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Eugene Tom Obituary
Gene's life centered on service to his family, friends, and patients. His life's work was to administer comfort to people during their most vulnerable and fearful moments, an oath he steadfastly followed. But his true love was his family and friends and the comfort he received from time with them. He will be lovingly remembered for his generosity of time and talents and for the sincerity with which he forged real relationships with those he encountered, regardless of their station in life.
Preceded in death by his father, Gene is survived by his mother, to whom Gene was eternally devoted, and his fiancee, Molly Skipper, with whom he shared unconditional love for the last five years. He is also survived by his beloved brother, Raymond Tom, sister-in-law, Karey, and his favorite niece, Evie, whom he treasured and loved beyond measure.
A memorial service and celebration of Gene's life will be held Friday, July 6, 2018 at 2:00 p.m. at Christ Covenant Church, 800 Fullwood Lane, Matthews, North Carolina. The family will receive visitors at Christ Covenant Church prior to the service at 1:00 pm.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Gene's memory to HopeWay, 1717 Sharon Road West, Charlotte, NC 28210. The family appreciates the support and prayers of friends near and far that Gene may now forever experience the peace and comfort which he so ably rendered to others.
Arrangements in care of Hankins and Whittington Funeral Service. Please share online condolences @ www.hankinsandwhittington.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Eugene Tom
Hussein Elkousy
August 20, 2018
Gene was a great friend to me at Duke. I will miss him.
Alan Ward
August 18, 2018
As an orthopedic surgeon and a colleague, I worked with Gene throughout his career at Carolinas Medical Center in Charlotte. He was resourceful, always very helpful, encouraging me to stay in shape and "don't get hurt". Great anesthesiologist, physician, friend. Always a pleasure with whom to work. Gone way too soon........ We'll miss you, Gene.
Woody Burns
July 31, 2018
Gene and I lived together during residency at UNC. I remember him as a very kind, considerate, smart, hard-working person, and an overall great guy. I am so sad to hear of this news. Sending much love to Gene and his family.
Carol Gibbs
July 30, 2018
So saddened to hear this. May the peace that passes all understanding be with the family.
July 19, 2018
I met Gene at UNC Medical School in 1991. We were in the same 1st year lab group together. I remember him fondly. Praying for peace to all who loved him....
Jenny McDonald Willard, MD
Tracy Guerrero
July 7, 2018
Gene and I were anesthesia residents at UNC together. Our class was particularly close as there were only 4 of us. He was always a most down to earth and genuinely good- hearted person. He helped me through many difficult situations by just being his steadfast self. I've no doubt he wil be missed greatly by all that knew him. I'm sorry for the loss to his family and his community. Rest In Peace Gene
Deborah Marcinko
July 7, 2018
Such sadness! Best times at UNC with this fine young man!!
Leigh Howard-Meyer
July 6, 2018
I was a classmate of Gene at East Meck. He was loved by everyone. There was always a kind word and a smile of encouragement from him. My deepest sympathies to your family at this very difficult time.
Karen Mockler
July 6, 2018
To Dr Tom's family, and especially to Molly - may God's loving arms give you peace and comfort as you grieve the loss of your loved one.
Scott Fulmer
July 6, 2018
I have the fondest of memories when I think of the times I spent with Gene during High School, he was a good and kind person that will be missed by all who were privileged to know him. My prayers are with the Tom's and all who will miss him.
Lanette Lawrence
July 6, 2018
I will miss such a sweet and loving person.
I was always bringing something I cooked or baked, I believed he favored my peanut butter rice crispy treats.
That was our little funny time at the Anesthesia desk.
Melissa Hernandez
July 6, 2018
I only met Gene and Molly one time but he was a dear friend to my sweetheart, Charles. Gene and Molly were the FIRST ones to come by the house when Charles was diagnosed with cancer. Charles was uplifted and comforted by Gene's words and companionship during such a difficult time in Charles' life.
But even before I met Gene, Charles would often talk about his dear friend. Everyone needs a genuine friend in their life, and I am thankful for Gene being a ray of sunshine to Charles throughout the many years of their friendship.
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My heart, hugs, love and condolences are with each of you.
Catherine Anderson
July 6, 2018
I am so incredibly saddened to hear of Gene's passing. He was a fellow classmate at East Meck, and I will always remember his kindness and friendly smile.
Wesley Schooler
July 6, 2018
Gene, we had many ups and downs 20+ years ago in residency. May you find utmost peace in the afterlife.
Carol Wade
July 5, 2018
I am so very sorry to hear that Gene Tom is no longer with us! I worked as a CRNA with Gene in Va. Beach. He was an awesome doctorso kind with patients, staff, and coworkers! May he Rest In Peace! We will all truly miss him!
Chantal et Peter Moiseeff
July 5, 2018
To the TOM family
Please accept our deepest sympathy for this tragic loss.
The MOISEEFF family.
Leigh Booth Munley
July 4, 2018
So sad for the loss of an old friend and classmate. Rest In Peace, Gene. My thoughts and prays go to the family and to Molly, whom I hope good memories comfort in this time of sadness and grief.
Anne Marie OKane-McCarthy
July 4, 2018
I'm heartily sorry for the loss of your beloved Gene. While working as a nurse in Chapel Hill, Gene and I became friends. Often we, Gene, Dee and I would meet weekly for dinner on Franklin St, 411 was our place. Gene was the epitome of a gentleman and such a great friend. I cherish our time together. May He Rest In Peace.
Carole Funderburk
July 3, 2018
Praying for the family of Dr. Tom. He was a very special person.
Bonnie Conger
July 3, 2018
So sorry for your loss! Sending my thoughts and prayers to Dr. Toms family and friends during this sad and difficult time! RIP Dr. Tom!❤❤
Jeff Deltac
July 3, 2018
I grew up one street over from Eugene and Raymond. A group of us kids played almost everyday. Eugene was a fantastic person who was thoughtful, kind, and caring. He will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with the Tom family.
Laura Rose
July 3, 2018
I have such fond memories of Gene in our social and fun Chemistry classes and Calculus in High School at East Meck. He was such a kind and funny person who made everyone at ease around him. My prayers to his family and friends. I will light a candle for him when I go to Mass tomorrow.
Gloria Bizardi
July 3, 2018
Thank you for taking such good care of me during my time of need. I'm so happy I made you laugh with my Barcelona story. Rest In Peace.
Pat Adams
July 3, 2018
What an honor to have known Dr. Tom over the years he has been is that a light to the ones who knew him. I am going to truly miss his smile and his sense of humor. I pray God's blessings upon the family, friends and his extended family here at Atrium Health. Sending you blessings and an abundance of strength and prayers from the 600 Room, with all our hearts to yours. May heaven shine upon all of you with all of my love. Ms. Pat/600 Room MCP
Lori Hamilton, RN
July 3, 2018
I worked with Dr. Tom on several different occasions in Endoscopy. He always took really good care of his patients. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this most difficult time
Marti Allman
July 3, 2018
It was a great privilege to work with Dr Tom. Praying for ALL his family and friends.
Kelly Barber
July 3, 2018
It has been an honor to work with Dr. Tom for the last 6 years. Prayers and love to his family, especially dear, sweet Molly.
Kathy Smith, RN, CMC Endoscopy
July 3, 2018
Dr. Tom was an outstanding example of compassionate and highly competent care. His warm and gracious manner brought an instant smile and relief to all he encountered, both staff and patients. This is an unspeakable loss and I pray comfort for all of you during this time of grief. Words cannot express how he will be missed. His life impacted many, including mine.
Craig Thomas
July 3, 2018
Thanks Gene for all that you meant to us. You will be missed.
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