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Daniel Jonathan Stowe
Daniel Jonathan Stowe, of Charlotte, died Monday, July 24, 2006 at his residence. He was born the youngest child of Nellie Lee Rhyne Stowe and Robert Lee Stowe on May 23, 1913 in Belmont, NC. His siblings included a sister, Lillian Rhyne Stowe, who died before his birth, brother, Robert Lee Stowe, Jr., and sister, Ellen Catherine Stowe Pharr. He was the last surviving member of this family. Mr. Stowe married Alene Nobles on August 16, 1983. His extended family includes three nephews, Robert Lee Stowe III, Daniel Harding Stowe and Richmond Harding Stowe, one niece, Catherine Ann Pharr Carstarphen, one stepdaughter, Sheryl Buck Boone, one stepson, Stephen Thomas Buck, thirteen grand nieces and nephews, three step granddaughters, and one step grandson. He was preceded in death by a nephew, William James Pharr, Jr.
Dan was a lifelong member of First Presbyterian Church in Belmont and served on the building committee for the present church building.
Mr. Stowe graduated from Belmont Abbey Junior College in 1932 and Davidson College in 1935. In 1936, he began work with his father and brother in the yarn business.
Dan Stowe enlisted in the Navy in 1942. He commanded a patrol boat based in Jacksonville, Florida and later was promoted to Naval Operations in Charleston, South Carolina and Washington, D.C.
In May of 1939, he pursued a new opportunity in partnership with his father, Robert Lee Stowe, and his brother-in-law, William James Pharr. The Depression, river floods and neglect left the former McAden Mills in McAdenville closed and bankrupt. These new partners renamed the company Stowe Mills and went about building one of North Carolina's largest and most successful companies. Continuing to grow and pursuing new opportunities with synthetic yarns, Pharr Yarns, Inc. was created in 1950. Dan Stowe retired after 51 years at the age of 77.
Following retirement, his primary focus was the creation of the Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden. He took an active interest in the master plan and the organizational work that made the garden a reality. He was assisted in this by his wife, Alene, William L. Steele, who became the first Executive Director and others such as Ann Crammond, Director of the Atlanta Botanical Garden and William Lee, Chairman of Duke Power Company. Mr. Stowe donated the prime land where the Garden is situated. He also has given generously to provide the financial support necessary to build a major garden.
It is a fitting final accomplishment for Dan Stowe. His family has a background in farming in Gaston County. His father was born on a farm in the South Point area and although he later became a textile manufacturer, he taught Dan to have an appreciation for nature and the land. Dan and his wife, Alene, have been enthusiastic gardeners and he has carefully nurtured his own farm, Seven Oaks, which he has owned since the 1940's. Finally, his great love of Gaston County is reflected in this lasting gift. Dan could have lived anywhere in the world, but his heart and home have always been in Gaston County.
Dan Stowe was the recipient of numerous awards including an honorary doctorate from Belmont Abbey College in 1994, the Order of the Longleaf Pine, and The Sims Award.
The family will receive friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Wednesday, July 26, 2006 at the Robert Lee Stowe Visitor Pavilion, 6500 South New Hope Rd., Belmont, NC 28012. Funeral services will be private.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to the Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, 6500 South New Hope Rd., Belmont, NC 28012 or to First Presbyterian Church, P.O. Box 1, Belmont, NC 28012.
Harry and Bryant Company is serving the family of Mr. Stowe.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jul. 26, 2006.

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michelle byers

July 30, 2006

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Christy Lipe, CNA

July 29, 2006

It was a pleasure to work for Mr. Stowe. He was the most generous man I knew, as well as Mrs. Stowe. Always offering us ice cream, and breakfast, and anything else to make us comfortable and welcome in their home. Both very dear people that have left footprints on my heart forever. I will remember his humor, and how he loved Gentleman Jack. The time I worked for you will be forever in my heart. May God bless and keep you.

