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John A. May Sr.

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John May Obituary

John Allen May, Sr., age 83, of New Windsor, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 14, 2025, at his home. Born on January 14, 1942, in Medford, MD he was the son of the late William Harry May and Malinda Leanna (Reaver) May. He was the beloved husband of Virginia E. May, with whom he shared 63 years of marriage. Surviving him are his children and their spouses: Donald W. Shriner, Sr. and Debbie, Sandra L. Gillespie, John A. May, Jr. and Tina, Perry May and Crystal Ryder, and Terry May; his brother, Charles L. May; and numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his daughter, Lori Jean Shriner, as well as nine brothers and two sisters. Mr. May was a 1961 graduate of Westminster High School. Following graduation, he proudly served his country in the United States Army, stationed in Germany, and was honorably discharged with the rank of E-4 specialist. He was later employed by Mitchell Transport and retired from Lafarge Quarry. Known as a dedicated and hardworking man, he took great pride in providing for his family. In his earlier years, John enjoyed racing go-carts and stock cars. He also found great pleasure in hunting, fishing, and camping. A visitation will be held at Hartzler Funeral Home, 310 Church Street, New Windsor, on Wednesday, December 17, from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. A graveside service will be held at Evergreen Memorial Gardens, Finksburg, on Thursday, December 18, at 11:00 a.m. Memorial contributions may be made to BridgingLife Development Office, 200 Memorial Ave., Westminster, MD 21157. Condolences and memories may be shared on his tribute wall at www.hartzlerfuneralhome.com.

Published by Carroll County Times on Dec. 16, 2025.

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Lynn May

December 17, 2025

Pappy, you are the best! I've known you for as long as I can remember. I'm 17 years old and will be 18 years old in 51 days. I have not seen you since it was the summer of 3rd grade when the cops and Social services came to take me away from everyone back at home (Very sad day for all of us at the house). When Daddy had told me about what happened to you I burst into tears (Saturday, December 13th 2025) and then he called me back on Sunday, December 14th 2025 and told me that you had passed away at 4:00am on Sunday, December 14th 2025. I was extremely upset because I love you so much and we were also kind of close with each other. I love you so much Pappy! Goodbye Forever Pappy, we miss you so much. Everyone who knows you does. We all love and miss you so much!

David Dull

December 17, 2025

DAVID DULL
John, before I joined the army and was sent to Germany, your home was my second home. Your family was my second family. You treated me with respect as I did you. You taught me many things and we had years of good times together. Although we lost touch over the years, I never forgot all you did for me. RIP my old friend, you were like a second father to me. My condolences to the family. I'll be with you in thought.

Betty May

December 16, 2025

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Donna Darr

December 16, 2025

Sorry to hear of John´s passing. New him n Ginny for years from living in Medford.

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17

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Hartzler Funeral Home- New Windsor

310 Church Street, New Windsor, MD 21776

Dec

17

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Hartzler Funeral Home- New Windsor

310 Church Street, New Windsor, MD 21776

Dec

18

Service

11:00 a.m.

Evergreen Memorial Gardens

2800 Old Westminster Pike, Finksburg, MD 21048

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