your life, your Dad will not be a part of them.
We hope your Birthday wishes come true.
Grandma & Grandpa Candage
Colleen Carroll
December 22, 2015
Remembering Ray with a smile today. He is never forgotten here at Loyola. May God bless you and bring you peace in this holiday season and may you feel Rays presence close to you always.
December 22, 2015
Thinking of you...
December 21, 2015
Our continued heartbreak began 7 years ago on this date. It is ever present but we know your love and strength of spirit are with us. We are sad that you won't be able to live the life you should have enjoyed. We will always miss you and love you. The tears never end.
Forever, Mom & Dad
Ethan Benore
December 21, 2015
Wanted you to know I am thinking of you all today. Still think about and talk about Ray alot. Somehow, all of the BEST stories of my youth include him. What an amazing person!
December 21, 2015
Thinking of you all today on this sad anniversary. Wishing you comfort and peace in your memories.
Randy and Joan Benore
December 21, 2015
Remembering Ray with a smile. We have fond memories. He was a wonderful young man.
September 19, 2015
Dear Luke,
Thank you for your kind words about Ray. We also still struggle to believe he is gone. We hope that when anyone who knew him thinks of him it is with a positive thought and a smile.
Sincerely, Peggy & Ray Candage
Luke Brewster
August 30, 2015
I think of Ray and all of you frequently
He is missed by so many
It has never quite felt real
God bless you all
June 21, 2015
Today it has been 6 years and 6 months since you died driving to Michigan to see your son and today is also Father's Day. You would have been a wonderful Dad as is your brother. We are just so sad for all of us that you are not here to share life and the celebrations.
We love and miss you so much.
Forever, Mom & Dad
May 12, 2015
I am missing you so much today and every day. The tears never stop. I love you forever. Mom
March 19, 2015
Today you would be 38 years old. We wish so much we could give you a big hug and kiss but we have only our memories of past birthdays and those fun times. If only........
Forever loved, Mom & Dad
Della M Bullock
January 28, 2015
To Dr.Candage and Peggy,
I just want you both to know that I have also been in your shoes and it's been 14 1/2 years since I lost my child. You will always be in my thought and prayers...especially Dr Candage (my doctor since 1996). May time ease your hearts, but brighten your day with memories.
January 3, 2015
December 30, 2014
Forgive me, I know it is easy for me to say and often times hard to believe when you are so close to so much loss but I will say it anyway....
I really believe that Ray is still amongst us as we do our work at Loyola. No one who works as hard as he did or invested so much is truly ever gone.
I am truly praying for peace and some measure of comfort for your family.
December 29, 2014
Happy 8th Birthday Evan. We know your father would want us to send you Birthday wishes for him. We hope someday to get to meet you and celebrate your Birthday with you.
Grandma and Grandpa Candage
December 29, 2014
Thank you Loyola for remembering our beloved son. We wish he was there working with such a wonderful staff. He would want that also.
Peggy and Ray
Colleen Carroll
December 22, 2014
Praying for your family at such a difficult time of year. Ray is never forgotten at Loyola. We were just admiring his picture and remembering what a fine man and doctor you raised a few days ago. God bless you all.
December 21, 2014
thinking of you and your family always, but especially on this day
December 21, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Candage Family.
The Bertucci Family
December 21, 2014
Thinking of the Candage family today. My prayers and love to all of you. It brings me peace knowing our boys are celebrating with Jesus.
December 21, 2014
Precious family...I've been praying today for comfort& peace to surround you.
December 21, 2014
It has been 6 long years since you died on December 21st and the pain of the loss of you does not decrease. The hole in our lives and the hurt to our hearts is too huge to ever heal. We love you so much. We miss you so much. We will never forget you.
Forever, Mom and Dad
Dec. 2014, 7 years old
December 21, 2014
November 17, 2014
The Holiday Season is starting again and you are not here to share it. You will be missed desperately. We miss you desperately everyday.
Forever, Mom and Dad
June 15, 2014
Another Father's Day without you or Evan and knowing that it is for eternity is so painful. You are thought of and missed so much.
Our love forever, Mom & Dad
May 11, 2014
Today is Mother's Day. You are missed always.
Forever loved, Mom
March 19, 2014
Today is a dark and rainy day but my tears for you are more than any amount of rain that could fall.
March 19, 2014
Today is your 37th birthday. If only you could be here to celebrate it and every day that passes. We miss you so much. We love you.
Forever, Mom & Dad
February 25, 2014
I miss you so much it hurts.
C Carroll
December 23, 2013
Eating lunch with a group of burn nurses yesterday we all were remembering what a great man and physician Ray was. He certainly is not forgotten at Loyola. Praying your memories bring you some comfort and that you are reminded of his generosity and spirit each time you look at your grandson.
December 22, 2013
peace to you
Breonna
December 22, 2013
Saying a prayer
December 21, 2013
Precious family...I pray for you every Dec 21st! I've experience loss as well but finally after 6 yrs I am able to remember all the smiles my loved one shared with me and I am able to smile again. All the happy memories that I had allowed my grief to blur have now become my warm blanket of peace. I understand your pain and am praying that in time that peace will wrap you warmly in a blanket of comfort. God Bless........
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