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Chandler Killian Obituary

Chandler S. Killian
CLOVER -- Chandler Stanton Killian, age 20, died Sunday, October 31, 2010.
Memorial service will be 11:00 a.m. Tuesday, November 2, 2010 at Clover A.R.P. Church with the Rev. Evan English officiating.
Following the service, the family will receive friends at their home, 482 N. Paraham Road, Clover, SC.
Chandler was born May 12, 1990 in Gastonia, NC. He was a 2008 graduate of Clover High School and attended Spartanburg Methodist College and York Tech.
He was preceded in death by his maternal grandmother, Joyce Posey.
Survivors are his parents Dan and Lisa Killian; sister Danielle Killian; paternal grandparents Desmond and Elizabeth Killian; maternal grandparents Bob and Anne Posey; uncle and aunts Jimmy and Robin Killian; Terry Coomer; five cousins; all of Clover, SC and hundreds of great friends.
Memorials may be made to The National Children 1/8s Cancer Society, One South Memorial Drive, Suite 800, St. Louis, MO 63102, or Clover A.R.P. Church Building Fund, 127 Kings Mountain Street, Clover, SC 29710.
Online condolences may be made to www.mlfordsons.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Nov. 2, 2010.

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Greg Smith

November 28, 2010

I remember when you were born... when you were little, you used to call me "Unk." I watched you grow up from a distance... Not because I wanted to, but because I was ashamed of what I had become. Wish I could have told you that. I'm sure you'll keep Maw-Maw company until the rest of us can get there. Love you, man.

The Wood Family Bonnie,Billy,Kendall,Reagan, Tyler

November 15, 2010

Killian Family~ Our deepest sympathy is with you at this diffcult time. Please be uplifted by the support and love sent your way by your friends and members of our great community. Peace and love to you all,

Debbie Grigg Chestnutt

November 12, 2010

The family of Chandler Killian and the friends of Chandler Killian are in our thoughts and prayers.

November 11, 2010

Dan, Lisa and Family,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God's love strengthen and comfort you!!
Wendy and Wendell Wright

Rankin Smith Holloway

November 8, 2010

Dan, Lisa, Danielle and family,
I am so very sorry and sad to hear of your loss. I know that words can not really be of much comfort at this time of grief but please know that I am praying that the Lord will carry and give each of you all that you need to make it through one day at a time. May the love and prayers of those who surround you lift you up and provide support as well.

Brett Henkel

November 6, 2010

Dan & Lisa,
I was so sorry to hear about what has happened. I hope you know we are thinking of you and praying for you in this difficult time. All of our thoughts are with you and your family and I wish you peace in this difficult time.

Phyllis Williams

November 6, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Larry Venezia

November 6, 2010

Dan, Lisa, & Danielle,
We are deeply saddened by Chandler's passing. We pray for your comfort during this very difficult time.
Larry, Traci, Chaztin, & Melia

Vanessa & Wally Henkel

November 5, 2010

Dan & Lisa, I was so saddened to hear about your loss. Know that the Lord will see you through and know that we love you. Take care of each other and our prayers and love are with you. I pray God will give you peace at some moment in time. Our children are the best and we grieve with you. All our love and blessings.

Cliffie (Boyd) Pilon

November 4, 2010

Dan, I really don't know what to say at this time. I know that your heart is breaking and my prayer is that you and your family will be comforted with all the good memories of your handsome son. Take care of each other and God Bless You!

Brooke Bartol-Trout

November 4, 2010

Dan and Lisa,
I was so sad to hear of your loss. William and I are thinking of you all and praying for God's grace to lift you up and keep you in your time of greeving.
There is nothing more precious than our children. Our prayers are with you! Much Love and Sympathy.

judith thomas

November 4, 2010

Words seem small at such a time. Mark and I stand with you in prayer and are here for you if there is any way we can help you, now or in the future days. I know God's grace and comfort can condescend to our deepest level of need. He knows your pain and loves you. Mark and Judith Thomas

Vicki Kale Giles

November 4, 2010

Dan and Lisa,
The are no words to express my sadness for you both. Only God can comfort and give you peace, beyond understanding.
My thoughts and prayers are with you!!!
The last time I ran into Chandler he ask me if I was the lady that use to drive his Dad's school bus!!! Like Father, Like Son!!! What a precious young man!!!!

