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Ella McMillan Obituary

Ella May Kerbow McMillan CHARLOTTE - Ella May Kerbow McMillan of Charlotte, NC, passed away peacefully on September 8, 2015, surrounded by her loving family. Born in Ladonia, Texas, on November 15, 1922, Ella was the daughter of the late Susie May Bennett and Robert Allen Kerbow. She attended Cooper High School and East Texas State University, where she lettered in tennis and softball. Her love of sports continued throughout her life, and she played tennis into her 70's as a member of Charlotte Indoor Tennis Club. Ella loved bridge and was a member of several bridge clubs, one for 40 years. She was a talented seamstress, always keeping her children and grandchildren dressed exquisitely and bringing great delight to those who witnessed her creations. Ella will be remembered for her fierce and steadfast love of family and her mental strength and clarity that remained long after her health declined. Her greatest joy was in caring for her children and grandchildren. She was a devout member of St. Ann Catholic Church for 58 years. She treasured her friendships forged there and in her neighborhood. A former president of Charlotte Executive Secretaries, Ella worked for Standard Trucking Company for 40 years. She was preceded in death by: her husband of 57 years, Albert Porter McMillan; her granddaughter, Claire McMillan Horton; and her siblings, Francis Delores Kerbow; David Mansel Kerbow; Bennett Allen Kerbow; and Mattie Marie Kerbow Bartley. She is survived by her brother, Odis Doyce Kerbow of Houston, Texas; daughter, Mary McMillan Horton (Tom); sons, Ralph Reiss McMillan (Sally); and George Kerbow McMillan (Shelley); and granddaughters, Sara Porter McMillan, Dorothy McMillan Ryan (Paul), and Eleanor May McMillan. The family would like to thank Shelley McMillan for her loving and devoted care during Ella's illnesses over the years. In addition, they extend gratitude to Cathay Davis for her loyal companionship and care, as well as Drs. Scott Lindblom, Erika Bono, Richard Zollinger, and the staff of CHS Pineville. Her family will receive friends Sunday, September 13, 2015, from 6-8 p.m. at the home of Sally and Ralph McMillan. Her family will also receive friends in the church narthex one hour prior to her service to celebrate Ella's life at 11:30 a.m. on Monday, September 14, 2015, at St. Ann Catholic Church, 3635 Park Road, Charlotte, followed by interment at Sharon Memorial Park . In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to St. Ann Catholic Church or to donor's choice. Online condolences may be offered at www.mcewenpinevillechapel.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Sep. 11 to Sep. 13, 2015.

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Patti Sims

October 12, 2015

Dear Mary,Ralph and George, I just heard about the sad news of your mom's passing and would like to express my deepest sympathy to all of you.Ella was a truly wonderful lady ,gracious in every way and know she is now in Heaven with all our loved ones. God Bless you all and please know you will be in my prayers.

Augustina Rosenbaum

September 18, 2015

Dear Mary, Ralph, and George: I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. When my mother was alive and in her senior years, she would tell me to always remember the family memories because they can never be taken away. I pray for all of you.
With love, Augustina rosenbaum

Hank Federal

September 14, 2015

Mary, Ralph and George,
I was so sorry to hear about your mother. I remember her well and always thought that she was a very kind person. I know that she will be missed.
Hank and Jan Federal

Barry & bridget Brush

September 13, 2015

So very sorry to hear of your sweet mother's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Judy Bistany

September 13, 2015

thinking of you all with love and joy for the life she lived.......such a beautiful woman in so many ways ........with love Judy Bistany

Herbert (H.C.) Peek

September 13, 2015

Ralph, Mary, and George,

I was sorry to hear of your mother's passing. My mother alerted me to it. She sends her condolences, also. We will be thinking of you in your time of loss.

Bill Schworm

September 12, 2015

Dear Mary, Ralph, and George,

All our condolences for your loss. We remember Mrs McMillan - as we called her as children growing up in the neighbourhood - as such a nice and cheerful person who always had a kind word for others.

All our best wishes and sympathies in this difficult time.