Ashley Garner

July 28, 2006

It was a true pleasure to have met Mr. Stowe while helping with "By Waters of the South Fork" and the book on DSBG. His gracious manners, humility, wonderful sense of humor, and gleeful laugh at jokes and stories made a lasting impression on me. He truly was a gentleman. I know Mr. Stowe will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered, not only by his family and friends, but in his community as well.



Alene, your family is my prayers during this difficult time. May the Lord comfort you with His peace. (Psalm 34:18, Revelation 21:4)



With deep sympathy,

Rocky & Kathleen Jordan

July 27, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Alene Stowe

July 27, 2006

I would like to thank each of you for your kind words and prayers for my husband Dan and me. It is comforting to know that so many people took time to sign this guest book. I will cherish your words of comfort for many years.

It is also with great appreciation that I thank everyone who has lovingly and devotedly assisted in caring for my husband over the past several years.

May God Bless You!

Janet Bothel

July 26, 2006

When I moved to North Carolina in 1995, I found that one of the best ways to get to know my new home was through gardening. I found Gaston County Master Gardeners and through them I was able to get on my hands and knees and feel the good earth of Daniel B. Stowe's gift to the world. Mr. Stowe will live on through all he has left behind because he followed his dreams and his convictions and made a difference. Thank you, Mr. Stowe.

Wendy Smart

July 26, 2006

It has been a true honor and a privilege to have taken care of Mr. Stowe these past few years.I will remember him always. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of grief.

Jennifer Lowery-Gibson

July 26, 2006

My sympathy and heart goes out to the Stowe family. I am thankful to have the pleasure of taking care of Mr. Stowe. I will miss him dearly. To Mrs. Stowe thank you for all the laughs,talks, and for always taking care of us. It was a pleasure for me to be a part of his care.

Patti Ragland

July 25, 2006

I had the privilege of calling Mr. Stowe a friend. Although I have not seen him in a while, I will miss him terribly. He had a wonderful sense of humor and was truly a great southern gentleman. My love and prayers are with his beloved Alene and his nephews, Robert Lee, Harding and Richmon and their families. God just received a beautiful angel.

Brent & Pam McDowell

July 25, 2006

We had the wonderful privilege of knowing Mr. Stowe and calling the Plantation House, home for 18 years. It was a tremedous experience we will remember always. From replanting the Seven Oak Trees, to rustling up the peacocks and feeding the horses, it was always an adventure. We're pleased to have been a small part of it for many years.



Belmont will miss Mr. Stowe, Gaston County will miss Mr. Stowe but most of all we will miss Mr. Stowe.

MaryCharles Nash

July 25, 2006

While I never met Mr. Stowe, I worked on "By the Waters of the South Fork" and several other book projects for him — after working with his words and photographs I feel like I knew him. He has left a remarkable legacy in the Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden.

Debi Gamble

July 25, 2006

I had the pleasure of providing care for Mr Stowe at Presbyterian Hospital. He was an amazing man. Even durning his suffering he kept his sense of humor. He was a blessed man thur his loving wife and family. Debi Gamble RN

Donnie Loftis

July 25, 2006

Even though I am currently in Iraq at the present, I could sure use some green gardens here. Gaston Conty has lost a true friend to the community. He gave us culture and expanded our knowledge. He provided us a place to have events, bring families and community together and to give us outstanding beauty from nature.

Robin and Chris McKinney

July 25, 2006

My husband and I were married at the gardens last year. It is truely an amazing facility he has created for Belmont to have and also others to enjoy. Though I never met Daniel Stowe myself, I feel he has left such an amazing legacy for those to cherrish and also to mirror after. Such a kind and generous man. God Bless Daniel and his family.

Don King

July 25, 2006

Though I had heard his name and, in a distant way, had heard of his philantropy, it is my loss that I never knew Mr. Stowe, who must have been a gentleman in the best sense of the word. I am happy that his family and friends had the privilege of having him in their lives. Our world needs role models. He was, and remains, a man who showed us all how to be the best we can be.