Bubba and Patty Farris

November 4, 2010

We would like for you to know how sorry and sad we are for you in your loss. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers and we pray God can give you comfort.

Terry ( Satch ) Culbertson

November 3, 2010

Dan, just letting you know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless and be with you in this time of sorrow.

Amy Grindle

November 3, 2010

I pray God will give you comfort and guidance threw this difficult time.

Laurie Bailey

November 3, 2010

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. My son Greg Carrico was a friend of Danielle & Lee, he now lives in West Va, he wants Danielle to know how sorry he is about Chandlers death.
Mike and Laurie Bailey

Thinking of you...

Nellie Sturgill

November 3, 2010

Dan and family, We sure are sorry for your very sad news. So sad. May your good memories be with you. Nellie (Stewart) Sturgill...Clover Class of '72.

Sue McGilberry

November 3, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dennis L. Hart

November 3, 2010

to the killian family, especially dan, may god bless each of you during this difficult time, my family has you in our prayers, and may god continue to comfort each of you,

Kyle and Bobbie Robinson

November 3, 2010

Dan and Lisa ,We are praying for you both and the rest of the family. God is stronger and mighter than any other and can get you through this difficult time.
Kyle and Bobbie Robinson - Greenville, NC

Cathy Miskelly

November 3, 2010

Mr and Mrs Killian,
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family in your time of loss and sorrow.
I don't know your family but I remeber Dan during a point in time that you worked at Dunlap Johnson Chevrolet with my mother, Betty Miskelly. You and your family are in my prayers and will remain there for some time to come.

November 3, 2010

Dan, Lisa and Danielle - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzan Palmer (Hanna's Mom)
Lake Wylie SC

Martha Draffin

November 3, 2010

I have some of my best memories in life, remembering all the crazy and exciting things that me, chandler, lee, casey, and Danielle got into. I miss all of you so much and if i wasnt in the hospital right now i would be there to give you all a big hug. I want all of you to know that im always here to talk and will always listen. I love you all so dearly and you are so close to my heart. Keep those beautiful smiles that i always look at in the pictures and i love you. Martha Draffin

Nancy (Boyd) Sullivan

November 3, 2010

Dan, Lisa, and the entire Killian Family,
I want you to know that you are ALL in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.....Love to you all

Jennifer Wainscott

November 3, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with the Killian family. I can remember Chandler's big smile that he always had on his face the whole way back to his 8th grade year when I had him in class-he was such a great kid and a great friend to his pals.

Shirley Neal Smith

November 3, 2010

Dan,Lisa and Killian Family,
My sincere love and prayers are extended
to you in this time of sorrow. Just keep
God close to your heart.

November 3, 2010

You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lisa & Tom Jackson

Patty Davis

November 3, 2010

I'm sorry to hear of your loss! Although I never met him, my daughter, Ashley, spoke of him often while they were at SMC. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Mike Barnett

November 3, 2010

Dan,Lisa and the rest of the Killan Family.
Kelly and My prayers go out to each and every one. God Bless.

Betty Jo Campbell

November 3, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Chandler. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Killian family at this time of sorrow. May God Bless you'll and find comfort in each other.

Betty Jo, Ashley & Whitney Campbell

Connie Hubbard

November 3, 2010

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Nicole (Hale) Strain

November 3, 2010

Dan, Lisa, Danielle, and the entire Killian Family- Words cannot express the loss that you are having to go through. I am so sorry that Chandler was called home so early. He was such a great guy and every time I saw him he had a smile on his face. That's what I will remember most about him. I will miss seeing him at the station. I watched him grow up seeing him there. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Clover will never be the same without Chandler. Please let me know if you need anything..anything at all.

