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May Elizabeth Mercer

1931 - 2019

May Elizabeth Mercer obituary, 1931-2019

BORN

1931

DIED

2019

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Haight Funeral Home & Chapel P.A.

6416 Sykesville Road

Sykesville, Maryland

May Mercer Obituary

May Elizabeth "Betty" Mercer, age 88 of Woodbine, passed away Friday, December 6, 2019 at her home Born July 4, 1931 in Maryland, she was the daughter of the late Robert and Clara Weller Day. She was the wife of the late Robert H. "Pete" Mercer III. Betty had been a librarian at Winfield Elementary School and Sykesville Elementary School. She then opened the first Eldersburg branch of the Carroll County Public Library and then was the librarian at Springfield Hospital Center medical library for 20 years. She was a longtime member of St. Barnabas Episcopal Church in Sykesville. She enjoyed gardening, sewing, and quilting. Surviving are her children Robert "Rob" Mercer IV of Winfield, Mary Eleanor Mercer Grauel of Sykesville, Patricia A. Mercer-Kalmus and her husband Dan of Sykesville, Gail Shaughney of New Windsor, and Carol Mercer and her husband Bruce Grauel of Sykesville, brother Hanford M. "Gus" Day and his wife Sarah of Silver Spring, sister Eleanor Mercer of Sykesville, grandchildren Clara Kirby (James), Mark Shaughney (Elizabeth), Jared Mercer, Nathaniel Mercer and Maureen Grauel, great grandchildren Riley and Edgar Kirby, and Charlotte and Felicity Shaughney and by many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings Lula Renehan, Patience Korb, Ruth Mercer, Robert Day, and Marshall Day. The family will receive friends on Thursday, December 12, 2019 from 2-4pm and 6-8pm at Haight Funeral Home & Chapel, 6416 Sykesville Rd., Sykesville. Funeral services will be held on Friday, December 13, 2019 at 10:00 AM at St. Barnabas Episcopal Church, 13135 Forsythe Rd., Sykesville, MD 21784. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Barnabas Episcopal Church at the address above. Online condolences may be offered at:

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Published by Carroll County Times on Dec. 10, 2019.

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Pat Lochran

December 11, 2019

My heartfelt sympathies to Betty's family. I knew and worked with Betty many years ago at Sringfield Hospital Center. She was a very lovely and caring person.

Robert W. Klohr

December 10, 2019

To the Mercer Family,

You have my sincere condolences on your loss of Betty.

December 10, 2019

My deepest condolences to the family. May the God of peace and comfort be with the family during this most difficult time.

Billy & Judy (Sayre ) McClanahan

December 9, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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Haight Funeral Home & Chapel P.A.

6416 Sykesville Road, Sykesville, MD 21784

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Haight Funeral Home & Chapel P.A.

6416 Sykesville Road, Sykesville, MD 21784

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St. Barnabas Episcopal Church

13135 Forsythe Rd., Sykesville, MD

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6416 Sykesville Road, Sykesville, MD 21784

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