Mitchell Moore, City Manager

July 25, 2006

Mr. Dan Stowe was a true gentleman, thoughtful and caring. His vision for the Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden will be enjoyed for generations to come not only for the people of North Carolina but also for the people of the world. I count my attendance at the opening of the Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden as one of the highlights of my professional career. I always found Dan Stowe to be a very gracious person regardless of your station in life. I count it a privilege to have known Dan Stowe and the Stowe family. I send my deepest smpathy and will keep all the family in my thoughts and prayers.

Rhonda Stroupe

July 25, 2006

Although I never knew Mr. Stowe personally, a good friend of mine cared for him and she always spoke highly of him and his wonderful family. I am sorry for your loss.

Douglas R Harris

July 25, 2006

You have given our city,state and country such lovely gifts,you will always be remembered for your kindness.

karen blount

July 25, 2006

The Stowe gardens are so Southern, as if our backyard gardens were expanded and given fancy watering. Even more, the incredible future design will rival any of the East Coast luminaries. We are so sorry the founder has passed.

Teresa Dye

July 25, 2006

Daniel Stowe has played a vital role in many of our families lives. My husband's Aunt and Uncle ran his beautiful 1200 acre Seven Oaks farm for over 50 years. Even after Uncle Irvin passed, Aunt Corie was taken care of graciously.

When our daughter Amanda was in high school and was being honored in Washington, Mr. Stowe financially aided her trip and sent a wonderful letter of encouragement. When she graduated years later, again they remembered her with a gift. Over and over again, these thoughtful gestures awarded him faithful and caring people honored to work for and with him.



We will truly miss his presence and his great vision for Gaston County.



It is amazing how one man could touch so many lives in such a positive way.



God Bless his family, and our prayers are with you.



With Sympathy,

Forrest and Teresa Dye

Charlotte, NC

Roger & Donna Hudson

July 25, 2006

Our prayers and sympathies to the Stowe family. God bless.

David Reed

July 25, 2006

Daniel Stowe is a model for today's billionaire elite. His wealth is leaving a fantastic legacy that will be enjoyed by visitors for the next 100 years and beyond. Thank you, Mr. Stowe.

DAVID BALL

July 25, 2006

I WAS A PAST POST MASTER IN BELMONT, AND SAW FIRST HAND ALL THE GOOD THINGS THAT MR. STOWE DID

FOR THE COMMUNITY. MY CONDOLENCES

TO THE FAMILY

Jennifer Kirby

July 24, 2006

I'm a Belmont native and had a beautiful wedding at DSBG, and just wanted to say how much I appreciate what Mr. Stowe has done for Belmont. May he rest in peace.

Jennifer Hartleb RN

July 24, 2006

It has truly been such a priveledge and an honor to have helped take care of Mr. Stowe over the past three years. I have many wonderful memories of his hearty laugh and his loving nature. He was such a caring person, always concerned whether we ate or if we were tired. He loved to joke with us and make us laugh. I will miss him greatly.



Mrs. Stowe and the entire family, thank you for being so wonderful to me over the past few years.



Mr. Stowe, I love you dearly, rest in peace.

Matt Smith

July 24, 2006

My wife and I were married at your gardens and want to say thank you for leaving such a beautiful place for so many to remember you by.You will truly be missed

Mike Bush

July 24, 2006

A true visionary, in the late 1980's Dan Stowe realized he had enough wealth and choose to give his much-beloved land at Seven Oaks, "Between the Rivers" and millions of dollars of support to the community, transforming his lakeside farm into nationally-know botanical garden.



Given the opportunity to work at Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden in 1993, then to lead the garden until last October, I will always be grateful to Dan and the Stowe family for trusting in me.



I am proud to have known Dan Stowe. The World is a better place because of his love of Carolina soil and Carolinians.

Nancy Bragg

July 24, 2006

RIP Mr. Stowe

Max Jolly

July 24, 2006

Mr. Stowe and his family demonstrated great love of family and community. My wife, Joyce Jolly, worked for Mrs. Catherine Pharr for many years and was treated so nice by all members of not only the Pharr family but also Mr. Stowe and his family. I realize that this is a trying time for all that loved him but surely Mr. Stowe is now resting in the loving arms of God. God bless you and keep you through these trying times.

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