Bob, Bill, Martha and Anne Schworm

Betsy Carnighan

September 12, 2015

Mary, I just mailed a card to you this morning, not realizing your mom passed away. Had you on my mind and in my heart this week. Will continue to pray for you, with the loss of your mom. May the Lord comfort you. Love, Betsy C-

Mary Jo Marus Belk

September 12, 2015

McMillan family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. It has been way to many years since any of the Marus family has seen any of you, but the wonderful memories are still in our hearts. You are all in my prayers.

Maryellen, John & Elizabeth Elliott

September 12, 2015

Matthew 5:4
Blessed ARE they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.
May God receive Ella into her new life & give you all strength as you remember your time together. We pray for your peace & send you our condolences with love.

Nel Hill

September 12, 2015

Ralph, Mary, and George,
Though the separation is difficult, it's nice to know it is only temporary. What a wonderful life she had and what a fabulous celebration in Heaven. Love to each.

LuAnn Chaney

September 11, 2015

Ralph, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Losing loved ones is one of life's most difficult times. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Mike Carle

September 11, 2015

Regret to learn of your Mother's passing, Ralph.

Deneen Duren

September 11, 2015

Ralph, My heart is heavy for you and your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Donna Anderson

September 11, 2015

Ralph,
My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family during this time. The passing of our Mother's is always difficult. I remember, as a young girl, thinking how pretty your Mother was whenever I saw her. All of you will be in my prayers.

September 11, 2015

Mary, I was so saddened to see your mother's death in today's paper. I kept thinking that I would send a note telling her how much I had enjoyed dinner and visiting with you both. I'm very sorry for your lose.

Nancy Cornelius McCauley

Hilka Klinkenberg

September 11, 2015

Mary, I'm so sorry to learn that you lost your mother. My heart goes out to you and your entire family. Sending you hugs and healing prayers, Hilka

Peter Thevaos

September 11, 2015

Ralph and the McMillian Family, my sincerest sympathies for your loss. After eight years since losing my mom, the sadness has dissipated a bit but I still miss her everyday. May your mom's memory be eternal and may God Rest Her Soul. I also pray God will grant a long, healthy and prosperous life to those loved ones she leaves behind.

Paul Berardi

September 11, 2015

Ralph, my thoughts and prayers are with you, your Mom and family. Mothers are the ones that teach us Love and own our hearts throughout our lives and are never gone from there.

Jim Collins

September 11, 2015

So Sorry for your loss. Your Mom will be in my prayers.

Jim Laudate

September 11, 2015

Mary and Ralph. It was a deeply sad day to learn of this. You will always remain in m thoughts and prayers.

margaret james Wilbanks

September 11, 2015

I'm so sorry, Mary. You are in my prayers..

Helen Kearney Konen

September 11, 2015

Mary, Ralph,
George, your spouses and family:
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear mother. She was an extraordinary woman of her time. An absolutely beautiful and elegant woman, she was equally talented, intelligent, creative and fiercely committed to her family. She was an example of what we should all aspire to: Keeping attention on the most important things in life, and cherishing family and friends. Her perseverance with grace in the face of many life challenges is an example for all of us. Thank you for your generosity. I will never forget you graciously watching my two girls for our reunion- no easy task. God Bless you, dear Ella. You will be missed immeasurably.

Pem Carter

September 11, 2015

Mary,
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Cathy Donaldson

September 11, 2015

Ralph, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. It is never easy to lose our parents, regardless of our age. Prayers for you and your family.

September 11, 2015

Ralph - I am so sorry for your loss. Mother's are always so very special and your Mother sounds amazing....interesting, talented and loving. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family - Much love to you and Sally - Sandy Larsh

Deb Nicholsn

September 11, 2015

To the whole family....Ella will be missed greatly by Mom and I. Ella and Neva spent many happy times together laughing and blabbing.. She was such a gracious lady up until the end. Mom and I send our love and support to you and your entire family. Deb, Nicholson and Ella's dearest friend Neva Schneider

Maree Howe

September 11, 2015

George..
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers

Maree Briggs Howe

Lois Grindstaff

September 10, 2015

Ralph,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I truly understand your loss.
Lois Grindstaff

Doris Kerbow

September 10, 2015

You were a dear friend and a wonderful sister in law. I will miss you dearly! Rest in peace.

Debbie Kerbow

September 10, 2015

Aunt Ella was a special lady and will be missed dearly.

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