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Paul Melvin Reed

1936 - 2023

Paul Melvin Reed obituary, 1936-2023, Westminster, MD

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Paul Reed Obituary

Paul Melvin Reed, 86, of Sykesville, MD, went home to be with the Lord on Friday, June 16, 2023, at the BridgingLife Dove House Hospice in Westminster. Born June 18, 1936, he was the son of the late Walter Vernon Reed and Virginia Reed, nee Carpenter. He was the loving husband to Ruth McKinney. Surviving in addition to his wife are stepdaughters, Michelle Nottoli of Clearlake, CA and Mara Kully of Fresno, CA; sister Margaret McPherson of Westminster, MD, nephew William (Lisa) McPherson, niece Amy Garrison and companion, Warren Frizzell and many other friends and family members. In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his brother-in-law, George McPherson. Paul honorably served in the U.S. Army and U.S. Army Reserves as an Aerial Surveillance and Military Intelligence Officer and rose to the rank of Colonel. He received the Korea Defense Service Medal and Vietnam Service Medal with 3 Bronze Service Stars amongst many other medals. He received his bachelor's degree in History from Bucknell University and his Master of Liberal Arts Degree from Johns Hopkins University. He then served a full career in Imagery Support for the Central Intelligence Agency. He spent many years as a recruiter for the U.S. Military Academy, West Point. He was very active with his local VFW and American Legion Posts in Mariposa, CA. He was a private pilot and loved his Beechcraft Debonair which he used to volunteer with the California Civil Air Patrol, Doctors without Borders, Mariposa Sherriff's department search and rescue and trips to OV-1 Mohawk Association reunions, of which he served as the executive director for several years. He loved his golden retrievers and owning German cars with his favorite being his Porsche 914. He recently returned to Maryland to spend his remaining years enjoying family, making new friends and meeting other veterans in the area. He was well known for his generous spirit and volunteerism. He was a member of the St. Barnabas Episcopal Church in Sykesville, MD and enjoyed a special bond with Father Tim. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, July 15, 2023, at 11 am, at the St. Barnabas Episcopal Church, 13135 Forsythe Road, Sykesville, MD 21784 with a reception to follow at the church hall. Interment at Arlington National Cemetery will be announced at a later date. Arrangements by MYERS-DURBORAW FUNERAL HOME, P.A., Westminster. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Paul's name to the BridgingLife Dove House Hospice, C/O Development Office, 200 Memorial Avenue, Westminster, MD 21157, or St. Barnabas Church, P.O. Box 1426, Sykesville, MD 21784. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.myersdurborawfh.com.

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Published by Carroll County Times on Jul. 2, 2023.

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George P. Davis III

July 30, 2023

Paul was one of my oldest and dearest friends out of the Mohawk and Imagery communities. He was "Boss Hawk" and I was "SPUD 19." I worked with him while we were in DC together and as a contractor in California. This is such a sad occasion for me. I admired and respected him as much as you can. I'll sure miss you old buddy. You were one of a kind. Wish I had known you moved back east, I would have made it a point to visit.
George P. Davis III, MAJ MI (Ret.)
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Jack "Beetle" Bailey

July 30, 2023

Paul was a great friend and professional protégés, he was held in high regard by all who knew him.
Paul was a consummate professional and accomplished aviator who has made his final flight west. Farewell my friend, may you have smooth air, blue skies and tailwinds always on your journey west.

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