Barbara Ann Whistine

November 3, 2010

Dear Lisa and Family, MY heart is so heavy for you and the family in the loss of your beloved son. I want you to know that I love you and I am praying for you and your family.You know I use to baby sit you when you was a little girl and you have always been special to me! Wishing you Peace to bring you comfort, Courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to hold in your heart forever of Chandler! You all have my deepest sympathy and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.Love You Barbara Ann

Denise (Smith) Gritter

November 2, 2010

The entire Killian family have been a cornerstone of family unity in Clover for many decades. This horrible loss of Chandler breaks my heart, along with every parent. Your emotions of heartbreak, emptiness and anger will be hell. Whenever your at the point when it's unbearable, crack the door open a little wider and let God ease your pain and give you some direction.
Chandler, may your beautiful spirit be at peace.

Raina Jones

November 2, 2010

We have saddened and heavy hearts during this time of sadness with your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy and prayers in this, your time of need.


Angelo, Liane and Corinn Della-Posta,
and Raina, Arianna and Logan Jones

November 2, 2010

We will be thinking and praying for all of you. Justin and Tara Clark

Kimberly Teague

November 2, 2010

I love you Bam, & I'm gonna miss you. Watch over us down here in good ole South Carolina. We all love you. Take care! & Rest in Peace.

Debbie Boyd

November 2, 2010

May happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time. You're in our thoughts, our hearts, and our prayers.
Debbie and Judy Meek

Rosemary and Mike Rozsak

November 2, 2010

No words can ease the pain you are feeling in this time of sorrow. Our hearts hurt for your family, we pray God's comforting, loving arms around you. Keep strong, God Bless You.

Monica Roveri

November 2, 2010

All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss & will do anything for you.

Joni ( Beamguard) Jackson

November 2, 2010

Dan and Lisa just wanted you to know my heart hurts deeply for the two of you and praying that God's grace and love will surround you during this painful time and that you will somehow find strength and comfort in His arms.
With much love and constant prayer,
Joni

Penny McClure

November 2, 2010

Lisa and Dan, we are heartbroken for you. You are suffering every parent's worst fear. I know your strong faith in God and love for your family will sustain you. Cherish all the happy memories. I want to come see you soon. Penny, Charles, and Strat McClure

Margureite Cobb

November 2, 2010

Praying that God will keep and strenghten you all during this time of sorrow

Ken Jones

November 2, 2010

Dan, Lisa and Danielle our prayers go out for you. Jesus will get you through this..just trust him.

Ken and Ginny Jones

Paula, Randy, Sidney Cates

November 2, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Sherri Sparrow

November 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Chandler was a great kid and I loved to see him and that big ole smile. He will be sorely missed.
Sherri, Danny, Justin & Sawyer Sparrow

Brandy Bumgardner

November 2, 2010

Killian Family,
I am praying for you all during this difficult time and praying God love on you and give you what you need as only He can.
Love, Brandy West Bumgardner

Brenda Rainey-Pegram

November 2, 2010

Dear Dan and Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of sorrow. May God bless and keep you all in his care.

November 2, 2010

Dan,Lisa & Danielle, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in
this time. Ness Family

Sherer Family,

November 2, 2010

Dear Killian Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. My son Joshua Sherer was a friend to Chandler and member of 2008 graduating class. You will be in our prayers.

November 2, 2010

Dan, Lisa and Family,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Steve, Cherry, Bailey & Clint Armstrong

Derrick,Heather, & Wesley Cope

November 2, 2010

Dan,Lisa,Danielle, and all of the Killian family, We are heartbroken for your loss. Our family is praying for your family, hold on to Jesus and he will give you peace, Love you all

Pat/Annie/Garrett Erven

November 2, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with all your family. May GOD Bless you and your family. Keep strong your faith and family and friends will comfort you.

Darold & Saundra Trader

November 2, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kimberly Martin

November 2, 2010

Killian family, I'm so sorry for your loss of Chandler. He was such a good guy and could make anyone laugh! Praying for you all during this tragic time. Our God is SO good and will carry you through this!

