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Bernhard Aarnink Obituary
Mr. Aarnink, age 67, died on June 24, 2007 at Presbyterian Hospital in Charlotte. He was born in Gronau, Germany on August 25, 1940.
Bernhard never met a stranger and was loved by many. He also helped many people during his life. He was a successful businessman and loved a challenge. He was devoted to his wife, Meribeth, he loved his family and his dogs and was extremely proud of his Friesian horses on their farm. He enjoyed many hours as a master builder of model ships, some of which are priceless and have been on gallery display. He was a unique and special man with a big heart who will be sorely missed.
He is survived by his wife of twenty-one years, Meribeth (Van Brug) Aarnink; his children, Henderic Aarnink and wife Donna, of Greenville, SC and Frauke Aarnink of Savannah, GA; and by his grandson, Anton, who brought him great joy.
The family expresses great appreciation for the care and attention given Bernhard by the oncology nursing staff, 'his girls', at Presbyterian Hospital - Main.
A memorial service will be held in Bernhard's honor at 2:00 PM Friday, June 29, 2007 at McEwen - Mint Hill Chapel followed by a brief visitation.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the charity of the donor's choice.
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Memories and Condolences
for Bernhard Aarnink
Sabine Vellucci
July 11, 2007
Dearest Inge, Frauke and Hendrick,
There are no words to express the sadness when a loved one passes. Since my father passed in January, I have come to understand that there is nothing to say that will ease the complicated emotions that arise during a time such as this. Please know that I am thinking of you and wish you fond memories of Bernie.
Karin Krautschick
July 6, 2007
Ich möchte Eurer Familie hiermit mein tiefes Mitgefühl und meine Trauer aussprechen, wünsche Euch viel Kraft um diese schwere Zeit zu überstehen.
In stiller Trauer
Jim & Lisa Davis
July 1, 2007
Mrs. Aarnink:
Lisa & I would occassionally talk with Mr. Aarnink on Saturdays. His passing was a shock to us. We will always remember him as the friendly gentleman who wore the colorful reading glasses. He will be missed by so many.
May God bless you.
Trevor Wondra
June 29, 2007
Meribeth,
It hurts to have to send condolences to you and your family because it makes this reality more real. Bernhard was one of a kind. Not only was he the kindest man I have ever met, he was my mentor. He used to call me his protégé. He taught me so much, not only about business but about life. I used to just love to sit and listen to all of his stories, he had so many. You are in my thoughts, and I wish you all possible comfort at this difficult time.
May his humble spirit live on and his soul rest in Peace.
Patty Haigler
June 28, 2007
Meribeth, Mr. & Mrs. Van Brug, I'm so sorry to learn about Bernard. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you at this time. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Christina McConnell
June 28, 2007
I had the absolute pleasure of working with Mr. Aarnink at Wachovia as his Financial Advisor a few years ago. He was such a sweetheart, albeit a feisty one, who always put a smile on my face.
Colleen Coesens
June 28, 2007
Our sincere condolances.
The Allen Tate Rock Hill Team
Pat Williamson
June 28, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Tomasz & Krystyna Kijewski
June 28, 2007
Please accept our sympathies.
Mary Rose
June 27, 2007
To Frauke - my dearest friend - I'm so grateful that I had the opportunity to meet your father. He was a charming, compassionate, engaging individual who made me feel like a friend from the moment I met him. My deepest condolences to you, Meribeth, and your family.
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