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Benjamin Strickler "Bo" Adams III

1998 - 2020

Benjamin Strickler "Bo" Adams III obituary, 1998-2020, Auburn, Al

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Benjamin Adams Obituary

Benjamin Strickler Adams III of Auburn, Ala., and formerly of Mooresville, passed away on April 21, 2020, at his home. He was 22.

He was called Bo by his family and friends, and they loved him dearly.

From the moment he could first stand alone -- and as long as his mother was willing to dig up worms for his bait -- Bo's passion was fishing. He adored fishing, in streams, rivers, lakes and oceans. He loved being outdoors. Bo enjoyed hiking and camping, and was skilled in snowboarding and skateboarding. He also taught himself to play the guitar and recently had become passionate about woodworking.

Born Jan. 11, 1998, in Melbourne, Fla., Bo was the son of Hollis Mussler and Ben S. Adams Jr. After his family moved to Mooresville, he and his sister, Hollis McKay Adams, began attending the Community School of Davidson, in nearby Davidson. He was an excellent student, especially in math.

As a young boy, Bo played basketball and football. In high school he lettered as a member of the varsity golf team. He was also active in Boy Scout Troop 171. He particularly valued his experience at the Boy Scout Camp Philmont, spending 10 days hiking while covering 110 miles, and he achieved the rank of Eagle Scout. After graduating from CSD, he completed two years at North Carolina State University in Raleigh.

Growing up, he worked at Wendy's, Best Buy, Corporate Property Group and Waterside Docks and Piers. He was currently employed by Thermo Fisher Scientific in Auburn, Ala., as a machine operator on a line making a component for COVID-19 test kits.

Bo was living in Alabama, establishing residency so he could attend Auburn University to complete his degree.

Over the last years of his life, Bo battled depression and dependency on alcohol and Xanax, yet remained strong in his desire to leave the world a better place. His life and accidental and untimely death are not defined by his addiction, but by his steadfast love and sense of humor.

In addition to his parents and sister, all of Mooresville, Bo is survived by his grandmothers, Nell Holmes Mussler of Melbourne Beach, Fla., and Connie McKay Adams of Oak Ridge, Tenn.

Survivors also include his aunts, uncles and cousins, Nell Gray and Mike Herring and their children, Scott, Bobby, Nell and Molly, and Edward Jr. and Tammy Mussler and their children, AJ, Trey and Addie, all of Florida; and Beth Adams and David Scott and their children, Andrew and Karin, all of Nashville, Tenn., and Nancy Adams and Scott Linn and their children, Klara and Jackson, all of Oak Ridge.

A virtual memorial service was held Friday, April 24, 2020, at St. Patrick's Episcopal Church in Mooresville. The Rev. Gregory McIntyre officiated. A more formal memorial service will be held at a later date when family and friends can be together.

The family requests that any memorials be in the form of gifts to the Catawba Riverkeeper Foundation, P.O. Box 11838, Charlotte, NC 28220.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Apr. 28, 2020.

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Davis McC

February 21, 2025

My dear friend. I can’t wait until the day I can see you again. What great memories we had, and what powerful lessons we learned. Just two young kids, ignorant to the world. Those were the best days of my life. Miss you brother

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Elizabeth Chaney

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May 3, 2020

To The Adam's Family, I send my condolences during this tragic time. Death is never easy to deal with, but especially now when family cannot travel and be together for support. May the God of all comfort give you the strength to endure during this difficult time.

Margo Trofholz

May 1, 2020

Hollis, My heart is breaking for you, Ben and your family. I can only imagine the pain of losing a child, but am sure it is the hardest of all things to bear. Praying for some measure of comfort and peace for you and yours.

Donna McLamb Cotton

April 30, 2020

Hollis, I am so sorry for your loss and pray for peace and healing for your family.

Krista Timoney

April 29, 2020

Thinking of you, and sending love your way at this very sad time.

Teresa Campbell

April 29, 2020

We love you Hollis and pray for strength and peace always

Christian Dannemann

April 29, 2020

What a terrible loss. My thoughts are with his family. Even as a father, it's impossible to fathom the grief and despair his nearest must feel.

Bo has found his place of peace; may all those who held him dear find a way to come to terms with their loss.

I won't forget you, Bo.

Pat Postma

April 28, 2020

I am thankful there was Bo, and grateful to be a part of this circle oof friends.

Avery Chenoweth

April 28, 2020

This is so heart-breaking, it's beyond words, and it's impossible to imagine what words could ever give you solace in your grief, which is as hard as it gets for a parent. Nevertheless, we have you in our hearts and minds, and will keep you in our prayers.

Jamie Hart

April 28, 2020

I was saddened to hear about Bo. You have my deepest sympathy at this very sad time.
It is times like this that put our faith to the test. I feel that is why we have to use our faith to see us through the grief and despair that comes with tragedy.
The Bible says "Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted." I pray that God will bless you and give you the strength to get through this very difficult time.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
In Faith & Sympathy,
Jamie Perkins Hart

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