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Cheryl Lindstrom Obituary

Cheryl
Elise Iley Lindstrom
Mrs. Lindstrom, 47, of Alpharetta, Georgia, formerly of Charlotte, North Carolina, went home to be with her Lord on March 17, 2005, after a courageous battle with lung cancer. Cheryl was born on September 14, 1957, in Charlotte, the daughter of Bryce Baxter Iley and Martha Strawn Iley. She taught music in Atlanta before entering a long-time career in real estate with Coldwell Banker United Realtors. She was a member of Perimeter Presbyterian Church in Duluth, Georgia, and belonged to several professional and social organizations.
Cheryl will be remembered as a devoted wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt, church servant, volunteer, and treasured friend. Many people were touched by her kindness and service to those in need, and by the fortitude and grace she demonstrated during her fifteen month illness. Since childhood, she has loved the Lord and practiced her faith.
Music was always an important part of Cheryl's life. In the Iley household there was much singing and playing of instruments. At an early age she realized the gift of perfect pitch, Piano teachers included her mother, Harold Nave and Paul Tardiff at East Carolina University. Her violin teacher was Mary Jane Kirkendol. She sang in childrens' choirs at Providence Baptist Church, in choral groups at East Mecklenburg High School (directed by the late Mary Nell Saunders), and in the Rotary Choir of Wildacres Music Camp (directed by the late Harvey Woodruff), which trained at Westminster Choir College and toured Europe in 1974.
After attending St. Andrews Presbyterian College for two years, she completed her major in music, graduating from East Carolina University, and also doing graduate work there in music education.
Cheryl is survived by her daughter, Hailey Elise Lindstrom, and husband, Clark Prentiss Lindstrom, and step children, Reid Lindstrom and Erin Lindstrom, all of Alpharetta, GA. In addition to her parents, she is also survived by mother-in-law Jean Lindstrom of Alpharetta and brother-in-law James Lindstrom (Janet) of Snellville, GA and three sisters, Deborah I. Hodde (Richard) of Charlotte, Sheila I. McLean (David) of Cary, NC, and Stephanie I. Salb (Daniel) of Buford, GA.
Also surviving are Cheryl's nieces, Sharon Hodde, Kristen McLean, Carmen Salb, Charlotte Salb, Elizabeth Lindstrom and great-niece Lily McLean, and nephews Stephen Hodde, Joshua McLean (Tara), Jeremy McLean (Kendra), Alexander Salb, Joshua Lindstrom, and Zachary Lindstrom. Other surviving family members are her aunts, Maxine I. Matthews, Stoneville, NC, Bernice I. Roe, Decatur, GA, Alma I. Morris (Noel), Concord, NC, Grace I. Small, Harrisburg, NC, Helen Elise S. Purdy, Gonzalas, LA, Joy S. Barbee (Avery), Concord, NC, and uncle, Stephen Hasty Strawn (Norma), Davidson, NC, and great-aunts Essie C. Faircloth, Salemburg, NC, Avis S. Shaw and Alease Strawn, Monroe, NC and Dessie Strawn, Kannapolis, NC and many cousins.
A memorial service of worship celebrating Cheryl's life will be held on Saturday, March 26, 2005 at 1:00PM at Providence Baptist Church, 4921 Randolph Road, Charlotte, with Dr. Alton Cadenhead officiating. A service was held on March 21, 2005 at Perimeter Presbyterian Church with interment at Peachtree Memorial Park, Norcross, GA.
The family would like to thank those whose devoted outpouring of love and support during this time was such a comfort to Cheryl and her loved ones.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be sent in Cheryl's name to: Key Life Network, 539 Versailles Drive, Maitland, Florida 32751 or to: Metropolitan Music Ministries, PO Box 221231, Charlotte, NC 28222.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Mar. 24 to Mar. 25, 2005.

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Susan (Crothers) Moore

March 24, 2005

Cheryl was my "best friend" in preschool at Myers Park Methodist Church a LONG time ago. I remember her curly hair and how much fun we had playing hide and seek in her sisters' bedroom. I'm sorry I did not know her as an adult. She must have been an incredibly beautiful Godly woman, who I know would have been a

"best friend"! My condolences to her family.

Tracy Walkup

March 24, 2005

From the first day I met Cheryl, I admired her charm, passion and love for Prentiss. I attended their wedding, celebrated the birth of their daughter and learned to love them both. I am lucky to have known Cheryl and am a better person as a result of our friendship.

Matt Knox

March 24, 2005

I want to express my sympathy to Cheryl's family. Cheryl was a true gift to our world.

Shirley Whitt

March 24, 2005

God needed her "Perfect Pitch" in heaven.



Our thoughts, hearts and prayers are with the family.

Gloria and Joel Thompson

March 20, 2005

We send our condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. May you experience the comfort of God's love today and in the weeks to follow.

Andrea Coogler

March 19, 2005

It is true, that if love could have saved you that you would have lived forever.



We take comfort in knowing that God has made you whole and pain free. We know that one day you will welcome into His kingdom with open arms as this is not "good-bye" but "see you later".



I feel so blessed to know and love so many in your family and I carry their burden or their sorrow in my heart. I know you carry with you knowing that your precious daughter and loving husband will be cared for by your family.



You will not ever be forgotten, sweet Cheryl. You will be forever loved by all that knew you.

Stephanie Salb

March 19, 2005

Cheryl was the third oldest daughter in our family of four girls. She was absolutely adored by her younger sister. We cannot imagine life without her. There were three things we always had in abundance in our house growing up and in the years afterwards: joy, laughter and music. We know that Cheryl has all those things in greater abundance in her new Home with the Lord. Cheryl fought a courageous fight against cancer. In the end, it took her wonderful earthly life from us much too soon, but it was could not abolish love or eternal life.



If love could have saved you, Cheryl, you would have lived forever.



We have no doubt we will be together again one day.



Much Love,

Stephanie and Daniel Salb

Carmen, Alexander and Charlotte

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