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Brenda Helms Obituary
Brenda Michele
Moore Helms
OAKBORO -- Ms. Helms, 38, of 1229 Glory Court, Oakboro, died April 24, 2004 at Randolph Hospital in Asheboro. She was born March 10, 1966 in Cabarrus County, NC. She was a hair stylist and owner of the MGM Salon in Locust.
The funeral service will be held 2 p.m. Tuesday, April 27, 2004 at Hartsell Funeral Home Chapel-Midland. The Rev. Jeremey Blake will officiate. Burial will be in Oakboro Cemetery, Oakboro, NC. Visitation is 7-9 p.m. Monday at Hartsell Funeral Home-Midland.
The family will meet at the residence, 1229 Glory Court, Oakboro.
Survivors include father, Gary Thomas Moore of Oakboro; mother, Brenda Burris Moore Stiller of Richfield, NC; son, Zachary Blake Helms of Oakboro, NC; daughter, Chassidy Brooke Helms of Oakboro, NC; step-father, Ted Stiller of Richfield, NC; sisters, Regina Moore Bell and husband, Rodney Bell of Richfield, NC and Alicia Dawn Stiller of Richfield, NC; nieces, Rachel and Regan Bell of Richfield, NC.
Hartsell Funeral Home of Midland is serving the family of Ms. Helms.
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Memories and Condolences
for Brenda Helms
Dereck Griffin
April 29, 2004
To Chassidy, Zach, and Family:
My deepest symapthy goes out to all of you, during your time of grief, and pains! Chassidy and Zach, I know ya'll know that I am gonna be here for you, I love both of ya'll with all of my heart, and both of you, as well as all of your family are in my prayers! I just want to also share a memory of Michele! When Chassidy and I were over at their house rehearsing for a talent show, I remember singing a song titled "God Must Have Spent A Little More Time on You", and I dedicated it to Michele, before I sang it, and I remember seeing a big smile on her face, and that just made me so happy, seeing her smile, and she is still loved by me, and will be forever!! From now on when I sing, I will always, know that every song I sing, is through the strength of Michele Helms!! I love you, Chass, and Zach, and I am gonna be here for you, forever and always!! God Bless!
belinda carter
April 28, 2004
DearZach and Chasidy
I am so sorry for your loss.I know
Michelle and I lost touch some what,but when we did speak it was as if we never lost a day.I love her like a sister.and you guys too.
my heart is with you.
Belinda
Rocky and Kathy Swanson
April 27, 2004
Regina and Rodney Bell:
We were very sorry to here about your sisters death. We know you are going to miss her terribly. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Mark & Nancy Poplin
April 27, 2004
Although we did not know Michele, we share in the pain with her sisters. I came across this poem and thought it appropriate. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
To my dearest younger sisters, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon, and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest younger sisters, they will be here later on.
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you.....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years,
because you're only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all what I up here have planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb:
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
VICKIE LAYNE, CHRISTIAN, BLAKE AND BRANDON EDWARDS
April 27, 2004
Our deepest sympathy's go out to the whole family. You are in our prayers.
Amy Sikes
April 27, 2004
My prayers are with you all.
Cindy Haigler
April 26, 2004
We will keep you in our prayers. Walter is unable to come home from the Navy to be at the funeral. He really wanted to be in attendance. He has lots of good memories of Michelle.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Cindy, Roger and Walter, Haigler
Donna Tucker
April 26, 2004
To Chassidy,Zach, & Family: Our prayers and love are with you in these dark hours...May God comfort,strengthen, and protect you. Love, Your friends at Lee Oil Co., Fast Shop, and Buffet Style Pizza
Pamela Payne-Feeney
April 26, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm sorry for you loss.
Diane Cass
April 26, 2004
To the Helms and Stiller Family
I am deeply sadened by your loss. May God put his arm around all of you in this time of grief. God Bless You.
Alan & Linda Burchfield
April 26, 2004
Regina & Rodney
We are sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. Our prayers will be with you and your family.
Alan & Linda
James Edwards
April 26, 2004
To Chasity & zack and family. My Deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers.
Patricia Powlas
April 26, 2004
My God be with all of the family members in this hour of sorrow.
Bert and Marijane Campbell
April 26, 2004
Brenda and Family,
Was so sorry to hear about your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless
BARBARA GAITHER
April 26, 2004
BRENDA,
I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. You will you be in my prayers and my thougths.
Love you Barbara
Diane & Denise Wiseman
April 26, 2004
Deepest sympathy for your loss. Though we lost touch over the years we still have fond memories of our youth when we were good friends. All our prayers and love to your family.
Sincerely,
Diane Wiseman Furr
Denise Wiseman Lewis
Tabatha McLaughlin
April 26, 2004
Michelle was such a sweet person but most of all I'll remember her as a loving and dedicated mother.
larry g culp
April 26, 2004
My son Jeff Culp spoke often of your loved one,his friend. May God bless you and give you peace in you time of grief. Larry g
Susan Eudy
April 26, 2004
To: The Helms' family
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Chassidy and Zach, I am very sorry for your loss.
Betsy Bowen
April 26, 2004
Chastity, Zack & the whole family are in my prayers.
God be with you.
Hope Bowen
April 26, 2004
My deepest sympathy and love to all of you.
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