Ted & Lisa Cole

November 2, 2010

Our prayers are with you all. May you find comfort through our Lord Jesus Christ. Ted and Lisa Cole, Clover, SC

Hugh & Nancy Dobbins

November 2, 2010

Our prayers and condolences go out to the entire Killian Family.

Anne Weeks

November 2, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Ann Gardner

November 2, 2010

"My thoughts and prayers are with the Killian Family. May God Bless you and you find comfort in each other."

Greg & Leah Moore

November 2, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. May God hold you close and comfort each of you through this difficult time.

Cathy Britt-Glaser

November 2, 2010

Dan, Lisa, Danielle: unfortunately there is nothing I can say or do to help ease your pain. My heart goes out to you all and I pray that you find your own way to get through this tragedy - be strong and I feel sure something good will come from tragedy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Shawn Judd

November 2, 2010

Our prayers are with in this terrible time. Lean on God and he will carry you through.

Faith Shirley

November 2, 2010

Lisa and Dan and family you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Donna Graham

November 2, 2010

Chandler was an amazing and fine young man. He was such a good friend to Matthew. He'll be in our hearts forever. God be with you and bless you.

John & Carol Watson

November 2, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. No words can ease the pain - only time, great memories, and love and support from family and friends. You are in our prayers.

Bill , Dianne Sams

November 2, 2010

you all are in our thoughts and prayers.may God give you the comfort that you need at this time.

Ashley Walker

November 2, 2010

My thoughts and prays are with you in this time of sorrow. I am so sorry for you loss.

Rocky & Connie Miller

November 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you all during this heartbreaking time.

Lisa Beagles

November 2, 2010

Our deepest sympathies to each of you. You are in our prayers.

Dean Welch

November 2, 2010

So sorry for your loss! May God hold you, comfort you and heal you in His time! Many prayers are being said for your family at this dark time in your lives. God bless you all, Josh, Dean, James and Lanie Welch

Gayle Hicks Moses

November 2, 2010

May God hold your hand during this tragic time. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. God be with you.

Kay & Tony Owens

November 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Remember he is always with us.

Oren Lackey

November 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

November 2, 2010

All of you are in our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Kim and Brittany Bowman
Glenn Jones
Shane Bowman and Kacy Judd

Ernest Benfield

November 2, 2010

My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to Dan, Lisa, Jimmy, Cooter and all the Killians during this sad and trying time. May God's love and guidance help you through this.

Janet Timmons Price

November 2, 2010

Lisa and Dan...you and your family are in our prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. May God hold you in His arms through your time of sorrow.

STACY ONeil

November 2, 2010

our thoughts and prayers are with you during this hard time. we are so sorry for your loss please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. lots of love THE ONEILS

Keith Deal

November 1, 2010

May God Bless you all and Keep you in your time of sorrow and May he grant you peace in the days to follow. We will be praying for you all. In Christ Love,
Keith and Robin Deal Gastonia NC

Erica Munn

November 1, 2010

Thoughts and prayers are with the Killian Family...

Bill & Kathy Stallings

November 1, 2010

Ours thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this terrible loss
May God be with you and your family. Love you lots

Sue Shepherd

November 1, 2010

Dear Killian Family,

I am so, so sorry for your loss. My daughter Sarah was a member of Chandler's 2008 graduating class. You will be in my prayers.

Rene Falls McCurry

November 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 1, 2010

our hearts go out for such a great guy,,God be with your family as they deal with such as a loss of a child,,Remember God always has a plan,God bless each of you , Ronnie and Robin Rose

November 1, 2010

"Chandler was fine young man that we will miss so much- especially the big smiles that he always had. We remember all the intense games of 4 square between Chandler, Lee, Justin and Trey! We are praying for your family."
Love, Cecil, Lisa, Trey and Justin Faile
Boiling Springs, NC

Tammy Lewis

November 1, 2010

You fly with the angels now but part of you will always be with us...RIP Chandler Killian

Kristin Freeman

November 1, 2010

In loving memory of a great, amazing, and funny guy. He is very much so loved and will never be forgotten.

Austin & Janine Huneycutt

November 1, 2010

Our prayers are with you and your family, we are so very sorry for your loss.

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