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Betty Metzler Obituary
March 25, 1944 - February 12, 2025
Charlotte, North Carolina - With hearts full of love and gratitude, we celebrate the life of BG Metzler, who passed peacefully on Wednesday, February 12, 2025, at the age of 80. A strong woman who loved her family, friends, and community with an uncompromising passion.BG was born in Pittsburgh, grew up in Massachusetts, and moved to Charlotte with her beloved husband, Bob. They shared a beautiful life of sixty years of marriage full of travel and building a strong, loving family. As a mother to Rob, Chris, and Lani, she led with strength, wisdom, and a deep devotion that shaped their lives in immeasurable ways.
BG's role as "Gram" was one she treasured most. She adored her grandchildren-Porter, Peyton, Luke, Jones, Chrisy, Chloe, Pierce, and Dane and her bonus grandchildren - Savannah and Melena Lee, who brought her endless pride and happiness. Whether cheering from the sidelines or shaping her gifts of strength and independence, she filled their lives with love and unforgettable memories.
She also impacted the Charlotte community for over fifty years as a public figure, non-profit leader, and volunteer holding roles such as an NBC Weather Anchor, Director of Marketing for both Discovery Place and Charlotte Center City Partners and serving as a board member for organizations such as Right Moves for Youth and Senior Scholars.
BG is survived by her husband, Bob; her children and their spouses, Rob and Heather, Chris and Jen, and Lani and Marcus; and her ten adoring grandchildren. She will be deeply missed but never forgotten. She will be remembered most for her quick wit and strong determination. She is living in peace with the Lord now.
A celebration of BG's life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, March 8, 2025, at Caldwell Presbyterian Church, 1609 E. 5th Street, Charlotte, NC.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the American Cancer Society, PO Box 6704, Hagerstown, MD 21741.
Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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Yvette Wilson
March 12, 2025
Bob, William and I send our deepest condolences. BG was a kind woman. We will always remember her warmth, smile and strong conviction to her faith, family and friends. She made an impact on so many. We fondly remember her helping us to book our Alaskan Cruise. Thanks to her it was a wonderful trip! BG was a beautiful Soul. We are lifting your family up in prayer.
Nancy Carter
March 4, 2025
BG gave so fully of herself, her insights and talents open to all for the good of the community. Wherever she was she lit up the room and encouraged others. I am so grateful to have known her and will miss her.
Robbi Walls
February 26, 2025
Bob, Scott and I have been missing you both from Caldwell since before the covid. I'm so sorry for not seeing you in such a long time. We always think there is more time. Please feel the love to you in heartfelt prayers.
Robbi and Scott Walls (now in Portugal).
Ken and Bonnie Smith
February 25, 2025
My wife, Bonnie, and I worked with BG at Channel 36 (then WPCQ-TV), me in Creative Services/Production and Bonnie in Administration. BG was great at everything she did. And in front of the weather map, she could turn the cloudiest, stormiest day into sunshine! Her smile and laugh (oh, that laugh!) were always there to greet you, both on and off camera.
To Bob and all the family, we send our condolences. And our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Celebration of Life
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Caldwell Presbyterian Church
1609 E. 5th Street, Charlotte, NC
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